Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

So I mentioned before that I've grown to be quite comfortable with fat girls on SA and in some ways enjoy them as much as fit girls. I suppose I've been with 4 fat girls on SA and have not regretted the experience. Given that finding a local girl where I live that is slim and pretty is tough, I've been dating a fat girl and I rather like her. In all cases they were fabulous kissers and gave a great BJ. And the mechanics work surprisingly well.

Here are the prerequisites though. Must have a beautiful face. Must kiss like a demon. And you need Viagra.

The last two are related. Let's face it you are not going to get it up at my age just looking at a girl and certainly not a fat girl. But when you start kissing and it's really great oh yeah I'm coming to attention. And with the Viagra it then stays up. Doesn't matter that she's fat once you get it going and have a great BJ and the rest as long as you are Vitamin V powered there will be no sag and tap out. Enjoy her like u would her slim counterpart. Of course you have to like her because you might tolerate a slim biatch (I don't) but not a fat one. LOL.

While on the subject I just tried Cialis for the first time. Since I tend to do long weekend binge fucks it would be just a lot more convenient. Sure enough it works so far. Popped it around dinner yesterday and no problem getting rock hard this AM. We will see tomorrow. And same basic side effects for me. Feel a bit flushed initially and slightly off but that fades after an hour or two. I use Lumify eye drops to counteract the red eye and they are amazing.

Good luck with the meds and the fatties out there guys. Don't dis it till I have tried it!

Yep, the Meds help. I am on a 2 day binge in MTY. Killing it.

I will not do the big girls, but I will go ugly if they have a nice body.

One girl just left and the other is on the way!

Mexico, Russia Rock! Censorship because you do not like someone point of view is really wrong.

[Steve 9696]

So I mentioned before that I've grown to be quite comfortable with fat girls on SA and in some ways enjoy them as much as fit girls. I suppose I've been with 4 fat girls on SA and have not regretted the experience. Given that finding a local girl where I live that is slim and pretty is tough, I've been dating a fat girl and I rather like her. In all cases they were fabulous kissers and gave a great BJ. And the mechanics work surprisingly well.

Here are the prerequisites though. Must have a beautiful face. Must kiss like a demon. And you need Viagra.

The last two are related. Let's face it you are not going to get it up at my age just looking at a girl and certainly not a fat girl. But when you start kissing and it's really great oh yeah I'm coming to attention. And with the Viagra it then stays up. Doesn't matter that she's fat once you get it going and have a great BJ and the rest as long as you are Vitamin V powered there will be no sag and tap out. Enjoy her like u would her slim counterpart. Of course you have to like her because you might tolerate a slim biatch (I don't) but not a fat one. LOL.

While on the subject I just tried Cialis for the first time. Since I tend to do long weekend binge fucks it would be just a lot more convenient. Sure enough it works so far. Popped it around dinner yesterday and no problem getting rock hard this AM. We will see tomorrow. And same basic side effects for me. Feel a bit flushed initially and slightly off but that fades after an hour or two. I use Lumify eye drops to counteract the red eye and they are amazing.

Good luck with the meds and the fatties out there guys. Don't dis it till I have tried it!

[BrizLad]

1. I'm concerned about my privacy. Do you post your photos on SA? And do you they include your face? Also, do you introduce yourself to girls with your real name? .

My take on this. I'm always starting with a false name, which I can later explain as being my "school years nickname' but you can now call me BrizLad she prefers.

My fake personal details have been honed over 30 years of lying. I have standard prepared answers for the standard expected questions like, What's your job? How many kids? What happened to your wife? Are you divorced? Where do you live? Where have you travelled etc etc etc.

If the questions go off on a tangent then I will use 'opposites" have I three boys instead of three girls etc.

My pic I source from: https://thispersondoesnotexist.com/ . I reload the page until I find a similar pic to me. Similar but different. To be honest, girls that obsess about 'looks' I am not successful with, so this generic pic approach is part of the selection process.

For the girls that have passed the first few meets, then I will open up some more.

As I am playing locally at the moment I am cautious that one of these girls will see me and family in the city streets. Her: "Hey, Jeff from Sydney, great sex, when we meeting again. " . Me & family: no reaction because I'm Brizlad from Brisbane.

Brizlad.

[Steve 9696]

Didn't write this up right after so not my usual detail but you guys deserve an update. And to remind all the newbies that if you put in the work (and have some $ in the US) you can have some amazing experiences.

So Kayla is the stunner that I met about a month ago and liked so much we played bareback boyfriend girlfriend for three days with her totally moving into my hotel. This trip was a quick turn but still awesome.

I arrived at night and we met up at our favorite Asian fusion place. OMG it is so good. Some wine and back to the hotel. It was great to see her and her 10 body so we got right down to business. I will note that we are a shade off of how awesome it was last time. Our kissing is less tongue and she didn't fully shave her pussy. Maybe she's getting a bit too comfy. Don't get me wrong. It was great. But I am noticing little corners cut.

Anyhow the bareback sex was spectacular and her BJ remains awesome. Went a super long time. We talked about how she can't really get an O without a vibrator (not going to fake like most girls) but after a super long time of fucking she had a small O. She threw one arm over her face and then the other and then squeezed down tight and released. After some deep breaths She said what the fuck was that. That never happens. So that was cool. She finished me by mouth CIM and we crashed like big dogs.

Day two she was off work so we were able to sleep in then kick around looking for brunch. We went to the sex shop for a vibrator but she was too embarrassed to go in during the day. Said she has to work up her courage. So I went in and bought her a nice medium size one (no insert. Just clit). Was not cheap but I've decided I'm not going to look at it as the cost of sex which is already agreed but instead treat her like my real girlfriend. And I would do that for her.

Well I was rewarded well for this POV because after lunch when we went to the room to regroup she emerged in a two piece red lingerie with tits pouring out the top. We had some damn fine fully sober sex which I don't do often. So while it didn't last as long it felt AMAZING. Especially the BJ. OMG.

About midway thru, the vibrator had enough charge and we broke that bad boy out. First some FIV and her vibing. She was edging so as to not cum too soon. Eventually we went to the edge of the bed me standing position. This is not only great for not getting tired but she can vibe her clit while being fucked. And oh boy did she like that! Wasnt too long before she had a crashing O. The real deal she clamped her legs closed on me but then literally pushed me out while she crashed the waves. I let her recover a bit and got in some more strokes then moved to BJ and let it loose CIM again. We went to the speakeasy and strip club that night but then just crashed. I was wiped.

Final day we had an amazing canal-side lunch and she marveled at how I am showing her around her own town. She really likes doing the high end stuff. Late night we were both tired (she did a ten hour day on her feet!) and just watched Netflix in bed together and had sushi in bed. The sex was a bit perfunctory but I have to say she was a trooper she was really not feeling all that great but we got down to business and got er done.

Can't say it was as awesome as our first time but in some ways the new comfort level was nice as well. Thinking we are prob only good for another visit or two and onto something new and spicy but damn she's pretty, a quality human, and bareback. Hard to beat. Will just play by ear. But as I've said before fellas SA completely worth all the work.

[DramaFree11]

I have been going to Mexico City a lot here lately, and I love it. We went to the castle there and the anthropology museum and a female friend of mine came with us. She said it was the best museum she had ever been to, and it was one of the best I had seen as well.

Rents in Monterrey are nuts, but they are not too bad in Mexico City, and I am tired of paying for hotels, but I am almost at Ambassador level at Marriott. Maybe we could split the cost of a place there if you are interested.

We had met in Cancun several times but I was ready to see other parts of the country. We went to Cabo this time, and we loved it. I never had marlin before and damn that tasted as good as the finest steaks. Food in Cabo was fantastic and outside of the resorts it is not too expensive. I rented a car, and driving there was fine.

The two beach areas I have wanted to check out are in Oaxaca and Acapulco, and you have to go through Mexico City to get there which is fine. Even though the airport there is a pain, there are a ton of flights to Mexico City, and they are cheap..

Yep, it is definitely cheaper then MTY, who would guess that. I have negotiated great rates in MTY, but it might be time for a change. Most of the girls I am meeting are 20-25 and real can not travel or do not want to travel.

I am looking for older girls that have the opportunity and desire to travel. Also, it would be nice to meet girls that can meet me in the states.

I am going for Thanksgiving if you are interested.

Off the topic there is way to much censorship going on this site and some Admin. Have developed way too much power. I follow the rules, but somehow my posts are deleted, because Admin does not agree with my point of view. Total be. S. They let there buddies get away with murder. I am cutting way back on my posts. Midwestern does a great job.

[Globo]

I have been using SA for a few years now in Las Vegas, Europe and the Middle East. I am still friendly with a few ladies some are still active there. I will answer your questions based on my experience. One of my best experiences was on a trip to Vegas.

1. I'm concerned about my privacy. Do you post your photos on SA? And do you they include your face? Also, do you introduce yourself to girls with your real name? It sounds like some of these SA meets last several hours, so it would be nice to avoid awkward situations where it's obvious you're faking (like if you show your ID at a hotel or something) - but maybe it's normal to have an alias, and the girls aren't phased by it?

My Take on this Always have a photo but you can have one that does not readily identify you and have other private that you can share. Depending where you are using SA remember you will be competing again lots of other men so you need to also stand out. If in doubt set up an alter ego female profile so you can see what the competition is presenting. Showing a natural dating type photo will work much better for you and you can disable once you trip is over. As for you name, if it goes on for a long time they will know who you are so use your first name but not your surname. If using on a short trip what is the harm of them knowing your first name. Like any mongering be careful not to share too much personal info. I have had people threaten to blackmail me but there was nothing to blackmail me for, they were just desperate people in desperate situations. Please remember that the ladies are not always what they seem as well. There are lots of fake profiles.

2. It sounds like SA girls really don't want to be seen as too transactional, so are there shortcuts to find ones that are more DTF than others? I'm filtering on 'friends with benefits' and 'no strings attached', but maybe there's a better way?

My Take on this There is a huge mix of ladies on SA. Some are looking for guys to pay for their lifestyles but will give nothing in return. Some are curious, some are interested in finding a husband etc. It is a number game. Start chatting to as many as possible that catch your eye. I usually ask if they have had an arrangement before and how did it work for them. I tell them I have had a few longer term arrangements to break the ice and then try and see if we have similar interests before then asking their expectation $. This give me an idea of their seriousness. Some say they re looking for $$ for a date. In my experience the $ seems to similar across the place I was $250 - $500 for a date. I always say we should meet for coffee first to see neither of us are axe murderers.

3. I live in a city where it sounds like there are plenty of SBs to be found. But do you have girls over to your own place in your home city, or just get a hotel? I'd rather not be at home because I don't want the girl seeing my personal stuff that they can tie to my identity, or showing up at my place uninvited after we were supposed to part ways. But maybe I'm overthinking it?

My Take on this I have always gone for a hotel or apartment, see how you get on and take form there. If you have a long term thing they will find out who you are but you need to build that trust and remember both your and their safety. Also SA is not about just a hook up you can wine and dine them if you like or even just go for a drink first. Sometimes they are DTF but usually not.

4. I'm going to Vegas in a couple of weeks, and that seems like a great place to try SA since I can be anonymous and staying in a hotel. But I'll only have one free night, and it seems like a lot of the SA stories here have multiple encounters to get real payback. Is worth even trying if I only have one night in Vegas?

My Take on this I used SA for the first proper time in Vegas. I was there for a week. There was a lot of groundwork so 1 night might be too little to get the full benefit but you will still enjoy yourself if you start a week in advance and line up a few people. You may need to have a a few dates as some will not turn up or cancel at the last min.

[Alex7J]

Agree 1000%. I like San Antonio and it is nice to have someone to hang out with, but it is a losing game. This is why I put very little time or energy into American girls. I just shake my head at the way they dress, there behavior and just there substance abuse issues. 95% of my resources are put into Mexico.

By the way I am looking at traveling to Mexico City. A friend speaks very highly of M. See.

There is so much SA pussy in CDMX that it is amazing. Last year was there for 3 months in the covid lockdown and every single day I had a new SB ready to meet but I'm not young so 3 SB every week was enough for me. Don't give them $100 but 2500 pesos ($110) plus taxi and she is super happy plus dinner and drinks.

Office Girls.

Nurses.

Students.

Workers.

You name it and I did them and rarely I repeat a girl unless she is super sexy in bed.

Threesomes.

Bi sexual girls.

Everything was on offer.

[Elvis 2008]

Agree 1000%. I like San Antonio and it is nice to have someone to hang out with, but it is a losing game. This is why I put very little time or energy into American girls. I just shake my head at the way they dress, there behavior and just there substance abuse issues. 95% of my resources are put into Mexico.

By the way I am looking at traveling to Mexico City. A friend speaks very highly of M. See.

I have been going to Mexico City a lot here lately, and I love it. We went to the castle there and the anthropology museum and a female friend of mine came with us. She said it was the best museum she had ever been to, and it was one of the best I had seen as well.

Rents in Monterrey are nuts, but they are not too bad in Mexico City, and I am tired of paying for hotels, but I am almost at Ambassador level at Marriott. Maybe we could split the cost of a place there if you are interested.

We had met in Cancun several times but I was ready to see other parts of the country. We went to Cabo this time, and we loved it. I never had marlin before and damn that tasted as good as the finest steaks. Food in Cabo was fantastic and outside of the resorts it is not too expensive. I rented a car, and driving there was fine.

The two beach areas I have wanted to check out are in Oaxaca and Acapulco, and you have to go through Mexico City to get there which is fine. Even though the airport there is a pain, there are a ton of flights to Mexico City, and they are cheap.

After that I want to check out more areas near Cabo like La paz and Loreto. They look amazing. Apparently, Jacques Cousteau called the Gulf of California the world's aquarium.

I have been talking to people about what to do with my gal. Education visa does not look feasible, so if I want her in the USA, I have to do the marriage route, but people are asking me why I cannot keep things the same. I have been thinking that maybe I could work two weeks here and live two weeks in Mexico. Both she and I are allowed six months per year in Mexico.

I thought it might slow down sexually but it has not. She wants sex three times a day at least, and I have to stop telling her to give me head. She walks in a room and is so striking everyone checks her out, and she still has not asked for a dime. She would literally do anything I want. Anyone else sexually would be a let down after her. Her stamina in the bed room is unfucking real. After a few days with her, I usually get all fucked out.

For guys who cannot be too far away, it seems like Mexico City could server as a gateway for men who want to bring women in from Colombia or other Latin countries like Brazil or Argentina. For the most part, visas are not required from Latin America to Mexico.

Until recently, I had been able to see my gal every 2 weeks, and the distance has not been an issue. When we go 3 or 4 weeks, it has been much harder. Having a home base in Mexico City opens up possibilities.

And there are plenty of hotties in Mexico City to boot. Seeking is good there, but I think value wise, it is the best P4P city in North America, much better and cheaper than Monterrey.

[DramaFree11]

I do not think that is how it works. What is happening in Colombia with SA is the same as what happened in the USA and it happens the same as in business. First you have the innovators and then the imitators and then the idiots. With SA, what happens is that you go from non-pros to semi-pros to pros. Covid did change the pattern in some places like Mexico when non-pros got back on the site after they lost their jobs.

When I first went to Bogota, I went on like 10 dates there, and only three of the women had been on dates before. With two of those three, I did not session with them because they asked for crazy money.

MB, you are telling me it is hardened now and the women only want money in Medellin. What happened with me with so many of the women is that I would meet them, explain being a SB to them, and felt obligated to pay them, but I probably did not have to. The irony is a guy here asked, why did you pay them anything? And that is when I changed my approach and recommended other guys do likewise and pay them nothing except take them to dinner ETC.

Given what you are telling me, I think now there are so many experienced and hardened women on SA in Medellin and so many guys throwing money at them that at least Medellin is at the semi-pro level and I expect Bogota to get there soon too.

Mexico was more like the USA in that there was always a payment described or implied, but there was only once I had sex on the second date, and it was my choice...

My recommendations pick one destination and put all his time / resources to finding amazing girls. If you keep hoping around, it makes it more difficult, if not impossible to find the upper tier girls.

It appears to me he Looking for the Golden Ticket without putting in the work.

[DramaFree11]

DF,

The flight to Monterrey from San Antonio on Viva is an hour and less than $300 round trip, and you can go and return in a day. I get the convivence of having a woman close by, but I have done the American route before, and it was fine when I did not know any better, but I do now.

Thing is even after you weed out the greedy ones and the crazies, you are left with women who for the most part have had multiple SDs before. You are always second best, and the women are ashamed to introduce you to anyone. That is fine for married guys, but I had one woman tell me, "I have much lower standards for a SD than I do a boyfriend. " I wanted to stay, "Standing right here, b!" Thing is that she just said to me what most other women think.

For whatever reason, American women are trained to hate things or a group of people like men than an individual close to them like their child or husband. Give a woman a chance to blame anything or anyone other than her or a family member in American culture, and she will gladly do it. I was watching this video and if you go to the five minute mark, you will see a celebrated woman named Carrie Nation who was a prohibitionist and loved smashing up bars: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAGIi62-sAU.

It showed me that for forever in our culture that women could break any law and act like idiots as long as they wore some kind of moral cape. In reality, Carrie was mourning the loss of her alcoholic husband and instead of putting the blame on him (and she probably in part blamed herself), she took it out on alcohol itself. "Ladies, you do not know how much joy you have until you smash, smash, smash. " Carrie Nation is not seen as a vandal who should have been locked up for life but a fucking hero..

Agree 1000%. I like San Antonio and it is nice to have someone to hang out with, but it is a losing game. This is why I put very little time or energy into American girls. I just shake my head at the way they dress, there behavior and just there substance abuse issues. 95% of my resources are put into Mexico.

By the way I am looking at traveling to Mexico City. A friend speaks very highly of M. See.

[Elvis 2008]

SP is a great sex destination. It took me a few days to find out and now I don't want to go to any other cities. LOL.

It sure is. What I meant is SP is not tainted by the ho culture like Vegas, Medellin, or Rio. There are a ton of hot nonpros in SP.

If one has never been to Scandallo, how can the person knows what girls in Scandallo look like and uses them as a reference point? That is why I asked. I have found girls on Seeking that are similar to what I can find in Scandallo but personally I don't think girls at Scandallo are that special on average. Right now, there is no point using Seeking when it is so easy elsewhere.

The sex is pretty good even at the low cost clinica / casa. You get clean towel, clean bed sheet, hot shower, GFE. The only difference is the girl's look and they actually look pretty good. Just this week, a clinica girl asked me to lie down after sex and treated me like a baby going to sleep until time is up. I was shocked! This is the opposite of paying more for better service.

I always said the reason I used seeking is that I wanted fun both in and out of the bedroom. What you confirmed is that Brazilian women know how to treat their man, and they are a ton of fun to boot. I never had a woman stay the night and wake me up with a BJ, and it happened like every time in Brazil.

IMO you would get treated like your casa girl x 100 from a good find on seeking in SP. The only other country where IMO I could find a SB that could match what I found in Colombia is Brazil. Maybe you can find it in Thailand or the Philippines but I have not been there for sex.

[Elvis 2008]

We were going to go home, but we decide to stay a little longer. Starts off great, but again she is on the phone. I finally, pull my phone out and start texting girls in the MTY. She grabs my phone. I say, the night is over and walk off. I forgot she parked in my parking garage.

Uber arrives she puts my hand on her crouch I pull away. No conversation on the ride home. We get to my place and she asked why I am mad and of course denies grabbing my phone,(say it is my fault.) I told her the night was over.

I will never tolerate anyone grabbing my phone, especially not my girlfriend.

DF,

The flight to Monterrey from San Antonio on Viva is an hour and less than $300 round trip, and you can go and return in a day. I get the convivence of having a woman close by, but I have done the American route before, and it was fine when I did not know any better, but I do now.

Thing is even after you weed out the greedy ones and the crazies, you are left with women who for the most part have had multiple SDs before. You are always second best, and the women are ashamed to introduce you to anyone. That is fine for married guys, but I had one woman tell me, "I have much lower standards for a SD than I do a boyfriend. " I wanted to stay, "Standing right here, b!" Thing is that she just said to me what most other women think.

For whatever reason, American women are trained to hate things or a group of people like men than an individual close to them like their child or husband. Give a woman a chance to blame anything or anyone other than her or a family member in American culture, and she will gladly do it. I was watching this video and if you go to the five minute mark, you will see a celebrated woman named Carrie Nation who was a prohibitionist and loved smashing up bars: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAGIi62-sAU.

It showed me that for forever in our culture that women could break any law and act like idiots as long as they wore some kind of moral cape. In reality, Carrie was mourning the loss of her alcoholic husband and instead of putting the blame on him (and she probably in part blamed herself), she took it out on alcohol itself. "Ladies, you do not know how much joy you have until you smash, smash, smash. " Carrie Nation is not seen as a vandal who should have been locked up for life but a fucking hero.

I assume everyone here knows what machismo is, but there is a feminine part called marianismo, and it is this element where Latin women separate themselves from their American counterparts. You can read the whole thing here, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marianismo, but this is the part I wanted to mention: According to marianismo, Hispanic women should withhold personal thoughts and needs in order to avoid disagreement. Adherence to this belief is linked with significantly higher rates of psychological distress, depression, and anxiety in Hispanic women and young girls. It also influences women to stay in violent interpersonal relationships. Many Hispanic women perceive that "keeping things inside" causes their depression.

You can even see that this crap is written by some judgmental American / Westerner. I am sorry I do not agree that a culture that makes a Carrie Nation a hero is a superior one.

But my point is this: you are fighting a battle that is way bigger than yourself. It is a cultural thing. A woman acting like an idiot and blaming a man for all her problems is not looked down upon like it is in the Latin culture. Hell, in American culture, we celebrate it and reward it and to me, it is fruitless to try to tame that beast.

[Nounce]

Sao Paulo is not really a sex destination like Rio is. I would expect to find and chatted with women who were hot and not hard core pros. Unlike Rio, I think SP could be great.

SP is a great sex destination. It took me a few days to find out and now I don't want to go to any other cities. LOL.

If one has never been to Scandallo, how can the person knows what girls in Scandallo look like and uses them as a reference point? That is why I asked. I have found girls on Seeking that are similar to what I can find in Scandallo but personally I don't think girls at Scandallo are that special on average. Right now, there is no point using Seeking when it is so easy elsewhere.

The sex is pretty good even at the low cost clinica / casa. You get clean towel, clean bed sheet, hot shower, GFE. The only difference is the girl's look and they actually look pretty good. Just this week, a clinica girl asked me to lie down after sex and treated me like a baby going to sleep until time is up. I was shocked! This is the opposite of paying more for better service.

[Elvis 2008]

I'm not saying it is not a fun place, but my best dates with SA girls beat my best brothels / strip clubs session by a huge margin. Scandallo is a good option for weekend warriors, high ballers or someone who prefers to grab and go, but not really my scene.

I guess SA is not popular in both Rio and SP, because P4 P scene is well developed. On the other hand, in places like MDE or BOG, well known for p4 p scene, SA is highly utilized along with FB and Tinder.

I do not think that is how it works. What is happening in Colombia with SA is the same as what happened in the USA and it happens the same as in business. First you have the innovators and then the imitators and then the idiots. With SA, what happens is that you go from non-pros to semi-pros to pros. Covid did change the pattern in some places like Mexico when non-pros got back on the site after they lost their jobs.

When I first went to Bogota, I went on like 10 dates there, and only three of the women had been on dates before. With two of those three, I did not session with them because they asked for crazy money.

MB, you are telling me it is hardened now and the women only want money in Medellin. What happened with me with so many of the women is that I would meet them, explain being a SB to them, and felt obligated to pay them, but I probably did not have to. The irony is a guy here asked, why did you pay them anything? And that is when I changed my approach and recommended other guys do likewise and pay them nothing except take them to dinner ETC.

Given what you are telling me, I think now there are so many experienced and hardened women on SA in Medellin and so many guys throwing money at them that at least Medellin is at the semi-pro level and I expect Bogota to get there soon too.

Mexico was more like the USA in that there was always a payment described or implied, but there was only once I had sex on the second date, and it was my choice.

In the USA, it used to be that I would see a girl's pic, meet them in a restaurant, and always talk money. With one exception, the sex always came on the second date with me.

Each country has its own culture, laws, but probably the most important thing is how many pros are on the site. I had good luck finding a few non-pros in Medellin but unlike Bogota there were a lot of women who were incredibly short term money focused.

And in Colombia, not only were Bogota and Medellin different but so were Barranquilla and Cali. Both dates I had in Cali were with women who had never had a date before. It is places like Cali that IMO can be SA nirvana. In Barranquilla, the girls were novices as well, but they were more hardened than Cali.

Sao Paulo is not really a sex destination like Rio is. I would expect to find and chatted with women who were hot and not hard core pros. Unlike Rio, I think SP could be great. I am not paying the monthly dues now and just for shit and giggles, I clicked on a few women I found attractive in SP and they favorited me and sent me messages. (I did get a similar response from women in BA). Because Rio and Medellin are two of the most popular sex destinations, I would expect SA to suck because of how many pros would be on the site in those cities.

But MB, I do not think you get the Buenos Aires market. BA like SP was not really that much of a sex destination, but there are / were a lot of pros there like there are in SP. For a few years, it was great and then there was a crackdown, so you have all these people who either know about or were pros that potentially can get on SA and sell their wares. That is not an issue with SP where women have the option to be pros and advertise as pros if they want to. In BA, SA is going to attract a lot of pros.

I do not know that BA is bad for SA, but I could tell from the women I was chatting with that there was a hardened edge that I do not like. Argentina was not at the level of the USA (I don't know if anywhere else is that bad) but probably at the Mexico level of hardened women and having been there, that is what I expected. The hard edge with Mexican women is out of fear. With Argentine women, the hardness comes from arrogance.

I banged a boat load of Argentine women and with most they had an attitude that I should have just been happy to be with them. They do not have the desire to please like Brazilian or Colombian women.

The last two SBs in Colombia I had that evolved into GFs did the same thing when I asked them if they could clip my toenails. I just wanted them clipped, but both of the women went on their hands and knees and gave me like a 30 minute pedicure. I would expect a Brazilian woman to be similar. They really want to please their man.

I think the Argentine and Mexican women would do as I asked and just clip my nails, and I would expect an American woman to say, "I am not doing that. Why don't you pay for a pedicure like I do you cheap SOB!

[BrizLad]

I guess SA is not popular in both Rio and SP, because P4 P scene is well developed. On the other hand, in places like MDE or BOG, well known for p4 p scene, SA is highly utilized along with FB and Tinder.

MiamiBoy1 can you help me understand this, what is the difference between being "well developed" and "Well known".

RIO & SP, P4 p is well developed therefore SA not popular.

MDE & BOG P4 p is well known therefore SA is popular.