Seeking Arrangements

[Midwestern]

One of the biggest mistakes that I made was rent an apartment for an SB. I know some guys that do this for their mistresses. But I now realize that it's too much of a committment for me. I was locked into a one-year lease. At first, I thought I got lucky with a great find. She was good looking and had a good body. She let me do whatever I wanted with her. She seemed to genuinely like me and liked doing the deed. It was great for about a month. But then, things soured. And getting out of that arrangement was a bit stressful. Never again.

I'll never give one of those "soft-core" SA tutes (or any kind of tute) a monthly "allowance". It's either pay-per-meet or gets to steppin'! LOL! Pay an allowance upfront and get dissed and dumped afterwards? I don't think so! I'm not desperate. No, it's more like to my favor. That would be "pump and dump" (mutual is fine) on a PPM basis exclusively. That way, we both have a shot at benefiting from the bargain. And if we both want to strike up a subsequent one fine. And if not, then that's fine too. But I'm not about to "keep" one of these unfaithful, money grubbing hoors. And in my opinion that's exactly what the overwhelming majority of them are too. P4 P (essentially what PPM is) rules!

[The Cane]

Thats the SA way! Lie, lie, lie. Thats why I am not using their site for a few months.

Nobody is real anymore! No real phone numbers, they all are google voice or text messages. And nobody answers their phone anymore except the newbies. No real names, my name is Tom Cruise on that site, and my primary photo is of someone else, my photos are not verified.

I always do P4 P. Why would I give them a monthly stipend? They know how to drop / shortchange me after they get their monthly salary.

Last time I paid a monthly fuck salary the woman started being rude to me after she got her money for the month and would not want me taking a shower and using her towel after a fuck.

I'll never give one of those "soft-core" SA tutes (or any kind of tute) a monthly "allowance". It's either pay-per-meet or gets to steppin'! LOL! Pay an allowance upfront and get dissed and dumped afterwards? I don't think so! I'm not desperate. No, it's more like to my favor. That would be "pump and dump" (mutual is fine) on a PPM basis exclusively. That way, we both have a shot at benefiting from the bargain. And if we both want to strike up a subsequent one fine. And if not, then that's fine too. But I'm not about to "keep" one of these unfaithful, money grubbing hoors. And in my opinion that's exactly what the overwhelming majority of them are too. P4 P (essentially what PPM is) rules!

[AmericanPi]

I use this one regularly. If I'm cutting them off then after a few weeks new talent is migrated to the new new number and my old number gets disconnected.

I use a combination of whatsapp & whatsapp business to have the two numbers on the go during the cross over period.

Can I ask how you reset your number so frequently in WhatsApp? For me to do that with WhatsApp business, which by the way is a great way to have a second number, I had to buy an actual literal second phone.

[NeilGeorge]

Who cares if you lie, girls lie all the time. Distance yourself and message them whenever you want, they'll be waiting for that money whenever you're ready. Do you have some kind of recurring agreement that you don't want? In that case they're expecting that income so you made a bad deal. If they drop you, then find a different provider there's more of them than there are of us.

Thats the SA way! Lie, lie, lie. Thats why I am not using their site for a few months.

Nobody is real anymore! No real phone numbers, they all are google voice or text messages. And nobody answers their phone anymore except the newbies. No real names, my name is Tom Cruise on that site, and my primary photo is of someone else, my photos are not verified.

I always do P4 P. Why would I give them a monthly stipend? They know how to drop / shortchange me after they get their monthly salary.

Last time I paid a monthly fuck salary the woman started being rude to me after she got her money for the month and would not want me taking a shower and using her towel after a fuck.

[AsianPursuits]

"Sugar brothers"! That made me literally LOL! LMAO!

When I had to tell a SB that her allowance was finishing she called me a "salt daddy". Ouch.

[The Cane]

Haha, exactly my opinion. If they want a "daddy" they need to look for older guys not younger. Guys in 20's and 30's will be sugar bros, not sugar daddy's.

"Sugar brothers"! That made me literally LOL! LMAO!

[AsianPursuits]

sorry out of town for the next 6 months until however long you want make up a better excuse. Who cares if you lie, girls lie all the time. Distance yourself and message them whenever you want, they'll be waiting for that money whenever you're ready.

I use this one regularly. If I'm cutting them off then after a few weeks new talent is migrated to the new new number and my old number gets disconnected.

I use a combination of whatsapp & whatsapp business to have the two numbers on the go during the cross over period.

[Pk099]

Haha, exactly my opinion.

If they want a "daddy" they need to look for older guys not younger.

Guys in 20's and 30's will be sugar bros, not sugar daddy's.

I always smile when I see an SA girl advertising for a SD in his 20's or 30's. I mean, it's almost comical because us seasoned OGs know that most men in their 20's and 30's haven't achieved the kind of financial success where they can "spoil" (throw money at) girls. I would say it takes most men until they get into their 40's to 50's before they can really establish themselves financially (if in fact they ever get there). So when these babies do this (seek young daddies), they are setting themselves up for a lot of disappoint and failure (with lots of fakes, flakes, and wannabes) right off the bat by not being realistic in their. Now, that's not to say that there aren't any men in their 20's and 30's who are ready for real sugaring, but they would be the exception rather than the rule. Indeed, I've looked at a few studies on this, and the typical successful SD is in his 50's. Older men are the ones who have the money and disposable income. Not the younger men in their 20's and 30's.

[Nirec]

Just wondering the best thing to say to a woman from SA when you want a break. Really to try some other pussy because the sex is no good, boring, or some other problem they would not want to hear.

Sometimes I text them that I am short of money at the time. But expecting a big check to come in the next week. Or that I owe money in taxes and have to get that paid off immediately.

Other times I am more truthful and tell them I don't like it that they are aggressive about money, and I will get back to them when I am ready and interested.

Other ideas how to put them off temporarily and possibly start again after a few weeks?

You don't tell the girls money is tight, that's a lame excuse and unattractive. They are going to think you are homeless and can't pay for the service, its amazing they continue to text you after this you might be the only client. I advise to string them along with a different excuse besides being broke such as sorry out of town for the next 6 months until however long you want make up a better excuse. Who cares if you lie, girls lie all the time. Distance yourself and message them whenever you want, they'll be waiting for that money whenever you're ready. Do you have some kind of recurring agreement that you don't want? In that case they're expecting that income so you made a bad deal. If they drop you, then find a different provider there's more of them than there are of us.

[Nirec]

Have any of you had bad experiences with girls who stay overnight? I've been scammed before and am paranoid a girl would take my watch, computer, phone, passport, etc when I was sleeping. I had a good date with a girl in Paris who then stayed overnight but I was worried she'the run off with my bag or something.

Not a bad experience with her staying over, but with the girl herself. I had her for two nights at my hotel and left multiple times for 2+ hours. She could clean me out if she wanted, but I didn't get the vibe that she would do that. This girl is a prude and the worst arrangement I had thus far. Always make sure you use the hotel safe and position yourself that she does not see the code you enter even though that doesn't fully stop anything because they can always call over Brad to take the whole safe. A few times I would turn around and she would be looking in my direction as I was locking the safe LOL.

[WyattEarp]

I always smile when I see an SA girl advertising for a SD in his 20's or 30's. I mean, it's almost comical because us seasoned OGs know that most men in their 20's and 30's haven't achieved the kind of financial success where they can "spoil" (throw money at) girls. I would say it takes most men until they get into their 40's to 50's before they can really establish themselves financially (if in fact they ever get there). So when these babies do this (seek young daddies), they are setting themselves up for a lot of disappoint and failure (with lots of fakes, flakes, and wannabes) right off the bat by not being realistic in their. Now, that's not to say that there aren't any men in their 20's and 30's who are ready for real sugaring, but they would be the exception rather than the rule. Indeed, I've looked at a few studies on this, and the typical successful SD is in his 50's. Older men are the ones who have the money and disposable income. Not the younger men in their 20's and 30's.

Let's face it a younger guy who has money (set-up by his family wealth and / or family connections) will have plenty of opportunities to have relationships with young girls. He's not going to need Seeking. There are plenty of attractive girls who will be able to smell money and make a play for a guy like this.

[NeilGeorge]

Just don't say anything. Real girls are much too busy to pester you. If she texts you don't answer. And they are millennials or gen z so they will never double text. Then text them when you are ready and if they need cash or like you they will forget you never answered.

Women usually say they lost their phone and had to get a new one, or they dropped their phone in the toilet and needed a new one, when they have left their current flame and he flamed out, and they need money!

[The Cane]

I always smile when I see an SA girl advertising for a SD in his 20's or 30's. I mean, it's almost comical because us seasoned OGs know that most men in their 20's and 30's haven't achieved the kind of financial success where they can "spoil" (throw money at) girls. I would say it takes most men until they get into their 40's to 50's before they can really establish themselves financially (if in fact they ever get there). So when these babies do this (seek young daddies), they are setting themselves up for a lot of disappoint and failure (with lots of fakes, flakes, and wannabes) right off the bat by not being realistic in their. Now, that's not to say that there aren't any men in their 20's and 30's who are ready for real sugaring, but they would be the exception rather than the rule. Indeed, I've looked at a few studies on this, and the typical successful SD is in his 50's. Older men are the ones who have the money and disposable income. Not the younger men in their 20's and 30's.

[Steve 9696]

Just wondering the best thing to say to a woman from SA when you want a break. Really to try some other pussy because the sex is no good, boring, or some other problem they would not want to hear.

Sometimes I text them that I am short of money at the time. But expecting a big check to come in the next week. Or that I owe money in taxes and have to get that paid off immediately.

Other times I am more truthful and tell them I don't like it that they are aggressive about money, and I will get back to them when I am ready and interested.

Other ideas how to put them off temporarily and possibly start again after a few weeks?

Just don't say anything. Real girls are much too busy to pester you. If she texts you don't answer. And they are millennials or gen z so they will never double text. Then text them when you are ready and if they need cash or like you they will forget you never answered.

[NeilGeorge]

Just wondering the best thing to say to a woman from SA when you want a break. Really to try some other pussy because the sex is no good, boring, or some other problem they would not want to hear.

Sometimes I text them that I am short of money at the time. But expecting a big check to come in the next week. Or that I owe money in taxes and have to get that paid off immediately.

Other times I am more truthful and tell them I don't like it that they are aggressive about money, and I will get back to them when I am ready and interested.

Other ideas how to put them off temporarily and possibly start again after a few weeks?