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08-01-22 18:15 #3729
Posts: 129Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
Yes, there are women who really do wish to fulfill their childhood / teenage dream of marrying a rich guy. And people who are all about money and material. If these individuals find each other and get married, it's all great. As long as the girl doesn't have to sign a prenuptial agreement.
Yet, I do feel sorry for the women who are attached to the idea of money as the answer, and the men who are their counterparts in these relationships. It's really a sad thing.
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
When a girl falls for a guy in paid relationship environmenet, and the guy is willing to use this situation to his own advantage by, for example, not telling to the girl that "sorry, but I'm not going to marry you and we'll be together only for the time I feel happy to hang out with you and have sex with you", I do feel sorry for the girl. Some guys are able to perceive their own thoughts, feelings and motives, and some are not. Same goes for the women. But a person who is able to see the situation and decides to not act honestly toward the other person, is putting the other person in position which I feel sorry about. Be it in paid environment, or non-paid.
Rookie women are also less likely to be accustomed to these situations which have money and / or power dynamic inside them, and which consist for the young woman with being with an older man, who is possibly near his father's age. This has psychological meanings to the girl, who might not be familiar with them if she hasn't had enough of these relationships previously to get accustomed to her own feelings, reactions and ways of acting in these relationship. To find out that she "always falls for this type". The man is then in the position of taking advantage of the girl. Like you wrote (was it you? That you think it's necessary to anticipate the woman's feelings before she knows them herself, and to master your own. This sounds to me as calculative, manipulative way of acting towards other people, if it isn't guided by a moral principle based on openness, honesty and the good of the other person.
And lastly, by being fake I pointed out that men act in these situations differently than how they would act when they are on an "even level" with the woman they are interacting with. Money and the dynamics of the arrangement makes it more easy to act in a way that charms the girl. A young woman might very likely be unable to recognize this subtle things, maybe not until they are more than 30 years old or until they've met enough Sugar Daddies to take notice how these men really are, compared to the act they present. It's all good when used with the payment the girl gets. But if there is no payment, then it's an elaborate con act. Anyone finds out about another person after couple of years of being with him or her. And our normal relationships are based hugely on this, that we act on our best and mostly ignore the signals that reveal from the other person something that they are trying to cover up in their good act. It's fair when it goes both ways. But when there is money involved, the money should stay involved. If it's dropped out and the motive is still the same, to fuck a young pretty girl as long as it's fun, it turns into a con act.
But anyway, good luck to you. Maybe you'll get married or stay together for years. It's always nice when two people find each other, be it whatever the route.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Outside of paid arrangements, I was hugely amused when a 12 years younger girl literally dropped her jaw when she heard my answer to her question of how old am I, and very soon was hitting me so god damn erotically (at my work place, when we were alone) that I felt I have never felt such a heat in my life. 15 year younger student made it clear that if I would be willing to consider starting a family with her in the future, we could resume to have sexual encounters. And I ain't a guy many girls notice for looks.
I can believe this is the thing that makes the difference between having good, fulfilling relationships in older age with younger (paid or non-paid) girls:
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08-01-22 13:17 #3728
Posts: 282Agree 100%
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07-31-22 22:39 #3727
Posts: 3228Originally Posted by Desin [View Original Post]
And you have not used seeking but feel sorry for the women based on all men being fake and all the women being too stupid to know it? That is a very sexist POV IMO.
From what I have seen, the men get fleeced way more often than the women but the damage is much less harsh.
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07-31-22 22:19 #3726
Posts: 3228Originally Posted by Edk750 [View Original Post]
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07-31-22 18:57 #3725
Posts: 6420Wasting Time
Originally Posted by SethiatSpace [View Original Post]
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07-31-22 18:11 #3724
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
I had one girl ask me to buy her gifts instead of money, I declined. Gifts have more emotional meaning for me vs. Money. Not to mention the time that would go into buying gifts every meeting, hell no.
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07-31-22 18:04 #3723
Posts: 2707Why Paying Makes Sense
There are several reasons why I pay an SB.
First and most obvious is because a hot young thing in her twenties is not going to give a mediocre looking guy in his fifties the time of day in some other setting. If she's on Seeking she has self qualified as willing to accept the age gap / flaws and doesn't find it creepy (at least the ones I date).
But I really do establish a deep connection with my favorite girls. And maybe I am delusional but they seem to truly enjoy the sex meaningful and long with attention to her needs and the affection and companionship all NSA and no drama. Would they still date me with no $$? I know at least a handful that would.
So at that point why pay? Because I care about these girls. Really do.
1. They need it way more than I do.
2. I don't want them seeking alternatives. If they can't pay the rent they might like me but they are going to get with a guy who helps them out.
3. They totally deserve to be paid! We all pay our wives and girlfriends with free housing and food and jewelry. And they don't do shit! The cost per fuck in my marriage was probably about $10K per for a lot of our marriage! WTF. How is that fair. These girls DESERVE our money. Goddamn bargain compared to being married! LOL
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07-31-22 15:08 #3722
Posts: 129There has been talk about girls falling for their "john's". I feel sorry for these girls, for they have forgotten to keep in mind that the act they get from the man is fake. It's the same situation than when a guy falls for their paid girl, but he big difference is that the paying client. Who becomes a non-paying client. Is willing to take advantage of the situation and keep the act going, without compensation. Girls won't do it, they either will want to have the payment or they will be nice persons and cut it off.
It's no surprise that a girl can fall for a guy in paid situation, because people fall for each other all the time. Man can remind them of their father, their brother, their uncle, or their ex. Or the guy they never had, but wanted to have. Or the man represents the culturally adopted ideas that the girl fancies about a man. Or, the man is like a mirror image for the girl, being such a personality that they resemble each other or fit together as a hand and a glove. These are the seeds that will start to grow, when given the chance. And when the girl is promised to have money for spending time with a man, there comes the chance. It can't be pre-planned, it just happens if it happens. But as you know, the more years you spend with your regular, the more it becomes a possibility that you will start to have a place in her fantasy life. Surely, or at least hopefully, it's just a passing phase. For example, thinking about if she should choose you to be the father for her child. But since we are all so human, these things happen. Otherwise it would be just cold, robotic meetings with nothing but acting.
I have noticed that after the initial 'crush phase' fades out, the arrangement can get back to normal. To make this happen is to not change anything in the relationship. Not to feed the wishes and fantasies and hopes of the girl. Otherwise, it will become the doom of the relationship. Maybe some would like to have that brief time of being in a relationship with a young hot girl, rather than keep her as a regular for years to come or at least as long as she is available. Well, each to his own. I have found so few girls to be such that I will not get bored to have sex with them, that I hope selfishly that they'd stay available for five more years rather than go start a family.
Now, I don't use SeekingArrangements. I've preferred amateurs, who have had an ad somewhere, but not where the pro's advertise. However, it's interesting to read how people speak about one's "game", when they are actually having paid meetings with a girl! It's like going back 20 years in life and doing it all over again (or the first time? But now with much better chances of scoring. With the help of the money. I can understand why this is interesting and addictive to men at any age. But my question is, what are you really after? There is the sex. There is the young woman. There is the situation of being the older guy with the younger woman, which feels special. And then there is the company, the attention one gets from the young woman. All of these are reasons to do it and pay for it, but some of them could be filled with a non-paid woman, also.
And then there's the fact that this one, not-so-humble (and probably not so secure, as he claims to be) guy wrote: paying is a way to have a psychological defence against real emotional involment with the girl. Sure, one can like her and all, get all worked up how great she is. But with payment, it's different. It's so different from doing all the same without any word about possible payment, without any thought about it from either of the people involved. Money makes it safe and secure. For me, money is the key in these relationships: it makes them possible to stay as they are. Sex, and then nothing until the next time, when it's time to have sex again. I can fantasize about the girls meanwhile, I can think how lovely they are, but I won't go for it. They won't expect from me anything more, either (when the relationship is as it should be). This is what I pay for. What do you pay for?
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07-31-22 14:48 #3721
Posts: 9Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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07-31-22 02:20 #3720
Posts: 2707No New Dates. Shayla Report Out
I guess the good and the bad for me is no new dates or seductions or tips to report. Just enjoying my home girl immensely. And since not too much going on here in the forum, I hope you will indulge me posting my latest visit with her. I write these for myself anyhow so enjoy if blow by blow appeals. Frankly I enjoy Penthouse letters like stories but feel free to speak up if this is OT. I guess it's a good demonstration that the gems do exist and timing is everything. Such a narrow slice of time that Shayla and I crossed on Seeking.
Shayla and I have been dating about six months now and I have yet to get bored. I love dinner time with her and sex time and pretty much just everything. She's def the best girl I've ever been in bed with and I actually like her too! Yeah I'm a little in love (eyes wide open).
We met up for dinner the other night. She looks amazing in crop top, tiny blue Jean shorts and heels. We had a lovely dinner surrounded by mostly folks in the sixties with a few families thrown in. We aren't shy or apologetic about our relationship with strangers just the older man with his clearly "too young for him" hawt AF girlfriend. LOL.
In the hotel room it's so comfy and no rush. Just hugging and light kissing and cuddling. Just enjoying being physically close. This is a contrast to the urgency we have felt last couple times because I'the been away. The slow pace is nice.
Soon though a kiss lingers a bit long. Tongues engage and it's quickly on. As I've said before her mouth and pussy are directly connected so as we kiss she's starting to moan and I am grinding my hip into her pussy. I know from experience she is already soaking wet.
I swing her around to align with the bed and get on top the deep kissing and sucking and biting continuing. Up on my knees she undoes my belt and I pull her shirt up. And the party is on. I quickly strip and she gets her hot pants and panties off.
Normally I enjoy her excellent blowjob or maybe eat her out but I am remembering how awesome it was to fuck her last week so I dive straight in in missionary. She's always sopping wet so it's an easy slide in.
OMG her pussy feels great. Always does. It's not only the bareback, which I've done with maybe five girls this past year. She's just sooooo wet and slippery it just feels unbelievable. Way wetter than any girl I’ve ever been with. By a wide margin. Only girl ever that I might choose fucking over BJ. And her BJ is spectacular.
So we just fuck and fuck and fuck some more. All me in dominant mish. All while making out like demons. Sometimes a little slow. Sometimes fast. Sometimes just jammed to the hilt and savor. She is having multiple Os complete with the ugliest faces on the planet. LOL.
After maybe 20 straight minutes who knows I tire and move to switch her to the top. During the transition I am on my knees and she takes me in her mouth and starts the most amazing blowjob. Sloppy. Tons of shaft licking and Balls. Just to die for. So good that I can feel the build. Obviously I don't want it to be over but I figure we can go two rounds so I let it build.
Then the strangest sequence but it works out great. Just as I am about to cum she stops and takes it out of her mouth. I don't want to cum now but it's too late. I have dick in hand when a small shot emerges. I am thinking damn I have to stop so I can fuck more or I can Jack off but that's kinda lame. I guess she senses my dilemma because shortly after that first shot she dives under the hood and starts some epic ball and lower shaft work while I kinda work the top of shaft slowly. OMG it was the most staggering orgasm. Maybe because I had tried to hold back. But a couple more shots erupt and then some dry heaves after that that felt amazing even tho no more jizz. Wow. Started as a ruined orgasm and ended as one of the best ever. LOL.
After cleanup she's on top of me naked junk adjacent and we are kissing and I think she's just going to slide in for round two. But after a while we stop and just cuddle and enjoy hanging out. For quite some time I am on my back and she is between my legs stroking up and down them in a relaxing way. I don't know if she's looking for signs of life (super droopy now) but I am def thinking about round two even think am saggy. I know the Cialis will help when needed.
So after maybe a half hour I initiate. I lean forward and push her sideways onto her back and start a round of amazing sexual kissing. We are so good here. Nothing is off limits. I suck her tongue. She sucks my tongue. We tongue wrestle. We lip bite. It's just animalistic passion. And of course she's worked up for round two now grinding and moaning.
We start her on top since I did all the work last round. I start by putting her tits in my mouth one after the other. Those amazing world beating nipples and small enough tits to almost suck the whole thing in and lick the nipples at the same time. She goes into another world when I do this and I feel shivers wrack her body twice.
I am of course growing hard now and she takes advantage to slip it in and she rides and rides. She is absolutely breathtaking to watch ride with her slim waist and flat tummy and OMG I can still see a pic in my mind. She goes thru more Os and at some point after a very big one collapses on my chest and says "thank you!
But she's not a girl to let her man be left hanging. She swaps us to Steve position (she knows me well!) and we do modified Steve with her legs together up in the air to one side. Her pussy is even tighter this way and feels great. I've got one knee on the bed and pounding seriously. Nonetheless it's hard to cum again. I am super fine to just quit but she is determined and swaps to her tummy, head at edge of bed, to give me a standing BJ.
Def one of the best BJs ever. She knows how to really get hands going on balls and squeezing lightly and sliding and licking and OMFG it's to die for. I am leaning over and fingering her pussy in rhythm. Still can't cum. I tell her it's OK baby I don't want to wear you out. But she says no problem and keeps at it. Doe eyes and all.
At some point I say here let me Lie on my back. She sits back and rests while I reposition and I again think damn it's fine to quit. I've so enjoyed round two and don't need to finish (I wasn't like this a few years ago). But nope she takes a deep breath and dives in again. I think it's a fools errand but she is licking and sucking like her life depends on it. And WTF? I feel the build. I imagine her cowgirling as she sucks like there is no tomorrow and have a shattering orgasm. OMG. What a doll. I didn't think it was possible. She is a goddess and I tell her so.
More snuggling and plans for next week and maybe some sneaky mini vacation. Adore this girl. Can't wait till next week!
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07-31-22 00:44 #3719
Posts: 3228Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
The funny part is when a Colombiana stole one of my Viagra. When we fucked, she had an orgasm where she screamed so loud I think she broke glass. I am not sure if it was a placebo effect or not, but they do make pink viagra type pills in India. I cannot imagine the FDA approving a pill for enhanced orgasm but if they did, maybe women would not have to take so many pills for depression and anxiety.
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07-30-22 21:00 #3718
Posts: 2707OT Irony
You see those commercials on TV for Hims? Viagra etc. Keep that dick hard and ready at all times!
Now there is Hers also. Is it about prolonging the female orgasm? Or how to stay wet as you grow older? Nope. Pills for anxiety and depression is the main pitch.
So for men it's all about a good hard dick. And for women it's for managing depression because your husband is coming after you with a good hard dick and all you want to do is garden and sip wine. LOL.
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07-30-22 15:29 #3717
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
I think before Covid they might have been getting these prices, now I have my doubts.
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07-30-22 15:07 #3716
Posts: 2707Light at Tunnel Terminus
Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]
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07-30-22 03:35 #3715
Posts: 241Depends
Have had quite a few arrangements in NRW.
One refused to take any money. The other two were roughly 200/250 EUR. No time limit. Day / two days. Didn't matter.
GFE, bareback, felt like girlfriend. 7/8 on looks.
Be nice, keep hunting. You will find these gems.
Best luck.
Originally Posted by Ggekko2009 [View Original Post]