Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

It does, in Serbia & in Hungary for sure. I knew it even before I paid for the subscription, but this has only confirmed it. The only reason I have subscribed for a month was a bet which I won, so I actuall made money out if this. I monger in Belgrade & in Budapest & working girls are the only real thing. Seeking is all about scam & wasting time. There are working girls there too, but uglier & more expensive. So many scammers & cheaters with stolen photos, so many fake profiles. Such a shitty website. I am amazed someone did not take legal actions against them yet. But, I'm sure it is just a matter of time.

SA works great for me. You are the one with the shitty attitude. You should not be able sell your crappy service. Yes, I asked you a question. You replied with a bad attitude.

[Steve 9696]

So quiet in here. Surely someone somewhere in the world is smashing some SA girls. Do tell!

My personal situation is that:

A. Layla is kinda gone cool. Can't get her out on a date. I guess ti be expected. We've lasted a long time by SA standards - 9 months. Going to keep pinging her for a date till I find something better.

B. Mina (not Mika) was the CBJ Queen and a quick fuck and go on our second date so not a repeat. Boo.

My thing with Mika is awesome. But that's sporadic because she's remote and I have to fly her wherever.

So bit of a draught for me locally. How's about you guys?

[Il Drago]

It does, in Serbia & in Hungary for sure. I knew it even before I paid for the subscription, but this has only confirmed it. The only reason I have subscribed for a month was a bet which I won, so I actuall made money out if this. I monger in Belgrade & in Budapest & working girls are the only real thing. Seeking is all about scam & wasting time. There are working girls there too, but uglier & more expensive. So many scammers & cheaters with stolen photos, so many fake profiles. Such a shitty website. I am amazed someone did not take legal actions against them yet. But, I'm sure it is just a matter of time.

[Stinky Squid]

Thing is if her desire was cut in half it would still be higher than most women, so we will see. I have a feeling she may be the exception but I know how lame that sounds.

As for being hurt, I talked to someone about this, and they said that the guy she was previously with did not feel worthy of her. He threatened her with all kinds of crazy things. I can see why. In some ways, she is too good to be true. Imagine a woman who draws stares from all kinds of guys, who has a sex drive where she wants to fuck all the time (hell, she was giving me a handjob in the cab tonight), but is kind and giving. She cooks for me and is good at it, likes to clean, has not asked for anything material, and whose favorite activity is cuddling with me in bed.

You would think with that high of a sex drive she has been with many men, but I am only her 4th guy. It sounds like BS right, but there really was not much point in saying now. Some people just get no desire having sex with any one but their chose partner. I am not like that, but her personality type is.

So yeah, you are right. That is the course of a typical relationship, but she is anything but typical. Usually the hottest women are the most crazy but so far I have not seen that at all.

Elvis, take my advice: go for it and enjoy! Do not fear the potential of it falling apart. The only thing you have to lose is opportunity costs to not find someone else. But if you are not needy and you can live with the fact that this may end, you will never forget it and it just becomes good memories of your life, even if there are some tears involved in the end.

I have made complete peace with "illusions" that are "not real". If it feels real at the moment that is what matters! Then it IS real at the moment. If two years later it feels no longer good, that doesn't mean it wasn't real.

The only reason to really angle for a stable LTR that lasts decades is for the purpose of raising your offspring. That is a good goal to have. And that is where you really need to watch all the factors, your own needs and failings included.

Be aware about borderline personality disorder. The hyper-sexed behavior can be a way to reel you in. Watch for her controlling and manipulating you. Isolating you. Wanting you all for herself is cute and feels good. But if your issues are being ironed over by her steamrolling whims of the moment, that is a long term problem. But like I said above, enjoy. I have a special taste for BPD girls for this hyper-emotion which I love and savor. You must, however, never become dependent on one of them and never end up in a situation where a BPD girl has the upper hand over you, or has you by the balls.

Having children together is the big problem. The big trap. You can't have children with an insane woman. That's why they say "don't stick your dick in crazy". I guess be aware of this risk and deal with it. Also, you cannot really deny a woman children. Biology matters. Just like a woman cannot really deny a man sex. It will blow up.

[Steve 9696]

So traveling again soon and going to a big city. Pretty fair number of girls there and I am sure I could find something. But M (see recent FR) is itching to see me and DAMN was she a find. So even tho she will fly in on Friday night and out again Sunday night it seems worth it. Have to get hotel anyhow so it's just airfare all other costs are the same. So it seems like $400 is a small price to pay when your getting a hottie who you know you have chemistry with and will enjoy all your time together.

Plus. I gotta say I kinda like the real SD feel of flying girls and putting them up at a nice hotel I can go shag them at any time I like. Its just kinda mega cool. Going to pull the trigger on this quite soon.

Flights and hotels all booked. Super excited. Had her book everything in her name and cashapped her. She sent back confirmation pics. Looks all good. Excited. SA at its finest! 🙏.

[Elvis 2008]

Since I haven't been able to get back to the Philippines, I've been traveling to Bogota and Tijuana every other month. I can only stay for the work week since travel for work is my cover story. Anyway, I've got a couple of cuties in Tijuana and Bogota is an amazing hunting grounds on SA. But flights to both locations are ridiculously expensive on the next week I can get away. So, I was thinking of trying a new location preferably within a 5 hour flight of the east coast and where there are plentiful hotties on SA. Any recommendations?

Top three choices would be Monterrey, Mexico City, and Guadalajara in that order.

[Steve 9696]

So traveling again soon and going to a big city. Pretty fair number of girls there and I am sure I could find something. But M (see recent FR) is itching to see me and DAMN was she a find. So even tho she will fly in on Friday night and out again Sunday night it seems worth it. Have to get hotel anyhow so it's just airfare all other costs are the same. So it seems like $400 is a small price to pay when your getting a hottie who you know you have chemistry with and will enjoy all your time together.

Plus. I gotta say I kinda like the “real SD” feel of flying girls and putting them up at a nice hotel I can go shag them at any time I like. It’s just kinda mega cool. Going to pull the trigger on this quite soon.

[ShadowJ]

Since I haven't been able to get back to the Philippines, I've been traveling to Bogota and Tijuana every other month. I can only stay for the work week since travel for work is my cover story. Anyway, I've got a couple of cuties in Tijuana and Bogota is an amazing hunting grounds on SA. But flights to both locations are ridiculously expensive on the next week I can get away. So, I was thinking of trying a new location preferably within a 5 hour flight of the east coast and where there are plentiful hotties on SA. Any recommendations?

[Elvis 2008]

However, when you spoke about that thing about her having been hurt in that other relationship, my alarm bells went up. I predict you the following: you're going to be a very happy man for a year or two. Once you actually stay together on a LTR basis you will see problems come up, and then the sex will go down, and then it may fall apart. Sad as it is. Enjoy why you have it. How to make anything like this long time workable is the secret that nobody knows really how to do.

SS,

They have done studies on desire in relationship, and your time frame is about right. Apparently, the drive goes down more for women than for men. It was one reason I thought I would never commit to anyone.

Thing is if her desire was cut in half it would still be higher than most women, so we will see. I have a feeling she may be the exception but I know how lame that sounds.

As for being hurt, I talked to someone about this, and they said that the guy she was previously with did not feel worthy of her. He threatened her with all kinds of crazy things. I can see why. In some ways, she is too good to be true. Imagine a woman who draws stares from all kinds of guys, who has a sex drive where she wants to fuck all the time (hell, she was giving me a handjob in the cab tonight), but is kind and giving. She cooks for me and is good at it, likes to clean, has not asked for anything material, and whose favorite activity is cuddling with me in bed.

You would think with that high of a sex drive she has been with many men, but I am only her 4th guy. It sounds like BS right, but there really was not much point in saying now. Some people just get no desire having sex with any one but their chose partner. I am not like that, but her personality type is.

So yeah, you are right. That is the course of a typical relationship, but she is anything but typical. Usually the hottest women are the most crazy but so far I have not seen that at all.

[Steve 9696]

I am trying to message you. Thanks 😀.

My box is clear.

[DramaFree11]

Great report Steve. Another reminder that there's no point in explicitly breaking up with an SA gal. And, another reminder that once you fucked a girl, she's often DTF again in the future. I've had exes that got married or got a real BF, but still hooked up with me later. In their minds, it wasn't cheating since we had already fucked before. LOL. In fact, Steve, it's possible that your recent hookup now has a BF.

Great advice. I usually just say I am taking a break or you can say you are having some financial issues.

[BrizLad]

Great report Steve. Another reminder that there's no point in explicitly breaking up with an SA gal.

I have had some arrangement 'terminations' when I was thinking I wanted to be specific. In hindsight, I could probably have just been vague.

Two girls that I closed out last week I just left with a vague "I'm on a project for three weeks, will message you after. " I used three weeks which is more than enough time for them to know they need to and to find a replacement.

[HelloIm]

I am trying to message you. Thanks 😀.

[Midwestern]

Great report Steve. Another reminder that there's no point in explicitly breaking up with an SA gal. And, another reminder that once you fucked a girl, she's often DTF again in the future. I've had exes that got married or got a real BF, but still hooked up with me later. In their minds, it wasn't cheating since we had already fucked before. LOL. In fact, Steve, it's possible that your recent hookup now has a BF.

[Midwestern]

Been reading the economics debate on here. Look, I think it's safe to say that many women are looking for BOTH love and money. However, some girls are foolishly idealistic and think that love is all that matters. And some girls have gotten so jaded that only money matters. On SA, you will occasionally find one or the other.

But with many gals, it's NOT one or another. Yeah, many need the cash, but many also need the love. These are the gals that I looked for, and was successful in finding (a little over two dozen gals in about 20 months).

In addition, some girls are on SA to have a good and fun time. They might need money too, but maybe don't need the love. They were great for one-off dates. But I only sought these when I was on the road. In my home turf, I didn't seek them.

For the ones that was only about the economics, I tried to avoid them altogether. But sometimes they faked the love pretty well and it took me a few dates before I realized that I was just a client.