Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

Back in the MTY and killing. I did have a couple of new girls scheduled, but they went dark. No problem, called one of the regulars and amazing sessions. Just got done with a session, Anal, Rimming, and everything else. She is a total Porno Star. Never says no. The model is scheduled for this afternoon. Meeting another hot girl at S. Prime this evening. Life is good.

San Antonio is much harder, but I am making slow progress, I knew it would be tough and lot of work, but Holly Shit some of the crap these girls try and pull with there fake pictures, it is just incredible. Video Chat or no go for me. I can afford to take my time, because I always have MTY. I imagine I will give on SA in San Antonio, but who knows, it is a challenge.

[Drbombay]

I had a great time with gals in their 30's, 40's, and even in their 50's, yes, 50's, on SA. These older gals loved to fuck. And they were genuinely into me.

I met some college gals on SA, and after a while, I decided that I was not into that. And so eventually, I never talked to anyone under 24 on SA. But everyone is different, and everyone is looking for different things. But I really enjoyed the older gals on SA. And, for me at least, they were better for dating too, outside of the bedroom. Yes, these older gals do want to get to know you, so there is that. But I did not mind it.

The thing about older women on SA is that they understand their "glory days" have passed and are looking at more for their long term stability. So they are less likely to just "trip out" and understand a man's got to do what a man does more easily than some younger ones. I've also found that some older women do really enjoy sex more, especially if they aren't worried about starting a family.

[WyattEarp]

This is unscientific but usually at that age if a woman is attractive, IMO she is going to stay attractive. For that reason, there are a lot more hot 20 somethings than 30 somethings but the women in their 30's IMO have a bigger sexual appetite.

All in all, I prefer women in their 30's but the problem is that more often than not, age or having children has hurt them looks wise. But if you get a hottie at 34, you are in for a great ride. Honestly, the women in their 30's are better in bed and more passionate than those in their 20's in my experience.

Yes Elvis, a lot of sexy women under 25 can't carry that sex appeal into their 30's. Weight gain and child bearing stressing the body. I think you'll agree, shorter women generally suffer more physical decline. There's also cutie looks that don't really age well.

You're also right that thirtysomething women really get into bed with the idea of pleasuring their partners and enjoying themselves. I won't digress on why here. Too many young hotties take sex and their sexual partners for granted.

[Elvis 2008]

Any thoughts on getting into something like that with a 34 Y. O? I'm sure if I take it further she will poke around even more and I intend to keep myself as insulated as possible.

This is unscientific but usually at that age if a woman is attractive, IMO she is going to stay attractive. For that reason, there are a lot more hot 20 somethings than 30 somethings but the women in their 30's IMO have a bigger sexual appetite.

The woman of my dreams is 32, and I have to add that my first year in the "real world" was 30. I had worked and had jobs but never run my own business, and that was a hell of an education to see how some people really are. I grew up more that year than any of my life.

Thing is that I do not like to go through that maturity phase with women. Women in their 20's typically do not respect the work it takes for us to have money whereas women in their 30's generally do. As such, the older women appreciate our generosity more in general.

The exception, and this is weird, but I am just going to say it, has been women who have been involved in the drug world. I am not advocating drug use by any means but women who have been in that world in their 20's do not have to be introduced to reality. They have lived it.

All in all, I prefer women in their 30's but the problem is that more often than not, age or having children has hurt them looks wise. But if you get a hottie at 34, you are in for a great ride. Honestly, the women in their 30's are better in bed and more passionate than those in their 20's in my experience.

Also, I am in my mid50's, and I have had so many women tell me that age is not important to them, but the women in their 20's do get shit from their friends if they are dating an older man. With women in their 30's, there is none of that from people she knows or from strangers.

[DramaFree11]

So I think I will be moving to San Antonio next week, for a new business opportunity. Back on SA in San Antonio, what a difference from MTY. I have met 3 girls so far, one I sent packing. The other was nice but was completely tat. Up, from head to toe. I have no problem with the Tat. , but she was 20 pounds bigger then her pictures and had body odor. 3rd was ok, but I do not think she is interested. All 3 had serious baggage and substance abuse issue. Another issue these girls totally try and hide there bodies, in there pictures. Video Chat is a must in America, or you will be wasting you time. 3 days is in week, is not bad, it would have been more, but there was bad weather and this caused some cancelations and issues with my work as well. I will keep trying. I am in MTY now, life is good. 3 girls Saturday, the model girlfriend spent the night. Yes, Elvis this one might be better then all the other combined. As I have been saying I would totally commit to her. I need to see what happens in SA, the decision will be made Wednesday if I buy the new business.

San Antonio will be great, professionally, socially and even closer to MTY. Life is good. I love MTY, Tijuana and Moscow. Kiev / MDE suck.

[Gunners1]

I have had some very memorable experiences from older women. This was before SA. Her husband used to be a pilot and was hardly at home. She used to call me over when she needed to get off. I was in college those days and it was so much fun. She used to make some of the best burritos I have had. The best thing about older women is that they badly need the sex and are unable to find it from their partners.

The young ones at times come with heaps of attitude and excess baggage.

G.

I had a great time with gals in their 30's, 40's, and even in their 50's, yes, 50's, on SA. These older gals loved to fuck. And they were genuinely into me.

I met some college gals on SA, and after a while, I decided that I was not into that. And so eventually, I never talked to anyone under 24 on SA. But everyone is different, and everyone is looking for different things. But I really enjoyed the older gals on SA. And, for me at least, they were better for dating too, outside of the bedroom. Yes, these older gals do want to get to know you, so there is that. But I did not mind it.

[Midwestern]

I had a great time with gals in their 30's, 40's, and even in their 50's, yes, 50's, on SA. These older gals loved to fuck. And they were genuinely into me.

I met some college gals on SA, and after a while, I decided that I was not into that. And so eventually, I never talked to anyone under 24 on SA. But everyone is different, and everyone is looking for different things. But I really enjoyed the older gals on SA. And, for me at least, they were better for dating too, outside of the bedroom. Yes, these older gals do want to get to know you, so there is that. But I did not mind it.

Since my last post here, I have spent the last 3 weeks on SA. Have shortlisted 3 in Belgium and 3 in Germany. Based on the advice here, I kind of focused on college verified and younger ones. While I'm yet to meet any of them (kind of taking it slow due to pandemic and other personal situations), one lady in particular has been exchanging lot of messages with me. She is 34 but is looking for some sort of arrangement. Does not seem like she is expecting financial support but she seems to be a nice person. Will see when I meet her and check chemistry. If there is chemistry, I would love to fuck her. However, she seems to be very curious and asks a lot of questions (most if which I dodge, currently).

Any thoughts on getting into something like that with a 34 Y. O? I'm sure if I take it further she will poke around even more and I intend to keep myself as insulated as possible.

[Member #4703]

Are there bars to meet hookers or street hookers. In Lisbon or any other place in Portugal.

I don't want to waste my time on dating cause I am old.

Just looking around to hot girls is already good for me.

Elifanto is the biggest strip club in Lisbon.

[Retgilpo]

So finally was able to do the SA week in Lisbon and it was a pretty successful one after all the very helpful pointers from the experienced guys in this thread. FR posted in the Lisbon thread if anyone is interested.

Are there bars to meet hookers or street hookers. In Lisbon or any other place in Portugal.

I don't want to waste my time on dating cause I am old.

Just looking around to hot girls is already good for me.

[Gfefan]

Since my last post here, I have spent the last 3 weeks on SA. Have shortlisted 3 in Belgium and 3 in Germany. Based on the advice here, I kind of focused on college verified and younger ones. While I'm yet to meet any of them (kind of taking it slow due to pandemic and other personal situations), one lady in particular has been exchanging lot of messages with me. She is 34 but is looking for some sort of arrangement. Does not seem like she is expecting financial support but she seems to be a nice person. Will see when I meet her and check chemistry. If there is chemistry, I would love to fuck her. However, she seems to be very curious and asks a lot of questions (most if which I dodge, currently).

Any thoughts on getting into something like that with a 34 Y. O? I'm sure if I take it further she will poke around even more and I intend to keep myself as insulated as possible.

[MiamiBoy1]

How popular is SA in Rio? Or Tinder? Where do you find semi-pros or non-pros?

Population of Rio is almost 7 million, however pickings on SA are extra slim, no stunners. Most girls have not been active / online for days, does not make sense to even message them.

Not interested in hardcore pros or brothels / strip clubs, etc because I prefer regular dates that end at my apartment rather than "wham bam thank you ma'am" type of sessions.

[Gunners1]

Great advice.

As there is hardly any cash transaction I will not formally break up. Will just go a bit slow on her.

Thanks a lot.

G.

Last year, I got tired of one of my GF / SB. However, I never broke up with her. She would text me sometimes, and I would just say that I was busy.

Last month, while I was in a bit of a dry spell, she texted me out of the blue, and so we met up and had great sex. Since it had been a few months since the last time that I saw her, it felt like I was having sex with a new person, LOL.

So, why bother breaking up with anyone? Just do not see them when you do not feel like it, and if she ever finds out that you have other GFs and SBs, or if she gets tired of being ignored, then let her break up with you! Problem solved.

My philosophy is, never take an easy lay for granted, even if you get bored of it. Come to think of it, I probably have over a dozen GFs and SBs that I never broke up with. Many of these gals will still have sex with me, even if a year has lapsed since the last time I saw them. But if I broke up with them, then it may have been an ugly breakup and just as important I would also be eliminating an easy lay forever.

[Pessimist]

Last year, I got tired of one of my GF / SB. However, I never broke up with her. She would text me sometimes, and I would just say that I was busy.

Last month, while I was in a bit of a dry spell, she texted me out of the blue, and so we met up and had great sex. Since it had been a few months since the last time that I saw her, it felt like I was having sex with a new person, LOL.

So, why bother breaking up with anyone? Just do not see them when you do not feel like it, and if she ever finds out that you have other GFs and SBs, or if she gets tired of being ignored, then let her break up with you! Problem solved.

My philosophy is, never take an easy lay for granted, even if you get bored of it. Come to think of it, I probably have over a dozen GFs and SBs that I never broke up with. Many of these gals will still have sex with me, even if a year has lapsed since the last time I saw them. But if I broke up with them, then it may have been an ugly breakup and just as important I would also be eliminating an easy lay forever.

Agree. For god's sake, it is a quasi business deal at best. You can't break up business relationship. What does that even mean? Unless the guy and girl fool themselves into believing they are in a real relationship; however, if such a thing happens, you are no longer paying for it and you know it is no longer a SD / SB deal. If some sort of financial compensation is exchanged and expected, it is a SD / SB deal and it is a deal which can broken at any time by one of the two parties, just as at will employment can be terminated by either the employer or employee with minimal notice.

[Elvis 2008]

Last year, I got tired of one of my GF / SB. However, I never broke up with her. She would text me sometimes, and I would just say that I was busy.

Last month, while I was in a bit of a dry spell, she texted me out of the blue, and so we met up and had great sex. Since it had been a few months since the last time that I saw her, it felt like I was having sex with a new person, LOL.

So, why bother breaking up with anyone? Just do not see them when you do not feel like it, and if she ever finds out that you have other GFs and SBs, or if she gets tired of being ignored, then let her break up with you! Problem solved.

My philosophy is, never take an easy lay for granted, even if you get bored of it. Come to think of it, I probably have over a dozen GFs and SBs that I never broke up with. Many of these gals will still have sex with me, even if a year has lapsed since the last time I saw them. But if I broke up with them, then it may have been an ugly breakup and just as important I would also be eliminating an easy lay forever.

LOL. MW, it is fine if you do not want to break up with them. Thing is that getting back with a SB for anything more than sex is a disaster. Twice, I got back with two girls not just one time but twice. First girl was stunning. Great voice, great skin, great head, very vocal in bed, smart, and a lying ***** of a thief. I got back with her after she swore that she did not steal from me. So I got back with her, and the ***** stole me from me again!! Hell of a fuck though. It was almost worth it.

Other one entered a Facebook contest or something like that and won. She was hot too, charming, cheerleader kind of way, and tight, shit was she tight. She really liked me. We were out at this expensive resort and it was abandoned and we had a hot make out and grind session outside in the pool. Whew! She was really into it. Thing with her is that she was relentless when it came to getting money. There was no fucking off switch, and time after time, I would give in until I got pissed off and broke it off. When I got back with her the last time, I was like, "She is so pretty and nice, I was stupid to break up with her. " After that third time, I was like, "Now you remember? Elvis, you dumb ass."

So yeah, you do not have to break it off, and it is fine just banging an old flame, but giving a girl a second chance beyond casual sex has never worked for me.

[Midwestern]

Last year, I got tired of one of my GF / SB. However, I never broke up with her. She would text me sometimes, and I would just say that I was busy.

Last month, while I was in a bit of a dry spell, she texted me out of the blue, and so we met up and had great sex. Since it had been a few months since the last time that I saw her, it felt like I was having sex with a new person, LOL.

So, why bother breaking up with anyone? Just do not see them when you do not feel like it, and if she ever finds out that you have other GFs and SBs, or if she gets tired of being ignored, then let her break up with you! Problem solved.

My philosophy is, never take an easy lay for granted, even if you get bored of it. Come to think of it, I probably have over a dozen GFs and SBs that I never broke up with. Many of these gals will still have sex with me, even if a year has lapsed since the last time I saw them. But if I broke up with them, then it may have been an ugly breakup and just as important I would also be eliminating an easy lay forever.

She lives in the same city. That is an ouch feeling. To tell you the truth, I haven't paid her much. May be about 300 US in the 2 years. She was a bank customer service staff in Western Ukraine. She arrived in my country working for a social media marketing company doing corporate sales. And I met her and told her the deal. As she was desperate to get back into banking. She tried getting a bank job for more tnN 6 months and I got her a job at a leading bank in 1 week since meeting her. She was willing to do anything to pay me back. So it was always considered a free one for me. When ever I need to offload I just give her a buzz and she would come over and service me. Now I am bored of how easy I can do her that I want to move one. We men like to hunt. We don't like food served on a plate. We get bored often. She is off to Kiev to do a bit of work on her butt, lip and cheek. So I have time ow to switch off from her. That is the plan.



G.