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06-21-21 04:40 #1880
Posts: 407Alert
Gentlemen,
I wanted to alert you all that I am seeing quite a few underage girls misrepresenting their age on SA in Colombia. I know many punters have started using it, but it's obviously an issue that is getting more common. The first time it happened I thought it was a one off, but it's happened 3 times. Not a single time in Feb when I last hunted for contacts. Of the 3, they listed their ages as 18, 19 and 21. My screener is set to 18-26. They all said they were attending university, and went along with the banter, which I quickly took to a messaging app. Even we did discuss our expectations of our time together and economic help I could provide, Luckily I never asked for nor did I get any nudes, just regular pictures(though in one case I was offered them for money which I fortunately declined). The key question before any others is, do you have your cedula. Now legitimately Covid has messed up the just turned 18 this past year crowd, as between the covid closures, the economic malaise and the riots, it was not normal processing. Also what usually takes a month is apparently now closer 2-3 months. Either way the economic desperation is causing some to enlist and if you aren't super careful the risks are enormous for obvious reasons. Even extortion plots are not out of the question.
After calling things off, one even had the temerity to say it was OK because her mom had given authorization. I couldn't delete that number quick enough.
Be careful out there fellas.
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06-20-21 18:36 #1879
Posts: 2922Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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06-20-21 14:30 #1878
Posts: 2698MW Further Thoughts
Of course I have no idea what is really going on but here are some further ideas.
You said she is new there and homesick. Is she young also? Maybe she is just started in this MP thing and not yet jaded. She views sex in a very romantic way. Like we see in the movies. That sex and love and marriage all go together. The big lie. But maybe she believes it. So to her passionate sex Means love and that leads to marriage. There is no question when you are new to sex that you develop powerful (and probably false) attraction and caring for the other person ie love.
I think you should have a sit down talk like the following:
I like you very much but I can never be your husband. I have been married before and come to learn that I don't believe in marriage and one person with another forever. So I will never marry again. We should enjoy each other as long as we can but we can never be more than boyfriend and girlfriend. Some day U will find a husband and that is good. I will be very happy for you.
On the coming to your place thing I'the use the daughter saying your daughter is home most all the time. Plus I have lived alone so long I do not enjoy being overnight with someone else. I am sorry.
Of course this could kill it all but I think it's better to manage expectations than be fucking her where she believes she's working towards an LTR. That's just uncool IMO.
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06-20-21 13:43 #1877
Posts: 2698Watch Out!
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
Fun as it may be sounds like it could go all Fatal Attraction in a heartbeat. I'the be real careful.
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06-20-21 12:37 #1876
Posts: 1202Another update
I saw her again, and we had passionate bareback sex for 2. 5 hours in the MP. The weird thing was that she kept calling me her husband, about 30-50 times. She kept saying I love you husband. That was really weird.
While we cuddled, I gave her money for the apartment. And then she asked me if I was going to live there or at least spend the night there. I said I cannot. She was speechless and suddenly all the happiness was sucked out of the room. She asked me why I couldn't sleep there, and I used Brizlad's great suggestion and said my daughter lives with me. She then asked me again if I was single and I said I was. Then she asked if she could come to my place sometime, and I had to think quickly and I said I live in service apartment and my colleagues live there too. However, I over-explained this, so it came across as a lie, I am sure.
She then asked me if I ever wanted another kid, and I said no. Then she said she wants a kid. But I said that I didn't. Her mood was totally somber. She was so happy while we were fucking. But suddenly she was getting the picture.
I'm still confused about what's going on. She works in HJ MP. So far, our entire relationship is we met three times, and we spent almost all of it barebacking. Almost from the beginning. Why did she bareback me right from the beginning, and for no tip? And did she really think we were going to end up together?
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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06-20-21 12:18 #1875
Posts: 1202Excellent suggestions
BL,
All excellent suggestions. I used the daughter one, and I'm hoping it can be a long run solution. But I agree with you 100% that being honest way more likely leads to a longer SB SD relationship.
Originally Posted by BrizLad [View Original Post]
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06-20-21 10:58 #1874
Posts: 314Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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06-20-21 01:36 #1873
Posts: 2793Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
I do meet girls during the day in Mexico. , but my time is limited. Nothing wrong with a girl spending the night, probably best to have a couple meetings first.
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06-20-21 00:53 #1872
Posts: 1202Need suggestions
(1) What if your SB wants to go your place? What should you say? (This is likely to happen if you lied about your home situation.).
(2) What if your SB wants to meet in the evening? (I can only meet her during the day. In the evening, I'm usually home. I can duck out on occasion, but it'll become suspicious if I do it often.).
(3) What if your SB wants you to spend the night at her place? What should you say? (I definitely cannot do this given my home situation.).
Yeah, I know, we shouldn't lie about home situation, but my current SB target will not be with me if I am not single. In fact, given that I plan on only paying her rent and nothing else, she may view herself as more of a GF then an SB.
Thanks for any suggestions.
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06-19-21 12:46 #1871
Posts: 360Neither a law firm not at my work place.
Moving on. For now.
G.
Originally Posted by Pessimist [View Original Post]
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06-18-21 18:07 #1870
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by Gunners1 [View Original Post]
I don't believe she used you. Did she make an explicit promise? You had built up hopes when perhaps none were warranted. Sounds like she may led you on though. Or changed her mind. She is entitled to do so, if she wants.
How did you help her land a job? Is it in your firm? In the US, that could be dangerous, helping someone get hired and then trying to sleep with them. Oh boy! In fact, if it is in your company, this situation is fraught with risks, dangers, compromised situations and conflicts of interest in pretty much any country.
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06-18-21 16:52 #1869
Posts: 2698Hotel and Privacy Tip
So I have executed the Hotwire "get the exact hotel at steep discount" scheme several times since I mentioned in this thread. And when you book on Hotwire (other sites too I am sure) they only ask name and email and phone. All of which are Ok.
But when you checkin the hotel clerk ask for ID and start keying in your address! Fuck no I don't want that in there. Like they might send a survey or something. I've asked them to not put it in but that's a bit awkward and they usually insist.
Instead what I do now is when they start to key in my DL address I say "oh I don't live there anymore" and they ask my current address. Which of course you can just make up. This seems an easy way to get around this. Hope this tip helps.
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06-18-21 12:28 #1868
Posts: 360She doesn't know my real name and she doesn't know my real phone number.
It's a long story. I sent her cv to a friend of mine and he sent it to the HR dept. So during the interview she was never asked if she knew me, because the HR guy doesn't know me.
Yes, I should have wined and dines, but with the pics, videos and texts she was exchanging, it looks like it was all set for the return favor.
Anyway. We learn.
G.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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06-18-21 11:00 #1867
Posts: 2698Awesome Don't Blow It.
This is awesome! I know it's confusing in these situations and you always want to protect urself. But she is not playing the long game as In trying to fleece you. She may be playing the long game that she hopes to marry you. At least thats what I think. Course I was fleeced once. LOL.
A few reasons I don't think she's trying to scam you in some long con. Three hours of fucking is excessive especially when she could actually lose her job over it. The lipstick thing. Look pros are really sensitive to "blowing it" because they've dealt with this situation a lot and she is not. Of course she doesn't think you are married either. Surely the desk guys saw the lipstick tho and didn't care. LOL. Watch for makeup and perfume too. You know this but sometimes we get so good at the game we get sloppy.
Most importantly don't overdo the cash. Paying her apt is plenty. Don't make her feel like a ho. Because that could kill the whole thing.
Congrats dude. You pushed the boundaries and they gave way. Enjoy it.
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06-18-21 10:27 #1866
Posts: 1202I am just plain dumbfounded by my situation
I saw her again today. At the MP. We just started barebacking almost immediately. And we went at it for 3 hours! Multiple positions, several times each. She shags superbly, especially when she is on top. She just did not want to stop. Kept begging me to keep going. She kept saying that she loved me, that she wants to be my girlfriend, that she wants to be my wife, etc. Passionate GFE and DFK.
Guys, this simply does not happen. And so, I am just dumbfounded.
Anyway, eventually, I had to go. I again offered a tip, but she just looked at it with disdain and did not want to take it. This time, I insisted. I said that as her boyfriend, I should take care of her.
I also ended up paying for three one-hour massages. The two guys at the front desk were also dumbfounded when I paid. After all, who the hell goes into a happy ending MP before 1 pm and comes out after 4 pm?
Anyway, she started looking around for apartments. I will pay her rent. That's the plan for now. Not sure if she expects a monthly allowance. Maybe she is eyeing the long game. But I cannot even speak Chinese, so not sure why she thinks the long game is doable.
Before I left, she asked if we could go bar hopping sometime. Maybe she is really into me. She also asked about my sleeping situation, to confirm that I sleep alone.
I asked her if she has kids and I asked her age. She just kept changing the topic or made jokes. She could have easily lied about both, but decided to just dodge the questions. Maybe this is a good sign.
By the way, an hour later, I looked at myself in the bathroom and to my shock and horror, my mouth was covered in lipstick!! OMG, I wonder how many people saw that? Man, I need to be more careful (says the guy who barebacks women that work in HJ MPs).
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]