Seeking Arrangements

[NeilGeorge]

I've been doing 500 in major CA cities. A decent number of girls ask for 6-800 and some 12-1500. To be fair the 1500 was a blonde 20 yo college student but a woman closer to 40 told me she gets more than double when I said I did 500 for ppm.

Asian massage parlors, with top notch girls are 200. Not sure why anyone would overpay for full service? And you really only are having sex with a latex condom. I had one who wanted 350 each time plus I had to take her out to a nice restaurant for dinner, which was another 75-100 including drinks, then she had a hard time getting a baby sitter, and I just got tired of her.

I enjoy more my rotating male vibrator, that cost me only $50 and it does not talk back, does not make excuses other than "recharge me", and is much easier to schedule; less aggravation than a woman!

[DramaFree11]

Sounds like your game is pretty good to keep them hooked for a couple of weeks. My text game sucks but I've done better in person so usually I want to meet ASAP.

I've been doing 500 in major CA cities. A decent number of girls ask for 6-800 and some 12-1500. To be fair the 1500 was a blonde 20 yo college student but a woman closer to 40 told me she gets more than double when I said I did 500 for ppm. Said her last sd told her not to accept anything less.

Interesting that you don't call it ppm. When I started the direct girls would say they did ppm or ask what mine was so I figured it was ok to use / ask. Either that or they ask me what mutually beneficial means to me. In my experience when I dropped hints about what gifts were expected they asked about gift cards. After seeing the wide spread of ppms my strategy has been to switch to text and see what ppm they're ok with so I don't waste my time on a girl who expects a lot. Maybe that's been my problem though and why I've found the girls I have.

You hear about all these girls getting these crazy prices. There, might be a few, but it is not the normal. I just do not see a lot of guys shelling out $1500 for a date. They can say what they want, but it is definitely not the norm. Especially now, with the economy in decline, prices might even go down. During Covid everyone had time and money, this will be different.

[GoingDumb]

I don't know that it's for everyone but yes I like to chat a couple weeks before meetup. We usually first talk if they prefer red or white Italian or Asian. A real vibey chatty girl we'll chat about what we are binging on Netflix. I swear to god I never would have landed Leya if we hadn't clicked on the reality shows we both like. Another girl and I got hooked up about books because she said she like to read and I recommended something and she bought it on Amazon next day. I love this kinda "friends" before meetup thing (and often continue after). Alexa and I chatted about her small business or her new apt for like a year after meeting and really established the trust for her to fly 3000 miles to see me).

A couple weeks is about right but I've done as much as 8 weeks of chat with some of my best girls (and one memorable sex fail! I think it also helps screen. Because they are only going to chat deep if they like you and are not a pro. So that ends up being good.

I always try to establish the PPM before meetup but that is usually several days or a week into chat. And don't call it PPM! Unless she does first. I have a new patter that is working well because it sort of makes them self qualify and also makes clear I am not a local and sex is on the table. It Goes something like this:

I'm coming to town in a few weeks and looking for an amazing girl for awesome nights out (and in! Bubbly chatty affectionate. Any of that sound like you?

Notice the "and in" puts sex immediately on the table without being rude. You can sub your own attributes but I thought about girls I like best and other than "loves to kiss" those are the keys. And the "any of that sound like you" is both an open question that tends to get a response and they are qualifying for ur offer by saying "yes I am your type of girl". So win win there.

Hope this helps. What PPM are you offering in what geography roughly?
Ps. I know several only fans girls and would not really even call them half pros. Only fans is pretty chaste since its not real life.

Sounds like your game is pretty good to keep them hooked for a couple of weeks. My text game sucks but I've done better in person so usually I want to meet ASAP.

I've been doing 500 in major CA cities. A decent number of girls ask for 6-800 and some 12-1500. To be fair the 1500 was a blonde 20 yo college student but a woman closer to 40 told me she gets more than double when I said I did 500 for ppm. Said her last sd told her not to accept anything less.

Interesting that you don't call it ppm. When I started the direct girls would say they did ppm or ask what mine was so I figured it was ok to use / ask. Either that or they ask me what mutually beneficial means to me. In my experience when I dropped hints about what gifts were expected they asked about gift cards. After seeing the wide spread of ppms my strategy has been to switch to text and see what ppm they're ok with so I don't waste my time on a girl who expects a lot. Maybe that's been my problem though and why I've found the girls I have.

[GoingDumb]

I dislike dinner as a first date or as a meet-and-greet. If there is no chemistry, then you are stuck at a restaurant with her for an hour. If it is a fancy restaurant, then it can last even longer. Plus, sometimes I am not horny after I eat.

I like meeting for a drink. Try that. Sometimes alcohol creates chemistry, hahaha.

Drinks would be preferred but I find a good amount of girls that don't drink. Or claim to at least. That is my fear about restaurants too but it went ok the one time I did it.

[DramaFree11]

The model is back. We met last weekend and again last night. She was all dressed up last night, and wow, just stunning. The issue is her crazy ass mom, when she is in town she will not let her leave the house. Mexican mom's are the worst controlling, sabotaging and jealous behavior.

Bad news is her mom is back in town, but I have been hooking up with the be team. As usual crazy sex in the MTY. Monday has been a wild day, and one more meeting to go.

Update on the Doctor, I dumped her she was texting my 15-25 times a day, just not what I am looking for, all the text messages we're driving me crazy.

[DramaFree11]

I dislike dinner as a first date or as a meet-and-greet. If there is no chemistry, then you are stuck at a restaurant with her for an hour. If it is a fancy restaurant, then it can last even longer. Plus, sometimes I am not horny after I eat.

I like meeting for a drink. Try that. Sometimes alcohol creates chemistry, hahaha.

I always meet them in the bar at a restaurant. This way if things are going great, you can keep the evening going. If there is no chemistry or fake pictures, one drink and bail.

[Midwestern]

That makes sense. Have you run into any girls that are just there for the expensive meal though? I was talking to one girl that expected fancy meals every date and I felt like she'd order the most expensive thing probably.

Do you avoid girls that want to meet at a hotel?

I dislike dinner as a first date or as a meet-and-greet. If there is no chemistry, then you are stuck at a restaurant with her for an hour. If it is a fancy restaurant, then it can last even longer. Plus, sometimes I am not horny after I eat.

I like meeting for a drink. Try that. Sometimes alcohol creates chemistry, hahaha.

[Steve 9696]

You chat with them for a couple of weeks before a date? Maybe I'm doing it wrong then. I started out trying to follow your guide but would get asked what I was looking for and what my ppm was so I started asking earlier to screen out the ones that wanted a lot. I also noticed when I ask them about gifts they don't seem to get the hint and I've been asked for gift cards before on top of ppm.

I hit her up saying I was in town for the weekend and she was ok with ppm. She did ask for pics though. I met up with other girls when I was traveling before but met in public first. I also met a girl at a hotel close to home for the first meet and she looked like her photos. She was on onlyfans though so kind of half a sex worker.

I don't know that it's for everyone but yes I like to chat a couple weeks before meetup. We usually first talk if they prefer red or white Italian or Asian. A real vibey chatty girl we'll chat about what we are binging on Netflix. I swear to god I never would have landed Leya if we hadn't clicked on the reality shows we both like. Another girl and I got hooked up about books because she said she like to read and I recommended something and she bought it on Amazon next day. I love this kinda "friends" before meetup thing (and often continue after). Alexa and I chatted about her small business or her new apt for like a year after meeting and really established the trust for her to fly 3000 miles to see me).

A couple weeks is about right but I've done as much as 8 weeks of chat with some of my best girls (and one memorable sex fail! I think it also helps screen. Because they are only going to chat deep if they like you and are not a pro. So that ends up being good.

I always try to establish the PPM before meetup but that is usually several days or a week into chat. And don't call it PPM! Unless she does first. I have a new patter that is working well because it sort of makes them self qualify and also makes clear I am not a local and sex is on the table. It Goes something like this:

I'm coming to town in a few weeks and looking for an amazing girl for awesome nights out (and in! Bubbly chatty affectionate. Any of that sound like you?

Notice the "and in" puts sex immediately on the table without being rude. You can sub your own attributes but I thought about girls I like best and other than "loves to kiss" those are the keys. And the "any of that sound like you" is both an open question that tends to get a response and they are qualifying for ur offer by saying "yes I am your type of girl". So win win there.

Hope this helps. What PPM are you offering in what geography roughly?
Ps. I know several only fans girls and would not really even call them half pros. Only fans is pretty chaste since it’s not real life.

[GoingDumb]

But I bet you felt it in the text interaction and just hoped for the best. You can def feel the hooker vibe. Quick to PPM chat, not willing to chat deeply for a couple weeks, doesn't ask for pics.

Not that this is common but two of my best dates ever were "straight to room" but def not a hooker vibe at all. They were both relatively known in their town. Sorta party girl socialites. Both wanted to chat EXTENSIVELY before gettting down to business. (2 hrs of a 5 HR visit). And before someone says they were hookers. Puleez. No hooker with 9 looks is spending 5 hours with you for $400-500 all in.

You chat with them for a couple of weeks before a date? Maybe I'm doing it wrong then. I started out trying to follow your guide but would get asked what I was looking for and what my ppm was so I started asking earlier to screen out the ones that wanted a lot. I also noticed when I ask them about gifts they don't seem to get the hint and I've been asked for gift cards before on top of ppm.

I hit her up saying I was in town for the weekend and she was ok with ppm. She did ask for pics though. I met up with other girls when I was traveling before but met in public first. I also met a girl at a hotel close to home for the first meet and she looked like her photos. She was on onlyfans though so kind of half a sex worker.

[Steve 9696]

The last girl I met at a hotel for the first time was basically a catfish. Looked nothing like her pics and was straight up p4 p. Got dressed as soon as I was done. I'm not meeting at a hotel first anymore.

But I bet you felt it in the text interaction and just hoped for the best. You can def feel the hooker vibe. Quick to PPM chat, not willing to chat deeply for a couple weeks, doesn't ask for pics.

Not that this is common but two of my best dates ever were "straight to room" but def not a hooker vibe at all. They were both relatively known in their town. Sorta party girl socialites. Both wanted to chat EXTENSIVELY before gettting down to business. (2 hrs of a 5 HR visit). And before someone says they were hookers. Puleez. No hooker with 9 looks is spending 5 hours with you for $400-500 all in.

[GoingDumb]

I've only had a couple experiences in the US, many more in Colombia and Panama. For Colombia and Panama I would say 4/5's are straight up P4 P and it's not worth dinner unless you speak fluent Spanish or want practice. In lieu of dinner, I usually try to do at least a drink to loosen them up and start some chemistry as the sex tends to be better that way. Many girls will be open to coming straight to your hotel and in that case I usually have some drinks available and something for music (I. E. Bluetooth speaker, some reggaeton). Offer room service if she wants it. If I'm unsure of the girls looks I always try to do a video call before. I had this happen recently with a girl in Colombia where she had put on a legitimate 30 lbs since her photos were taken and the photos were heavily photo-shopped as well. The hilarious thing is that she kept asking me for real photos, and I was like, look at my profile (there are 8-9 real photos). And then of course her photos are the fake ones LOL.

The last girl I met at a hotel for the first time was basically a catfish. Looked nothing like her pics and was straight up p4 p. Got dressed as soon as I was done. I'm not meeting at a hotel first anymore.

[AmericanPi]

There's a girl I'm going to see tomorrow that said she can't do dinner because she has an event but is happy to just come.

Over to my Airbnb instead. Honestly kind of turned me off. Made me see her as an escort.

That makes sense. Have you run into any girls that are just there for the expensive meal though? I was talking to one girl that expected fancy meals every date and I felt like she'd order the most expensive thing probably.

Do you avoid girls that want to meet at a hotel?

[DramaFree11]

For me I found that always going to dinner is the ticket. I only tried a coffee date once and it was a fail. I tried several lunch dates that didn't work out early on. Other than one ice cream date that scored a regular (fairly pro girl) it's only dinner dates that work for me. You get a chance to become comfortable which is truly important for the non pros. I had two straight to room semi pros but even they wanted to chat my ear off for two hours before getting down. Recently Leya even called me out for a quick watch check (1:30 AM!) saying too many guys just want to jump in the sack and she needs to be comfortable first.

So I think dinner definitely works to my advantage and always take dinner momentum to the bedroom.

As usual you are correct. Avoid day dates, big waste of time and resources. Maybe on the weekends.

[Chicago85]

Yeah, it is funny. I told other guys that SB sex was better than ho sex, and the ones who have not gotten a SB all are like, "How do you know that? You are not in the room when I have sex. You are weird" but every guy who has done the SB thing knows good SB sex is way way better than good ho sex. If you find a loyal horny one who falls for you, it is even better still, but those are hard to come by.

But JJ, why not try using seeking in the Philippines? I see a lot of hotties on there, and the Asian girls with their long term focus seems to be what we are looking for.

Agree with this. The SB sex has always been much more GFE and vast majority want to do BBFS, multiple pops, CIM, etc. The girls also seem much more turned on, or better at faking it. I guess it's the money they know we have? (LOL the best aphrodisiac for women! I usually do covered the first time with a girl and then decide from there.

[Chicago85]

That makes sense. Have you run into any girls that are just there for the expensive meal though? I was talking to one girl that expected fancy meals every date and I felt like she'd order the most expensive thing probably.

Do you avoid girls that want to meet at a hotel?

I've only had a couple experiences in the US, many more in Colombia and Panama. For Colombia and Panama I would say 4/5's are straight up P4 P and it's not worth dinner unless you speak fluent Spanish or want practice. In lieu of dinner, I usually try to do at least a drink to loosen them up and start some chemistry as the sex tends to be better that way. Many girls will be open to coming straight to your hotel and in that case I usually have some drinks available and something for music (I. E. Bluetooth speaker, some reggaeton). Offer room service if she wants it. If I'm unsure of the girls looks I always try to do a video call before. I had this happen recently with a girl in Colombia where she had put on a legitimate 30 lbs since her photos were taken and the photos were heavily photo-shopped as well. The hilarious thing is that she kept asking me for real photos, and I was like, look at my profile (there are 8-9 real photos). And then of course her photos are the fake ones LOL.