Seeking Arrangements

[Akibono]

BTW, is anyone else annoyed with this "gift wishlist" in SA. "Have you seen my wishlist? View Here" link is attached to every girl's profile below About Me section. WTF! Does SA count this as an innovation? Like a feature Facebook or Twitter adding new features, such as Stories or Marketplace or Memories?

Seriously, as if some of these sugarbabes / gold-diggers were not pestering the men enough to send gifts before ever meeting or saying Hello, in person, now SA itself sprinkled holy water on this abominable practice and made it official.

If I want to give a gift to a girl after I met her, I would do so in person. Only the stupidest person would ever gift some unknown person w / o sight seen.

Obviously, SA has become super greedy and wants to make money from this absurd thing. I guess they would take their haircut from every gift sent. I have never used the Chinese sites (MW knows, I am sure) but the likes of Momo / Tantan facilitate gift giving between the male patron to the female talent, from my understanding and the platform / site takes a hefty cut. As if SA's $90 to $100 a month was not enough, they launched this "feature". A total disgrace in my view. Now every girl is thinking she should be showered with expensive gifts delivered home daily from a bunch of guys just because she put up some stolen, fake photos on SA..

It is definitely a profit center for SA. I ignore it. Most of the gifts are overpriced trashy stuff. If I wanted to give a girl a gift it would be in person and not overpriced junk. There are always a few guys with more money than sense.

[Steve 9696]

Steve. Steve,

What happened to your age range? Aren't Andrea and Monic at an age where you feel they are too interested in getting married?

I feel this is like Guide for the married man where Robert Morse the prolific cheater trains Walter Matthau on the ins and outs. In the end, Morse gets caught cheating when he doesn't follow his own rules. LOL.

You are so right. I was letting my dick wander in the wilderness. Shame on me! I had in fact come to my senses and was down to only Cat 21 and Michelle 25 with Monica 22 as backup. Cat couldn't meet up and didn't keep my attention in the end so Michelle it is. She's just so amazingly girlfriendy — we chat nightly — and she's still in school (graduate school) so that's a plus. Feel pretty good about her. Fingers crossed.

Meanwhilst I'the like to reiterate how keeping in touch with girls long term can work if you have a connection. Alexa awesome weekend date was a full 10 months after we hooked up. And just yesterday I pinged a girl in London who I fucked last February 2020 and she engaged in convo. No way you bother with that when you look like her unless there's a future hookup on both our minds. Fingers crossed for a few months hence.

[WyattEarp]

For Thailand and Vietnam you don't need SA. There are several choices for you. Use your charm at the malls, coffee shops, use as that have search nearby features like We. Or use Thai cupid or Vietnam cupid. All those apps are direct short time GFE.

Very good advice for Solstrum. Things just kind of happen in Thailand and Vietnam. Thai and Vietnamese "civilian" girls are very friendly towards foreigners particularly Western men. As a general rule, I try to be charming, but discreet. Discreet as in I don't make my interest to obvious in front of friends or coworkers. Some SEA girls won't engage as much in front of their peers.

If something doesn't pan out quickly with a civilian in Thailand, many of the young go-go girls are very sweet. Some who speak some English are very good at being tour guides during the day and sexual partners at night. They are usually not very expensive if they know you will take them out and about and they have a sure thing for the night. They might have to pay the bar a small fee for their absence.

I met a hardcore freelancer in a Bangkok bar who was a 9 in any world. She seriously looked like Tia Carrere and fucked like a pornstar. When we first hooked up, I thought she was going to want to run out the hotel when we were done. She slept over and was very eager to show me around. We worked out an arrangement where for her typical nightly fee we would hang out, tour the Bangkok environs, fuck once during the day and again at night.

I haven't been to Vietnam in awhile. I don't know if they still have the barbershop hand job girls. They were very sweet and pretty girls as well. Language was more of an issue in Vietnam though. I did spend time with a very sexy and horny girl who worked at the tourist market. Clearly, her English was better if not perfect.

[WyattEarp]

Traveling again soon and chatting up the hotties in a major American city. Honestly for so many girls it's hard to find any good ones. They are look so plastic and experienced. Narrowed it down to a few who are all down to meet:

Andrea. Columbiana. 29. Really beautiful. Nice but not very chatty. A bit worried she's too pro. Didn't want to discuss money till the date. See how we vibe. Interesting.

Monica. Mexicana. 22. Really pretty. Pretty engaging. Def on the shortlist.

Monic. Latina. Vene? 32. Pretty enough. Nice bod. Quick to meetup.......

Steve. Steve,

What happened to your age range? Aren't Andrea and Monic at an age where you feel they are too interested in getting married?

I feel this is like Guide for the married man where Robert Morse the prolific cheater trains Walter Matthau on the ins and outs. In the end, Morse gets caught cheating when he doesn't follow his own rules. LOL.

[Pessimist]

BTW, is anyone else annoyed with this "gift wishlist" in SA. "Have you seen my wishlist? View Here" link is attached to every girl's profile below About Me section. WTF! Does SA count this as an innovation? Like a feature Facebook or Twitter adding new features, such as Stories or Marketplace or Memories?

Seriously, as if some of these sugarbabes / gold-diggers were not pestering the men enough to send gifts before ever meeting or saying Hello, in person, now SA itself sprinkled holy water on this abominable practice and made it official.

If I want to give a gift to a girl after I met her, I would do so in person. Only the stupidest person would ever gift some unknown person w / o sight seen.

Obviously, SA has become super greedy and wants to make money from this absurd thing. I guess they would take their haircut from every gift sent. I have never used the Chinese sites (MW knows, I am sure) but the likes of Momo / Tantan facilitate gift giving between the male patron to the female talent, from my understanding and the platform / site takes a hefty cut. As if SA's $90 to $100 a month was not enough, they launched this "feature". A total disgrace in my view. Now every girl is thinking she should be showered with expensive gifts delivered home daily from a bunch of guys just because she put up some stolen, fake photos on SA.

Guys are the ones paying subscription money to SA; girls are there for free. It is strange that SA would add this annoying little button that would piss off the paying men to make the freeloading women happier. Yes, I can easily ignore it but it makes the experience and the hassle that much worse.

[NeilGeorge]

Does anyone have any experience with girls that present themselves as a two girl package?

Beware. One will try to grab your attention while the other is going thru your wallet and taking your money. Or going thru your kitchen cabinet drawers or looking for something to steal. Also, you will most certainly be more attracted to one than the other, any 3 some turns into a 2 some sooner or later and the 3 d wheel gets angry. You do not know these girls and they are working as a team for a reason, and its not your pleasure!

[Steve 9696]

This girl is truly dedicated! Love it!

[Midwestern]

Does anyone have any experience with girls that present themselves as a two girl package? They usually want to travel. Are these real or a scam?

I totally agree with Pessimist. I would take a pass on it.

[Pessimist]

Greetings Fellow Mongers.

I'm about to head to Madrid and I started to look at the profiles in Seeking. Most are written in Spanish (my spanish is horrible).

You guys that have had SBs in Spain, did you find that language was an issue?

Have any of you been there since it opened back up?

If I remember correctly from a previous post, 200 - 300 seems to be the going rate. Has this changed post COVID (2021)?

Thanks.

Spain is awesome for sugarbabes, language has not been an issue for me either in Madrid or Barcelona, and yes that amount is more than sufficient; even for 200 Euro, I spent multiple hours with girls and nothing off the menu (one offered BBFS).

Good luck.

[Pessimist]

Does anyone have any experience with girls that present themselves as a two girl package? They usually want to travel. Are these real or a scam?

As a rule, I am against 2 for 1 deals. If something goes wrong, it is 2 girls against one; in any normal situation it is your word against hers. I don't have any particular fetish for doing 2 girls at once; in any case, I have done a few of those in FKKs, so that has been scratched. Even in FKKs where the extra cost is just 50 or 100 if you take for 30 min or an hour, I found it difficult to focus on 2 girls and typically one of them is wasting time and I am paying them. I wonder why. With American sugarbabes seeking 2 for 1 deals, you have to wonder what their motivation is. DO they not feel secure, do they have some ulterior motive or do they want to waste time? Whatever their motivation, it is not appealing to me. When I see 2 for 1, I typically gloss over their profiles.

[SfoCowboy]

Most of them use translate app to chat. Also, filter your options using the language filter. I didn't have any issue in finding English speaking chicks in Spain. You'the get very good girls in the price range you quoted. Have a great time, Spain is amazing for SA.

Cheers!

Greetings Fellow Mongers.

I'm about to head to Madrid and I started to look at the profiles in Seeking. Most are written in Spanish (my spanish is horrible).

You guys that have had SBs in Spain, did you find that language was an issue?

Have any of you been there since it opened back up?

If I remember correctly from a previous post, 200 - 300 seems to be the going rate. Has this changed post COVID (2021)?

Thanks.

[Akibono]

Does anyone have any experience with girls that present themselves as a two girl package? They usually want to travel. Are these real or a scam?

[LshRoomer]

Greetings Fellow Mongers.

I'm about to head to Madrid and I started to look at the profiles in Seeking. Most are written in Spanish (my spanish is horrible).

You guys that have had SBs in Spain, did you find that language was an issue?

Have any of you been there since it opened back up?

If I remember correctly from a previous post, 200 - 300 seems to be the going rate. Has this changed post COVID (2021)?

Thanks.

[Gunners1]

For Thailand and Vietnam you don't need SA. There are several choices for you. Use your charm at the malls, coffee shops, use as that have search nearby features like We. Or use Thai cupid or Vietnam cupid. All those apps are direct short time GFE.

Enjoyg.

I have never used SA and I am planning to go to Thailand (Bangkok) or Vietnam (Hanoi) as soon as possible, how much is normal in those places as a monthly allowance or as ppm?

[Steve 9696]

Traveling again soon and chatting up the hotties in a major American city. Honestly for so many girls it's hard to find any good ones. They are look so plastic and experienced. Narrowed it down to a few who are all down to meet:

Andrea. Columbiana. 29. Really beautiful. Nice but not very chatty. A bit worried she's too pro. Didn't want to discuss money till the date. See how we vibe. Interesting.

Monica. Mexicana. 22. Really pretty. Pretty engaging. Def on the shortlist.

Monic. Latina. Vene? 32. Pretty enough. Nice bod. Quick to meetup.

Michelle. White girl w green eyes. Wtf? 25. Super pretty tho. More girl next door. Def not a pro. Like her sweet vibe but she's been a bit quiet last couple days.

And then there is Cat. Chilean. 21. Just that bubbly cute pixie Latina. Not all fake like some of the others and just has a great profile and chat. Thought she was a long shot but I am really into her. So I just vomited out my heart about how I am choosing a girl and I really just want her and why. Long silence all day. But then YES let's meetup. We are working the details tonight so it could crash and burn but damn she slays me. Crossing fingers and more. Wish me luck!

Hahaha just when I think Cat is a shoe in she goes quiet all night. And then Michelle who's been quiet hits me on WhatsApp and we have the very best conversation and great vibe. I splain how I see the date going (implying but not saying sex) and she's down. I broach allowance and long silence then "Maybe 300?" Fuck this girl is a real girl not a pro. I've struggled to get under $500 of late and here she is at "trying for" 300. So sweet.

So now if Cat comes back I am in a real quandary. Michelle is so sweet and relatable but Cat sparks my desire in some unfathomable way. First world problems men! I'll keep you posted.