Seeking Arrangements

[Nounce]

...Like 10 or 20 years from now. ....

Something to think about, why wait?

[Mush Elvii]

Funny you should mention that. If I can find a way to do it there are at least two girls I've been very close with on Seeking and would easily give them $10,000 upon my demise. They are just quality humans and I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with them, let alone in such an intimate way! Sorta independent of when even. Like 10 or 20 years from now. But prob tough to execute both in terms of will and staying in touch. But it says something about the quality of the girls you can find. Yes I am talking about only 4% of the girls I've dated. But still it says something I think. I'm not leaving a dime to any pro girl nor the other 96% (well another borderline one).

Just make sure you don't tell those quality individuals who you think should get 10 K upon your demise or they might develop some 'crazy' idea to earn it before it's due time. JK.

[Elvis 2008]

Funny you should mention that. If I can find a way to do it there are at least two girls I've been very close with on Seeking and would easily give them $10,000 upon my demise. They are just quality humans and I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with them, let alone in such an intimate way! Sorta independent of when even. Like 10 or 20 years from now. But prob tough to execute both in terms of will and staying in touch. But it says something about the quality of the girls you can find. Yes I am talking about only 4% of the girls I've dated. But still it says something I think. I'm not leaving a dime to any pro girl nor the other 96% (well another borderline one).

Yeah, I am tired of this. There have been a few women I saw too that were totally trustworthy. 96% is not the same as 100%.

On the borderline part, I got fooled a lot in the past. The main thing guys need to know is when they argue about something completely absurd. One borderline was convinced that her baby's autism was due to the father. When I said the cause of autism is unknown, she got mad and crazy. She screamed, "It is his fault he is autistic. What is wrong with you?" The instinct is to run from crazy which means the borderline feels even worse as you are abandoning them. What I know now is challenging borderlines on facts like what causes autism is totally wrong. When you have a woman like this, you say nothing and leave. Arguing with them works to their advantage. Their goal is to show the world they are not crazy, and you are.

And leaving is what most often makes them crazy. I had one woman, a super hot Mexican lawyer, go down to a bar late at night alone. I said I did not feel like going but she was free to go on her own. An hour later, she returns and says frantically, "You left me at the bar!" Borderlines are freaked out about abandonment. If you have a woman freak out about that, then just leave. A friend of mine said she thought the Mexican lawyer was borderline, and I realized she was right. As soon as I realized that, I axed that women from my life and never saw her again.

FWIW, I think borderlines are above average attractive and above average in bed. They also can swoon over your words and put you on a pedestal and because of all this, they can be very attractive to us men and suck us into their crazy.

[Steve 9696]

I hope it's all good while it all lasts bro. You sound like a buddy of mine. I Ted Ferguson, being of sound mind and body, spent every last penny I had! LOL!

Funny you should mention that. If I can find a way to do it there are at least two girls I've been very close with on Seeking and would easily give them $10,000 upon my demise. They are just quality humans and I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with them, let alone in such an intimate way! Sorta independent of when even. Like 10 or 20 years from now. But prob tough to execute both in terms of will and staying in touch. But it says something about the quality of the girls you can find. Yes I am talking about only 4% of the girls I've dated. But still it says something I think. I'm not leaving a dime to any pro girl nor the other 96% (well another borderline one).

[Vendelo]

I left Medellin about 3 weeks ago, with two sugar babies with allowances, one for her entire expenses and another just for her rent. This allowance model seems to be what the girls here want, namely stability and the opportunity for a better life. The girl I give a full allowance to used it to move to a new apartment, closer to her university and out of her grandparents' house. I love it because she responds to my messages immediately and is available to talk whenever, and similarly available to travel. The monthly cost for a 23 year old former beauty pageant contestant? About $1400.

I've been in So Paulo for about 3 weeks, and have found a super fit 25 year old who just moved to the city from the Northeast of Brazil 2 weeks ago. As much as I enjoy my Colombianas, the optics on the Brazilians are incredible and girls from the north of the country are very affectionate. (The southerners seem to be more into rougher sex, which is not my thing, almost like a continuum with Buenos Aires being the roughest end of that spectrum.) Great optics and high affection is a deadly combo for me, so I'll likely provide her either with rent or a full allowance to keep her locked down for when I'm back to Brazil from Medellin in 4 weeks.

Regarding the earlier sugar daddy vs sugar bro discussion, I'm in my mid 30's, and I know I'll have too much money to spend before I die if I keep working so I'd rather start spending it now on girls who know how to return the affection back. I'm not into fancy apartments, clothes, cars or other luxury goods. When I die, I genuinely think I'll be happy I spent my money helping others I care about live better lives.

One nagging thought is whether I'd like Rio more than So Paulo, because it should be more relaxed. Found some girls with decent optics there so I think I'll have to confirm my theory that they will be on the more affectionate end of the spectrum. I think I'll have to at least spend 1 long weekend there on my trip back to Brazil.

I provide a similar allowance to a Thai girl. I'm going on month no. 6 now. A couple of questions:

1) Did you and the girls agree to a term, I. E. , allowance will be provided for 1 year?

2) Since endung the allowance would be a significant impact to their personal lives, how would you end their allowance?

[The Cane]

Regarding the earlier sugar daddy vs sugar bro discussion, I'm in my mid 30's, and I know I'll have too much money to spend before I die if I keep working so I'd rather start spending it now on girls who know how to return the affection back. I'm not into fancy apartments, clothes, cars or other luxury goods. When I die, I genuinely think I'll be happy I spent my money helping others I care about live better lives.

I hope it's all good while it all lasts bro. You sound like a buddy of mine. I Ted Ferguson, being of sound mind and body, spent every last penny I had! LOL!

[TedFerguson]

I left Medellin about 3 weeks ago, with two sugar babies with allowances, one for her entire expenses and another just for her rent. This allowance model seems to be what the girls here want, namely stability and the opportunity for a better life. The girl I give a full allowance to used it to move to a new apartment, closer to her university and out of her grandparents' house. I love it because she responds to my messages immediately and is available to talk whenever, and similarly available to travel. The monthly cost for a 23 year old former beauty pageant contestant? About $1400.

I've been in São Paulo for about 3 weeks, and have found a super fit 25 year old who just moved to the city from the Northeast of Brazil 2 weeks ago. As much as I enjoy my Colombianas, the optics on the Brazilians are incredible and girls from the north of the country are very affectionate. (The southerners seem to be more into rougher sex, which is not my thing, almost like a continuum with Buenos Aires being the roughest end of that spectrum.) Great optics and high affection is a deadly combo for me, so I'll likely provide her either with rent or a full allowance to keep her locked down for when I'm back to Brazil from Medellin in 4 weeks.

Regarding the earlier sugar daddy vs sugar bro discussion, I'm in my mid 30's, and I know I'll have too much money to spend before I die if I keep working so I'd rather start spending it now on girls who know how to return the affection back. I'm not into fancy apartments, clothes, cars or other luxury goods. When I die, I genuinely think I'll be happy I spent my money helping others I care about live better lives.

One nagging thought is whether I'd like Rio more than São Paulo, because it should be more relaxed. Found some girls with decent optics there so I think I'll have to confirm my theory that they will be on the more affectionate end of the spectrum. I think I'll have to at least spend 1 long weekend there on my trip back to Brazil.

[DramaFree11]

I'll never give one of those "soft-core" SA tutes (or any kind of tute) a monthly "allowance". It's either pay-per-meet or gets to steppin'! LOL! Pay an allowance upfront and get dissed and dumped afterwards? I don't think so! I'm not desperate. No, it's more like to my favor. That would be "pump and dump" (mutual is fine) on a PPM basis exclusively. That way, we both have a shot at benefiting from the bargain. And if we both want to strike up a subsequent one fine. And if not, then that's fine too. But I'm not about to "keep" one of these unfaithful, money grubbing hoors. And in my opinion that's exactly what the overwhelming majority of them are too. P4 P (essentially what PPM is) rules!

Yep, stick with the PPM in the states. Maybe, after several months and no there is no drama or substance abuse.

[AmericanPi]

Perhaps biased view here.

US SA is not great. Too many too weed out. More money-money-money minded, transactional, sense of entitled women here than in Europe. Not saying all those girls are that way but just the frequency of those entitled sluts in US is annoying.

I had much much better life in EU. Why the F did I move!

Totally. I game hard in Europe. Every day stacked with a new girl. In LA, nada. It's hard to close deals.

[Gfefan]

Perhaps biased view here.

US SA is not great. Too many too weed out. More money-money-money minded, transactional, sense of entitled women here than in Europe. Not saying all those girls are that way but just the frequency of those entitled sluts in US is annoying.

I had much much better life in EU. Why the F did I move!

[Indraje]

Stay away from EnchantingGurl.

Unable to share the profile link as she blocked me.

Asking for 5 k advance for shopping before meet.

Tg user: at lmaodivya.

[Ggekko2009]

Yo!

Haven't been here in forever.

I've had lots of positive experiences on SA.

I was considering buying a small vibrator and butt plug to see if girls wanted to mess with it.

Has anyone ever brought toys out and had the girls successfully enjoy them?

Thought it could be fun in between rounds.

Yes, highly recommended. I have used a small vibrator on my girl as I pumped her and placed it on her clitoris where her g-spot happens to be, it drove her literally crazy. It brings our sexual experience to the next level. She will be down to any kind of fantasy that you desire at this point. I have never tried the butt plug though. But my girl is definitely into blindfold and (light) spanking on the butt. She never realized that she enjoyed them a lot until she tried. More like 50 shades of gray stuff. Go figure, LOL.

[AsianPursuits]

Can I ask how you reset your number so frequently in WhatsApp? For me to do that with WhatsApp business, which by the way is a great way to have a second number, I had to buy an actual literal second phone.

For me I have an unlocked phone. I buy a prepaid sim starter pack from my local supermarket in Australia. Cost $5. I register the sim.

For Whatsapp I delete the old account which allows the app to accept a new number.

If I want to keep the old whatsapp number, I delete the app without deleting the number. Reinstall the app and then register the app to the new number. Now I am using the new number.

The SIM I buy gives me $5 365 credit for using it. I will use that booking massages shop visits.

As a reminder for everyone, always use a burner number with SA.

[NeilGeorge]

One of the biggest mistakes that I made was rent an apartment for an SB. I know some guys that do this for their mistresses. But I now realize that it's too much of a committment for me. I was locked into a one-year lease. At first, I thought I got lucky with a great find. She was good looking and had a good body. She let me do whatever I wanted with her. She seemed to genuinely like me and liked doing the deed. It was great for about a month. But then, things soured. And getting out of that arrangement was a bit stressful. Never again.

I hope your name was not on the lease. Hope you had a key. Have heard of q woman calling the cops when the men try to have sex with her while they are living in his house, and the men go to jail!

(of course, that was her version.).

Only answer is to help a woman once a month with some of the rent, and make sure you are getting a mutually beneficial return out of it!

Women can be sneaky, conniving, little shits. And often the men are the ones who go to jail, never do the women! Most cops are women sensitive and believe their side of the facts, and do not like a man who pays for sex, the cops have envy, jealously, etc. Because cops get paid so little.

[LivingFossil]

Yo!

Haven't been here in forever.

I've had lots of positive experiences on SA.

I was considering buying a small vibrator and butt plug to see if girls wanted to mess with it.

Has anyone ever brought toys out and had the girls successfully enjoy them?

Thought it could be fun in between rounds.