Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

Instances like these firm up my belief that SA in USA is high probability of bust than a good nut.

I never hoooked up via SA in US of A and probably never will as the girls, their shenanigans, amount of time to spend as well as rate they ask for is just not worth the hassle.

Those who are working through this, ............more power to them! Nothin against anyone's game!!

Merry Christmas!

So, I also think SA is very tough in the states, but I have decided to give it another shot. I have accomplished some goals at work and moved downtown, so that makes dating a lot easier and also a little cheaper.

I have been so successful in Mexico, it is time to get back in the wagon in the states. I have had some good results over the years. I am very happy living in San Antonio and I am in Austin a couple of days a week for work, so I have the best of both worlds San Antonio / Austin, there are lots of single available women in both cities. Even if it does not work out and I meet some cool chicks I can still go to Mexico and fuck for a weekend. I will still stay on the every other weekend in Mexico.

I have learned from my mistakes ans I will now require Video Chats, no exceptions,(time is money), this will eliminate most of the scams, maybe not all them, but it will certainly help. Good luck and Happy Holiday's.

[HumbleHal]

I often have mediocre or bad experiences on SA. Comes with having high standards. These days I always do a video call before meeting. I've weeded out so many girls with doctored photos or gold digger attitudes. I don't feel inclined to roll the dice anymore, although I expect some of those who pass my screening will be weak in the bedroom.

If we exchange phone numbers then we exchange a few photos. Then complements. I tell them I will meet them for a meal, no promises. After we meet in person and feel interested I say we can talk about an arrangement. Most of the women then say they want some money up front or upon meeting. I say no. They ask what I am looking for, I say it depends on how we feel when we meet. They want to know what my range is, I say we have to meet first to see if we get that far. Its a game, back and forth. Then they say their time is valuable, I say my time is more valuable if they expect me to have more money to support them. Then one of us cancels. I have met 2 black women so far, first one had very large nose nostrils, second one looks like a street hooker. Neither one is what I am looking for. One White woman who met for a lobster dinner said she wanted $500 per meet, but that is above my limit when massage parlor girls are $200 a session.

So far nothing has landed in my fishing net that is worth keeping.

[Mush Elvii]

I rarely have bad experiences on SA but had one this week. Had to share.

Was in Houston for work. Connected with this Asian chick, 22 and thin and decently cute. It was hard to get one there so I was happy to have a date.

The girl who showed up was not the girl in the photos. I mean she was, but like 40 pounds ago.

I should've guessed when she said she wanted pizza or pasta for dinner.

Figured what the hell. I've got nothing else going on tonight. Had dinner. Tried to drink a lot. Back at the hotel she got undressed and I just was not attracted in any way.

I tend to view each encounter as a risk because there are risks. Risk of disease even though I use condoms. Risk of a crazy stalker. Risk of other stuff. This was just not with the nut.

I told her I realized I'm too old for her and can't do it. She said she has no problem but I took the fictional moral high ground. Gave her half the money we agreed, about 200 dollars, just to part on good terms and because one risk I try to manage is someone complaining to Seeking and I get banned. Walked her to her car, said some nice lies like I think she's a great girl with a great future. Total lies. And then went back and sulked at my bad fortune.

Sometimes you come up snake eyes. Part of the game.

Instances like these firm up my belief that SA in USA is high probability of bust than a good nut.

I never hoooked up via SA in US of A and probably never will as the girls, their shenanigans, amount of time to spend as well as rate they ask for is just not worth the hassle.

Those who are working through this, ............more power to them! Nothin against anyone's game!!

Merry Christmas!

[TedFerguson]

Sometimes you come up snake eyes. Part of the game.

I often have mediocre or bad experiences on SA. Comes with having high standards. These days I always do a video call before meeting. I've weeded out so many girls with doctored photos or gold digger attitudes. I don't feel inclined to roll the dice anymore, although I expect some of those who pass my screening will be weak in the bedroom.

[AmericanPi]

I rarely have bad experiences on SA but had one this week. Had to share.

Was in Houston for work. Connected with this Asian chick, 22 and thin and decently cute. It was hard to get one there so I was happy to have a date.

The girl who showed up was not the girl in the photos. I mean she was, but like 40 pounds ago.

I should've guessed when she said she wanted pizza or pasta for dinner.

Figured what the hell. I've got nothing else going on tonight. Had dinner. Tried to drink a lot. Back at the hotel she got undressed and I just was not attracted in any way.

I tend to view each encounter as a risk because there are risks. Risk of disease even though I use condoms. Risk of a crazy stalker. Risk of other stuff. This was just not with the nut.

I told her I realized I'm too old for her and can't do it. She said she has no problem but I took the fictional moral high ground. Gave her half the money we agreed, about 200 dollars, just to part on good terms and because one risk I try to manage is someone complaining to Seeking and I get banned. Walked her to her car, said some nice lies like I think she's a great girl with a great future. Total lies. And then went back and sulked at my bad fortune.

Sometimes you come up snake eyes. Part of the game.

[Steve 9696]

I've started a tradition the last few years that is a win win win. I ask my top five girls what charity they want me to donate to for them and then donate 50-100 each depending on how aligned we are. It's a real win all around. The girls love it. Makes me feel good. And the charity wins too. High recommend — even if you start small with one or two girls and lower amounts. Everyone wins.

[HumbleHal]

I would guess:

- phone number: most probable.

- credit card: not likely, as families can share credit cards (you and your brother for example). And you sign up for an account before you even add a credit card.

- address: not likely, for the same reason as above.

- name plus above: not likely that sophisticated.

- IP address: not likely because if you're using SA at work (a bad idea), your IP address would be the same as anyone else at work.

So get a free TextFree burner phone number and try making a new account with that and a new email address together.

Yes, I am bad. I even got banned from Match.com and they own alot of other dating websites, so I am banned from all of theirs.

[HumbleHal]

I would guess:

- phone number: most probable.

- credit card: not likely, as families can share credit cards (you and your brother for example). And you sign up for an account before you even add a credit card.

- address: not likely, for the same reason as above.

- name plus above: not likely that sophisticated.

- IP address: not likely because if you're using SA at work (a bad idea), your IP address would be the same as anyone else at work.

So get a free TextFree burner phone number and try making a new account with that and a new email address together.

Apparently IP address does not matter. I put a different address number but same street, city and zip code for the credit card info and the charge went thru. Used a credit card that was different and put in a different first name on their pay page. Set up a Google Voice with a new, different phone number. And set up a new Google Email address. Worked this time with these changes. Thank you gentlemen!

[Steve 9696]

Even tho I am pretty good at this game I am AMAZED at where Shayla and I have gotten to. Admittedly She's a horny beast more so than any girl I've ever met. But including our little Miami trip I saw her 6 out of 7 days. And we had mad sex 5 of those six. WTF? I'm getting fucking worn out! I feel like I've been lifting in the gym. My hips and shoulders are sore!

To be fair I've been really lighting her up. I get my one or two orgasms but she's doing 5 or 6. I Am absolutely rocking her world (advantage of being old!) and so I think she's up for it so much as a result. Last couple times have been massage / lotioning her back and legs and butt and that Butt. Oh my. It's something. So I start massaging and I'm getting horny and slip a cheeky finger under to her clit and do a few circles and it's on. Slide the panties to the left. Some intense gspot fingering. Leads to BJ. Leads to unreal sex.

Going to take a bit of a breather for a few days because we've been so full on. In related news, I Even let my Seeking membership lapse. Wtf? Coming up on our year anniversary and its still epic. Never had a gf like her.

[Elvis 2008]

While I was in Asuncin a long time ago, the few hot, single women seemed to be all be already paired up with the older, affluent men. It doesn't take much for a man to be affluent in Paraguay. Some of my Paraguayan business colleagues had hotties on the side. They really didn't make a huge amount of money.

Perhaps a visitor can crack the sugar baby market, but you're always at a disadvantage to the local men if you are just looking for a one or two night stand. I think it's better to go with the numbers of hotties in larger South American cities.

You are probably right, Wyatt. I just was not doing the SB thing when I was there and wished I had given it a go. FWIW, the best Paraguayans I had were not in Paraguay.

Note: I believe Brazil and Argentina together invaded Paraguay and occupied Asuncin in the mid-1800's. Apparently, neither had any interest in annexing it. LOL.

Nah, Paraguay has unreal potential. Their politics are just fucked up. Electricity costs nothing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electr...or_in_Paraguay.

Even though it is land locked, it has a good river system for export: https://www.trade.gov/country-commer...aterway-system.

And they have more fresh water than all the great lakes combined: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guarani_Aquifer.

As an American, I have wondered why we are so rich and South America so poor, and I think it is our culture and ability to think long term and reward it.

Someone, maybe it was you Wyatt, made the comment that the sugar babies who always seem to get the most money are the ones who ask for money the least and care the most about the longer term relationship.

With their soil, free water, and virtually free electricity, Paraguayans should be loaded not dirt poor.

[Gfefan]

Have never been to Curitiba but the girls are great.

I had a great chemistry with one I met in Spain. She is from Curitiba.

Sad I moved and had to let her go purely because of logistics.

I can 100% vouch for what you say about women from Curitiba. One of the most gorgeous girls I ever met in Brazil was from there. I actually met her at Scandallo, and she told me of how her family came to Brazil from Germany a couple of generations ago. She looked like she had just stepped off of the immigrant steamship herself all blonde and blue in her sexy dress. It was a memorable session that I wrote about many moons ago. It always cracks me up when guys who like white chicks balk at going to Brazil because they don't think there are enough of them there. Works for me haha!

Anyway, because of that encounter with her, I started to do some research on Curitiba. Besides, my favorite MMA fighter of all time Anderson Silva is from there LOL! I came away believing that although Curitiba appears to be a great place to live in Brazil, the mongering scene doesn't seem to be that strong compared to other Brazilian cities I have been to (Rio, Sampa, and Porto Alegre). Well, I guess you can't always have it all! Another nice city that I learned about is Vitoria. But again, I don't think the mongering action there is that strong.

It's funny how you think Sao Paulo is a "shithole" and that Rio is "nice". In my view, almost all of Rio is a shithole with only Ipa, LeBlon, and Barra being parts of it that I think are truly nice enough for me to want to live. Like a Brazilian friend told me once, Rio is crowded, stinky, and dirty. Well, I guess I would consider Botafogo, but I don't consider that neighborhood to be particularly "nice". Very middle of the road. To me most of Sampa is just a giant concrete jungle without much unique character. But not necessarily a dump either. Well everyone has their own tastes right? Let's not go there again!

[WyattEarp]

I wouldn't go back to Asuncion even for the women. So damn boring! And I'm not attracted to most of the women there who have a strong indigenous look. I did fuck a blanca there though. If one is interested in women in Paraguay one be better off in Buenos Aires. A much more dynamic city than Asuncion and full of chicas from Paraguay (I fucked a pretty, indigenous one in BA).

While I was in Asunción a long time ago, the few hot, single women seemed to be all be already paired up with the older, affluent men. It doesn't take much for a man to be affluent in Paraguay. Some of my Paraguayan business colleagues had hotties on the side. They really didn't make a huge amount of money.

Perhaps a visitor can crack the sugar baby market, but you're always at a disadvantage to the local men if you are just looking for a one or two night stand. I think it's better to go with the numbers of hotties in larger South American cities.

Note: I believe Brazil and Argentina together invaded Paraguay and occupied Asunción in the mid-1800's. Apparently, neither had any interest in annexing it. LOL.

[AsianPursuits]

Just wondering what others have done to get around their blocking. Have tried using a different email account, no work. Wondering if they keep the block on my phone number? Or my IP address? Or my credit card address, name etc. How would I get back on?

Here is something I wrote previously.

Have you been previously suspended? They have their own database of emails, names and addresses which they check against before sending to your credit card for processing. The times I have hit this wall the card operator is not seeing any traffic. So, I think you have a black mark in their database. Here is what I would do:

A) get a different email address (free gmail).

B) get a different card number.

C) Use a different street address but same Town & Postcode as your card.

Last time I had problems signing up I tried changing each of the above individually and was unsuccessful until I had all three changed. You will get very good at signing up gmail accounts.

[Ucgdx]

Just wondering what others have done to get around their blocking. Have tried using a different email account, no work. Wondering if they keep the block on my phone number? Or my IP address? Or my credit card address, name etc. How would I get back on?

I would guess:

- phone number: most probable.

- credit card: not likely, as families can share credit cards (you and your brother for example). And you sign up for an account before you even add a credit card.

- address: not likely, for the same reason as above.

- name plus above: not likely that sophisticated.

- IP address: not likely because if you're using SA at work (a bad idea), your IP address would be the same as anyone else at work.

So get a free TextFree burner phone number and try making a new account with that and a new email address together.

[The Cane]

Cane, I guess what I am trying to say is what cities would you go back to or stay in if you were not going to monger. Sao Paulo, Asuncion, and Bogota (which I may have gone to one other time after my initial visit) are cities I never would go back to except for the women.

I wouldn't go back to Asuncion even for the women. So damn boring! And I'm not attracted to most of the women there who have a strong indigenous look. I did fuck a blanca there though. If one is interested in women in Paraguay one be better off in Buenos Aires. A much more dynamic city than Asuncion and full of chicas from Paraguay (I fucked a pretty, indigenous one in BA).