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11-10-22 16:35 #4067
Posts: 164Originally Posted by NeilGeorge [View Original Post]
Each person has their preferences and their limits they operate within. I personally prefer thin, small to medium tits / ass. The whole body package is what gets me going (sporty; 5'6"; abs not a necessity); That's probably why big fake tits usually do nothing for me because they don't naturally blend in with the girl's body (they look great with clothes on! I've been told more than once to bang a few fat girls and it may not be bad. However, in the SA world. , I'm picky AF because I usually have a flock responding to my advances and I simply go after the ones that are most promising and that never includes the big girls, BUT. Big girls need love too, so I'll send those over to Steve. LOL. LOL.
But seriously, regardless of size, weight, beauty, or personality, it's good to be discerning and willing to cut the rope when the weight gets too heavy (no pun intended). Those red flags and spidy senses are there for a reason. I'm an experience seeker and if it looks like a bad experience is on the horizon, I usually attempt to end those situations sharply and move on to more favorable conditions.
For the guys that only choose to see the positive reviews here, I would stand next to you with a supportive hand on the shoulder and calmly say the words that most of us are screaming in our heads, "RTFF" LOL. Loll. No but seriously, it's not all wins but the wins are so glorious in most cases that they usually fuel more discussion than the negative ones.
IMVHO bad experiences are usually due to:
1. staying in a sinking ship too long (leave during / after dinner / drinks) - Have a backup in case things don't work out. Book them 4 hours apart. Gives you enough tiime to responsibly cancel.
2. letting your small head do the thinking.
3. being inexperienced.
4. not being aggressive when you need to be.
5. Forgetting to guard your loins (take this anyway you like).
6. failing to set the terms of the engagement (we don't pay for coffee dates and we don't send money before meeting) (don't be a pushover. There are far too many girls for that).
8. letting the SB lead (Liz (MAD) told me, "you have to pay for the cake" and I responded, "right, YOU have to pay for the cake". She paused confused and then said, "no, wait, I'm the cake. Haha".
9. Not doing your research into the SA world #duediligence (RTFF).
I still fall at some of these, but they have also helped me to cut the rope when needed in order to avoid prolonged unpleasantness.
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11-10-22 14:58 #4066
Posts: 567Seeking girl I met few weeks ago. In her pics she was thick, but good thick. Pics at the gym and stuff.
Real life she's more like 20 pounds overweight. At five feet tall.
First words she said: "am I like my pictures? Am I what you thought?
Me in my mind: "bich you lied to me and I'll never forgive this. ".
Originally Posted by NeilGeorge [View Original Post]
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11-10-22 02:28 #4065
Posts: 300Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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11-09-22 17:48 #4064
Posts: 2672Avoid the Lows?
So thinking about this past year and predominately wins and home runs, I got to thinking it might be useful to the team to examine the losses and could they be avoided. Here are my thoughts:
Nyla1 - Not really a loss because we had a lovely dinner and we fucked bareback that night and next morning and had a lovely sleep together and she's a truly sweet, if immature, girl. But I don't like paying top dollar for fat chicks. So could this have been avoided? Yes and no.
In the lead up I could tell she was thick. But I've thought that before and been totally wrong. I thought Kayla might be thick and damn she has a perfect 10 body. Camera lies in so many ways. So I don't regret going on the date.
Then at dinner it was obvious she was fat. Not thick. Fat. I coulda for sure pulled the plug after dinner and no $$ spent. Maybe I'm too nice a guy but I don't really want to whack her already fragile self esteem so I figure let's ride it out and see how it goes. And honestly it went fine. She can use $400 way more than me and we honestly had a nice time.
My advice? Fuck some fat girls. As long as you take Viagra you are not going to have any problem staying hard. They really do try harder. And they can be very nice girls. It's not so bad once you put a couple behind you. It's not what I seek but it's not half bad once you get used to it.
Malo Same basic story. A lot fatter in person but not a big as Nyla1. Chemistry was meh at dinner and coulda bailed. I guess I'the rather go fuck and see how it goes than just bail and never know. I mean the Nyla thing was fine in the end. Sex with Malo was very perfunctory and meh so, worth a tumble but not a win.
Lei This was a success on so many levels but a monetary fail. The vibe and sex and daddy daughter role play (with a legit actress!) was amazing. Fuck I really liked this girl. But the lesson which we all know and sometimes forget never send money ahead. No matter what. And when you get gold digger vibes they are probably right. Don't ignore them. Go with girls that are not always asking for money (first sign was she asked for plane ticket money to Coachella before we even met! I said no, but that was big red flag). That said I do not regret meeting and fucking her. I wa smitten and it was amazing while it lasted (5 hrs LOL) and fortunately $$ are not a big issue for me.
Maria The full on fail. Honestly there was no way to avoid this on the lead up. She was super chatty and girlfriendy for like 6 weeks prior. Chatting all the time. Great girl. Exactly the kinda girl I hit home runs with. So no chance for a save there.
At dinner was my first potential chance to bail. She was gorgeous but something felt off on chemistry. Why was I not dying to fuck her? Clearly a 9 on looks and totally my type. But something about her demeanor was off putting. I realize in retrospect that she was not into me at all and that probably showed thru.
Walking to hotel she says "I'm not going to fuck you" and I say that's OK let's just go up and see what happens. I've had success with seduction before but when she used those exact very explicit words prob red flag should have triggered. But def why not take a 9 to your room and try to fuck her.
Same red flag again in room. I start the seduction and she says she wants to talk money first. She wants $400 and this was in Spain so clearly this is the I don't want to fuck you price. She says no BJ. I shoulda kicked her out. That was last red flag. Fail fail fail Steve. Just kick her out. Instead we fuck for a bit it's very lame. And I send her packing with a very generous $200. Unlike Nyla where I overspent $400 on a fat chick I felt good about that. Made her happy. Had good sex. All good really. Whereas this just felt cheap dirty and used. Fail.
So I guess the summary of actions I could and should have taken. Never never ever ever send money ahead. Even when you think you know them. And if I girl gives you the "I don't want to fuck you" price and no BJ it ain't going to be good. Kick her out right then. Cut your losses. Other than that don't guess I'the change a thing.
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11-09-22 02:07 #4063
Posts: 2672Seeking Full Disclosure
Was reading in another thread where some guys said that guys don't disclose how much work Seeking is or that there are failures amid the successes. Thought I would catalog my 2022 thus far on Seeking with the following caveats:
1. It is a shit ton of work and I put in the time to search, find, chat up, and groom the hotties.
2. I am very good at the game having played it for three years now.
3. I am above average in height, looks (for my age), and charisma.
4. Once you hook a baby you can go back to her months or years later and it's all good. Just fire it back up!
5. It's expensive in the US. Most girls below were 400-500.
Here is the chronology of my Seeking girls THIS YEAR. The good the bad and the ugly. By far good to great. I always give them fake names in my reports here and I can't always remember what I called them so sometimes I may say Girl 5 or something below.
Shayla First girl of the year and best girl of the year. We started out slow and became more and more regular and passionate. She's now officially my mistress. I pay for her place and see her whenever I want. No PPM. Great girl. The best. Def smitten and a little in love.
Layla First saw her in 2020. She was my regular girl for 6-9 months. Seen her a couple times since. She texts and says want to fuck and who am I to say no. 😂 Solid girl. Worth seeing.
Liz First saw her in 2019. We were quick suck and fuck back then but became real friends and lovers whenever in town. But she has a boyfriend now and moved on. Solid girl. Ton of fun.
Kayla This was my Florida girl that I saw monthly in 2021. Happened to get an overnight on way to Medellin and we enjoyed each other overnight. Really quality girl. 10 body.
Nyla 1 Tried this girl when Kayla was acting like the old ball and chain. Goes to show these girls can be naive and emotionally invested. She cried when she found out I was married. But we fucked an hour later. LOL. Not my finest Seeking hour. This girl was fat. No way to sugar coat it. But damn she likes to fuck and suck.
Lucia. Buenos Aires. Drop dead full on 10. Only one ever for me. Sex was mediocre but still a win. OMG.
Meli Buenos Aires. Wow. Hot girl. Big tits. Enthusiastic and fun. No regrets.
Nyla 2 - Last minute snag with the "I'm going out you coming" approach. Beautiful college girl. Super time.
Lei. Actual model / actress no lie. Bit of a flake. Had a great time but she stung me for $700 (in addition to 700 ppm! So this was def a fail in the end. But soooo fun the one night we had.
Alexa My longest standing SB. From 2019. I've flown her to Miami and seen her in Vegas. Adore this girl. Will see her whenever wherever she wants.
Sarah Fun and smart girl. Flew her to Europe from London. Great time but faded. Have a new London girl now.
Maria Only full on failure this year. Nice dinner but she clearly didn't want to fuck me. Had a quick fuck NOT to completion and got her the fuck out. Yes. Bad experiences do happen even to me.
Malo. Copenhagen- last minute score. Nice enough banter. Heavy girl. Mediocre sex. Not quite a fail but def not a win either.
Talita. New London girl. Subject of recent report. Wowza. Great fun. Great attitude. Great sex. Great price. Will repeat!
So there you have it. With all the caveats. By my tally out of 14 experiences this year, 11 were good to great, 2 were mediocre, and one was an utter fail. As I wrote this down I was surprised how many are repeats. Five girls I had met in 2019-2021! So going to have to say that is another strong point for SA. Once you make a "girlfriend" you can have her off and on again for quite some time. A girl in every port so to speak!
Ps All girls were dinner and straight to room first night (Shayla was in second date for logistical reasons). No coffee dates. All girls were 22-24. Believe Alexa is 25 now and Layla 26.
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11-03-22 15:17 #4062
Posts: 6Caveat with Google Fi
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
This year I stayed in Colombia for three months, and the phone worked perfect for the first two months. In the third month I received the following message:
"As a reminder, Fi's Terms of Service require you to use our service primarily in the United States (territories not included), and it looks like you've been predominantly using Fi abroad. In 30 days, we'll need to suspend your international roaming data capabilities unless you start using Fi in the United States again (territories not included). Your calls and texts will not be impacted."
Fortunately, my was trip ending in less than 30 days, so using the phone in the US again was not a problem. But next year I plan on traveling for nine months, so it may be problematic. I plan to use local SIMs to supplement my Fi plan, with the hope that low data usage will lead them to not turn off data while I am traveling. (Note: You can still use data while on WiFi, you just won't be able to use data over mobile networks.).
In any case, just a caveat to keep in mind, for those of you doing prolonged stays. Otherwise, Google Fi has worked great for me.
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11-03-22 09:50 #4061
Posts: 409Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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11-03-22 08:29 #4060
Posts: 409See if you can start with dinner & negotiate after. ?'s about VPN for SA / Netflix
Originally Posted by Chicago85 [View Original Post]
SA banned me around 6 months ago. But I ran out of time to contact all the numbers I had saved. I still would like to get back on and see who is available.
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11-02-22 19:53 #4059
Posts: 2777Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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11-02-22 18:15 #4058
Posts: 713Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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11-02-22 17:54 #4057
Posts: 2672Mega Win in London
So after a string of 8 girls in four days in Austria and Spain at the clubs, I got to squeeze in a single night in London. And I wanted the true GFE that only a real deal Seeking girl can provide. And boy did I find it!
I wound it down with Sarah after our last visit a few weeks ago. I felt kinda bad but we're not so sexually compatible (she's super tight and not so wet and I'm thick so sometimes we fail to have lift off!) and she wanted to Netflix and chill vs go dance. What's up with these girls?
Anyhow I started looking again and had some good prospects. Had been in tight contact with a Brasileira who asked 600 but accepted 400 and with Talita who was more girlfriendy and said it doesn't matter too much but 300 would be nice.
Honestly it wasn't the dollars but the attitude both on that topic and the generally daily girlfriendy chat that Talita kept rolling during the final weeks before meetup. So two days before my visit I let the Brasileira drop and went all in on Talita. I was unsure if choosing chemistry over looks would work out (I adore the brasileira look and Talita was highly variable across a handful of pics) but it was the right call for sure. And she turned out to be a 8.5! Pleasant surprise.
We met up at a small Italian restaurant in a toney part of London. Great food. Great service. And we hit it off from the getgo. Chatting came effortlessly and before we knew it we were alone and the chairs being put up (we ran 20 minutes past closing time). So we went walking in the direction of my favorite Soho dance bar.
I escalated a little with arm around her from time to time. And in the club we sat on the same side of booth which increased the intimacy. After one drink I said "want to catch an Uber" and she was down.
We had a Fuckton of difficulty getting an Uber or a cab. But a helpful pedicab guy said over near picadilly is best and we did finally score one. London cabs are the best. Like being on a couch together. Got much more flirty and friendly and my hand on her leg stroking gently the whole 20 min ride.
Up in the room not too much pretense. I think we had mutual chemistry and she was down to fuck. We put on some tunes and started making out. This is definitely one of the best things about Seeking girls it's like real life. In the club there's either no kissing or you pay for some simulation (I've stopped doing that) whereas with a hot 21 year old (she just turned in June) they want to kiss as much as you do!
I push her on her back on the bed and climb on top on all fours and start making out hard and pushing my dick up against her. I can tell she likes being dominated. She's got on a turtleneck but I push up the bottom and find a lovely black bra and pierced nipples just underneath. Her nipples are VERY sensitive but in a good way. So as I lick and suck them deep she starts moaning and grinding.
I slide a bit lower and start to tease her, licking and kissing her belly and at her belt line. I can tell I have her going. I massage her clit a bit through her pants. And then I rear up and start undoing her button and zipper. It's here I learn that she is not shy flower. She is looking me straight in the eye with unbridled lust as I strip her pants and panties off.
I'm a going to give myself an A+ for pussy work. I was feeling inspired and created a masterpiece. Clit licking and swirling and sucking. One finger in and out. Gspot stroking. Two fingers. Round the world clit massage. Gspot with fingers clit with tongue. You name it. I had her shaking like a leaf.
After letting her recover a bit she went down on me. I won't say her BJ is the best but it's adequate. And I get good and hard. It's amazing to see her tight little body going down on me. she can't be more than 90 pounds.
But I can't stand not feeling that pussy. So I swing her into 69. I am def better than she is LOL. But mutual pleasuring is so satisfying.
At one point she's straddling my stomach facing away from me and OMG her butt looks and feels amazing and she's just playing with my dick. And goddamn I want to fuck her so bad It hurts. So I do!
We suit up (May not have to next time) and I go in mish. She's really tight but not problematically so. And damn we go at it. Kissing deep while fucking mish. A fave. All the usual positions and strong pounding. Maybe 30-40 minutes since we started kissing. Then she mounts up on top. A vision. Hard worker but not feeling the build. In fact I have to pee. Goddamn it!
After short break I am not sure if I can crank her up again. But that's on me. So I do. Kissing. Tits. Pussy worship. And man she gets worked up. She has her hardest orgasm this time while I'm finger fucking her with two fingers. She's indicating harder and faster and frankly I am fucking the life out of her. I saw this with the lesbian duo. Some girls really love a deep hard finger fucking and this girl surely does.
Of course we then replace the fingers with something more suitable and then fuck some more. She says doggie is her fave so I give her s good pounding with her smiling over her shoulder, sometimes beckoning for a kiss which I oblige.
Well after tons of fucking (prob 1. 5 hrs total time?) still don't quite get there but we work it out. I lie on my back and start working my shaft and ask her to get on balls. I can tell she's a little tired honestly but she's a trooper. What she does instead is sit on my feet and start acting ridiculously sexy looking into my eyes. Sucking her finger. Getting it wet and making lazy nipple circles. Leaning forward to drool on my cock or give a few tongue taps under the head. More sexy tits and nipples while slip sliding my soaked balls with her hands and fingers and bam! Liftoff!
Wow. A true night of GFE. Wonderful chatty dinner. Arm around. Physical escalation to a crescendo. Dominance. Deep and meaningful kissing. Pussy work till she can honestly hardly walk. No lie. Great fucking. Doe eyes. Sexy AF. The whole package.
Seeking for the win win win!
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11-02-22 17:11 #4056
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
When women buy a phone, the #1 thing with them is the camera on the phone. That usually means they want an Iphone, but it is just because the women do not know about the Google Pixel. There is a tech podcast I have been listening to for years and the guy on there is like everyone he knows has a Google Pixel phone because techies know how good and cheap they are in comparison to the Iphone, but Samsung is way more popular to the general population. Like Google Fi, it is just not that advertised, and the Pixel phone really is not sold in third world countries: https://9to5google.com/2022/10/06/pixel-7-countries/.
But even though the phones are not sold there, they work just fine anywhere in the world especially if you have Google Fi.
I bought my gal a Pixel 3 XL on Ebay for $150 and she says it takes better photos than the Iphone. And right now, Amazon is selling a brank new Pixel 6 A, which takes amazing photos, for $299.
I had two women I chatted with on seeking who were on the site and lived in Colombia entirely to get a phone, and they were totally uninterested in anything but an Iphone. In hindsight, I do not think the shopping trips and gift giving amounted to any benefit with the women I was seeing, and I do not recommend doing it, but I would consider giving the women a pixel so they could communicate with me and take nice photos of themselves. Pixels are cheap phones that take amazing photos and not that many people know about them.
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11-02-22 09:44 #4055
Posts: 2672OT: Google Fi Report
Had Google Fi for a few trips now. It's magic. Worth every penny of $73/ month. Works everywhere. Unlimited data. So refreshing vs trying to get local SIM or get by from hotspot to hotspot (not recommended! Def check out Google FI if good comms with girls when you travel is important. Couldn't be happier.
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11-02-22 03:17 #4054
Posts: 2777Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
There is absolutely no issues with Drugs or Violence in CDMX unless you go looking for it. Also, I do not have to deal with all the low end sex tourist in Colombia. Not to mention the shitty music and food in Colombia. Both places have attractive girls.
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11-02-22 00:26 #4053
Posts: 713Originally Posted by Chicago85 [View Original Post]
Occasionally, I get quoted 600 k to 1 million COP, but usually pass because I don't like when girls quote me numbers, I'm not interested in hardened pros or spoiled hookers. When it comes down to price negotiation, I give them my comfortable range, take it or leave it. Read my recent post in the Bogota thread about it.