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03-11-24 20:37 #5549
Posts: 2703Same as USA
Originally Posted by Krilimag [View Original Post]
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03-11-24 18:01 #5548
Posts: 2929Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Another thing I want to add is that the price can't be generalized. It depends on the look of the girl. When someone just asks what the price is, that is too general a question to reply. Because the replied price is still depending on one's preference. It can go from 500 to 5000. I may say it is 500, and you may think wow! 500 can get me a runway model type of girl. LOL
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03-11-24 17:39 #5547
Posts: 17Just To Clarify In SA
Originally Posted by Robotron [View Original Post]
What is the website for seeking arrangement Brazil?
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03-11-24 17:21 #5546
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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03-11-24 17:05 #5545
Posts: 2703Guide to Seeking Game
Here is my guide from a few years back. I need to update it a bit so any and all feedback welcome!
Seeking Arrangement Saves the Day -- Release from Pussy Prison.
Good as it was to discover P411 and get out of complete pussy drought, Seeking Arrangement opened a whole new world for me -- Sugar Baby. Sugar Daddy dating. I had gotten a taste of this with Thifany. I mean that is really what we were doing when I flew her to London. I paid her a very reasonable allowance for the week and we just played boyfriend and girlfriend. What fun.
I came to realize through the Thifany experience that I like more than just paid sex. And in fact I love having a girlfriend. I enjoy texting each other. I enjoy that someone cares about me (even if she's pretending -- just never tell me so!) and of course I love the complete experience of dinners and dancing and just acting like real lovers. Not transactional sex partners. And SB / SD is all about this same experience. When done properly.
So how do you do it properly? I suppose this could vary widely depending on what you are after. But I am after a girl who FEELS like a girlfriend. She's affectionate, appreciates an evening above her usual stature in life, and is able to actually enjoy herself with you. She views the allowance / gift (I. E. Money!) as a bonus. Not the only thing she is after. Any girl where I feel money is the primary motivation and she will go with anyone for a high enough price, gets kicked straight to the curb. She's got to be a girlfriend first, and any "benefits" come second.
Knowing that this is the kind of girl I want to attract (and other guys I have talked to also find this persona the most attractive), there is a set of rules you have to play by. Understand that SA is NOT AT ALL like picking up hookers. It is much more like meeting a girl in a bar and seducing her to leave with you. It's just an online bar. Sure you need money, but you also need some texting game and you need to treat her with respect. If you do, you have a chance of closing the deal. However, the moment you disrespect her, she will be gone.
The most important rule when vibing with a girl and getting a meeting set up is: never discuss sex or money. These things will be implied and they will be done offline. Never discuss sex or money on the Seeking Arrangements platform and really never discuss sex at all. As soon as you are that explicit, the kind of girl you are after will feel disrespected and ghost you in no time flat. Plus, it can get you booted from SA for life if you are reported. Don't worry, there are ways to have this conversation properly, explained below.
Start your engagement with a girl with some light chat and flirt. Your opener should be something specific to her that you read in her profile -- not something generic. And ALWAYS end every message with a question. This prompts her to respond. If you don't ask a question, she will not take the initiative and the conversation will just die. You have to drive it; and you drive with questions. Get her to tell you a few things about herself: what she likes to eat, her favorite wine, dog or cat person. It doesn't really matter what you discuss; just something that will get her to engage a bit.
At some point you will establish that you like each other reasonably well and one or the other will suggest taking the conversation off of SA and over to text. If tries to take you offline right away, she is probably a hooker. If she doesn't ask for a pic pretty early on, she is probably a hooker. Often, I am the one to suggest going over to private phone text. You can keep it pretty innocuous, saying you notice she is not on often and it might be easier to connect up by text. But don't do it too early – this spooks the nice girls. Have a conversation over a few days and then take it off SA to texting.
Once you are texting, pick up the thread you had going and continue a little friendly chat. At some point, you will suggest that you think you vibe well and should meet up. Most often she will agree and now its time to establish that you will have sex (without saying it!) and how much is the agreed price (without saying it's a price! Some guys cover the price discussion in person, but I find that awkward and always set it ahead of time.
Once she's said "yeah, lets meetup" I say I want to describe our date to her (this is how I introduce the sex topic without getting explicit.) I usually say something about going out for dinner or drinks and having an epic time, laughing a lot and if the chemistry is right spending some private time (or intimate time or adult time -- insert your favorite euphemism -- but never say SEX!) or on the off chance we don't vibe, we can part after dinner no harm no foul. And ask if that sounds about right to them. Most often, if they are the kind of girl you are after, they will be down with this description and say, sure that sounds good.
This opens the door for the pricing discussion. I usually say something like "Of course I'the want to give you a gift / allowance. Did you have something in mind?" and the negotiation is underway.
Never ever say "what's your price" or "how much do you charge for PPM". Always use the approach above, that you want to give them something. Sometimes, she will say she doesn't know and get you to give the first figure (good negotiating tactic on her part, but often they are in fact new). I am OK with this and say "well, what I've done before is 300. I hope that works for you. " (note no $ sign).
As far as what you should pay, I've found a strong correlation between what a pretty hooker charges for an hour (in a given city) to be what an SA girl will take for an evening. I'the say (pre-pandemic) most big US cities $400 is reasonable for a pretty girl (lots will ask more – I just kick them to the curb) with SF and NYC more like $500. In second tier cities, $300 should do it and I've found a few gems at $200 (though more in the 6-7 category). During the pandemic, I've found a lot of these girls are struggling, so if they ask 500, when 400 is more correct, I usually don't push them on it and just go with what they asked.
Once you have said "we are going to have sex, right" -- without saying it -- and money discussion out of the way, you should be good to go. Just keep on with the flirty texts without being too frequent, clingy or annoying and then meet up at the appointed day and time. More often than not, if you are not terribly objectionable looking, have a little bit of charm, and follow the "let's get out of here" model you might use with a regular pickup, you will end up in the room with your girl and have a rocking time.
Having done this alot (more than 50 times in many different cities), I've found that having sex on the first date is super important. The few times I've had a platonic date (especially a non-alcoholic one) to be followed by sex on the second date – it never happens. You have to take the momentum on that first date and take it all the way to the bedroom. Remember girls are submissive and will largely follow your lead – even if that lead is to the hotel room.
Finally, I should note that how much time you spend with her is largely up to her and how well you vibe. It's not something you negotiate, like you would with a hooker. Most times it will probably be 3-4 hours including dinner and sex, after which she might say she needs to get home. But, in my experience, about 50% of girls sleep over. It's not something you discuss. It just happens. You cuddle after sex and next thing you know she's taking off her necklace to the bedside table. Bingo!
Seeking is absolutely the best, if you take the time to find the gems amongst the bullshit and follow the above guide.
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03-11-24 17:01 #5544
Posts: 2703Slow it Down. Or Speed it Up.
Originally Posted by Robotron [View Original Post]
Main thing is to not be so direct. Unless you are just looking for hookers. In which case there are other places. I wrote a guide on how to chat up SA girls and while written primarily for USA it largely applies to South America also. The girls you are looking for on Seeking want to rationalize that they are good girls. So you try to stay away from money for sex. Less true outside the US but still. Actually two hotties I scored in Mexico (see reports three weeks back) would have run for the hills if there was a hint of money for sex.
I will repost the guide here. Perhaps other seniors want to respond with where it's off base or could use some international spin.
I will note however that in addition to the long texting game, I have had very good success with spontaneous dates. When I am in town I say "Going out to a nice dinner tonight. Join me?" I have scored some serious hottie s this way including a Rio 9. 5.
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03-11-24 07:22 #5543
Posts: 60Rate my SA profile? For Brazil
For those experienced in Brazil, are your profile bios in English or Portuguese? Mine is English written, with US location.
I messaged two girls not exactly this but along the lines of, "I'm using Google Translate and will be in Rio in a few weeks. Interested in mutually beneficial arrangement and I always help out with cash". One blocked me, other ignored. Usually when they ignore me, I'll throw out a number in this case, are $1,000. That's a high number in Sao Paulo but still ignored.
My pictures are slightly blurred with me standing against a backdrop of city or outdoor nature views. My bio is a paragraph of my interests and a few sentences. I wrote I'm negotiatiable, open minded, looking for NSA also. Maybe it's the age? I'm almost 30, but since my profile is expiring, remaking it at 31 is possible. Both Income at 100,000.
I don't really mind having my face shown overseas if it helps. My trips would be for 2 week visits, not long term stays. For those with success in these countries, what's your profile bio like, pics, and how do you open with the women?
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03-10-24 20:36 #5542
Posts: 4More private SA profile
Any advice for making photo's unsearchable and more private?
I remember a member saying they use a face blending merging app or tool that combines your face with a celebrity, but I don't remember exactly how they said they did it.
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03-09-24 19:35 #5541
Posts: 340I play a lot of poker
Poker is a metaphor for most parts of life. If you want to be in the game you need to ante. Someone goes first. It makes sense to me that it's the monger as the girls have been promised all kinds of shit that has never come to fruition. Also since we're the ones with the money they make the sales pitch and we decide to pay or not. Money talks as the saying goes, abd bullshit walks. Go to Walmart and ask them if you can load your toilet paper into your car and come back and pay them once you're done. What do you think the answer will be?
This is not a cheap hobby if anyone is uncomfortable with it go to your run of the mill AMP. If you can't afford that, run down the nearest street with pimps and hookers. You are not going to get a 20 something reasonably intelligent college girl or young professional for $100. You can easy get an over weight Korean or 50 year old Chinese lady for that price in my tier 1 coastal city.
Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]
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03-09-24 18:28 #5540
Posts: 241Trying
I am going to try a combo of this approach and FB's.
She is too good to resist. There is tinge of newness in the way she talks / interacts. If things go well, I might have found my keeper.
Worst case, I burn a few hours chatting, few $ hosting a dinner.
But the upside seems too good. Let's see.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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03-09-24 17:35 #5539
Posts: 589Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
Let me tell you something. I run a company. Lots of employees. I've learned over and over and over again that direct honest communication is the key. People always think they have to beat around the Bush, or tell a different interpretation of the truth. When somebody sits in front of another person, and just tells the unvarnished truth, it's disarming. Of course, there is some art involved. There's a difference between bluntness and candor. You have to have some finesse and empathy. But the truth wins every time.
I say this knowing full well the irony of posting such a thing on this board.
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03-08-24 21:32 #5538
Posts: 3223Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 21:23 #5537
Posts: 322Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 18:36 #5536
Posts: 2703Depends on Sitch
Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 18:33 #5535
Posts: 340Never had to
I've been the one dumped for all my LT SBs but I guess it depends on if she's on a monthly allowance or ppm. If it's an allowance you can tell her it doesn't work for you anymore (honest) or your brother lost his job and you need to help him out (less than honest) or cut her off and ghost her with no explanation (douche move and very dicey if she knows anything about you). If she's ppm you have a third choice which would be to stop calling. Don't be a douche and ghost her but stop calling, she'll get the hint. Return her texts / calls and just tell her you're not available. Keep in mind they have way more options than we do, she'll find a date the day she's over you.
Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]