Seeking Arrangements

[TedFerguson]

Tl; dr way more frustrating than it should be, but some gems to be found.

I arrived in BsAs from Sao Paulo about a month ago with a contact list of maybe 6 girls I had contacted on Seeking up to a month prior. I've seen girls use Seeking quite sporadically due to the high amount of noise, so I've started collecting numbers much earlier before arrival.

Of these 6, 2 turned out to be good finds, but both of these were more complicated to meet than normal (a general trend here). The first one wanted to meet at a hotel for safety reasons, which is actually legit because my Airbnb requires a key to exit the building (why? "for safety reasons, so robbers can't get out if they get in" The second one had a problem with her dog the first time we were supposed to meet, felt ashamed about it and I had to talk her into meeting again.

The meet at hotel thing repeated itself a number of times, as did "I don't want to meet in public because my acquaintances could recognize me". I'm in my mid 30's and look ok, but this isn't acceptable for some reason here? Two girls weren't comfortable sharing decent pictures. On a positive note, those two did turn out to be solid options. Both were great conversationalists and were comfortable sticking around for second rounds without prompting. One bought some sex toys we'll try this week.

Besides this initial set, other girls have been hard to come by. One girl had a problem with her aunt dying. Another contact from a previous trip had her shoulder broken and needs weeks to heal. One got super pissed off at some family thing and just went AWOL for a few days. And another one got super pissed off at the idea that if we meet, we may not have chemistry (given she only shared one blurry picture of her face). Just a ton of work compared to Brazilian or Colombian girls.

Now I understand SA girls have problems in their lives, but the level and amount of problems here are exceptional. And they make them worse by being arrogant and irritated. I suspect Argentinian women are at their best outside Argentina, where the overcomplicated, dysfunctional culture is less impactful on their state of minds. Speaking of which, it's impacting my state of mind too! There are 2-3 new girls next week. Hopefully things will improve or I'm heading out in 2 weeks.

[Steve 9696]

I haven't fucked a fat (or unattractive) girl in 20 years! What's the point of doing that when I don't have to? Never again! I like my THOTS hot only! Will accept nothing less.

I look at it this way. The fail was in picking a fat girl. But once you are at dinner with a fat girl your choices are:

1 send her packing. Probably sad and defeated. Go to your hotel and jerk off. Blech.

2 Follow thru. Get at least a good BBBJ and probably some shockingly good fucking. Go home with empty balls.

I def prefer the later. It's a lose lose when you bail. But that's just me.

I am the same way at FKK. I am amazed by guys who can leave with full balls. I can’t do it. I am gonna fuck someone. Preferably a female. LOL.

[Steve 9696]

Hi Steve. I will be testing this ASAP. Maybe tonight. I want to get back on SA. Will use this or a phone (San Diego #) it seems complicated. Any ideas?

In order to spoof your location, we recommend using a Chromium-based browser (Google Chrome, Brave, Microsoft Edge.).

Before spoofing your location, connect to one of our servers, go to iplocation.net, copy the green IP address, and paste it to IP Location Finder.

Then, locate the latitude, and longitude of the server's location.

Then do the following:

Press Ctrl + Shift + J (Windows) or CMD + Shift + J (macOS) to access Developer Tools.

Select the three-dot menu icon in the top right of the Developer Tools panel. Scroll to "More Tools" and select "Sensors".

Press on "Manage" next to the Location and press on "Add location".

Enter the location name;.

Copy and paste the latitude and longitude of the IP address into the fields;.

9:52 pm.

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This sounds like how to do it manually and it sounds complex. I had a NordVPN subscription. It was like $4/ month. You just log into the app and there is a map of servers worldwide. You choose the one you want to log into (outside the US) and login. All your traffic will go thru that server. It will be slower because it's having to go round trip thru that server so don't pick too far away.

Don’t know for sure but guessing u should be on Wi-Fi for this. I don’t know if there is any cell tower triangulation or something that might give away ur location otherwise.

[The Cane]

Life is too short to be with Fat girls. Promptly dismiss at the restaurant and say, "Sorry, you are not my type" and walk away. Unless you want a BJ from a fat girl. And my car will not let fat girls inside, it will scrape on the ground. End of subject.

I haven't fucked a fat (or unattractive) girl in 20 years! What's the point of doing that when I don't have to? Never again! I like my THOTS hot only! Will accept nothing less.

[DonCarlos1234]

Those other sites suck big time. Like pay for this pay for that. And even sometimes spam daddies without a girls permission. Generally very disappointing.

When sesta / fosta came on I the US one of my fave sites banned people from the US. So I just set up a VPN app and you can appear from anywhere in the world. So that would solve your IP tracking problem. I'm sure if you search VPN on App Store there will be plenty.

Hi Steve. I will be testing this ASAP. Maybe tonight. I want to get back on SA. Will use this or a phone (San Diego #) it seems complicated. Any ideas?

In order to spoof your location, we recommend using a Chromium-based browser (Google Chrome, Brave, Microsoft Edge.).

Before spoofing your location, connect to one of our servers, go to iplocation.net, copy the green IP address, and paste it to IP Location Finder.

Then, locate the latitude, and longitude of the server's location.

Then do the following:

Press Ctrl + Shift + J (Windows) or CMD + Shift + J (macOS) to access Developer Tools.

Select the three-dot menu icon in the top right of the Developer Tools panel. Scroll to "More Tools" and select "Sensors".

Press on "Manage" next to the Location and press on "Add location".

Enter the location name;.

Copy and paste the latitude and longitude of the IP address into the fields;.

9:52 pm.

You can refer to this website in order to find the Timezone ID for that specific location;.

For Locale, you can refer to this website, however, most of the time, en_US works best.

Once you've filled all of the fields, please try accessing the streaming service and let us know how it goes!

[DramaFree11]

Seeking girl I met few weeks ago. In her pics she was thick, but good thick. Pics at the gym and stuff.

Real life she's more like 20 pounds overweight. At five feet tall.

First words she said: "am I like my pictures? Am I what you thought?

Me in my mind: "bich you lied to me and I'll never forgive this. ".

Been there and done it. I try to be respectful, but I have gotten really pissed off a couple times and immediately sent them packing. I had a couple of big girls that got through my screening process in CDMX. I had dinner with 3, at the end I tried to be polite and said, I need to work early in the morning. They wanted nothing to do with ending the night, they were bagging me to go home, but I stuck to my guns. Very uncomfortable, but I can not do big girls. A nice body I am in all day long.

[Houndd]

Brother, shed some more light on this magic potion elixir. Of the late V or see isn't giving me much results and I am starting getting complaints from my SB's.

You cannot compare seeking with tinder, its an altogether diff league.

You can find some amazing gems in Travel girls but even that is no comparison to Seeking.

Have heard some other websites more discreet and expensive but never tried that.

Cheers:

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Ciao.

Peace.

Disfruta.

[LshRoomer]

Life is too short to be with Fat girls. Promptly dismiss at the restaurant and say, "Sorry, you are not my type" and walk away. Unless you want a BJ from a fat girl. And my car will not let fat girls inside, it will scrape on the ground. End of subject.

I've had a few fat girls come onto me pretty strongly, but never took the bait.

Each person has their preferences and their limits they operate within. I personally prefer thin, small to medium tits / ass. The whole body package is what gets me going (sporty; 5'6"; abs not a necessity); That's probably why big fake tits usually do nothing for me because they don't naturally blend in with the girl's body (they look great with clothes on! I've been told more than once to bang a few fat girls and it may not be bad. However, in the SA world. , I'm picky AF because I usually have a flock responding to my advances and I simply go after the ones that are most promising and that never includes the big girls, BUT. Big girls need love too, so I'll send those over to Steve. LOL. LOL.

But seriously, regardless of size, weight, beauty, or personality, it's good to be discerning and willing to cut the rope when the weight gets too heavy (no pun intended). Those red flags and spidy senses are there for a reason. I'm an experience seeker and if it looks like a bad experience is on the horizon, I usually attempt to end those situations sharply and move on to more favorable conditions.

For the guys that only choose to see the positive reviews here, I would stand next to you with a supportive hand on the shoulder and calmly say the words that most of us are screaming in our heads, "RTFF" LOL. Loll. No but seriously, it's not all wins but the wins are so glorious in most cases that they usually fuel more discussion than the negative ones.

IMVHO bad experiences are usually due to:

1. staying in a sinking ship too long (leave during / after dinner / drinks) - Have a backup in case things don't work out. Book them 4 hours apart. Gives you enough tiime to responsibly cancel.

2. letting your small head do the thinking.

3. being inexperienced.

4. not being aggressive when you need to be.

5. Forgetting to guard your loins (take this anyway you like).

6. failing to set the terms of the engagement (we don't pay for coffee dates and we don't send money before meeting) (don't be a pushover. There are far too many girls for that).

8. letting the SB lead (Liz (MAD) told me, "you have to pay for the cake" and I responded, "right, YOU have to pay for the cake". She paused confused and then said, "no, wait, I'm the cake. Haha".

9. Not doing your research into the SA world #duediligence (RTFF).

I still fall at some of these, but they have also helped me to cut the rope when needed in order to avoid prolonged unpleasantness.

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[AmericanPi]

Seeking girl I met few weeks ago. In her pics she was thick, but good thick. Pics at the gym and stuff.

Real life she's more like 20 pounds overweight. At five feet tall.

First words she said: "am I like my pictures? Am I what you thought?

Me in my mind: "bich you lied to me and I'll never forgive this. ".

Life is too short to be with Fat girls. Promptly dismiss at the restaurant and say, "Sorry, you are not my type" and walk away. Unless you want a BJ from a fat girl. And my car will not let fat girls inside, it will scrape on the ground. End of subject.

[NeilGeorge]

My advice? Fuck some fat girls. As long as you take Viagra you are not going to have any problem staying hard. They really do try harder. And they can be very nice girls. It's not so bad once you put a couple behind you. It's not what I seek but it's not half bad once you get used to it.

Life is too short to be with Fat girls. Promptly dismiss at the restaurant and say, "Sorry, you are not my type" and walk away. Unless you want a BJ from a fat girl. And my car will not let fat girls inside, it will scrape on the ground. End of subject.

[Steve 9696]

So thinking about this past year and predominately wins and home runs, I got to thinking it might be useful to the team to examine the losses and could they be avoided. Here are my thoughts:

Nyla1 - Not really a loss because we had a lovely dinner and we fucked bareback that night and next morning and had a lovely sleep together and she's a truly sweet, if immature, girl. But I don't like paying top dollar for fat chicks. So could this have been avoided? Yes and no.

In the lead up I could tell she was thick. But I've thought that before and been totally wrong. I thought Kayla might be thick and damn she has a perfect 10 body. Camera lies in so many ways. So I don't regret going on the date.

Then at dinner it was obvious she was fat. Not thick. Fat. I coulda for sure pulled the plug after dinner and no $$ spent. Maybe I'm too nice a guy but I don't really want to whack her already fragile self esteem so I figure let's ride it out and see how it goes. And honestly it went fine. She can use $400 way more than me and we honestly had a nice time.

My advice? Fuck some fat girls. As long as you take Viagra you are not going to have any problem staying hard. They really do try harder. And they can be very nice girls. It's not so bad once you put a couple behind you. It's not what I seek but it's not half bad once you get used to it.

Malo — Same basic story. A lot fatter in person but not a big as Nyla1. Chemistry was meh at dinner and coulda bailed. I guess I'the rather go fuck and see how it goes than just bail and never know. I mean the Nyla thing was fine in the end. Sex with Malo was very perfunctory and meh so, worth a tumble but not a win.

Lei — This was a success on so many levels but a monetary fail. The vibe and sex and daddy daughter role play (with a legit actress!) was amazing. Fuck I really liked this girl. But the lesson — which we all know and sometimes forget— never send money ahead. No matter what. And when you get gold digger vibes they are probably right. Don't ignore them. Go with girls that are not always asking for money (first sign was she asked for plane ticket money to Coachella before we even met! I said no, but that was big red flag). That said I do not regret meeting and fucking her. I wa smitten and it was amazing while it lasted (5 hrs LOL) and fortunately $$ are not a big issue for me.

Maria — The full on fail. Honestly there was no way to avoid this on the lead up. She was super chatty and girlfriendy for like 6 weeks prior. Chatting all the time. Great girl. Exactly the kinda girl I hit home runs with. So no chance for a save there.

At dinner was my first potential chance to bail. She was gorgeous but something felt off on chemistry. Why was I not dying to fuck her? Clearly a 9 on looks and totally my type. But something about her demeanor was off putting. I realize in retrospect that she was not into me at all and that probably showed thru.

Walking to hotel she says "I'm not going to fuck you" and I say that's OK let's just go up and see what happens. I've had success with seduction before but when she used those exact very explicit words prob red flag should have triggered. But def why not take a 9 to your room and try to fuck her.

Same red flag again in room. I start the seduction and she says she wants to talk money first. She wants $400 and this was in Spain so clearly this is the I don't want to fuck you price. She says no BJ. I shoulda kicked her out. That was last red flag. Fail fail fail Steve. Just kick her out. Instead we fuck for a bit — it's very lame. And I send her packing with a very generous $200. Unlike Nyla where I overspent $400 on a fat chick I felt good about that. Made her happy. Had good sex. All good really. Whereas this just felt cheap dirty and used. Fail.

So I guess the summary of actions I could and should have taken. Never never ever ever send money ahead. Even when you think you know them. And if I girl gives you the "I don't want to fuck you" price and no BJ — it ain't going to be good. Kick her out right then. Cut your losses. Other than that don't guess I'the change a thing.

[Steve 9696]

Was reading in another thread where some guys said that guys don't disclose how much work Seeking is or that there are failures amid the successes. Thought I would catalog my 2022 thus far on Seeking with the following caveats:

1. It is a shit ton of work and I put in the time to search, find, chat up, and groom the hotties.

2. I am very good at the game having played it for three years now.

3. I am above average in height, looks (for my age), and charisma.

4. Once you hook a baby you can go back to her months or years later and it's all good. Just fire it back up!

5. It's expensive in the US. Most girls below were 400-500.

Here is the chronology of my Seeking girls THIS YEAR. The good the bad and the ugly. By far good to great. I always give them fake names in my reports here and I can't always remember what I called them so sometimes I may say Girl 5 or something below.

Shayla First girl of the year and best girl of the year. We started out slow and became more and more regular and passionate. She's now officially my mistress. I pay for her place and see her whenever I want. No PPM. Great girl. The best. Def smitten and a little in love.

Layla First saw her in 2020. She was my regular girl for 6-9 months. Seen her a couple times since. She texts and says want to fuck and who am I to say no. 😂 Solid girl. Worth seeing.

Liz First saw her in 2019. We were quick suck and fuck back then but became real friends and lovers whenever in town. But she has a boyfriend now and moved on. Solid girl. Ton of fun.

Kayla This was my Florida girl that I saw monthly in 2021. Happened to get an overnight on way to Medellin and we enjoyed each other overnight. Really quality girl. 10 body.

Nyla 1 Tried this girl when Kayla was acting like the old ball and chain. Goes to show these girls can be naive and emotionally invested. She cried when she found out I was married. But we fucked an hour later. LOL. Not my finest Seeking hour. This girl was fat. No way to sugar coat it. But damn she likes to fuck and suck.

Lucia. Buenos Aires. Drop dead full on 10. Only one ever for me. Sex was mediocre but still a win. OMG.

Meli Buenos Aires. Wow. Hot girl. Big tits. Enthusiastic and fun. No regrets.

Nyla 2 - Last minute snag with the "I'm going out you coming" approach. Beautiful college girl. Super time.

Lei. Actual model / actress no lie. Bit of a flake. Had a great time but she stung me for $700 (in addition to 700 ppm! So this was def a fail in the end. But soooo fun the one night we had.

Alexa My longest standing SB. From 2019. I've flown her to Miami and seen her in Vegas. Adore this girl. Will see her whenever wherever she wants.

Sarah Fun and smart girl. Flew her to Europe from London. Great time but faded. Have a new London girl now.

Maria Only full on failure this year. Nice dinner but she clearly didn't want to fuck me. Had a quick fuck NOT to completion and got her the fuck out. Yes. Bad experiences do happen even to me.

Malo. Copenhagen- last minute score. Nice enough banter. Heavy girl. Mediocre sex. Not quite a fail but def not a win either.

Talita. New London girl. Subject of recent report. Wowza. Great fun. Great attitude. Great sex. Great price. Will repeat!

So there you have it. With all the caveats. By my tally out of 14 experiences this year, 11 were good to great, 2 were mediocre, and one was an utter fail. As I wrote this down I was surprised how many are repeats. Five girls I had met in 2019-2021! So going to have to say that is another strong point for SA. Once you make a "girlfriend" you can have her off and on again for quite some time. A girl in every port so to speak!

Ps All girls were dinner and straight to room first night (Shayla was in second date for logistical reasons). No coffee dates. All girls were 22-24. Believe Alexa is 25 now and Layla 26.

[Matthew44]

Had Google Fi for a few trips now. It's magic. Worth every penny of $73/ month. Works everywhere. Unlimited data. So refreshing vs trying to get local SIM or get by from hotspot to hotspot (not recommended! Def check out Google FI if good comms with girls when you travel is important. Couldn't be happier.

One thing you do have to watch out for with Google Fi, is that eventually they will disable the data service, if you are outside of the US for too long. Apparently it is in the Terms of Service that although they offer free international data roaming, it is not intended to be done on a regular basis. That is, for vacations or short trips, you should be fine. But for longer stays, they can potentially discontinue your service, and you will still be charged for your plan, but unable to use it.

This year I stayed in Colombia for three months, and the phone worked perfect for the first two months. In the third month I received the following message:

"As a reminder, Fi's Terms of Service require you to use our service primarily in the United States (territories not included), and it looks like you've been predominantly using Fi abroad. In 30 days, we'll need to suspend your international roaming data capabilities unless you start using Fi in the United States again (territories not included). Your calls and texts will not be impacted."

Fortunately, my was trip ending in less than 30 days, so using the phone in the US again was not a problem. But next year I plan on traveling for nine months, so it may be problematic. I plan to use local SIMs to supplement my Fi plan, with the hope that low data usage will lead them to not turn off data while I am traveling. (Note: You can still use data while on WiFi, you just won't be able to use data over mobile networks.).

In any case, just a caveat to keep in mind, for those of you doing prolonged stays. Otherwise, Google Fi has worked great for me.

[DonCarlos1234]

DF, you have an interesting take on the one versus many issue,
I am not saying one way is better than the other, and no guy should go the route of one woman only just to do it. There are just too few women especially today worthy of commitment. A guy's happiness is way more important than societal norms. I just wanted to bring up the pluses and minuses as I have seen them of having five women versus one.

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Few if any single guys get to have these choices. Elvis, Drama & few others. Few if any could meet the kind of girls (women) that would be potential "Soul / Sex mates" except for SA. IMHO 6 years ago I discovered ISG & SA about the same time. Then I was living in Baja close to HKTJ and at first I thought these guys are all sicko, perverts and womanizers. Well now here I am. For me (maybe it's an excuse) I figure between my age and my career (I do erotic art sort of) LOL I feel the girls I've met deserve more than I can afford of my time. Attention and feelings. So having fresh horses to carry me to the finish line (pun intended) at this stage seems FANTASTIC! But having just one is still a little scary. Good Luck guys and tell me how things work out in Medellin 4 you Chicago.

[DonCarlos1234]

I unfortunately have that ingrained Midwestern trait of wanting to get value for what I pay LOL. Of course doing bareback, multiple pops, and the girl being gorgeous is worth all of that (and up to $140). I'm also here for 3 weeks on this trip so was trying to be thoughtful in feeling 'the goring rate' out first.

Some part of it may also be that it's earlier in the week. I've found girls become much more communicative towards the weekend as they arrange their plans and try to fit in a trick.

I am also (originally) from Chi Town / NW Indiana. And will be in Colombia for 3 weeks (maybe more) starting Thanksgiving. In the past I paid girls (who asked) what they asked for. Way more than anyone on the Medellin board would want to hear about. Now my concern is which girls to see on this next trip. One thinks she is in love. LOL.

SA banned me around 6 months ago. But I ran out of time to contact all the numbers I had saved. I still would like to get back on and see who is available.