Seeking Arrangements

[LshRoomer]

We have all heard the line on SA that chemistry will determine that night's / date's trajectory. I have never taken issue because I have gotten along (didn't bang) with every girl that I've met on Seeking. Some have resulted in multiple bangs or long term arrangements, while others have ended with a single date and maybe some DFK or a BJ.

Maybe my perspective was too externalized, but I never considered that I might be the one not feeling the chemistry.

Last time I was in Spain, one of the girls I found was a Peruvian that spoke perfect english and had a great what'sapp vibe. Instead of heading to a restaurant or bar / lounge, she wanted to head to the park to do some martial arts. . She wanted me to show her some Muay Thai (MT) and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) and I agreed like "hell yeah!, that sounds like fun" Her profile: Thin, perfect height, with small tits and an in-shape ass. She was definitely within the limited sphere of my preferred girl to bang. She showed up in workout gear and she was pretty, with long black hair.

Body, face, smile, smell, teeth. She ticked all the boxes. Upon first inspection, I got a little excited thinking, "I'm going to be banging this girl before the night's out".

We hit the park and we started with MT. Fun. After combos, We did some clench work, which for those who don't know MT, it's grabbing the base of the skull, back of the head, or back of the neck to control your opponent, while pressing in your hips to theirs in order not to catch a knee to the gut or junk (pretty much, it's close AF). When you do this with a girl, there is definitely a sexual component. While doing this, I thought, WTF. Nothing. Where is the "sexiness" that I know accompanies this? "Whatever", I thought. I figured it was nothing. We moved onto BJJ and I showed her a few moves that required her to be in a top position with me on my back (Hip on hip or D on V) I felt nothing again (no blood flow down below, nada) and she didn't show any signs either. No prolonged stares, or hip movement, close to face lingering (nothing). I thought, "This girl has no sexual energy!" Even though I thought this, I still would have smashed (to get another chronicle for self and forum LOL). We had a drink after the park and my thought was that any issue I had at a the park would def go away after a few drinks. During the drinks, she mentions she has a BF at home and they are in an open relationship. She's a swinger and her dude thinks Seeking is a great idea for her. After drinks we end up at the park around the corner from my apt and we hang out there for a while. Dudes, I felt nothing. I even tried to imagine banging her in order to get the juices flowing and nothing. . I have been with girls that are not as pretty and have had to keep myself under control. Not the case with her. There was no chemistry.

It's 11 PM at this point and we have been together for about 7 hours. She mentioned that we should go to my place and order some takeout. I declined and made up an excuse about work. I called her an uber and went home alone. Even when we hugged, there was nothing from my side. Her body was pressed completely against mine and I felt nothing. It wasn't her looks, or her attitude, or any of the normal stuff that kills the mood. She literally had no sexual energy.

So, Shroomer doesn't give up that easily. As I mentioned, she was my type. She hit me up to go to dinner 2 days later. After dinner, we started walking toward my place and it's about a 15 min walk. During that time, I decided to start fresh with testing the waters (touching, being close, etc) while we were walking. She never moved away, but had no energy to respond to. We decided to go back to my place and chill out. Of course, I thought that since we were going to be on my turf that it was a done deal. I was wrong. We arrived and she never put on the brakes, but there was no desire to fuel my action. I contrast this with Maria that looks deep in your eyes while you are talking and nods her head in a way that gets the blood flowing mid-sentence. Her eyes are saying kiss me, while you are trying to finish your thought (report coming on her later). The Peruvian was open, talkative, amiable, and pleasant to be around. But. No sexual energy at all!!

I've met girls from SA that I didn't' want to bang before, but never met a girl that I would bang, but had no chemical reaction for it. It's like your eyes like her, but your body has no interest. Her lack of sexuality actually killed mine.

Chemistry is a thing. . 02.

[EuropeanDmv75]

Thanks for your feedback. Are you able to share the SA handles?

The first two girls, I had already met them during other visits to CDMX. Not sure if they are still active in SA. I will ask them and if they are and cool with sharing their handle, I will let you know. The 3rd one deactivated her handle and she is not responding to WhatsApp. If she responds, I will let you know. But going forward I will try to be more mindful about this. Good luck in your search!

[EuropeanDmv75]

I have to say, you have impressive range in your tastes.

I guess, pussy is pussy and sometimes it is all you care about, not a specific type. I would love to hear what % you scored from this list.

[Simplii]

Thanks for Sharing. This is great information and it would be great if more people would contribute information like this. So my question for you, did you actually meet any of these girls or just kind of negotiated with them but have not met them yet? I identified a few of the girls in your list and I will provide some more info as soon as I finish some work presentations.

Some girls I meet and some many others only negotiated so far. There's no time enough to meet all of them in one week. LOL.

I hope I come back with some insights this weekend related to the list or maybe some others.

[AmericanPi]

I have to say, you have impressive range in your tastes.

Hello Guys!

Let's share to the community my last week findings related to Seeking in Mexico City and Metropolitan Area.

The following girls are willing to have a NSA dates inside an hotel room. You know what I mean.

Not sure if all of them speaks English but you can try to be speak with them and it's ok if you go directly to the point but please: don't be rude. Be gentle and polite. There are most probably not pros.

Price amounts may not be fixed, it will depends on the agreement, how you looks, how you talk to them, if you are foreigner, etc etc.

Please, be caution and Enjoy!

Amount Mexican Peso / Link.

1. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-487e0d7c2eba.

2. $1500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-74e6515fa3b1.

3. $4000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-729a383ff1ad.

4. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-759191619615.

5. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...3-b64270d37fb9.

6. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-595956399cae.

7. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-9402119f97b3.

8. $1000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a576b03f52bf.

9. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-2ec44494a4ae.

10. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-01622621a98f.

11. $2500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-0f28c785adaa.

12. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-c823a97fa445.

Please, if you have more info with links please share!

[The Cane]

Hello Guys!

Let's share to the community my last week findings related to Seeking in Mexico City and Metropolitan Area.

The following girls are willing to have a NSA dates inside an hotel room. You know what I mean.

Not sure if all of them speaks English but you can try to be speak with them and it's ok if you go directly to the point but please: don't be rude. Be gentle and polite. There are most probably not pros.

Price amounts may not be fixed, it will depends on the agreement, how you looks, how you talk to them, if you are foreigner, etc etc.

Please, be caution and Enjoy!

Amount Mexican Peso / Link.

1. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-487e0d7c2eba.

2. $1500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-74e6515fa3b1.

3. $4000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-729a383ff1ad.

4. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-759191619615.

5. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...3-b64270d37fb9.

6. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-595956399cae.

7. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-9402119f97b3.

8. $1000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a576b03f52bf.

9. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-2ec44494a4ae.

10. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-01622621a98f.

11. $2500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-0f28c785adaa.

12. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-c823a97fa445.

Please, if you have more info with links please share!

I checked these out, and the absolute hottest one based on her pics that I would fuck no questions asked is "Lizy". In fact, she's the only one of the bunch who I find to be a "hottie". She's one of the most expensive ones too. I always did have expensive taste LOL! Oh, and after I checked out her profile she favorited me! Now if only I could get my dick (and ATM card) to Mexico City hehehe.

[Pk099]

Hello Guys!

Let's share to the community my last week findings related to Seeking in Mexico City and Metropolitan Area.

The following girls are willing to have a NSA dates inside an hotel room. You know what I mean.

Not sure if all of them speaks English but you can try to be speak with them and it's ok if you go directly to the point but please: don't be rude. Be gentle and polite. There are most probably not pros.

Price amounts may not be fixed, it will depends on the agreement, how you looks, how you talk to them, if you are foreigner, etc etc.

Please, be caution and Enjoy!

Amount Mexican Peso / Link.

1. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-487e0d7c2eba.

2. $1500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-74e6515fa3b1.

3. $4000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-729a383ff1ad.

4. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-759191619615.

5. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...3-b64270d37fb9.

6. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-595956399cae.

7. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-9402119f97b3.

8. $1000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a576b03f52bf.

9. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-2ec44494a4ae.

10. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-01622621a98f.

11. $2500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-0f28c785adaa.

12. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-c823a97fa445.

Please, if you have more info with links please share!

Met this girl today.

$3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-99da088f69f6.

Report will follow tomorrow.

BTW, she is ok to share her WhatsApp ISG number with other members.

If any of other girls ok to share their contact info, can you message me their number please?

[Elvis 2008]

I bought Skittles to pass out on Halloween. Now I'm starting to think that might not be such a good idea.

Yeah, do not pass them out to the kids. You will get some angry moms. But if you wait until the adults only Halloween party, you will be up to your eyeballs in MILFs. LOL.

[Elvis 2008]

I am not against being involved with women that have children, but they really need to have the shit together, otherwise it is no go for me. Also, if I date a girl that has children in Mexico that probably means her mom is totally involved or they are living together to help out. This is no go, as well, just too much drama.

LOL. Yeah, in my case, child's father is totally out of the picture. She is not speaking with her mother and has not for years, and her father is older, has health issues, and cheated with three different women when married (my kind of guy LOL.) so his opinion on us will probably go in one ear and out the other if he had one.

I remember when I first got married how about parent's approval and how it was so important, and in hindsight, it was really more of a burden than anything else. More often than not like you found, parents have their own agenda and it is often not what is in their child's best interest. It is like when you introduce a gal to family it is your way of saying it is legit, but lately, I have been like I am too fucking old to need anyone else's approval.

One gal I was dating had a daughter, and I did not even need to meet her to know we were not getting serious. I knew this kid at age 3 would be in and out of detention every week for the rest of her life, and I thought to myself, "I am too old for this shit. " There definitely was going to be conflicts with me and her over this kid in the future.

With my current gal, her daughter is the opposite. She does not get into trouble, is adventurous but follows the rules enough and loves to play. And she is a pretty thing and is #1 in her class. Without even my saying so, she has already implied she wants me to be her father figure. She wants to be a doctor, and I think she has the brains, work ethic, and mental stamina to get there. That is rare for me to say or think that, and she is young.

Thing about Colombia DF is I think you saw the lower parts of Colombia. Paulie said Colombia as a country is one big con, and I would say that is true for like 90 or 95% of the country. JJBee said that Americans cannot date the Colombian elites, but guys who used seeking including me did it all the time. He portrays himself as a Colombia expert and there have been so many times, I want to say, "MF, you have no clue what you are talking about. ".

So yeah, the non-elites of Colombia are probably what you saw and Paulie described, but it is different at the top levels. You cannot be cocky when you see the homework this young girl gets. What she is studying is as advanced if not more so than when I was her age, and she studies her ass off. The Colombian elites have an educational program on par with the Asian nations. Colombia is poor, and the elites think their children have to study hard and do well in school to stave off poverty. This has been a shock to me DF. It is a Colombia few here see, talk, or know about.

The good thing on Colombia is that they actually list which neighborhoods are the best on a 1 to 6 scale with a 6 being top. There was one really hot gal I introduced a friend too. She seemed too greedy to me so I passed on her but I was with my gal when my friend and this gal met. This gal was on seeking. I told the friend of mine not to give her any money but he did, and she took it and ran. Do you know what my gal's first words were about her before I said anything? She lives in a lower class neighborhood.

I am not sure Colombia is all that great for P4P. It is a great cheap place so if you want quantity and do not care about quality, there are not many places better. However, if you want quality, you want to shoot for those in white collar positions or students looking to join the white collar work force. For a guy looking for a SB or GF, forget about anything else. Colombia is 95% WGs and the beauty of it is you can usually tell where the elite SB type women are just by asking where they live.

But outside of seeking, I do not know any other way to get to the elite class. You can imagine they pretty much hang out with their own.

[RamDavidson84]

Are there any other apps in the USA / Latin America that are comparable to Seeking? And I mean apps for sugarbabies and pros, not apps for normal girls like Tinder.

[EuropeanDmv75]

Hello Guys!

Let's share to the community my last week findings related to Seeking in Mexico City and Metropolitan Area.

The following girls are willing to have a NSA dates inside an hotel room. You know what I mean.

Not sure if all of them speaks English but you can try to be speak with them and it's ok if you go directly to the point but please: don't be rude. Be gentle and polite. There are most probably not pros.

Price amounts may not be fixed, it will depends on the agreement, how you looks, how you talk to them, if you are foreigner, etc etc.

Please, be caution and Enjoy!

Amount Mexican Peso / Link.

1. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-487e0d7c2eba.

2. $1500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-74e6515fa3b1.

3. $4000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-729a383ff1ad.

4. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-759191619615.

5. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...3-b64270d37fb9.

6. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-595956399cae.

7. $5000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-9402119f97b3.

8. $1000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a576b03f52bf.

9. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-2ec44494a4ae.

10. $2000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-01622621a98f.

11. $2500 - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-0f28c785adaa.

12. $3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-c823a97fa445.

Please, if you have more info with links please share!

Thanks for Sharing. This is great information and it would be great if more people would contribute information like this. So my question for you, did you actually meet any of these girls or just kind of negotiated with them but have not met them yet? I identified a few of the girls in your list and I will provide some more info as soon as I finish some work presentations.

[DramaFree11]

MW, there may have been a time that I traveled to sin city with a couple of other guys and they really like Skittles but I really did not care for it. Skittles are a delight to the senses. Right? So one guy says "We need to find a woman who will fuck all three of us. " Amazingly, we find such a woman, and she asks for money, and one guys says, "Can we give you Skittles in place of money? And she says yes. I had never done that before and was shocked at how easy it was, but in hindsight, if we gave her money and she went and bought her own Skittles, we were contributing to her tooth decay just the same right?

There was a time in the strip clubs in the 90's every dancer and waitress was going to medical school or law school. I talked to one and she had no fucking clue what she was talking about and then I realized it was just a ruse. The line worked initially because the guys felt badly about giving these women the money and wanted to think they were "helping the women out" when the women were probably just buying skittles as well.

The whole idea of having a SB was like having a daughter you helped but for the most part the relationships would end in part because I realized there were no helping these women. You try to meet their needs and they just got more needy. It is easier for them to run to another fisherman than for the women to learn to fish on their own.

It is very rare to find a woman especially in this world who is worthy of an investment of time and money. When you mention friendship, real friendship is helping each other out. Has she done anything to help you? Or is she just the kind of woman who thinks your talking to her and buying her dinner every once in a while is what she does for you?

Have you heard women talk about men? There is this I like Asian guys or I like tall guys. Why is that better than being with guys who work hard, have money, and been successful? Since when is what you look like more important than what you do?

It is in one sense. With the tall guys or Asian guys, the women may really be interested in the guy. I could be wrong MW and maybe this woman is hanging around you and really enjoys your company, but she does not sound like a friend to me. My real friends would help my kids out without a quid pro quo. She sounds like a WG sucking up money and favors from men without putting out.

And if that is the case, then fuck her and do not think twice about it.

So true about the Strip Clubs, the main reason I stop going, is I would get so depressed hearing these girls crazy stories. Yes, they lie, but when it comes to kids, there is no reason to lie. It was so sad they would be wasted out of their mines late afternoons. Many were addicted to substances and the damage this was causing their families, is just horrible. I have been back with girls, a few times, that is always fun, but by myself, I cannot remember the last time I went.

You would think in Mexico I would be meeting a lot of girls that have children, but it has totally been the opposite then in the states. Of all the girls I have met, maybe 10% have kids in Mexico,(Maybe even lower), and this also applies to when I was traveling in Moscow / Ukraine.

I am not against being involved with women that have children, but they really need to have the shit together, otherwise it is no go for me. Also, if I date a girl that has children in Mexico that probably means her mom is totally involved or they are living together to help out. This is no go, as well, just too much drama.

[WyattEarp]

MW, there may have been a time that I traveled to sin city with a couple of other guys and they really like Skittles but I really did not care for it. Skittles are a delight to the senses. Right? So one guy says "We need to find a woman who will fuck all three of us. " Amazingly, we find such a woman, and she asks for money, and one guys says, "Can we give you Skittles in place of money? And she says yes. I had never done that before and was shocked at how easy it was, but in hindsight, if we gave her money and she went and bought her own Skittles, we were contributing to her tooth decay just the same right?

There was a time in the strip clubs in the 90's every dancer and waitress was going to medical school or law school. I talked to one and she had no fucking clue what she was talking about and then I realized it was just a ruse. The line worked initially because the guys felt badly about giving these women the money and wanted to think they were "helping the women out" when the women were probably just buying skittles as well.

I bought Skittles to pass out on Halloween. Now I'm starting to think that might not be such a good idea.

[AmericanPi]

There is an irony in having this conversation here.

If seeking has taught me something, it's that you can have young, available, disposable poon pretty much when you want it.

Why even bother with the emotional baggage of all of this? For a late 30's mom? With those kinds of potential complications? She wanted marriage, you wanted fwb. This just seems like it's three or four more posts away from going off the rails.

I know a hot late-30's single mom. I tried to have an NSA FWB relationship with her, but she wanted a real relationship and marriage. I told her that I did not want that. All this was about a year ago. Eventually, we just became texting buddies, but texting only about once per month.

A couple of months ago, she started asking me for advice about her 11-year old son. He's not too bright. I gave her some suggestions. Recently, she asked me if her son could get into a USA University, even if he finished at the bottom of his class, which is where he is usually. I actually have a pretty good connection to an average level USA College. I told her that I would try to get him into that college. Wow, she was so grateful! Should I try to f**k her now? Or does this make me a low-life? I honestly will try to help him when the time comes, but it will take some effort on my part.

[Midwestern]

At akibono at steve.

Thanks for the nudge. Will proceed.