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10-11-22 21:36 #4008
Posts: 164Chemistry is a thing
We have all heard the line on SA that chemistry will determine that night's / date's trajectory. I have never taken issue because I have gotten along (didn't bang) with every girl that I've met on Seeking. Some have resulted in multiple bangs or long term arrangements, while others have ended with a single date and maybe some DFK or a BJ.
Maybe my perspective was too externalized, but I never considered that I might be the one not feeling the chemistry.
Last time I was in Spain, one of the girls I found was a Peruvian that spoke perfect english and had a great what'sapp vibe. Instead of heading to a restaurant or bar / lounge, she wanted to head to the park to do some martial arts. . She wanted me to show her some Muay Thai (MT) and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) and I agreed like "hell yeah!, that sounds like fun" Her profile: Thin, perfect height, with small tits and an in-shape ass. She was definitely within the limited sphere of my preferred girl to bang. She showed up in workout gear and she was pretty, with long black hair.
Body, face, smile, smell, teeth. She ticked all the boxes. Upon first inspection, I got a little excited thinking, "I'm going to be banging this girl before the night's out".
We hit the park and we started with MT. Fun. After combos, We did some clench work, which for those who don't know MT, it's grabbing the base of the skull, back of the head, or back of the neck to control your opponent, while pressing in your hips to theirs in order not to catch a knee to the gut or junk (pretty much, it's close AF). When you do this with a girl, there is definitely a sexual component. While doing this, I thought, WTF. Nothing. Where is the "sexiness" that I know accompanies this? "Whatever", I thought. I figured it was nothing. We moved onto BJJ and I showed her a few moves that required her to be in a top position with me on my back (Hip on hip or D on V) I felt nothing again (no blood flow down below, nada) and she didn't show any signs either. No prolonged stares, or hip movement, close to face lingering (nothing). I thought, "This girl has no sexual energy!" Even though I thought this, I still would have smashed (to get another chronicle for self and forum LOL). We had a drink after the park and my thought was that any issue I had at a the park would def go away after a few drinks. During the drinks, she mentions she has a BF at home and they are in an open relationship. She's a swinger and her dude thinks Seeking is a great idea for her. After drinks we end up at the park around the corner from my apt and we hang out there for a while. Dudes, I felt nothing. I even tried to imagine banging her in order to get the juices flowing and nothing. . I have been with girls that are not as pretty and have had to keep myself under control. Not the case with her. There was no chemistry.
It's 11 PM at this point and we have been together for about 7 hours. She mentioned that we should go to my place and order some takeout. I declined and made up an excuse about work. I called her an uber and went home alone. Even when we hugged, there was nothing from my side. Her body was pressed completely against mine and I felt nothing. It wasn't her looks, or her attitude, or any of the normal stuff that kills the mood. She literally had no sexual energy.
So, Shroomer doesn't give up that easily. As I mentioned, she was my type. She hit me up to go to dinner 2 days later. After dinner, we started walking toward my place and it's about a 15 min walk. During that time, I decided to start fresh with testing the waters (touching, being close, etc) while we were walking. She never moved away, but had no energy to respond to. We decided to go back to my place and chill out. Of course, I thought that since we were going to be on my turf that it was a done deal. I was wrong. We arrived and she never put on the brakes, but there was no desire to fuel my action. I contrast this with Maria that looks deep in your eyes while you are talking and nods her head in a way that gets the blood flowing mid-sentence. Her eyes are saying kiss me, while you are trying to finish your thought (report coming on her later). The Peruvian was open, talkative, amiable, and pleasant to be around. But. No sexual energy at all!!
I've met girls from SA that I didn't' want to bang before, but never met a girl that I would bang, but had no chemical reaction for it. It's like your eyes like her, but your body has no interest. Her lack of sexuality actually killed mine.
Chemistry is a thing. . 02.
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10-11-22 19:13 #4007
Posts: 18Originally Posted by Kohlisaab [View Original Post]
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10-11-22 19:01 #4006
Posts: 18Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
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10-11-22 17:46 #4005
Posts: 34Originally Posted by EuropeanDmv75 [View Original Post]
I hope I come back with some insights this weekend related to the list or maybe some others.
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10-11-22 13:12 #4004
Posts: 585I have to say, you have impressive range in your tastes.
Originally Posted by Simplii [View Original Post]
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10-11-22 12:47 #4003
Posts: 6413Lizy
Originally Posted by Simplii [View Original Post]
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10-11-22 05:26 #4002
Posts: 80Originally Posted by Simplii [View Original Post]
$3000 - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-99da088f69f6.
Report will follow tomorrow.
BTW, she is ok to share her WhatsApp ISG number with other members.
If any of other girls ok to share their contact info, can you message me their number please?
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10-11-22 04:27 #4001
Posts: 3205Originally Posted by WyattEarp [View Original Post]
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10-11-22 04:26 #4000
Posts: 3205Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
I remember when I first got married how about parent's approval and how it was so important, and in hindsight, it was really more of a burden than anything else. More often than not like you found, parents have their own agenda and it is often not what is in their child's best interest. It is like when you introduce a gal to family it is your way of saying it is legit, but lately, I have been like I am too fucking old to need anyone else's approval.
One gal I was dating had a daughter, and I did not even need to meet her to know we were not getting serious. I knew this kid at age 3 would be in and out of detention every week for the rest of her life, and I thought to myself, "I am too old for this shit. " There definitely was going to be conflicts with me and her over this kid in the future.
With my current gal, her daughter is the opposite. She does not get into trouble, is adventurous but follows the rules enough and loves to play. And she is a pretty thing and is #1 in her class. Without even my saying so, she has already implied she wants me to be her father figure. She wants to be a doctor, and I think she has the brains, work ethic, and mental stamina to get there. That is rare for me to say or think that, and she is young.
Thing about Colombia DF is I think you saw the lower parts of Colombia. Paulie said Colombia as a country is one big con, and I would say that is true for like 90 or 95% of the country. JJBee said that Americans cannot date the Colombian elites, but guys who used seeking including me did it all the time. He portrays himself as a Colombia expert and there have been so many times, I want to say, "MF, you have no clue what you are talking about. ".
So yeah, the non-elites of Colombia are probably what you saw and Paulie described, but it is different at the top levels. You cannot be cocky when you see the homework this young girl gets. What she is studying is as advanced if not more so than when I was her age, and she studies her ass off. The Colombian elites have an educational program on par with the Asian nations. Colombia is poor, and the elites think their children have to study hard and do well in school to stave off poverty. This has been a shock to me DF. It is a Colombia few here see, talk, or know about.
The good thing on Colombia is that they actually list which neighborhoods are the best on a 1 to 6 scale with a 6 being top. There was one really hot gal I introduced a friend too. She seemed too greedy to me so I passed on her but I was with my gal when my friend and this gal met. This gal was on seeking. I told the friend of mine not to give her any money but he did, and she took it and ran. Do you know what my gal's first words were about her before I said anything? She lives in a lower class neighborhood.
I am not sure Colombia is all that great for P4P. It is a great cheap place so if you want quantity and do not care about quality, there are not many places better. However, if you want quality, you want to shoot for those in white collar positions or students looking to join the white collar work force. For a guy looking for a SB or GF, forget about anything else. Colombia is 95% WGs and the beauty of it is you can usually tell where the elite SB type women are just by asking where they live.
But outside of seeking, I do not know any other way to get to the elite class. You can imagine they pretty much hang out with their own.
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10-11-22 01:44 #3999
Posts: 387What are the best Apps besides SA?
Are there any other apps in the USA / Latin America that are comparable to Seeking? And I mean apps for sugarbabies and pros, not apps for normal girls like Tinder.
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10-11-22 00:20 #3998
Posts: 18Great information
Originally Posted by Simplii [View Original Post]
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10-10-22 19:50 #3997
Posts: 2793Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
You would think in Mexico I would be meeting a lot of girls that have children, but it has totally been the opposite then in the states. Of all the girls I have met, maybe 10% have kids in Mexico,(Maybe even lower), and this also applies to when I was traveling in Moscow / Ukraine.
I am not against being involved with women that have children, but they really need to have the shit together, otherwise it is no go for me. Also, if I date a girl that has children in Mexico that probably means her mom is totally involved or they are living together to help out. This is no go, as well, just too much drama.
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10-10-22 18:43 #3996
Posts: 2041Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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10-10-22 13:57 #3995
Posts: 585There is an irony in having this conversation here.
If seeking has taught me something, it's that you can have young, available, disposable poon pretty much when you want it.
Why even bother with the emotional baggage of all of this? For a late 30's mom? With those kinds of potential complications? She wanted marriage, you wanted fwb. This just seems like it's three or four more posts away from going off the rails.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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10-10-22 10:15 #3994
Posts: 1202At akibono at steve.
Thanks for the nudge. Will proceed.