Seeking Arrangements

[NapataJohn]

SA ID Naturalbeauty.

You think she is natural and a beauty?

[DramaFree11]

So I met this lady from Seeking Arrangement Dubai last night, my first SA Dxb experience, and it was a fucking nightmare. I'll keep it brief and will then throw in a question for you guys in order to get some sage advice:

I guess she's back, phone number ending digits are 887; call herself Raphaelle. Very pushy, straight to the point and wanted to book restaurant herself for date night.

SA ID Naturalbeauty.

Thank you for the story. One rule I have implemented, is if the girls phone number does not match up with the area I am targeting, it is usually a huge red flag, and instant block. If this is the case I usually require a Video Chat. Most of the time I just block them, and focus on a local. If they are from another countries they are usually asking for way more then the going rate and are usually more demanding.

Also, if a girl is demanding from the beginning, this is a turn off to me and usually I move on. There are lots of great girls available, just move on.

[WildMan1971]

So I met this lady from Seeking Arrangement Dubai last night, my first SA Dxb experience, and it was a fucking nightmare. I'll keep it brief and will then throw in a question for you guys in order to get some sage advice:

I guess she's back, phone number ending digits are 887; call herself Raphaelle. Very pushy, straight to the point and wanted to book restaurant herself for date night.

SA ID Naturalbeauty.

[DramaFree11]

This is the first time that I have brought along a small vibrator, no more than the size of two index fingers wrapped around, to my trip. What a huge difference it makes to the sex with the girls.

I have used it so far with two girls this week, and I am surprised how intense it was for them and in turn how turned on it was for me. When they get that horny and aroused, anything becomes possible with them. The trick is as the dick slides in and out regardless of which position, place the vibratory on the girl's clits, and you will see the huge difference it makes.

Girls love vibrators!! In America guys will probably be replaced by vibrators.

[Ggekko2009]

This is the first time that I have brought along a small vibrator, no more than the size of two index fingers wrapped around, to my trip. What a huge difference it makes to the sex with the girls.

I have used it so far with two girls this week, and I am surprised how intense it was for them and in turn how turned on it was for me. When they get that horny and aroused, anything becomes possible with them. The trick is as the dick slides in and out regardless of which position, place the vibratory on the girl's clits, and you will see the huge difference it makes.

[Mongerer88]

My guess is that she's never done this before and so she was a little nervous and did not know what to do. Her considering a career as a gendarme is not a total shocker to me. I have known several young women that did not have college degrees, skills, or any good job prospects, consider such careers. The last SB that I had had previously tried a career in the military because she could not think of any other job that she could do or wanted to do.

I agree. Nothing inconsistent there.

Sex work, particularly escorting, pays well for short bursts of intense action with a hell of a lot more downtime and administrative work than anyone realizes. A lady might like to do more than one job like that. A sex worker (or Sugar Baby) can also be a mountain rescuer.

I have seen more than one escort who was a paramedic, a job that pays surprisingly little compared to the benefits provided to society.

Mountain rescue is similar to a paramedic, presumably with even less constant action.

Policewoman is interesting. Obviously a front page story if it got publicized in a country where the activity was illegal on both sides.

But downtime is another related concept. One escort I see was once a private detective. The kind hired to do stakeouts and take pictures of potential insurance fraud people. She worked by herself on assignments, so she had time to do both of her jobs.

I think that Sugaring is an increasingly lucrative option in this "work from home" environment. Hard to track every employee all the time.

[EuropeanDmv75]

I had a quick visit to CDMX because of personal commitment this past weekend. I arrived on Friday around 4 pm and went straight to my hotel (City Express Plus Reformal El Angel). I like this place because it is a moderate price and centrally located. Just a few steps walking distance from Angel of Independencia and in the middle of Zona Rosa so a lot of bars and restaurants around.

I had already made plans with Ingrid which I had met from previous visits so she came to my hotel and when she was there I just came down and we went to Cantina La20 that is across the street for a few drinks. I like this place. It is a little pricey for Mexico standards but cheaper than any similar establishment in USA. After a few drinks, we headed back to the hotel and I fucked her two times. Because I know her, she lets me fuck her bareback which is always a plus. She was willing to spend the night but I had plans with another girl for breakfast so I just told her I was too tired. Overall, we spent around 4 hours together (including drinks) and I gave her 2500 MX. I had a very good time with her.

Next morning I woke up early and I had made plans to meet Ximena at 930 am. She is 25 and a law student from University Anahuac. She arrived a little late but she came straight to my room. We talked a little bit and then we proceeded to have some fun. We spent 2.5 hours together and I was able to get 2 pops out of it. I could have spent more time with her but I had a personal commitment so that was all the time I had. The damage was 4000 for our encounter. It is usually more than what I pay but she comes from a wealthier background so it is just economics. I did not mind paying that as she is always fun and eager to please.

The rest of the day I spent with my family celebrating my cousin's 40th birthday (the main reason I came this weekend). I was debating whether to have someone come over late in the evening but I knew I would be too tired and probably a little drunk to really enjoy it. It turned out to be a good decision.

I woke up late and met some friends for lunch. I had started talking with Ana in SA one week earlier and made arrangements to meet her on Sunday early evening. She is 20, university student, curvy. She arrived on time and she was very friendly and nice. She gave me a nice BBBJ and let me finish in her mouth. We had some wine and talked more and then I fucked her. My flight was early morning on Monday so I did not even try for her to stay the night. I usually like them a little skinnier but she had nice curves. I will definitely consider her for future visits.

Overall, it was a very nice and enjoyable weekend. I will be returning in a few weeks for the whole week so it should be fun.

[Midwestern]

And then I ask her what she does and she says she wants to become part of a mountain rescuer team but for now she is a ... GENDARME. Pardon me? Gendarmes are technically part of the french military but they act on a civilian level, so like the police but they have different tasks. Bruh. I didn't even flinch at that point and she kept going like everything was normal. Now I don't remember if it was before or after she told me she was a gendarme but she straight up asked "It doesn't bother you that I'm 20 years old?". "I mumbled no, you're above 18, it's your choice". Then she stopped. We kept talking a little bit. And then I came back to this and said "Sooo... gendarme, huh? That's not very common to stumble upon a gendarme..." and she says "oh it's more common than you think but WE just don't tell YOU (plural you)". Akward silence.... I look at the balcony. Waiting... Just say to her "Hmm... What can I do for you?". She says "Nothing"... Akward silence for 5 minutes.She asks me "so should I go take a shower?" Pardon, the what? (I asked her before on Snap to get a shower after we talked on the balcony). Now at that time I was expecting the police to knock on my door at anytime. I didn't remember what was the law about prostitution and if they were looking for men trying to fuck with underage girl. I just smiled and say "it's not necessary". She went to the door, asked me again what city and the address here was and then left.
I stayed on the balcony one hour, looking to see if the cops would pull up but nope. Haven't received anything by mail either.

Now this whole situation was really bizarre.
- This girl wrote perfect french, I even complimented her on that. Most girl her age are pathetic in this regard
- The conversation was a conversation I could have had with any other girl, not a single hint she was fishing for something/someone
- She came on a Sunday night, so technically way out of working time
- She clearly mentioned she was a kind of cop, half way
- Her mentioning if it didn't bother me that she was 20 was really weird and out of the blue
- She used Snapchat, which auto-deletes the messages. Why go for this one instead of Whatsapp which keeps the messages
- She came dressed sexy, sent videos and pictures of her half naked
- I looked up the law and paying for an escort is just a minor offence, not a crime. So you get a fine and that's it

My guess is that she's never done this before and so she was a little nervous and did not know what to do. Her considering a career as a gendarme is not a total shocker to me. I have known several young women that did not have college degrees, skills, or any good job prospects, consider such careers. The last SB that I had had previously tried a career in the military because she could not think of any other job that she could do or wanted to do.

[DramaFree11]

Sorta off topic but I know some of you like to mix it up and mix in the clubs and hookers like I do. You will find my recent 12 girls in seven days jaunt strewn about the various threads. (12 in 7 is a new PR). Here's a quick summary and where to find the reports if you want any more detail.

5 Sharks FKK Frankfurt. Lush FKK with 50-100 girls. Considered one of the best worldwide, tho prices have increased and it's a bit too aggressive IMO. Had three girls in the afternoon and two late night. I tended to go for sweetness and even late twenties early thirties gals not my usual style but it paid off with amazing BBBJ skills.

2 Penlope FKK Dortmund. Smaller than Sharks (the biggest). Maybe 15 girls? Very laid back vibe. No approaches and hard sell. And old school pricing like 50/ half + 30/ CIM. No pressure. Rather likes it. Two girls. Both really good.

1 SA Girl Sarah in London. Been seeing her off and on since May. I really like her but we aren't so sexually compatible as in sometimes can't get it in! Damn. And she wanted to Netflix and chill vs go dancing. Had this "mellowing" of a girl happen before when they start getting comfy. Think we are done.

1 SA Girl in Madrid. See other report on this. She gave me the "I don't want to fuck you" price and I stupidly accepted because clearly she just wanted quick cash. No BJ. WTF. Fucked her some (meh) and gave her $200 and headed to the club.

Steve, sounds like a great trip. I am little jealous.

[Steve 9696]

As a fellow seeking connoisseur, I'm interested to hear your take on vive.

I think we have a similar vibe, but it's the kind of place that seems to me like a pro setting. In other words, the opposite of Seeking. I'm curious what you found good about it. It wasn't just a *****house with girls who get pummeled 5 times a day?

While I like Seeking most, I like many things. In order of preference and why:

Long term Seeking Girlfriend. Feels 100% like the real thing only better. Real affection, no drama. Often bareback.

1-2 Night Seeking Girl. Like the date. Like having to seduce her a bit. Like the "first time" experience.

Nightclub w Girls for hire. Love the party vibe and a world of selection at your fingertips. Knowing every girl there will fuck you with the wave of a finger is intoxicating. Feels sorta real because it feels like any other nightclub mostly.

FKK Club. Same "buffet" and king of the world allure. But the girls all being naked and often pushy spoils the realness. Like the ability to do one. Eat. Do one. Sauna. Do one. Chat w the fellas. That part doesn't suck.

Escort Service. Easy. Great girls with right agency.

Freelance Escort. Not really my thing. Too much bait and switch.

To answer your question no I don't think the Vive girls are getting banged 5 times a day. The number of guys present 1:1 or less kinda prohibits that. And the price point of $250/ HR plus. Just reduces the number of takers. I realized in retrospect that the $50 girls drink and booth might be a bit like lap dance territory and maybe some guys just do that.

Fwiw my 5:30 AM dream girl said she saw me earlier (which would have been between 11 and 2) and that I was the first guy to take her that night and she was very grateful. Could be straight up BS but that's what she said.

[AmericanPi]

As a fellow seeking connoisseur, I'm interested to hear your take on vive.

I think we have a similar vibe, but it's the kind of place that seems to me like a pro setting. In other words, the opposite of Seeking. I'm curious what you found good about it. It wasn't just a *****house with girls who get pummeled 5 times a day?

Sorta off topic but I know some of you like to mix it up and mix in the clubs and hookers like I do. You will find my recent 12 girls in seven days jaunt strewn about the various threads. (12 in 7 is a new PR). Here's a quick summary and where to find the reports if you want any more detail.

5 Sharks FKK Frankfurt. Lush FKK with 50-100 girls. Considered one of the best worldwide, tho prices have increased and it's a bit too aggressive IMO. Had three girls in the afternoon and two late night. I tended to go for sweetness and even late twenties early thirties gals not my usual style but it paid off with amazing BBBJ skills.

2 Penlope FKK Dortmund. Smaller than Sharks (the biggest). Maybe 15 girls? Very laid back vibe. No approaches and hard sell. And old school pricing like 50/ half + 30/ CIM. No pressure. Rather likes it. Two girls. Both really good.

1 SA Girl Sarah in London. Been seeing her off and on since May. I really like her but we aren't so sexually compatible as in sometimes can't get it in! Damn. And she wanted to Netflix and chill vs go dancing. Had this "mellowing" of a girl happen before when they start getting comfy. Think we are done.

1 SA Girl in Madrid. See other report on this. She gave me the "I don't want to fuck you" price and I stupidly accepted because clearly she just wanted quick cash. No BJ. WTF. Fucked her some (meh) and gave her $200 and headed to the club.

3 Vive Madrid. Really liked this club. Devastatingly expensive girl drinks at $50 but if you have cash to burn a fun time. Did a Brasileira, a Dominican, and a Colombiana my dream girl. Came out at 8:30 AM to bright sunlight and almost missed my plane!

Like many of you I adore the Seeking experience and my home girl Shayla is still my number 1 novia. But what fun to let loose as the king of the world for a bit. High recommend!

[Steve 9696]

Sorta off topic but I know some of you like to mix it up and mix in the clubs and hookers like I do. You will find my recent 12 girls in seven days jaunt strewn about the various threads. (12 in 7 is a new PR). Here's a quick summary and where to find the reports if you want any more detail.

5 Sharks FKK Frankfurt. Lush FKK with 50-100 girls. Considered one of the best worldwide, tho prices have increased and it's a bit too aggressive IMO. Had three girls in the afternoon and two late night. I tended to go for sweetness and even late twenties early thirties gals — not my usual style but it paid off with amazing BBBJ skills.

2 Penélope FKK Dortmund. Smaller than Sharks (the biggest). Maybe 15 girls? Very laid back vibe. No approaches and hard sell. And old school pricing like 50/ half + 30/ CIM. No pressure. Rather likes it. Two girls. Both really good.

1 SA Girl Sarah in London. Been seeing her off and on since May. I really like her but we aren't so sexually compatible — as in sometimes can't get it in! Damn. And she wanted to Netflix and chill vs go dancing. Had this "mellowing" of a girl happen before when they start getting comfy. Think we are done.

1 SA Girl in Madrid. See other report on this. She gave me the "I don't want to fuck you" price and I stupidly accepted because clearly she just wanted quick cash. No BJ. WTF. Fucked her some (meh) and gave her $200 and headed to the club.

3 Vive Madrid. Really liked this club. Devastatingly expensive girl drinks at $50 but if you have cash to burn a fun time. Did a Brasileira, a Dominican, and a Colombiana — my dream girl. Came out at 8:30 AM to bright sunlight and almost missed my plane!

Like many of you I adore the Seeking experience and my home girl Shayla is still my number 1 novia. But what fun to let loose as the king of the world for a bit. High recommend!

[Kohlisaab]

Experiences SD in US but this is my first time doing SA in another country. In almost final talks with couple of girls and I have vetted below:

1. Checked their instragram pages and also somehow managed to find their LinkedIn (both are educated and have fairly old LinkedIn profiles).

2. The stories they tell (like about a past trip) seems to align with Insta feed.

3. Video call.

4. Kind of threw them off by asking for unprotected sex and they said No straight away.

I know this is probably more than needed but since this is the first time in CDMX, I wanted to be double sure. Is there anything else I should be doing?

[DramaFree11]

Let's meet up all the Seeking players in Mexico City!

I would like to talk and share ideas about this wonderful lifestyle.

I am here all the time, usually every 10 days. January would be perfect. Flying to CDMX will be expensive during the Holiday season. I looked and Volaris raised prices 300%, you can still fly cheap in Mexico, but not from the states. Airlines Suck!!

[DramaFree11]

So people who have seen my posts here know that I haven't had much success with SA.

A few weeks ago, I got my first real "success" and a VERY interesting encounter.

- Bulgaria: Two weeks before going to Bulgaria, I started messaging girls in Sofia. Not a lot of active girls. Most of them didn't read my message or just ignored it. But this time I got a few answers.

-- Girl 1: responded quickly, 22 yo, slim, fit, good looking. We joked a little bit on SA, switched to WA, and then she said she wanted 500-600 euros. Usually I try to get them back to earth but I didn't want to and I just said 400. To which she replied it wasn't enough and then never answered again.

-- Girl 2: immediately said she would be up to meet for 500 levas for a couple hours (= 250). I think that was the first girl in Europe that didn't start asking for 500-600 euros. Agreed to meet, then later said her mom was in town and she didn't want to let her alone blabla. I still wanted to see her so I asked her if she would meet on Sunday evening, to which she said yes. So I booked another hotel (I was supposed to go straight from the beach town to sofia airport) but she never replied anymore on the day.

Great report, be careful. One note, since I am only meeting girls in Mexico and if they do not agree to communicate on Whatsapp, it is an automatic Red Flag. Whatasapp is the main source of communication in Mexico, so if they say no or make up a crazy excuse, they are probably not real or hiding something. Some want to use other social media for communication, but I decline, I just do not have the time or desire to use any other social Media Platforms. Since I started doing this, I have had very few scammers, also I require Video Chats, this has also eliminates a lot of b. s.