Seeking Arrangements

[Elvis 2008]

Is that how women are now days? Overpriced, out of shape, controlling on birth control methods and available for meetings only their times / days of the week? Or am I scraping the bottom of the barrel?

That is sadly typical and Hal, that is why DF goes to Mexico City and I have a Colombian gal who has become so much more than a SB. The USA stripper types are good looking and great in bed, but I never met one who was not crazy. Then you have the more normal ones, and the most destructive phrase for said women is "you deserve better". Well, if all women are saying that, then who do they deserve better from? Men like us. It is not like women deserve better by doing better to please men. No, they just have to lie on their backs and let us fuck them and with that, there is literally no limit to what women can ask for because they always deserve better.

So with DF, the women do anal, rimming ETC because with the Latinas you have to please your man or he will find someone who will. Unlike American women, Latin women are taught not even to complain about their man if he cheats.

I get that some men are married and cannot travel or do not have the time or whatever. Thing is Mexico City is like a 2 hour flight for me and many Americans in the Southern part of the country, and I have global entry, which you can get too, and now getting in and out of Mexico City is like no different than flying domestic. So yeah, what you are seeing is typical for the USA and that is why so many guys have learned to fish elsewhere.

[Elvis 2008]

I arrived in CDMX Saturday. I met one of my regular girls, a college student, 6 or 7. Super sweet and incredible body, she can only meet during the day because of her crazy ass mom. We have had anal, every time we have met, no rules when we have sex. We met early, but my allergies were out of control and the flight did not help, so I stayed in Saturday night. Sunday I worked in the morning. I met the second girl, another college student, she is probably a 7, but so nice, hard working and sweet. Jackpot we never had Anal before, but to my surprise she wanted anal. Just incredible.

I shower up and a quick run to the supermarket for some V. And Condoms. I Have a drink and off to RosaNegra, love this place minus the bill. I met a new girl, super hot, probably an 8, she is starting her own business. We hang out at the Restaurant for 3.5 hours, so I should not complain about the bill. Back to the Casa. Wow, incredible. Anal, Rimming, and everything else was included, just an amazing night.

Living the dream in CDMX. Monday is looking even better, we will see what happens.

Yeah, my nose acts up every time I am in Mexico City. Unlike other places in Mexico, prescription drugs are more hard to come by, but I started using Oxymetazoline spray as soon as I got there and felt better. I do not know if it is pollen or pollution or the altitude but I always get a runny nose or congestion in CDMX unlike other places.

Our first must place to eat was Panderia Rosetta which is the best bakery I have ever been to. They have pastries and donuts like nowhere else you have ever been. Then it was City Market which is as good a grocery store is there is. We would load up and eat at the hotel or airbnb. It is definitely worth a visit. And I made the mistake of telling her that one of the best salads I have ever had was the Waldorf salad at California Pizza Kitchen, and she has gone nuts over it so we are always going there to eat which I do not mind. It is just I want to try new.

I think the best mongering hotel is not close to downtown but to the airport and it is Fiesta Americana Viaducto. It is located in a mall and you can enter the mall, get on the elevator, and bypass the lobby so you do not have to worry about passing by the lobby and hotel management. I was short on time this trip so we just stayed there because it is close to the airport, and this weekend we ate two meals in the malls there. We had tacos al pastor which was fantastic as usual. Then we went to a place called Casa del Tocino and they had enchiladas in green sauce that were to fucking die for. So we walk into two restaurants and are just blown away in a damned mall.

My favorite places to visit now are Chapultepec castle and Museo Soumaya. It blows me away that Mexico City has a European castle downtown, and it is a really cool place. Soumaya is Carlos Slim's personal art collection, and it is as nice a collection as I have ever seen. Admission to Soumaya is free. I noticed they had a theatre, Telcel, showing the musical Aladdin, and we went this time. The music is in Spanish but I knew the movie and could follow the story even though the talking was fast as was the singing.

My secret sauce with women was always listening to them and getting to know them. I have studies psychology and learned to giving them insight into who they are but I am actually evaluating if they are a good partner for me. Some guys like the dominant women, others like those who tell them what to do. I was studying brain chemistry and talking to women and realized that with some women that they get a high when pleasing their partner that men do not. With us, making our partner feel good is like a pride thing. With these women, caring for those they care about results in a chemical reward most men do not get. So I learned to seek out these women who get just as much pleasure as we do when they give us head. The chemical is oxytocin which reduces stress, restores faith, and actually binds people together. It is also released in women who breast feed and women who breast feed will tell you how it binds them to their child.

Thing is that you are not going to get this binding with a WG but you might with someone you are seeing more often. As you remove a woman's fears, she will let herself get closer to you. Maybe some day you will be where I am DF with a woman you want to spend more time with others but if she is a hot girl, she has guys throwing options at her every day. My gal has a pretty mundane life. She shops, cleans our place, cares for her daughter, and works out. I know there are guys out there willing to spend huge money on her ETC right, and she says it is painful being away from me. Just cuddling releases oxytocin too and if you do not have it, faith in that guy can be questioned especially when you are not there, so you have to make the times you are together somewhat memorable.

When I took the three girls to Cancun, I took them to the show at Xcaret, and it has an epic ending. I was in tears at the end the first time I saw it, and I thought the women would eat it up and they did. They gave me a show and performance that night that I will never forget. I did not know what Aladdin would bring but there is this one part where the Mexican stage crew really got it right. They rigged up some kind of pully system and got lights that looked like stars and it really appeared like Aladdin and his princess were flying at night under the stars. I looked over and my gal is balling her eyes out.

So in my role as SD it was a given that my babies were going to learn about themselves, learn about life, have fun, eat better, and see things that would have them crying their eyes out. When you show women a good time, money is almost a secondary thought for them. One SB told me that she had such a good time with me that she thought she should be paying me. To me, that is what a successful SD should strive for.

[Ggekko2009]

Is that how women are now days? Overpriced, out of shape, controlling on birth control methods and available for meetings only their times / days of the week? Or am I scraping the bottom of the barrel?

Pretty much so for most of the girls in the US at least to me and that is why I never bother. You are better off just using seeking. Over time, one is able to spot and filter out the scams and such. Besides most gems are found outside of the US and it suits me well.

[DramaFree11]

LOL. I just got back from CDMX. I had a good talk with Paulie of all people on the Medellin forum. What pisses me off with so many of those Medellin morons is that they insist their way is the only way. When I first mentioned seeking in Colombia, I was blasted for it and the sugar baby concept. Do you know how much Colombian snatch that $100, the monthly fee, could buy? They took it as a threat. Look I have no problem with middle income guys wanting to cruise El Centro in Medellin and Santa Fe in Bogota where you can get laid for $20 or less, but more than ever, I really felt this time like those guys were the pretenders.

What got me was one pretender saying do not even try to date the Colombian elite, and I just shook my head. Hell, I had already done it. The other I just read is you cannot have a GF in Colombia unless you live there. I am on my third one. I get what Paulie said about the whole country being a scam and your not liking it there. I think if you use seeking and seek out the higher echelons, those with white collar jobs or studying white collar fields, you can find a woman interested in a mutually beneficial relationship and committed to being a good partner or sugar baby.

Thing is I just wanted the guys here to know if they did not already that you are no pretender DF, and I have met you and Don Carlos in real life and enjoyed hanging out with both of you. I read what Steve, MW, FastMD, and Ggekko, and I am sure I am forgetting some guys, and know that they are no pretenders either.

Thing is that guys think that the sugar route has to be expensive and it really does not have to be. You want to do five scum bag street walkers or spend a few hundred bucks to be with a woman who is great in bed and out. The magic number me was always three. If I had a trip with two women, a threesome, it never got boring. If I had three sugar babies and mixed them up, it always felt fresh.

You are not kidding, the guys on Colombian Threads are crazy. One thing that is not talked about much is just how many Sex Tourist are in Colombia,(Many are seeking drugs and other bad things), you and I have talked about it, but most leave that out of there reports. This is one of the many things I do not like about Colombia.

Yes, CDMX is expensive, but this eliminates most of my competition, so I just need to work a little harder. Also, where I stay in MTY and CDMX there is no issue with drugs or violence. I like to stick to myself, If I can help someone I will, but recommendations are not going to happen unless we have met in person. Let me know next time you are in CDMX, I would love to meet again.

Bad news, flights from MTY to CDMX went up 100%, crazy, but I cannot take the 10 am from San Antonio to CDMX, I just miss too much work. Hopefully they will start the 3 pm flight back up soon. Traveling is getting so much more difficult and expensive.

[HumbleHal]

Have taken to dinner 3 women from SugarDaddy.com, have further issues to discuss for comments:

1. "Big knockers" in her photos. But big knockers often means big belly and / or ass. I prefer slim. She covered herself well at our first meeting so I met her another day for an insertion. Affectionate BBFS was ok. Discovered she had a big belly and also was a wine-o. Not for me. Now am trying to ghost her, which I am doing.

2. Second women was from Brazil, attractive, slim and 39 years of age. Usually that is a red flag because the older they get, the bossier they get, which is true. Had a good first meet for dinner, great kiss in the parking lot. On our first meeting she insisted I use a condom, which I really avoid, so only 69 and a hand job to completion. Turns out she had breast cancer and now only has bags where her boobies should be, not very naturally feeling. Had more discussion with her and her rules of no risk for her. I agreed to her 400 price, and to use an ultra slim condom which I purchased, in good faith, and intended to try with her. Our next meeting was rescheduled 3-4 days, finally I decided she was not worth the effort. Yes, the older they get the more controlling and bossier they are.

3. Third women appears good in photos, and is on depo shot so I could probably do her BBFS all the time, however said she needs $1,000 a week or will need two Sugar Daddys. Not sure I would want to share anyone with another cum giving man, so I am going to meet her and see what we can negotiate, maybe the second guy would use a condom. She does not want to work, wants me to totally support her. Not sure I am interested to the tune of $52 K a year. May try her for a week or two and discard her if she is a poor performer. She set the rate and expects me to meet her requirements. Will see.

4. Have texted another woman who wants to "make sure we are on the same page" before meeting in person. I am not interested in pricing a woman, and making a commitment to her on price, without meeting her in person. Most of them are liars, photos not true representations of them, next step is they will want a deposit before meeting "to make sure we do not waste anyone's time." Have heard the scams before and I do not play those games.

Turns out all of the women want to have most all the terms and prices all their way. Price, terms, hidden factors you find out at their first performance test drive, and what time of day they are available to meet because of their children / work / etc. Might be best to insist on a recent nude photo before meeting, but that would eliminate many of them and chemistry / personality would not be a factor.

Is that how women are now days? Overpriced, out of shape, controlling on birth control methods and available for meetings only their times / days of the week? Or am I scraping the bottom of the barrel?

[Elvis 2008]

I am currently seeing 6 or 7 girls regularly. A couple are still in MTY, but most are in CDMX, the average age is 23, maybe 22, so there is a 30 year age difference. I love it. I need to steal the line from Elvis, "I am having the best Sex and the most fun in my life. " Most of these girls text me regularly and are just amazing girls. I am heading back to CDMX after work Saturday.

LOL. I just got back from CDMX. I had a good talk with Paulie of all people on the Medellin forum. What pisses me off with so many of those Medellin morons is that they insist their way is the only way. When I first mentioned seeking in Colombia, I was blasted for it and the sugar baby concept. Do you know how much Colombian snatch that $100, the monthly fee, could buy? They took it as a threat. Look I have no problem with middle income guys wanting to cruise El Centro in Medellin and Santa Fe in Bogota where you can get laid for $20 or less, but more than ever, I really felt this time like those guys were the pretenders.

What got me was one pretender saying do not even try to date the Colombian elite, and I just shook my head. Hell, I had already done it. The other I just read is you cannot have a GF in Colombia unless you live there. I am on my third one. I get what Paulie said about the whole country being a scam and your not liking it there. I think if you use seeking and seek out the higher echelons, those with white collar jobs or studying white collar fields, you can find a woman interested in a mutually beneficial relationship and committed to being a good partner or sugar baby.

Thing is I just wanted the guys here to know if they did not already that you are no pretender DF, and I have met you and Don Carlos in real life and enjoyed hanging out with both of you. I read what Steve, MW, FastMD, and Ggekko, and I am sure I am forgetting some guys, and know that they are no pretenders either.

Thing is that guys think that the sugar route has to be expensive and it really does not have to be. You want to do five scum bag street walkers or spend a few hundred bucks to be with a woman who is great in bed and out. The magic number me was always three. If I had a trip with two women, a threesome, it never got boring. If I had three sugar babies and mixed them up, it always felt fresh.

[DramaFree11]

What sort of arrangements are these running you in CDMX DF, in pesos if possible?

My range is $175-250 (Pesos 3500-5000) 4-5 hours of fun, 2 sessions on sex. Time has really not been an issue with most of these girls and they love sex, probably more then me. Some girls are asking for $300-350, I would only pay that if they are super hot. Lots of girls are available from $175-250. The good thing about SA in CDMX is most of the girls will try to speak English and are on time for the most part. I do not waste my time with girls that will no longer speak English. Also, I avoid all girls that do not have an Mexican number, usually just a big waste of time. Most of the girls that do not have a Mexican number are either from Colombia and Venz, I block immediately. There are also Euro and Russian chicks, but I am not really interested in there crazy lifestyle any more.

[DramaFree11]

I arrived in CDMX Saturday. I met one of my regular girls, a college student, 6 or 7. Super sweet and incredible body, she can only meet during the day because of her crazy ass mom. We have had anal, every time we have met, no rules when we have sex. We met early, but my allergies were out of control and the flight did not help, so I stayed in Saturday night. Sunday I worked in the morning. I met the second girl, another college student, she is probably a 7, but so nice, hard working and sweet. Jackpot we never had Anal before, but to my surprise she wanted anal. Just incredible.

I shower up and a quick run to the supermarket for some V. And Condoms. I Have a drink and off to RosaNegra, love this place minus the bill. I met a new girl, super hot, probably an 8, she is starting her own business. We hang out at the Restaurant for 3.5 hours, so I should not complain about the bill. Back to the Casa. Wow, incredible. Anal, Rimming, and everything else was included, just an amazing night.

Living the dream in CDMX. Monday is looking even better, we will see what happens.

[KingOfPoverty]

Tuesday was just as good as all the other days. 3 sessions. First, girl hung out at the apartment all morning, she arrived at 7:30, took a nap and then we had sex. I was under the impression we would have multiple sessions, this did not happen, but was still fun. Short hot skinny girl. The second girl, I am seeing regularly, she is a solid 8, maybe 9. Total freak in bed, no rules and loves sex. Her parents are very strict, so we can only hang out for a couple hours. I would totally commit to her.

The last meeting is super hot and freak as well. She is doing her on-line course, in my shirt and no panties. We had sex before class and will have sex during the break. So cool!

What sort of arrangements are these running you in CDMX DF, in pesos if possible?

[MagicSheep74]

After some initial learnings from my Dubai seeking experience, I moved onto London. I find the escort agencies a little hit or miss, so gave seeking a go.

Girls name. Aliya_sa. Search on London and search on name and she will pop-up. She is back in London late September, and she has not logged in since then.

She is the girl in the picture, and in my opinion a 9/10 - Really Attractive, very well dressed, pretty face and outstanding body.

She requested 500 for the meeting, and I knocked her down to 400. We met at at the bar of a hotel in the Kensington area, and we really hit it off. She is from Belarus, but lives half the year in Moscow and half the year in London. Since we were having a nice time and she was very attractive, we went for a light dinner close by. No money had been exchanged at this point, so after some food / drinks we decided to retreat to my hotel room for an evening of sex. Money was exchanged in the hotel room and a full girlfriend experience was given. Had a couple of really enjoyable rounds and the second one with CIM. Which was a nice touch. We both feel asleep and she left around 10 am the following morning.

Would I repeat. I plan to soon when back in London. We keep in regular contact.

I am starting in certain cities to have a preference by using seeking, both London and Dubai have so far yielded good results.

Tips. We had a quick video call before we met.

MS.

[HumbleHal]

SugarDaddy. Com site

I did try this other site and had better results than Seeking Arrangement. No scammers who wanted me to pay them before meeting. Have meet 3 in the first week, dove into one who was 29 and blonde. Met another who was from Brazil and she is fit and hot. Third one I will meet Monday and she is blonde, blue eyes and already in love with me. I am a gentleman, respectful and generous, I get laid more than my balls can handle. Humbly, Hal.

[FilthyBeaver]

I created a girl account because I was curious about the competition. Within 10 min I was convinced I was a catch. There's always going to be someone wealthier, better looking, taller, bigger scaling, whatever. It all boils down to confidence and chemistry. You can't force something that isn't there for more than a few dates.

It is like we are programmed to expect certain things. It used to be singers had to be super model types or no one was interested supposedly. American Idol et al come on and wouldn't you know people actually just wanted people who can sing not look good.

So it goes with good looking women. They are supposed to be with women their own age and equally attractive: football captain and head cheerleader. It is programming that is everywhere. I saw it when I showed a photo of my gal to a friend's 9 year old and she said, "Ohhhhh, she is way too young for you. ".

It was so ingrained in me that even when women came, and they had that smell, the sound, and even some squirting, there was still doubt. Did I really make that young hottie cum? And there were so many, and still I was like "Did I make you cum really?

Now I know the signs, the body language, the voice of a girl really interested and I took action on it. Thing is I gave up so much pussy and free pussy at that was just because I was convinced I was not worthy of it and was so underconfident.

Saying the women only like you for your money is like saying buy Apple stock. Nobody is going to say that stupid or dispute you for it especially if it is long term, but there are times like now that it is not a good time to buy Apple. I cannot drag someone by the nose and say "Smell that cum! That is how much she likes me. ".

But the easiest thing for other people to see is if a woman is a caring and loving GF type or a ho. I do not question any more. My gal has done everything possible to make me believe, and an old GF is still texting me wanting to know if we are together. If you do not have the confidence to break the mold and want to live your life confining yourself to the expectations of a 9 year old, have at it.

Yes, the women get tons of messages, but you know when I looked at the phone of a woman who was on seeking, almost every guy was some loser trying to get laid for free. I picked out four that were real SD types, the same ones she did, and said they were real. There are not that many quality men out there. For real. Yes, if you think she has feelings for you, she probably does. Do not listen to the fools who have never been on the site or used seeking.

[Elvis 2008]

Yeah actually my age difference is a bit over 35 years with all the girls I date. And I KNOW without question there are deep feelings both ways with several of these girls. It's not all that hard to imagine if you think it thru:

Past experience: Guys who are immature. Have a shit job if they have one. Take take take.

You: Charming and successful. Polite. Genuinely nice. Care how she feels. Listen to her ramble on endlessly. Hahaha.

Anyhow you get the point. Any girl who looks past basic looks is bound to fall a bit for many of us. We didn't get where we are by being losers.

It is like we are programmed to expect certain things. It used to be singers had to be super model types or no one was interested supposedly. American Idol et al come on and wouldn't you know people actually just wanted people who can sing not look good.

So it goes with good looking women. They are supposed to be with women their own age and equally attractive: football captain and head cheerleader. It is programming that is everywhere. I saw it when I showed a photo of my gal to a friend's 9 year old and she said, "Ohhhhh, she is way too young for you. ".

It was so ingrained in me that even when women came, and they had that smell, the sound, and even some squirting, there was still doubt. Did I really make that young hottie cum? And there were so many, and still I was like "Did I make you cum really?

Now I know the signs, the body language, the voice of a girl really interested and I took action on it. Thing is I gave up so much pussy and free pussy at that was just because I was convinced I was not worthy of it and was so underconfident.

Saying the women only like you for your money is like saying buy Apple stock. Nobody is going to say that stupid or dispute you for it especially if it is long term, but there are times like now that it is not a good time to buy Apple. I cannot drag someone by the nose and say "Smell that cum! That is how much she likes me. ".

But the easiest thing for other people to see is if a woman is a caring and loving GF type or a ho. I do not question any more. My gal has done everything possible to make me believe, and an old GF is still texting me wanting to know if we are together. If you do not have the confidence to break the mold and want to live your life confining yourself to the expectations of a 9 year old, have at it.

Yes, the women get tons of messages, but you know when I looked at the phone of a woman who was on seeking, almost every guy was some loser trying to get laid for free. I picked out four that were real SD types, the same ones she did, and said they were real. There are not that many quality men out there. For real. Yes, if you think she has feelings for you, she probably does. Do not listen to the fools who have never been on the site or used seeking.

[DramaFree11]

Yeah actually my age difference is a bit over 35 years with all the girls I date. And I KNOW without question there are deep feelings both ways with several of these girls. It's not all that hard to imagine if you think it thru:

Past experience: Guys who are immature. Have a shit job if they have one. Take take take.

You: Charming and successful. Polite. Genuinely nice. Care how she feels. Listen to her ramble on endlessly. Hahaha.

Anyhow you get the point. Any girl who looks past basic looks is bound to fall a bit for many of us. We didn't get where we are by being losers. 😜.

I am currently seeing 6 or 7 girls regularly. A couple are still in MTY, but most are in CDMX, the average age is 23, maybe 22, so there is a 30 year age difference. I love it. I need to steal the line from Elvis, "I am having the best Sex and the most fun in my life. " Most of these girls text me regularly and are just amazing girls. I am heading back to CDMX after work Saturday.

[Buksida1]

I am not connected with this magazine or newspaper and have no financial interest in any of the websites. I was banned from SA and tried Sugardaddy.com with better success than I had on SA. Not as many scammers, actually none yet. Met 3 decent SBs in first week and plan my first insertion tonight. Then another tomorrow, and meeting a third Friday night. Will be tired and limp dicked all weekend.

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