Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

Sugardaddy.com

Update. So I created what is basically a blank profile 6 days ago. Basic text, no pic. I have 17 unread messages in my inbox and I have not attempted to communicate with anybody. I have no intention of paying to read them but on what planet do girls approach a guy's profile that says almost nothing with no pic? If anyone needs anymore proof that the site is sketchy, there you go.

Yeah so what's even worse those girls probably did not send those messages. A girl I know was on that site for a while and said guys contacted her and after discussion she found the site had sent them a message from her! Unsolicited! That is shady filthy and downright wrong.

[Rcl 44]

Done SA three times in London and really great each time. Managed to get my first girl for 250. Don't think that will happen anymore. She was amazing. After we hooked up We were going to Zurich together and COVID hit. Boo.

Second time a hot Colombiana. She wouldn't budge off 400. But then she wanted to bring a friend. The original girl was a 9. The friend a 7. But what a time. 5 hours including dinner dancing and room time duo. Wow.

And last is Sarah who's my current girl there. She was set on 400. We finally agreed 400 first night and 300 if we repeated. That worked good. When I flew her to Europe I told her I could only do 200/ day and she was fine with that.

So yeah I think you will do fine with 350-400. Just have to slog thru it a bit as usual!

Curious how old roughly, these women are.

[Ggekko2009]

Maybe I'm a bit soppy but I always try to leave my girls better than I found them. But oftentimes you grow apart and you wonder how they are doing. Well I just heard from Kayla who I last saw six months ago (we were steady monthly for about six months).

She just dropped me a message to thank me for helping her thru that six months. Said she's doing really well but doesn't know where she would be without me. Awwww warms my heart. Will keep an eye out for a cash request but already told her subscribing to her onlyfans was my max. Really think it was genuine.

If I may ask, what is the typical age difference for those girls who may have developed feelings for you.

My most recent girl is 30 years my junior, and I think she has developed intense feeling for me, and the problem for me was that the feeling is mutual.

She would ask to spend more time with me when I was there in the city without asking or expecting anything else in return. She would display affections with all these little besitos or kisses in the public. Sex with her was simply amazing and we had so much of it when I was there, and it was like she had just discovered the pleasure of sex for the first time, and in a way it kind of is, and kept wanting more.

I don't really how and what to make of this.

[FilthyBeaver]

Sugardaddy.com

Update. So I created what is basically a blank profile 6 days ago. Basic text, no pic. I have 17 unread messages in my inbox and I have not attempted to communicate with anybody. I have no intention of paying to read them but on what planet do girls approach a guy's profile that says almost nothing with no pic? If anyone needs anymore proof that the site is sketchy, there you go.

[FilthyBeaver]

As I'm single, I have no issue with giving gifts or money to anyone. A few friends that know what I'm up to as a SD think I'm crazy but I always reason it like this. If I were (traditional) dating a woman closer to my age that didn't have her shit together I'd still be giving her money, paying the power bill, or God knows what else. Now, I would never date a woman anywhere near my age who didn't have her shit together so it's kind of moot: that and most are hideous looking to me.

Giving those resources to someone who still has the opportunity to make smart choices with their life seems like a much better return and knowing that I had a part in her success as a SD /&mentor / benefactor whatever you want to call it really appeals to me. I will eventually become obsolete in her world and things will move on but that's not necessarily a bad thing, it's an opportunity to find a new gem.

I'll draw the line at the friend zone though. I don't need to communicate with them to "stay in touch" unless sex is on the table, even if it's infrequent.

Maybe I'm a bit soppy but I always try to leave my girls better than I found them. But oftentimes you grow apart and you wonder how they are doing. Well I just heard from Kayla who I last saw six months ago (we were steady monthly for about six months).

She just dropped me a message to thank me for helping her thru that six months. Said she's doing really well but doesn't know where she would be without me. Awwww warms my heart. Will keep an eye out for a cash request but already told her subscribing to her onlyfans was my max. Really think it was genuine.

[Steve 9696]

Maybe I'm a bit soppy but I always try to leave my girls better than I found them. But oftentimes you grow apart and you wonder how they are doing. Well I just heard from Kayla who I last saw six months ago (we were steady monthly for about six months).

She just dropped me a message to thank me for helping her thru that six months. Said she's doing really well but doesn't know where she would be without me. Awwww warms my heart. Will keep an eye out for a cash request but already told her subscribing to her onlyfans was my max. Really think it was genuine.

[Steve 9696]

How do you not break her heart? It's obvious she has feelings. Are you going to keep her around until she ends it (which means you could potentially see her as an obligation rather than a fun escape)? She just told you if you end it, you'll "break her heart."

I just told her the truth and she was super happy. That is:

I will never ghost her.

Yes things could fizzle over time if our circumstances change.

But I've seen girls off and on for two to three years and rekindling is easy.

So there's no need to talk about an end. We'll see each other when we can.

All good. Nothing says I have to tell her every time I'm in London.

[The Cane]

From my experience on Seeking, if you filter by age and photo it's better. 18-25 - need charm and lots of work. 26+, know the score and you can negotiate a price immediately. Also a lot of pics are faceapped and usually this will indicate that the lady is an escort and slightly worse looking.

That's it! Almost all of the ones who say they're seeking "platonic" fall into the younger age range. Naive enough to think they're going to get something for little or no effort on their part. Now, they may claim it's all about their time. But, my retort is baby my time is worth a hell of a lot more than yours. So, if we're going to base it off of that, then you ought to be paying me!

[ThickHead99]

From my experience on Seeking, if you filter by age and photo it's better. 18-25 - need charm and lots of work. 26+, know the score and you can negotiate a price immediately. Also a lot of pics are faceapped and usually this will indicate that the lady is an escort and slightly worse looking.

[FilthyBeaver]

How do you not break her heart? It's obvious she has feelings. Are you going to keep her around until she ends it (which means you could potentially see her as an obligation rather than a fun escape)? She just told you if you end it, you'll "break her heart."

So we talk a lot about how it's real or it's not and please don't tell me if it's not. My intuition with my local girl is it's real but with some strings there somewhere. And as I mentioned I think my London girl has a crush on me.

Well there is no doubt now. My London girl writes and says can I ask you a question. Well this is always interesting and the mind goes all sorts of places. But the question was "how long do you think we will be together because I want to prepare myself. I don't want to be suddenly hurt. " And there you have it real feels! Got to say it feels good to know I could break her heart. Of course I never would.

[Steve 9696]

So we talk a lot about how it's real or it's not and please don't tell me if it's not. My intuition with my local girl is it's real but with some strings there somewhere. And as I mentioned I think my London girl has a crush on me.

Well there is no doubt now. My London girl writes and says can I ask you a question. Well this is always interesting and the mind goes all sorts of places. But the question was "how long do you think we will be together because I want to prepare myself. I don't want to be suddenly hurt. " And there you have it — real feels! Got to say it feels good to know I could break her heart. Of course I never would.

[MagicSheep74]

Hi guys,

I extensively report on the Spanish thread as I live in the South of Spain, but I have been using seeking for a year or so now, so I guess its about time I get involved. Like was just mentioned, if the girl mentions a time limit, I have lost interested. Personally I have had a lot of success in London and Dubai, but I'll just share of a couple of experiences for the sake of it.

Dubai. My first time using seeking. At this point a I was completely new to the site and I had no real idea how to approach it.

Date 1 - Half Russian / Half Italian. She lives in Dubai and was undoubtedly a very high class escort. No money was mentioned, but we agreed to me a Bhudda Bar for a drink and it we had chemistry she would stay overnight. Firstly she arrives in a $250000 car driven by herself and was quite simply was of the most stunning women I've seen in my life. P.S. - I've been mongering worldwide for 20 years straight.

Had a drink and the topic of money came up - $1500 a night, $10000 USD a weekend trip away outside Dubai. That's was she gets and I quite believe she gets it. I have no intention of dropping $1500 regardless of her obvious beauty, but we have a few drinks, something light to eat and said goodbye no money exchanged. A true 10/10, but no harm done.

Date 2 - Ukrainian. Living in Dubai. Lesson learned, and this time I mentioned $400 a meeting. She agreed and we met for drinks. In my personnel view, she was an 8/10 and worth the money requested.

We absolutely hit it off in every way. So much so that we spent the next 3 days together - $400 a day and had just a fabulous time. Full GFE for every moment of our time spent together.

Now seeking.com really got my attention.

Date 3 - Serbian. Living in Dubai. Pictures looked amazing and agreed again on $400 USD a meet. She arrived and had a fantastic body, but her skin was really bad. Pretty disappointed, we chatted over a couple of drinks and I let her go with a small token gesture $ for her trouble.

The next 3 days I just hit the clubs and picked up numerous other girls from various nationalities. Subsequently I've learned a lot since then, and I will share my more recent experiences in London and around Europe soon.

MS.

[FilthyBeaver]

So this is an interesting discussion. How much "time" is / should be expected? When I was a virgin SD I obsessed over this. How can I be sure I'm getting my money's worth, what kind of obligation can I reasonably expect from her.

I always made it clear that I wanted the interactions we had to feel as real as possible. I don't just want to hop into bed and see them off in an hour. Lie to me if you must but I have a pretty good BS alarm and we probably won't last long if it's always going off. It's much better if they like you.

So it turns out, for me anyway, there is a natural chemistry with some girls where conversation flows easily and we can chat for hours with no effort. Knowing this (which happened almost immediately on the meet and greet) I knew whatever time we spent together, not having sex, would be enjoyable for both of us. On a typical "date" a meal would be involved at a minimum and, more times than not, some other activity that usually costs money. I live in a large tier 1 coastal city so there's always something to do. I would say I've had dates as short as 3 hours and as long as overnight or several nights on a long weekend. With the right girl they are equally enjoyable. The average is probably 4-6 hours where there's no overnight involved.

[FilthyBeaver]

I've got news for y'all. If she's tying a timeframe to the liaison, she's a pro. There's no other way to look at it. She may be in school, she may be convince herself she's an SB but she's a straight working girl.

I met one once who asked me what I was offering in the second text. I told her I wasn't offering anything because I didn't know if I was interested in her. Turned her off, turned me off. Next please. Another working girl. She was supposedly a business owner and "knew her worth" (my favorite ridiculous line). She can convince herself of whatever she likes but to expect someone to name a price before they know you is absurd. That's what escorts and working girls do.

The good news is that not everyone on seeking is looking for a traditional SB. Some just want working girls and there are plenty to be found.

[Steve 9696]

100% agreement. No matter how hot the girl is, if she ties $ to activities or hours, I am out.

If that is what I want, I go to pros. Easy and quick. No need to put so much effort.

100% agree. It's not so much that five hours isn't enough. It's the dynamic that is now in play if specific $$ for specific things (time). That to me is not a girl I generally want to hang with. (But will in a pinch).

Nicest sound in the world is her taking her necklace off to the nightstand. You know she's decided to snuggle in. And the fact that it's her decision is the sweetest part.