Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

For those experienced in Brazil, are your profile bios in English or Portuguese? Mine is English written, with US location.

I messaged two girls not exactly this but along the lines of, "I'm using Google Translate and will be in Rio in a few weeks. Interested in mutually beneficial arrangement and I always help out with cash". One blocked me, other ignored. Usually when they ignore me, I'll throw out a number in this case, are $1,000. That's a high number in Sao Paulo but still ignored.

My pictures are slightly blurred with me standing against a backdrop of city or outdoor nature views. My bio is a paragraph of my interests and a few sentences. I wrote I'm negotiatiable, open minded, looking for NSA also. Maybe it's the age? I'm almost 30, but since my profile is expiring, remaking it at 31 is possible. Both Income at 100,000.

I don't really mind having my face shown overseas if it helps. My trips would be for 2 week visits, not long term stays. For those with success in these countries, what's your profile bio like, pics, and how do you open with the women?

You don't need to be in anything other than English. You don't need pics. Girls will ask for them once you move over to WhatsApp.

Main thing is to not be so direct. Unless you are just looking for hookers. In which case there are other places. I wrote a guide on how to chat up SA girls and while written primarily for USA it largely applies to South America also. The girls you are looking for on Seeking want to rationalize that they are good girls. So you try to stay away from money for sex. Less true outside the US but still. Actually two hotties I scored in Mexico (see reports three weeks back) would have run for the hills if there was a hint of money for sex.

I will repost the guide here. Perhaps other seniors want to respond with where it's off base or could use some international spin.

I will note however that in addition to the long texting game, I have had very good success with spontaneous dates. When I am in town I say "Going out to a nice dinner tonight. Join me?" I have scored some serious hottie s this way including a Rio 9. 5.

[Robotron]

For those experienced in Brazil, are your profile bios in English or Portuguese? Mine is English written, with US location.

I messaged two girls not exactly this but along the lines of, "I'm using Google Translate and will be in Rio in a few weeks. Interested in mutually beneficial arrangement and I always help out with cash". One blocked me, other ignored. Usually when they ignore me, I'll throw out a number in this case, are $1,000. That's a high number in Sao Paulo but still ignored.

My pictures are slightly blurred with me standing against a backdrop of city or outdoor nature views. My bio is a paragraph of my interests and a few sentences. I wrote I'm negotiatiable, open minded, looking for NSA also. Maybe it's the age? I'm almost 30, but since my profile is expiring, remaking it at 31 is possible. Both Income at 100,000.

I don't really mind having my face shown overseas if it helps. My trips would be for 2 week visits, not long term stays. For those with success in these countries, what's your profile bio like, pics, and how do you open with the women?

[MrBuckley]

Any advice for making photo's unsearchable and more private?

I remember a member saying they use a face blending merging app or tool that combines your face with a celebrity, but I don't remember exactly how they said they did it.

[FilthyBeaver]

Poker is a metaphor for most parts of life. If you want to be in the game you need to ante. Someone goes first. It makes sense to me that it's the monger as the girls have been promised all kinds of shit that has never come to fruition. Also since we're the ones with the money they make the sales pitch and we decide to pay or not. Money talks as the saying goes, abd bullshit walks. Go to Walmart and ask them if you can load your toilet paper into your car and come back and pay them once you're done. What do you think the answer will be?

This is not a cheap hobby if anyone is uncomfortable with it go to your run of the mill AMP. If you can't afford that, run down the nearest street with pimps and hookers. You are not going to get a 20 something reasonably intelligent college girl or young professional for $100. You can easy get an over weight Korean or 50 year old Chinese lady for that price in my tier 1 coastal city.

I am going to try a combo of this approach and FB's.

She is too good to resist. There is tinge of newness in the way she talks / interacts. If things go well, I might have found my keeper.

Worst case, I burn a few hours chatting, few $ hosting a dinner.

But the upside seems too good. Let's see.

[Gfefan]

I am going to try a combo of this approach and FB's.

She is too good to resist. There is tinge of newness in the way she talks / interacts. If things go well, I might have found my keeper.

Worst case, I burn a few hours chatting, few $ hosting a dinner.

But the upside seems too good. Let's see.

Usually a platonic tag means platonic only. I've had girls say "oh I put that to say I am open to it, not that is the only thing I'the do". I of course counsel that if she wants some action she should remove it because guys screen it out. So yeah there can be girls who out of ignorance put it.

I usually addres it in the chat if they are worth pursuing. But if she's like on only platonic or only online then next next.

[AmericanPi]

This maybe a weird question. How do you breakup with long-term sugar baby? I am in a situation that I have more girls than I could handle simultaneously. Should I do it the way normally done for a girlfriend or straight forward without any beating around the Bush?

I've never had to terminate a relationship like this. Because I tend to do PPM. Sometimes multiple times, but never long-term arrangement.

Let me tell you something. I run a company. Lots of employees. I've learned over and over and over again that direct honest communication is the key. People always think they have to beat around the Bush, or tell a different interpretation of the truth. When somebody sits in front of another person, and just tells the unvarnished truth, it's disarming. Of course, there is some art involved. There's a difference between bluntness and candor. You have to have some finesse and empathy. But the truth wins every time.

I say this knowing full well the irony of posting such a thing on this board.

[Elvis 2008]

This maybe a weird question. How do you breakup with long-term sugar baby? I am in a situation that I have more girls than I could handle simultaneously. Should I do it the way normally done for a girlfriend or straight forward without any beating around the Bush?

I would tell them you are having financial issues and cannot afford to pay them. Maybe one will offer to keep seeing you for nothing.

[DwayneJohnson]

Depends. Are these multiple LOCAL sugar babies? Because yeah that's a bit problematic. If they are girls in other cities I never break up. Just go quiet or say you aren't visiting soon. Basically just keep them warm.

Thanks, they are all local, monthly payments and know my apartment entry codes (need to change that too). I will try FilthyBeaver's idea of helping out broke brother excuse.

[Steve 9696]

This maybe a weird question. How do you breakup with long-term sugar baby? I am in a situation that I have more girls than I could handle simultaneously. Should I do it the way normally done for a girlfriend or straight forward without any beating around the Bush?

Depends. Are these multiple LOCAL sugar babies? Because yeah that's a bit problematic. If they are girls in other cities I never break up. Just go quiet or say you aren't visiting soon. Basically just keep them warm.

[FilthyBeaver]

I've been the one dumped for all my LT SBs but I guess it depends on if she's on a monthly allowance or ppm. If it's an allowance you can tell her it doesn't work for you anymore (honest) or your brother lost his job and you need to help him out (less than honest) or cut her off and ghost her with no explanation (douche move and very dicey if she knows anything about you). If she's ppm you have a third choice which would be to stop calling. Don't be a douche and ghost her but stop calling, she'll get the hint. Return her texts / calls and just tell her you're not available. Keep in mind they have way more options than we do, she'll find a date the day she's over you.

This maybe a weird question. How do you breakup with long-term sugar baby? I am in a situation that I have more girls than I could handle simultaneously. Should I do it the way normally done for a girlfriend or straight forward without any beating around the Bush?

[DwayneJohnson]

This maybe a weird question. How do you breakup with long-term sugar baby? I am in a situation that I have more girls than I could handle simultaneously. Should I do it the way normally done for a girlfriend or straight forward without any beating around the Bush?

[Steve 9696]

I honestly completely ignore the favorites section. I don't really care who favorites me because if I'm interested ima going to find you before you find me.

I really manage my whole seeking world thru search and chat. Favorites meh. I do sometimes look at who read my profile but only if I am in a chat and think "did she even read my profile because it seems like not".

But yeah. I browse and I chat. That's it.

[Nounce]

And this from time to time, has not asked me to send money yet. haha

[Nounce]

Well, how do you guys feel about having your profiles favorited by people who never even looked at them? When I was very active on the site, I found a high correlation between that and the person being a fake, flake, fraudster, or scammer. Has that been your experience as well?

Common, I don't have picture and I woke up this morning to have 6, only one read my profile.

It's like Tinder, many just blindly swipe everyone to increase matches.

[FilthyBeaver]

I tried to start a convo about how to spot catfishers and fakes a while back but it never got off the ground. A single picture is also a red flag for me as is any pics in Dubai or model / magazine quality pics.

I'm fairly liberal about giving out my number early on when I get someone on the hook but I'd say once every 6 mo or so someone trues to text me under the auspices of having the wrong number only to try to flip the conversation and befriend me. It's harmless and sometimes I choose to screw with them but fir the uninitiated any person who sends you their pic after 2 two texts under the auspices of a wrong number is scamming you! There. My PSA for the day.

Well, how do you guys feel about having your profiles favorited by people who never even looked at them? When I was very active on the site, I found a high correlation between that and the person being a fake, flake, fraudster, or scammer. Has that been your experience as well?