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03-11-24 17:01 #5544
Posts: 2706Slow it Down. Or Speed it Up.
Originally Posted by Robotron [View Original Post]
Main thing is to not be so direct. Unless you are just looking for hookers. In which case there are other places. I wrote a guide on how to chat up SA girls and while written primarily for USA it largely applies to South America also. The girls you are looking for on Seeking want to rationalize that they are good girls. So you try to stay away from money for sex. Less true outside the US but still. Actually two hotties I scored in Mexico (see reports three weeks back) would have run for the hills if there was a hint of money for sex.
I will repost the guide here. Perhaps other seniors want to respond with where it's off base or could use some international spin.
I will note however that in addition to the long texting game, I have had very good success with spontaneous dates. When I am in town I say "Going out to a nice dinner tonight. Join me?" I have scored some serious hottie s this way including a Rio 9. 5.
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03-11-24 07:22 #5543
Posts: 60Rate my SA profile? For Brazil
For those experienced in Brazil, are your profile bios in English or Portuguese? Mine is English written, with US location.
I messaged two girls not exactly this but along the lines of, "I'm using Google Translate and will be in Rio in a few weeks. Interested in mutually beneficial arrangement and I always help out with cash". One blocked me, other ignored. Usually when they ignore me, I'll throw out a number in this case, are $1,000. That's a high number in Sao Paulo but still ignored.
My pictures are slightly blurred with me standing against a backdrop of city or outdoor nature views. My bio is a paragraph of my interests and a few sentences. I wrote I'm negotiatiable, open minded, looking for NSA also. Maybe it's the age? I'm almost 30, but since my profile is expiring, remaking it at 31 is possible. Both Income at 100,000.
I don't really mind having my face shown overseas if it helps. My trips would be for 2 week visits, not long term stays. For those with success in these countries, what's your profile bio like, pics, and how do you open with the women?
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03-10-24 20:36 #5542
Posts: 4More private SA profile
Any advice for making photo's unsearchable and more private?
I remember a member saying they use a face blending merging app or tool that combines your face with a celebrity, but I don't remember exactly how they said they did it.
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03-09-24 19:35 #5541
Posts: 344I play a lot of poker
Poker is a metaphor for most parts of life. If you want to be in the game you need to ante. Someone goes first. It makes sense to me that it's the monger as the girls have been promised all kinds of shit that has never come to fruition. Also since we're the ones with the money they make the sales pitch and we decide to pay or not. Money talks as the saying goes, abd bullshit walks. Go to Walmart and ask them if you can load your toilet paper into your car and come back and pay them once you're done. What do you think the answer will be?
This is not a cheap hobby if anyone is uncomfortable with it go to your run of the mill AMP. If you can't afford that, run down the nearest street with pimps and hookers. You are not going to get a 20 something reasonably intelligent college girl or young professional for $100. You can easy get an over weight Korean or 50 year old Chinese lady for that price in my tier 1 coastal city.
Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]
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03-09-24 18:28 #5540
Posts: 241Trying
I am going to try a combo of this approach and FB's.
She is too good to resist. There is tinge of newness in the way she talks / interacts. If things go well, I might have found my keeper.
Worst case, I burn a few hours chatting, few $ hosting a dinner.
But the upside seems too good. Let's see.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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03-09-24 17:35 #5539
Posts: 590Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
Let me tell you something. I run a company. Lots of employees. I've learned over and over and over again that direct honest communication is the key. People always think they have to beat around the Bush, or tell a different interpretation of the truth. When somebody sits in front of another person, and just tells the unvarnished truth, it's disarming. Of course, there is some art involved. There's a difference between bluntness and candor. You have to have some finesse and empathy. But the truth wins every time.
I say this knowing full well the irony of posting such a thing on this board.
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03-08-24 21:32 #5538
Posts: 3225Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 21:23 #5537
Posts: 322Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 18:36 #5536
Posts: 2706Depends on Sitch
Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 18:33 #5535
Posts: 344Never had to
I've been the one dumped for all my LT SBs but I guess it depends on if she's on a monthly allowance or ppm. If it's an allowance you can tell her it doesn't work for you anymore (honest) or your brother lost his job and you need to help him out (less than honest) or cut her off and ghost her with no explanation (douche move and very dicey if she knows anything about you). If she's ppm you have a third choice which would be to stop calling. Don't be a douche and ghost her but stop calling, she'll get the hint. Return her texts / calls and just tell her you're not available. Keep in mind they have way more options than we do, she'll find a date the day she's over you.
Originally Posted by DwayneJohnson [View Original Post]
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03-08-24 17:28 #5534
Posts: 322This maybe a weird question. How do you breakup with long-term sugar baby? I am in a situation that I have more girls than I could handle simultaneously. Should I do it the way normally done for a girlfriend or straight forward without any beating around the Bush?
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03-08-24 15:33 #5533
Posts: 2706No Look Favorites
I honestly completely ignore the favorites section. I don't really care who favorites me because if I'm interested ima going to find you before you find me.
I really manage my whole seeking world thru search and chat. Favorites meh. I do sometimes look at who read my profile but only if I am in a chat and think "did she even read my profile because it seems like not".
But yeah. I browse and I chat. That's it.
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03-08-24 15:22 #5532
Posts: 2930And this from time to time, has not asked me to send money yet. haha
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03-08-24 13:17 #5531
Posts: 2930Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]
It's like Tinder, many just blindly swipe everyone to increase matches.
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03-08-24 03:21 #5530
Posts: 344Absolutely
I tried to start a convo about how to spot catfishers and fakes a while back but it never got off the ground. A single picture is also a red flag for me as is any pics in Dubai or model / magazine quality pics.
I'm fairly liberal about giving out my number early on when I get someone on the hook but I'd say once every 6 mo or so someone trues to text me under the auspices of having the wrong number only to try to flip the conversation and befriend me. It's harmless and sometimes I choose to screw with them but fir the uninitiated any person who sends you their pic after 2 two texts under the auspices of a wrong number is scamming you! There. My PSA for the day.
Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]