Seeking Arrangements

[FilthyBeaver]

How do you not break her heart? It's obvious she has feelings. Are you going to keep her around until she ends it (which means you could potentially see her as an obligation rather than a fun escape)? She just told you if you end it, you'll "break her heart."

So we talk a lot about how it's real or it's not and please don't tell me if it's not. My intuition with my local girl is it's real but with some strings there somewhere. And as I mentioned I think my London girl has a crush on me.

Well there is no doubt now. My London girl writes and says can I ask you a question. Well this is always interesting and the mind goes all sorts of places. But the question was "how long do you think we will be together because I want to prepare myself. I don't want to be suddenly hurt. " And there you have it real feels! Got to say it feels good to know I could break her heart. Of course I never would.

[Steve 9696]

So we talk a lot about how it's real or it's not and please don't tell me if it's not. My intuition with my local girl is it's real but with some strings there somewhere. And as I mentioned I think my London girl has a crush on me.

Well there is no doubt now. My London girl writes and says can I ask you a question. Well this is always interesting and the mind goes all sorts of places. But the question was "how long do you think we will be together because I want to prepare myself. I don't want to be suddenly hurt. " And there you have it — real feels! Got to say it feels good to know I could break her heart. Of course I never would.

[MagicSheep74]

Hi guys,

I extensively report on the Spanish thread as I live in the South of Spain, but I have been using seeking for a year or so now, so I guess its about time I get involved. Like was just mentioned, if the girl mentions a time limit, I have lost interested. Personally I have had a lot of success in London and Dubai, but I'll just share of a couple of experiences for the sake of it.

Dubai. My first time using seeking. At this point a I was completely new to the site and I had no real idea how to approach it.

Date 1 - Half Russian / Half Italian. She lives in Dubai and was undoubtedly a very high class escort. No money was mentioned, but we agreed to me a Bhudda Bar for a drink and it we had chemistry she would stay overnight. Firstly she arrives in a $250000 car driven by herself and was quite simply was of the most stunning women I've seen in my life. P.S. - I've been mongering worldwide for 20 years straight.

Had a drink and the topic of money came up - $1500 a night, $10000 USD a weekend trip away outside Dubai. That's was she gets and I quite believe she gets it. I have no intention of dropping $1500 regardless of her obvious beauty, but we have a few drinks, something light to eat and said goodbye no money exchanged. A true 10/10, but no harm done.

Date 2 - Ukrainian. Living in Dubai. Lesson learned, and this time I mentioned $400 a meeting. She agreed and we met for drinks. In my personnel view, she was an 8/10 and worth the money requested.

We absolutely hit it off in every way. So much so that we spent the next 3 days together - $400 a day and had just a fabulous time. Full GFE for every moment of our time spent together.

Now seeking.com really got my attention.

Date 3 - Serbian. Living in Dubai. Pictures looked amazing and agreed again on $400 USD a meet. She arrived and had a fantastic body, but her skin was really bad. Pretty disappointed, we chatted over a couple of drinks and I let her go with a small token gesture $ for her trouble.

The next 3 days I just hit the clubs and picked up numerous other girls from various nationalities. Subsequently I've learned a lot since then, and I will share my more recent experiences in London and around Europe soon.

MS.

[FilthyBeaver]

So this is an interesting discussion. How much "time" is / should be expected? When I was a virgin SD I obsessed over this. How can I be sure I'm getting my money's worth, what kind of obligation can I reasonably expect from her.

I always made it clear that I wanted the interactions we had to feel as real as possible. I don't just want to hop into bed and see them off in an hour. Lie to me if you must but I have a pretty good BS alarm and we probably won't last long if it's always going off. It's much better if they like you.

So it turns out, for me anyway, there is a natural chemistry with some girls where conversation flows easily and we can chat for hours with no effort. Knowing this (which happened almost immediately on the meet and greet) I knew whatever time we spent together, not having sex, would be enjoyable for both of us. On a typical "date" a meal would be involved at a minimum and, more times than not, some other activity that usually costs money. I live in a large tier 1 coastal city so there's always something to do. I would say I've had dates as short as 3 hours and as long as overnight or several nights on a long weekend. With the right girl they are equally enjoyable. The average is probably 4-6 hours where there's no overnight involved.

[FilthyBeaver]

I've got news for y'all. If she's tying a timeframe to the liaison, she's a pro. There's no other way to look at it. She may be in school, she may be convince herself she's an SB but she's a straight working girl.

I met one once who asked me what I was offering in the second text. I told her I wasn't offering anything because I didn't know if I was interested in her. Turned her off, turned me off. Next please. Another working girl. She was supposedly a business owner and "knew her worth" (my favorite ridiculous line). She can convince herself of whatever she likes but to expect someone to name a price before they know you is absurd. That's what escorts and working girls do.

The good news is that not everyone on seeking is looking for a traditional SB. Some just want working girls and there are plenty to be found.

[Steve 9696]

100% agreement. No matter how hot the girl is, if she ties $ to activities or hours, I am out.

If that is what I want, I go to pros. Easy and quick. No need to put so much effort.

100% agree. It's not so much that five hours isn't enough. It's the dynamic that is now in play if specific $$ for specific things (time). That to me is not a girl I generally want to hang with. (But will in a pinch).

Nicest sound in the world is her taking her necklace off to the nightstand. You know she's decided to snuggle in. And the fact that it's her decision is the sweetest part.

[Gfefan]

100% agreement. No matter how hot the girl is, if she ties $ to activities or hours, I am out.

If that is what I want, I go to pros. Easy and quick. No need to put so much effort.

I recently came across a similar situation. The girl was hot and my type (meaning that these two qualities are independent, but can coexist) but from the start of the conversation, she quickly started to attach activities and time to money. 400 euro and we can hang out for 5 hours. 600 eu and we can go to dinner and hang out for 5 hours after dinner. I didn't respond. There are waaaay too many girls in Europe that are hotter and willing to take half of that.

But I will also say that if you are in an area that's not top heavy (lots of 8-10's), then that makes the interaction more interesting and gives the hot girls a bit more "power". Personally, whenever I hear a set amount of time for a set amount of $$, my interest is gone at that moment. SBs (meaning not PROs) will usually see how it goes, knowing that they may end up spending the night. The $$ isn't the problem, as that's more determined by region, but the time limits are an instant red flag. It would ruin my zone knowing that there is a running clock and I have to try to bang her before it runs out. LOL.

At Let us know how it goes.

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[LshRoomer]

Not everybody uses the video feature and if legitimacy is a real concern getting around it is simple. Ask them to take a pic next to their bed, tv, major appliance, whatever. It does two things, 1) proves she's real and 2) proves she's interested in you. Every time I've ever asked for this we've had a good laugh and she totally understood why. The scammers disappear quick.

I really don't understand how people get scammed, it's so easy to prove BS when you meet somebody online.

FB, you are on the right page sir. I'm with you, in that I don't see how guys are getting scammed either.

No one should be paying before you meet. You shouldn't pay her as soon as you meet her in person (meaning it should be after you bang her). I personally never pay for a meet and greet. If the girls see that you are security conscious, they quickly will fall in line or disappear if they are scammers. I think some guys may get caught up with "liking" the girl too much and lose some of their sensibilities for a moment.

IMHO, the formula is simple - Think of things that are stupid (like giving someone money that you met online), dangerous, wasteful, or life threatening and Don't Do Them. LOL. It's not that hard. LOL.

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[LshRoomer]

So I offered $400 and she accepted but said she would only spend 4 hours with me and would not go to dinner. Her original offer was $500, go to dinner and spend 5-6 hours with me. So I will save $40-$50 on her dinner and still have plenty of time with her. She is hot and knows it. Have yet to try her out. Also she was only on SA for about a week and got off. We had messaged a few times and then she sent me a message that she was getting off the site and gave me her phone number.

I recently came across a similar situation. The girl was hot and my type (meaning that these two qualities are independent, but can coexist) but from the start of the conversation, she quickly started to attach activities and time to money. 400 euro and we can hang out for 5 hours. 600 eu and we can go to dinner and hang out for 5 hours after dinner. I didn't respond. There are waaaay too many girls in Europe that are hotter and willing to take half of that.

But I will also say that if you are in an area that's not top heavy (lots of 8-10's), then that makes the interaction more interesting and gives the hot girls a bit more "power". Personally, whenever I hear a set amount of time for a set amount of $$, my interest is gone at that moment. SBs (meaning not PROs) will usually see how it goes, knowing that they may end up spending the night. The $$ isn't the problem, as that's more determined by region, but the time limits are an instant red flag. It would ruin my zone knowing that there is a running clock and I have to try to bang her before it runs out. LOL.

At Let us know how it goes.

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[Ggekko2009]

Ggekko, if you are going bare, you should buy more and carry them with you. I used to give them to every woman after I had sex with them.

The pills work by stopping ovulation so the time line that they have to be used within 72 hours really is not correct, however the sooner you take it after sex, the better, but it is not 100%. It is about as effective as condom use.

No woman ever objected the first time I gave them the pills. They appreciated it. The second time was a different story. Some women had horrible cramping and bleeding after taking the pill, but all in all, it was very positive with me.

With all the bareback fucking I did over the years and use of Plan be, I never had a problem, but there was once when I just gave the woman the pills instead of watching her swallow them in front of me. She was and is super cool but you do not want to go through that with any woman who is not.

Definitely a good idea to buy and have them by my side. I had bought a few boxes from the pharmacy, though the store lady warned this can only be consumed once per month. Maybe she was confused why I need to buy a few of them at a time, and she had no idea, jejeje.

Anyway, the one girl that was worried about had her first day of period today. What a relief cause I made her take the pills two days after and continue to have BB sex almost everyday after that, with multiple frequencies everyday too.

[Elvis 2008]

Today I learned that Plan B pill is called PostDay here in Colombia. You can get it in any pharmacy here in Bogota, cost about $4 with two pills to be consumed together. According to the lady in the pharmacy store, the girl just need to take two pills once and not take it again for a month. I thought I share this detail and the story behind it.

Ggekko, if you are going bare, you should buy more and carry them with you. I used to give them to every woman after I had sex with them.

The pills work by stopping ovulation so the time line that they have to be used within 72 hours really is not correct, however the sooner you take it after sex, the better, but it is not 100%. It is about as effective as condom use.

No woman ever objected the first time I gave them the pills. They appreciated it. The second time was a different story. Some women had horrible cramping and bleeding after taking the pill, but all in all, it was very positive with me.

With all the bareback fucking I did over the years and use of Plan be, I never had a problem, but there was once when I just gave the woman the pills instead of watching her swallow them in front of me. She was and is super cool but you do not want to go through that with any woman who is not.

[FilthyBeaver]

Not everybody uses the video feature and if legitimacy is a real concern getting around it is simple. Ask them to take a pic next to their bed, tv, major appliance, whatever. It does two things, 1) proves she's real and 2) proves she's interested in you. Every time I've ever asked for this we've had a good laugh and she totally understood why. The scammers disappear quick.

I really don't understand how people get scammed, it's so easy to prove BS when you meet somebody online.

SugarDaddy.com has verification where the girls and guys post a video of themselves. It weeds out the Nigerian men who are downloading photos from the internet and trying to get money before meeting (scam). Also its an advantage to see the videos the girls post. Many of them are not very attractive in real life compared with their posted photos with makeup and sharp clothing. The videos are a good way to disqualify a lot of fuglies who really look bad without makeup.

[NeilGeorge]

Yeah ima going to call BS on that site. Doesn't even list Seeking?

They list top websites in different categories, not a rank order listing.

[NeilGeorge]

Made a basic profile on sugardaddy.com and noticed identical pics to profiles I've seen on seeking.

SugarDaddy.com has verification where the girls and guys post a video of themselves. It weeds out the Nigerian men who are downloading photos from the internet and trying to get money before meeting (scam). Also its an advantage to see the videos the girls post. Many of them are not very attractive in real life compared with their posted photos with makeup and sharp clothing. The videos are a good way to disqualify a lot of fuglies who really look bad without makeup.

[Steve 9696]

Reads like one big advertisement but interesting nonetheless. Made a basic profile on sugardaddy.com and noticed identical pics to profiles I've seen on seeking so the hustlers are working both. Doesn't look like there's anywhere near the activity there as on seeking (at least in my city).

Yeah ima going to call BS on that site. Doesn't even list Seeking? Total lack of credibility. And the bullshit they spew in the first few paragraphs. Any site that is pay by the communication is complete BS.