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08-30-22 01:38 #3828
Posts: 3205Originally Posted by AmorPorFavor [View Original Post]
You might want to try an allowance after you first date if you are there every weekend. I would not do this unless there was a 10 type but there were two women, one Venezuelan and one Colombian in Mexico City, that were 10 types and down with my seeing them as much as I wanted if I covered their expenses. One wanted $1200 and the other $1500 per month. That is something to consider if you are there every weekend. Both of these women would be in the $1000 in hour club in NYC.
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08-29-22 20:12 #3827
Posts: 558Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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08-29-22 05:49 #3826
Posts: 3205Originally Posted by AmorPorFavor [View Original Post]
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08-29-22 05:40 #3825
Posts: 3205Originally Posted by FastMdSter [View Original Post]
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With the age thing, everyone has personality types and traits. My top two traits are sensing, how the world is, and thinking, using facts to make decisions. My current girl's top two traits are opposite of mine, feeling and intuition, how the world can be.
I used to put down feelers as irrational and intuitive as unrealistic and with age, it is even easier to put down the traits you prefer not to use. But I know now no matter how smart I am, I will never be as good with feelings or intuition as her. I have no problem now asking someone who is 28 and better at those things for advice, so the age does not matter as much to me now. I no longer expect to be smarter on all things.
As far as people and the age difference, people can easily see if a girl on a guy's arm is in love versus one getting paid.
When I was with my woman, she shed real tears at the end of one of our first trip, and I was like, "Holy shit, this woman is in love with me. " I gave up my fun relationships for a more meaningful one because I knew how rare this was. I will never forget what one female friend said about the fun girls, "Those WG are not going anywhere."
But before I did, I had sex with someone great in bed before I committed and honestly, the sex was no better than I had with my gal. I went to strip clubs twice and made two stunners cum. Both wanted to see me outside the club but one was bipolar and the other was pretty much a sugar baby type pro, and I realized even if the sex is great, inevitably things are going to fade or not going to end well. Been there, done that. The thrill of the hunt for me was gone.
When you are on the hunt, you are always looking for that great next kill. Thing is you forget the no shows, the women who are horrible in bed, the greedy pigs, the fools, the games ETC. Unlike with a new girl, I know with mine, she is going to be there, and the sex will be great. And even though I never minded the spending at the time, I would look after the fact at how much the bills were when pursuing women and would ask myself, "If you had to spend it again, wouldn't you rather have a 100 inch TV (or whatever) versus the money you just spent on these women?" That was not always the case but it was way too often. The amount of money and time we spend pursuing and catching these women is massive.
So Fast, you have to ask yourself are you tired of the bullshit and cost of the chase? Or can you convince yourself you are?
The bonus is as good as your woman has been in bed with you, it will get better when you commit. You think she has nothing more to give but when she truly is your woman, she will really give you all she has. I do not think you can have the best sex with a woman unless there is commitment. They will always hold a little back IMO.
As of now, she knows you and you can be straight with her. If you are afraid that you will stray, tell her that. Tell her you just got out of a painful divorce and not yet ready to settle in. She will tolerate your playing for a while.
I was scared of straying so I asked if she were open for threesomes. She said no, but I do not think it hurts to ask. I would have committed sooner had she said yes.
We have talked marriage but before I even brought up the hard prenup questions, she said, "I will sign whatever you want. " I suspect your gal would do the same. A working woman gets wanting to keep the fruits of labor. A non working woman may not.
If you really have found a great woman, it is probably best to put the energy of the hunt into something else. I was engaged to a different woman who still has the best body of any woman I have been with, and it took me two years of looking really hard to truly find someone in her class. The extreme beauties are not easy to find and even harder to land, and you have to sift through all the ones who are narcissists, bipolar, or just crazy selfish. But to find one who can pay her own way? That is even rarer.
There was a massive 2002 (meta analysis that showed condoms pretty much do not work to prevent STDs. The government tried to bury it, and I have been latex free since reading that study and have not had any issues. Like you, I had an antibiotic / antiviral cocktail I take if I am concerned with STDs and unlike condoms, they really work. Latex is a huge allergen, and I think the notion of calling condom use "safe sex" is foolish. Show her the study and say you will get tested every 3 or 4 months, and I bet she will consider staying condom free.
Every woman has red flags. With my ex, I saw them and naively thought when we were married, they would get better. Of course, they did not. This time, I had a trusted female friend vet my gal and she told me her flaws and I did listen. After that, she said, "But I think she is too good for you. " Hopefully, you will have the same.
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08-29-22 02:49 #3824
Posts: 2793Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
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08-28-22 22:59 #3823
Posts: 462Originally Posted by FastMdSter [View Original Post]
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08-28-22 22:27 #3822
Posts: 585Originally Posted by AmorPorFavor [View Original Post]
I tend to be generous because my biggest fear is cancellations. Like going down there and having nothing to do.
I usually offer 6000 to 7000 pesos, about 300-350 dollars, for dinner and time after, usually 5 hours. This has never been negotiated higher so I assume it's considered very good.
If you don't have global entry don't bother tho. The line to get back to the states can easily be 2-3 hours.
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08-28-22 19:25 #3821
Posts: 2698Def All Set
Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]
But you are all set then. You can def find a top shelf hottie for $500. Just got to weed out all the posers and girls who ask 800-1000. Agree. Wtf? But wade thru all that and you will have urself SA hottie #2!
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08-28-22 18:53 #3820
Posts: 558Tijuana
Has anybody used SA in Tijuana? Any ideas on what would be the most you should pay for a top shelf chica? Like a easy 9 or 10.
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08-28-22 18:27 #3819
Posts: 340Why wouldn't you?
Agree. If you like them enough to see them several times, why wouldn't you treat them like a GF? Even if it's an illusion, the more real it feels the better the experience. I'm all for shows, travel, dinners, etc. But I don't do it with girls who can't hold a conversation or I'm only interested in banging. I like doing those things and having company I enjoy is totally worth it. I'm not much of a gift giver mostly because I hate thinking about what to give them but I own a business that provides services that almost everyone on the planet needs so I also help them out there.
Women love little shit like remembering their birthdays. I couldn't care less about mine, haven't celebrated it since I turned 21.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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08-28-22 18:17 #3818
Posts: 340Clarification
I lurk with a profile that isn't paid with no pics. It's not findable or searchable. Once I have a stable of 15 that I'm interested in I'll pay & load pics. It takes me 3-4 mo to get to that number. In the meantime I'm watching for changing locations, pics, and text in the profile.
As for actual communication when I'm paid, I respond almost immediately whenever I can. I'll get a message and if I miss her there's a high likelihood I'll never hear from her again. At least that's my experience.
You are absolutely correct on waste fraud & abuse. It's a cesspool, but I've come to accept the fact that it's the only way I'm going to get introduced to girls I'm actually interested in (and has paid off in spades). I made the mistake of looking for people my own age (I'm still in my 40's) and I swear there were more pics of my grandma than anything else. I loved both my grandmothers but I didn't want to fuck either of them.
Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]
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08-28-22 17:31 #3817
Posts: 2698Fast Master Style
Thanks for the report. Great fun to read. You however are playing a completely different game than the rest of us. Single, loaded, and attractive. You are using SA as a dating site not a Sugar site. The rest of us are handing out sugar because that's part of the game. If you are not handing out sugar but pulling the hotties anyhow then it's a different game. It's called dating!
Kudos for that. We all wish we could pull hotties for nothing but it's not reality for most of us (married, older, less attractive). But it comes with side effects. If you are fucking several girls — esp bareback — they want and rightfully expect more. They will want more BFGF status and future else why they doing it? And you become a heartbreaker.
Beautiful girls have heart crusher power and some wield it like a weapon. You have been gifted a certain amount of heart breaker power. Wield it wisely Luke, my son! 😜.
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08-28-22 16:59 #3816
Posts: 1I've always suspected this
Originally Posted by Ggekko2009 [View Original Post]
"I don't care about his age but he's generous enough."
"Someone with the means and integrity to provide for my lifestyle".
"If you can stimulate my mind with conversation."
You get the idea. Not a typical tone or wording that you'd expect to see from so many girls.
I do agree it's getting harder and harder to weed through the nonsense on SA to find those gems and you really have to put in a lot of time to do it.
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08-28-22 16:35 #3815
Posts: 6413Agreed
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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08-28-22 16:17 #3814
Posts: 2698She's Out There But.
Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]
So you going to have to raise your bid! But I am very confident you will find your girl if you do so.