Seeking Arrangements

[AmericanPi]

Do you ever invest time in chatting with girls "platonic" and try to convert them? Or is it a waste of time?

Of late, I see some profiles on west coast. Interesting, GND, my type girls.

But they are looking for "platonic". I know US has golden pussy syndrome. It seems to be going towards only gold. No pussy now.

It seems a bit like going to a lesbian bar because hey you never know maybe that cute girl is straight and is just accompanying her friends right?

I'd say you're better off fishing where the fish are. Platonic = red flag to me.

[FilthyBeaver]

But I love these profiles. I play a little game with myself because one if two things happens. They delete their accounts when they find out they're wasting their time or they remove it and keep the account hoping to land a guy. I like to guess how long it takes for either to happen based on the way they write in their profile.

Do you ever invest time in chatting with girls "platonic" and try to convert them? Or is it a waste of time?

Of late, I see some profiles on west coast. Interesting, GND, my type girls.

But they are looking for "platonic". I know US has golden pussy syndrome. It seems to be going towards only gold. No pussy now.

[Steve 9696]

Do you ever invest time in chatting with girls "platonic" and try to convert them? Or is it a waste of time?

Of late, I see some profiles on west coast. Interesting, GND, my type girls.

But they are looking for "platonic". I know US has golden pussy syndrome. It seems to be going towards only gold. No pussy now.

Usually a platonic tag means platonic only. I've had girls say "oh I put that to say I am open to it, not that is the only thing I'the do". I of course counsel that if she wants some action she should remove it because guys screen it out. So yeah there can be girls who out of ignorance put it.

I usually addres it in the chat if they are worth pursuing. But if she's like on only platonic or only online then next next.

[Gfefan]

Do you ever invest time in chatting with girls "platonic" and try to convert them? Or is it a waste of time?

Of late, I see some profiles on west coast. Interesting, GND, my type girls.

But they are looking for "platonic". I know US has golden pussy syndrome. It seems to be going towards only gold. No pussy now.

[Gfefan]

Happy for your experience. Thanks for sharing.

This seems to be the norm for most European cities. A good dinner + 300 EUR gets great sex. Lets not let it inflate.

Femme 1 followed up with me the next day, but only to say that she was too tired and too busy at work to meet me that evening. I replied that I understood and let her know that I would really like to meet her again but I decided not to invest any more time and energy in her, since I would be in Paris only for several more days. If I had been sticking around longer, then I think there would have been a decent chance to turn the relationship into something worthwhile (including sex for $) but I just didn't have time, especially considering that I had other contacts to explore.

So I moved on to Femme 2. Her photos were very nice-she had a French girl next door innocence look that was very appealing but also a couple sexy bathing suit shots that were even more appealing. Also, reading between the lines of her profile, she seemed much more open to playing ball right from the start. I messaged her on WhatsApp the next day, following up on a few exchanges that we had had while I was still in the USA. She was eager and available that same night. I was somewhat relieved when she turned the back and forth on WhatsApp to the topic of compensation and specifics of a meeting. I proposed dinner and then "intimacy" back at my room for that night. She said that her rate was 400 Euros for such a PPM encounter and I replied that I was "used to" paying 200. Without hesitation she countered with 300 and I accepted.

She arrived at my hotel on time and upon meeting her in person, I liked her look but she didn't really measure up to Femme 1 in looks and charm. It was clear to me that she had done this more than a few times and maybe I wasn't catching her on her best night. Like Femme 1, she worked in finance and maybe found her job less than fulfilling and kind of boring. She had a good education and had spent a year in northern California at an American university business school. Interestingly, it was during that year that one of her classmates and friends had turned her on to Seeking. She must have been much in demand in her role as the French college girl sugar baby in America.

Dinner was fine and she was interesting to talk to. Her English was excellent and we conversed back and forth in both languages. I didn't like the restaurant where we wound up and I didn't find her as charming and appealing as Femme 1. But she was cute, young, had a pretty nice body and there were no doubts about what we would do back in my room.

So we returned to my room and got down to business. She performed well but I didn't feel any real passion during the encounter. Maybe she was thinking that I would not be around for repeat business so she didn't have to put on her best performance. I liked her, I enjoyed her company and the sex was pretty good (especially after the previous letdown with Femme 1), but if I had been staying in Paris for a while, I would not have wanted to meet her again. It seemed like there were lots more possibilities out there.

So the next day, I messaged on WhatsApp a couple more ladies with whom I had already made contact. Both responded positively to me and I got the feeling that both would be fun dates who would also provide what a man wants, though neither one brought up the subject of money. I actually like that because it made it feel like more of a challenge to reach a satisfying deal. Neither one could meet that night but both could meet the following night. I liked the looks of both-one was a more mature, MILFy and very attractive North African woman and the other was a younger (25) Eurasian cutie. I love women with a look that is a bit exotic so they both appealed to me. It was a tough choice but I picked the younger Eurasian.

So I set up a dinner date with Femme 3, the Eurasian, for the following night. We consulted about the restaurant and she recommended a traditional French place that would be convenient for both of us to reach.

She even made a reservation.

The next evening I found her waiting outside the restaurant at the appointed hour. Her photos are very nice and she lived up to them. She is a mix of southeast Asian and European and the result is very appealing. She carries a little extra weight but in a nice way with womanly curves and nice boobs. Her face is model pretty with perfect skin and a pretty smile.

She was a very charming and fun dinner companion and the meal was very good. We shared a bottle of wine and the dinner passed enjoyably. We walked back to my hotel and I invited her up to "listen to music", but I don't think I even needed to use that line again. She was happy to come back to my room.

Once in the room, she was very coy. I knew she was willing to have sex but she allowed me to move things along. After a while we wound up lounging on the bed and I initiated some physical contact including some light kisses. Wow! It was like I lit a fire inside her. She kissed back enthusiastically. With tongues. This girl was a kisser extraordinaire. She loved to kiss and allowed free roaming of my hands.

However, I wasn't sure that I was ready to take her on that night. I was tired from a long day of activity and the wine and the food didn't put me in my best form for sex. Also we still hadn't discussed her compensation. I proposed that we meet again the next night and do the bedroom activities first and then go to another dinner. I mentioned a number (300 Euros) and she said that would be good. So after more kissing and cuddling she left and I looked forward to the next night.

She returned to my hotel early the next evening and we proceeded directly to where we had left off the night before. As she undressed, she revealed that she was wearing some nice lingerie including matching white bra, panties, garter belt and stockings. I had not asked for that, but what a nice, thoughtful gesture on her part. She looked fabulous and the whole package got my motor running. The sex was great, especially in doggie position facing the full length mirror on the bathroom door (located very close to the bed in my tiny hotel room).

We finished up and went out for another nice dinner at an Italian place that she also had recommended.

So I feel like I had a successful Seeking experience in Paris. I had never used it before outside of my home area and I didn't know what to expect. But all in all, it was far better and easier to find, meet and and enjoy the intimate companionship of desirable women than in my home area. And still reasonably priced, considering that Paris is an expensive city. Quite apart from the three women that I met, I had a great time in Paris. But adding in those three interesting encounters made my week in Paris that much more enjoyable.

[Simplii]

Absolutely. I'm with you.

Can't wait to arrange. Right now I'm busy, but hope soon.

Exactly, everyone wants free advice, then they are the first to complain, when the he trip does not go as planned. SA takes Hard work, Time, Money, luck and some game.

[DramaFree11]

Where is the report?

Exactly, everyone wants free advice, then they are the first to complain, when the he trip does not go as planned. SA takes Hard work, Time, Money, luck and some game.

[Simplii]

Where is the report?

Hi all,

Just like title says: Mexican (living in cdmx, not only visiting) do exist.

We understand local culture, but your input is much appreciated.

Yes, we might increase prices for you all (not that it'll make any difference to your finances, but it helps avoid exploitation).

It's great here (MX in general, cdmx in particular), just give back what's fair.

[Ghiat]

Hi all,

Just like title says: Mexican (living in cdmx, not only visiting) do exist.

We understand local culture, but your input is much appreciated.

Yes, we might increase prices for you all (not that it'll make any difference to your finances, but it helps avoid exploitation).

It's great here (MX in general, cdmx in particular), just give back what's fair.

[Midwestern]

Ps I think it was important in all of these cases I didnt expect to end in sex. I was just doing something fun we were both comfortable with. I think the sex happened because it wasnt the goal. It’s surprising how women can pick up on a vibe like this.

Good advice. Sometimes just being chill also leads to no sex, but coming on strong in these situations wasn't going to be a winning strategy anyway.

[CaptRenno]

You probably did the right thing. But don't sell urself short. You have it in you to seduce her that first night. A few thoughts on this.

...I think it was important in all of these cases I didnt expect to end in sex. I was just doing something fun we were both comfortable with. I think the sex happened because it wasnt the goal. Its surprising how women can pick up on a vibe like this.

Thanks, Steve. That's excellent advice and I can see how I might have used it with Femme 1 in Paris. When I look back on that night, I do think that she wanted to have sex but I didn't succeed in putting her fully at ease, so I blame myself as much as her. I will put your advice to good use next time I find myself in a similar situation. Thanks!

[Virgin40]

A Pretty Seductress 24 wanted 2 k USD for a short arrangement in DXB.

I said I will be back after printing my benjmans LOL.

Not sure what she likes for a longterm arrangement, couple of kidneys I guess.

[Steve 9696]

Well, even though it was a tiny room, she wasn't sitting on the bed. I was sitting on the bed and she was in a chair next to me. I did initiate physical contact, but I didn't get the response I was hoping for (enthusiastic kissing in return).

Since it was my first foray into a Seeking encounter in a foreign land, I didn't want to put myself in a awkward situation. She had already given me some "go slow" signals, so I decided on a strategy of tactical retreat and a possible renewed offensive on Day 2 of the battle. But that never happened.

You probably did the right thing. But don't sell urself short. You have it in you to seduce her that first night. A few thoughts on this:

1. As said before if she's in the bedroom you are halfway there.

2. She's prob DTF but nervous or uncomfortable.

3. I've had several dates like this. And I always start by addressing it rather than assuming. I say something like "you seem kinda nervous" or "it seems like maybe you don't have chemistry towards me. That's ok it happens some times. " And see what she says.

4. Always reassure her that you don't want to do anything she doesn't want to do.

5. And then try to move to something intimate but not threatening. Like let's just have a glass of wine and check out the view.

Recently I suggested a massage and that was the ticket. I've also twice had success say ok let's just make out but we can stop short or doing anything too intimate. And damn if we don't end up fucking!

My fave was a girl in Vegas who literally said "I can't have sex with a guy I just met". But after making out and working her tits and her pussy through her jeans 20 minutes later she says "ok we can fuck now". LOL. And she was texting her mom while we fucked that she'the be home soon. LOL.

Ps I think it was important in all of these cases I didn’t expect to end in sex. I was just doing something fun we were both comfortable with. I think the sex happened because it wasn’t the goal. It’s surprising how women can pick up on a vibe like this.

[CaptRenno]

My last trip to Hong Kong was back in 2019 and I was in the city once a year. Wan Chai bars were my pick up joints...but I have heard the pandemic killed the business in wan chai so I am looking at other options.

During the same trip that I met Bee in a HK bar, I also spent time in Singapore. Before leaving the US, I created a profile on "Date In Asia" (https://www.dateinasia.com/). I got some good responses and contact info, including a Filipina nanny / maid and, after exchanging several messages on the site and on WhatsApp with her, we set up a "date. " Such women usually have one day off (it's usually Saturday evening until Monday morning, I think) and some are looking for a good time on their day off.

So she came to my hotel late Saturday afternoon and then spent the next 24 hours with me. I took her to dinner and then we had sex and she slept over. We had sex again in the morning--she took me bareback that time and it was nice. That day I took her to Universal Studios park in Singapore (something she had asked to do on our date) and I bought her a few small things. She never asked for payment in return for the sex. She was happy just to have a day away from work, some sex, good meals and a fun time at Universal.

So that's another approach to try. It might work as well as or better than Seeking.

[Anaggie]

Though I didn't meet her on Seeking, I had a great experience in Hong Kong in 2016.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...738&viewfull=1#post2028738.

My last trip to Hong Kong was back in 2019 and I was in the city once a year. Wan Chai bars were my pick up joints and I would hook up with a Colombian or Venezuelan but I have heard the pandemic killed the business in wan chai so I am looking at other options.