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07-12-22 22:47 #3602
Posts: 462Originally Posted by FastMdSter [View Original Post]
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07-12-22 00:08 #3601
Posts: 300Originally Posted by FastMdSter [View Original Post]
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07-11-22 21:28 #3600
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by TerOnlyOnce [View Original Post]
Thing is if you ever find a woman that meets those crazy high criteria, you are not going to give a shit how much she costs and if she cares about you, she will care much more about spending time with you than spending your money.
If you are just focused on getting laid on the cheap, stick with the WGs.
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07-11-22 18:58 #3599
Posts: 77Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
I switch to text or WhatsApp after I have any interest. The ones that are serious will do that no problem. After a few texts I ask for a video call for both our safety. If it's a no, then no further.
When it gets to arrangement. I mention ppm and my donation. For those that don't bring it up I wait till after dinner / drinks when I ask to go up to the room, depending on the mood.
Back in MOntreal next week and from there to Vancouver, Seattle, Portland, SFO. Have dates set up in all locations.
Will see how it goes. I know Montreal and Vancouver will be slam dunks because have had a few video chats and they have been already trying on outfits and lingerie during the video for our dates.
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07-11-22 17:29 #3598
Posts: 2777Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
Remember I am strictly dealing with girls in CDMX. If they like you or truly interested in meeting, none of this will be an issue. I was wasting a lot of time, the Video Chat, makes a huge difference. They can still hide a flaw, but much harder after a video chat.
Another thing, trust your gut, if you have doubts verify.
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07-11-22 13:09 #3597
Posts: 567Originally Posted by FastMdSter [View Original Post]
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07-10-22 14:11 #3596
Posts: 77Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
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07-10-22 13:52 #3595
Posts: 123I've been talking to this girl in London, tried to meet last weekend but it fell through. Made plans to meet today but she's been checking to see if we're meeting since around 9 am, about 3 times so far. The last time I met a new girl on seeking and went straight to a hotel I got robbed and she was very eager to meet too. Called and texted multiple times to make sure I was coming. Probably going to trust my gut and bail but wondering if anyone else has experienced this. Also hasn't asked for my photo so might be a pro.
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07-10-22 05:47 #3594
Posts: 77Originally Posted by TerOnlyOnce [View Original Post]
I don't want long term. I want 1 night, few weeks, maybe a few months with the right one.
I am paying lifetime alimony at $285K USD a year to my ex-wife.
I'm about quality. Columbia is the place for cheap pussy.
The performance of escorts are going down hill in London, imo.
Originally Posted by Ggekko2009 [View Original Post]
Also, it depends on what you are trying to accomplish. Easy to go out try for one night stands, but still paying the bar tab and a little tedious if you're alone in a foreign city.
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07-10-22 03:08 #3593
Posts: 318Exactly
This is a compound equation. Is she worth x? The answer is almost always absolutely not, if you just want sex with a pretty girl, go to an AMP or *****house; they're cheaper and there are a lot fewer flakes.
Given what I want (and more importantly, what's available at that given time) is dropping 700 to get something I want worth it to me? Only the buyer can answer that (for the record my answer has been yes twice in the last year but less than that with 4 or 5 other girls).
I honestly believe I've found the secret sauce on that site. I get a lot of positive feedback from my profile but I am also extremely picky. For every 20 girls who contact me unsolicited, I may be open to 1 of them. For every 10 girls I'm interested in (I've not run into 20 I was interested in on a one month subscription and I never go more than a month), I will get at least half that reply to me. From there, if there's chemistry in the texting we meet, if not I walk away. I won't try to bag them if they're just attractive, I want the chemistry and the mental connection too. I like the mentoring and helping them out. It costs me money and time but the amounts have no discernable effect on the rest of my life so I don't worry about it. I don't see how it makes any sense for a man twice, or more, her age to try to get her for as cheap as possible or free. In a situation like this there has to be something tangible that gets exchanged. There are some girls looking for real relationships and I've met a doctor before so the person is also going to dictate the price (Dr didn't want anything and I saw her twice). I've also heard of plenty of wealthy girls looking for their equals so they don't have to "date down" and SA seems like a reasonable place to do that so long as you have the patience to sift through the wannabes and fakers. I've met enough girls to know that there are a significant number of legitimately successful men there.
The numbers mean nothing, it's just a way to keep score in a game you're playing by yourself. What sense does that make?
Originally Posted by Ggekko2009 [View Original Post]
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07-10-22 02:10 #3592
Posts: 533Looking at it from a different perspective
Originally Posted by TerOnlyOnce [View Original Post]
I think it is all a matter of perspective. Instead of asking how much is the girl worth, maybe a better question to ask is how much is my time worth? The typical profile of SD in SA are going to be different than the rest and will more likely to skew higher income and higher net worth.
Also, I guess if one has game, he does not even need to pay.
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07-09-22 22:37 #3591
Posts: 144Originally Posted by FastMdSter [View Original Post]
If a man is in their 30's, decent looking, and with some level of game, I would think they could bag one of these british hoes for no more than 200 pounds.
Ideally I want to pay as little as possible.
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07-09-22 19:24 #3590
Posts: 2672Confidence and Boundary Pushing
Just sitting here chatting with Sylvia about our time together. And was reminded of a great moment. Life is just a series of moments. And they are MADE. Make as many as you can.
We'the had an epic day on the water and decided to stay in for the night. Went for a bottle of wine and were drinking it on the balcony four stories above a very busy pedestrian area. We did comment before going out there that you can't see it from the street.
We had a glass or two just chatting. But after a while my proper lawyer girl comes and sits on my lap. We continue to chat and kiss a bit. But the próximity has us worked up. After a while I am squeezing her tits and eventually push up her bikini top for full access. She's quite the posh and proper girl and you could feel a boundary being stretched.
A few more minutes of tits and kissing and I start to pull the release string. She says "you're not taking my top off." and I say "yes I am" and proceed to do so. You can tell she loves that I've pushed her past that boundary. A good SD is more than just a guy that fucks you. You grow a bit together. We take it inside shortly thereafter and have some truly great drunk sex but damn that moment will stay with both of us forever.
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07-09-22 18:38 #3589
Posts: 2672Oversexed and Falling a Bit
First things first. Epic post by Chola. Soooo glad you scored that grand slam. I agree with the other poster who said mega ballsy to travel to someone you don't know. So 90 Days! And yet it worked. Glass half full is a style that results in a few fails but some epic success. Congrats. And glad you tried the Steve 2. It's life changing. Nothing like it if you like BJ and fingering. Plus tits. Awesome.
So I guess I've been a bit over sexed but it's given me perspective. In the past few weeks I've had trips with Sylvia and Shayla, had a one night SA lay, and had two girls at the FKK. So two real GFs and three rather transactional meets. (The SA girl struck me as rather pro but not so good at it. LOL.).
And here's where I stand. Transactional sex is great. If you don't have the option of more meaningful date-night sex. Single night date-night sex is awesome. If you don't have the option of a multi-day vacation with a Hot GF. Hot GF weekends are fabulous. Unless you have the option of hot GF weekend with a girl you are smitten with and is a sex goddess. That's where I stand.
So sure. I loved the transactional sex. And I adored my days with Sylvia. Would repeat in a heartbeat. But I am not drawn to her the same as Shayla. And when the pussy sex and the BJ solid but not exceptional there is no comparison with Shayla, who absolutely slays in bed. (It took us a while to find out passion/rhythm actually the first few dates were OK. Its interesting to see how much better its become. )
I once wrote down a top five list. Top BJ. Top kissing. Top sex. Top whatever. And Shayla slays the sex categories. She's a top five in kissing, BJ, sex, passion and who knows what else. Oh. Smile. And just making you feel like a million bucks. When she runs up to you, throws her legs around you and smothers you in a million kisses. What a keeper. Just going to enjoy her as long as I can.
I have a friend who plays the game. And he once gave me the advice that when ur current girl winds down theres always a better one. u just have to keep going. And I wasnt sure I believed him. But he was right. I didn't think Thifany could be exceeded. Alexa finally dethroned her (and remains still a top 2 girl). But Shayla has topped even Alexa and slayed my dragon and I am her man as long as she'll have me. But u know what? Theres a better girl still ahead. Doesnt seem possible. But hey thats what I thought with Thif. Then Alexa. Shes out there somewhere
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07-09-22 18:18 #3588
Posts: 2672Epic Few Days
You may recall a couple weeks ago I had an amazing few days with my home girl Shayla and it was truly one of the finest experiences of my life. Now I've kinda repeated with Sylvia about a week later. And damn it was fun also. There's something about Shayla that clicks better and the sex is five times better. But damn it's just great to be with any hot young thing who adores you. It just can't be beat. And I have some recent more transactional sex to compare it to. No comparison.
Okay back to my time with Sylvia. So it turns out I was able to swing a few more days vacay in Europe with Sylvia a week or so ago. This after I met her in London a couple months ago. I float this vacay idea with her, covering her flights and room but offering half our agreed PpM and she is all over it. Think she woulda for free but I surely don't mind dropping her bucks. Here's how it went down as written at the time.
Landed yesterday and spent most of the day and night with Sylvia. Really great girlfriend during the day and we had epic drunken sex last night.
I was actually mildly worried because the last time I saw her we had some difficulty getting sex working for both of us. She is super tight and hard to get in and if it starts to become a chore I start to sag and it's self fulfilling prophesy.
But we fire things up and the kissing is off the charts good. I give her some great DATY and fingering. And she is moaning like a wild woman. I do some Steve 2 which is fingering her during BJ (mentioned a couple posts back by another member). God I love that. Do that a while.
I figure we better let her start on top and ease in. But we need to get a condom. I was hopi g not but she asks and I say yes. As I fetch it she runs to go pee and I go soft. I ask her to BJ me back up but I never get back to where I was.
We are struggling to mount when I have a flash of brilliance and say "maybe we could start without the condom and then finish with it". (We'the been 100% covered sex so far) And she says "good idea". Fuck yeah it's on!
So she mounts up raw and it takes quite some maneuvering and oohing to get me in. Like Chloe. But we finally got it in and the sex is epic. Could never have happened covered.
She rides cow girl a long time but she's a grinder so no benefit to me but she has an O. I swap her to mish and pound away. Kissing also. OMG she feels great bareback.
We fuck a really long time and she is begging harder and faster. And cumming again. She obv wants me to enjoy finishing and suggests doggie. We do that for s while but as she is sagging I push her down to lazy dog and fuck that is fine. I am ramming for all I'm worth and she's squealing and moaning and asking for harder.
At some point I can't hold it and pull out and finish on her butt. She was s little worried I'the cum inside but I assured her I hadn't. I didn't tell her, but I had STD test last week and all negative so I feel good about that too. Oh and she says "good idea getting rid of the condom". LOL. About twenty minutes later she says she can feel her legs again. Now that's a good fucking!
Anyhow it's epic. And I love picking out her dresses for dinner. Just finished that up. And fucking later of course. Life is good!!
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That's the only sex stuff I wrote down but the entire weekend of BFGF was just wonderful. There is absolutely nothing like having a real girlfriend — or two! LOL. More on that next post!