Seeking Arrangements

[FastMdSter]

We're still seeing each other. As a matter of fact, I have some gifts I've got waiting for her that I need to give to her. And to set the record straight, she's a $250 PPM bareback hottie LOL! It will be interesting to see if FastMdSter has the same success in the States that he did in Germany.

Hey Cane, I'm wondering the same thing. Moved the meeting I had today with the 21 yr hottie from NJ to Monday afternoon. Then I fly out to SFO and have a meeting with 26 yr in Sonoma, (also have an office near Napa).

Working on some leads for Montreal, which my big head tells me is dumb because I feel Montreal is the best escort scene. Young Caucasian woman under 30 who are GFE for $200, and most of them will go bareback with a 2 HR appointment and alcohol because they love to party.

During F1 week they come out of the woodwork. Last race before Covid had my suite and an adjoining room just for escorts.

Then most of them would fuck for free because me and my buddies had a corporate suite. So inexpensive when you tally the shots per dollar.

However, this is like a full time job. I may need an admin for this part of my life. Will see how much energy I can devote. But, I'm hunter in the real world and it's the same adrenaline if I was big game hunting.

[The Cane]

Speaking of amazing regs, cane I know you swore off SA but are you still seeing your $300 bareback hottie? That was quite a find!

We're still seeing each other. As a matter of fact, I have some gifts I've got waiting for her that I need to give to her. And to set the record straight, she's a $250 PPM bareback hottie LOL! It will be interesting to see if FastMdSter has the same success in the States that he did in Germany.

[Steve 9696]

Speaking of amazing regs, cane I know you swore off SA but are you still seeing your $300 bareback hottie? That was quite a find!

[Steve 9696]

Ok so yeah. I love meeting new girls on Seeking and having a few days relationship maybe to be repeated. Yep love that. But what I REALLY love is that I've hooked a real deal girlfriend in Shayla.

We were apart for various reasons for six weeks and the the reunion was epic. As soon as the hotel room door closed she ran across the room and jumped up and threw her legs around me and covered me in kissses. Smiling ear to ear. Just eating me alive like I am the most amazing person on planet earth.

I adore her equally and the reunion sex was epic. She has a tit pussy connection like no other girl I've seen. Suck her tits and she starts moaning loudly. First couple times I thought it was fake. But literally her pussy is a sloppy mess after 15 seconds of tit work. Never seen anything like it. OMG. Just amazing sex. Amazing BJ. CIM swallow. 1000 watt smile. Kisses. Spooning. Affection off the charts.

I am over the moon with this girl. Best girlfriend ever, bar none. Thank you Seeking!

[FastMdSter]

It seems because of the war a lot of the Russian ladies are not going out as much, at least that's what they communicating to me.

I know many don't like the Russian lady game, but from a sex perspective they have been on point for me as much Latin, Spanish, Polish, etc. They would always think they are better than the rest, but they have tuned it down.

So you may want to look at those opportunities again.

[FastMdSter]

Excellent report.

Please check your PM.

Thank you. Will reply.

Holy crap man. What a whirlwind. Congrats on that.

Honestly can't believe you did FKK instead of a sealed SA deal. But FKK is something every straight man has to experience in his short life. Just describing it people would think you're lying.

Well done.

Being from the US I love FKKs. Its like a drug addict in an all you can inject buffet right.

LOL.

However, I wanted guaranteed nut busts and after the first meeting on Tuesday afternoon where I sent her home I was getting skeptical of seeking. If Wednesday meetings happened on Tuesday I would not have went to Sharks.

But, I have had good luck in FKKs, specifically with getting them out of the club. But their baggage is very very heavy. I had a globe superstar follow me to London and didn't know. Accosted me and a date in Nobu some years ago. So I am more apprehensive now.

[Gfefan]

Excellent report.

Please check your PM.

So after reading all about seeking on here. I had to give it a try for trip to Frankfurt this week.

I know a strange place, but I thought let me get the kinks worked out so I become more proficient.

Set up a profile, posted some hidden pics. And wrote 2 canned messages, 1 for Ex-US, and one for US.

Started making my favorite list last week, and started sending messages 4 days before my arrival on Tuesday this week.

Sent about 20-30 messages. Got 15 replies. Followed up with messages and they all wanted access to my pics.

Approved access to my pics. 2 didn't reply after that. 1 said she didn't believe my pics were real, looked way younger than my stated age of 48 and too attractive, LOL.

12 replied after pics and said they are interested in speaking more.

Sent them all my WhatsApp and switched conversations to WhatsApp. One said telegram. I deleted her.

Then then WhatsApp convos started. Was feeling really good. Was concentrating on the 4 hottest. Two 9. 5's, and two 8's.

Age range, 22, 23, 25, 33.

Set up meetings for lunch and dinner on Tuesday and Wednesday.

Tuesday 23 yr solid 8. Hit it off really well, but I was getting worried she was really thinking I would be more than a SD. Have been in that situation and didn't not end well. So after lunch, got her an Uber and sent her back. She was clearly disappointed. But has been texting me. She was a real German.

Tuesday 23 yr. Solid 9.5, she had initiated the arrangement topic. I did not initiate with any of them on purpose. She said after dinner if I'm as attractive as my picture she will stay the night of that was ok. But would like 400 and cover her taxi home in the morning. I said no problem.

But, then I started thinking how am I not going to go to an FKK. So I canceled last minute. She was cool and still texting.

Went to sharks. Report posted today in FKK thread. She was from some small town in France.

Wednesday 33 yr old. Solid 9. 5, probably 10. But this one caused me the most angst. Would not move to WhatsApp till today when she sent me her phone number at 7 am confirming our time.

We set for 2 pm and she then sent me text 2:20-2:30. I'm starting to think she will flake.

She pulled up to the JW Marriott and was stunning. Turned every head. But had a all business look. So angst again from me.

After 10 minutes the hair flips started, biting lip and blushing and body language completely opened up. Started telling me all kinds of personal things. She had said could only do 1 HR. I thought this was going to be a long courtship and told her I had a 8 pm dinner meeting and wanted to hit the gym and shower. So had concierge call her a Taxi.

As she gets in the Uber she asked again when I was leaving and I said 8 am.

20 minutes later she calls and said she coming back to finish what we started.

Full GFE, Bareback sex, leaves after 1.5 hrs. Called her another taxi and she was gone. She was from the Ukraine, been here 13 years. No other payment that 2 taxis.

Now I am running out of time. For my dinner meeting with the 25 year old. Solid 8. Her English is perfect. Went to school in Toronto. A lot of banter with her on texts.

Had 8 pm reservations at IWASE, best sushi in Germany. Real Deal. I get there at 8 pm. See missed 3 calls from her. I call her and she said can't get an UBer. JPmorgan marathon today in the rain fucked the traffic. She said she has been trying for 45 minutes.

I told her do what you need to do. I'm ordering and eating. They had Yamazaki so I was happy.

Calls me again and said ask them if they have parking. They said garage next door. She said she is driving to me.

Whatever. Don't believe her.

Halfway thru my sashimi course and excellent toro she calls and said come outside. Now I'm losing patience. I'm 48. Already blew one load.

I come outside and she is in a brand new Cayenne Turbo with Russian plates. Now I am worried.

She said I have to park the car because she will not maneuver it through the parking garage.

I get in and we park. I'm starting to think I have been set up. We go in she orders, we finish the bottle of Yamazaki and leave.

Now she says I have to drive her car back to her house? I'm stupid for pussy. I'm horny now with her big tits, red toes, so I do it like a dumbass. She lives in west end I think it's called near the city center. Pull up to her place, she opens gate and I park in the back and she said let's go drink in town. We find a bar, munchio? Or something. It's late now, I said let's get out of here. She said sure. She asked where, I told her I'm going to my hotel and she can join me. She played like she wasn't sure, we walked and talked right to the JW.

In the room, game over, just like I like, hardcore sex, bareback sex, bareback anal, choking whatever I wanted. Fucked her silly. She soaked my sheets. Thank you Yamazaki. She showered, then when I was showering she got dressed like a good girl.

Called her an Uber. She said let's do it again when I'm back. Total costs- Dinner and the drinks, plus 14 e Uber.

Now I see why you guys are so hot on seeking. I'm spoiled as fuck now.

Have a date set up with a 21 yr old in NJ who is texting me like crazy on Friday when I return.

Thanks to all of your tips.

FYI- I tried tinder also. Got a lot of matches, but I found it harder. So need to see how much effort I will put into tinder.

[AmericanPi]

Holy crap man. What a whirlwind. Congrats on that.

Honestly can't believe you did FKK instead of a sealed SA deal. But FKK is something every straight man has to experience in his short life. Just describing it people would think you're lying.

Well done.

So after reading all about seeking on here. I had to give it a try for trip to Frankfurt this week.

I know a strange place, but I thought let me get the kinks worked out so I become more proficient.

Set up a profile, posted some hidden pics. And wrote 2 canned messages, 1 for Ex-US, and one for US.

Started making my favorite list last week, and started sending messages 4 days before my arrival on Tuesday this week.

Sent about 20-30 messages. Got 15 replies. Followed up with messages and they all wanted access to my pics.

Approved access to my pics. 2 didn't reply after that. 1 said she didn't believe my pics were real, looked way younger than my stated age of 48 and too attractive, LOL.

12 replied after pics and said they are interested in speaking more.

Sent them all my WhatsApp and switched conversations to WhatsApp. One said telegram. I deleted her.

Then then WhatsApp convos started. Was feeling really good. Was concentrating on the 4 hottest. Two 9. 5's, and two 8's.

Age range, 22, 23, 25, 33.

Set up meetings for lunch and dinner on Tuesday and Wednesday.

Tuesday 23 yr solid 8. Hit it off really well, but I was getting worried she was really thinking I would be more than a SD. Have been in that situation and didn't not end well. So after lunch, got her an Uber and sent her back. She was clearly disappointed. But has been texting me. She was a real German.

Tuesday 23 yr. Solid 9.5, she had initiated the arrangement topic. I did not initiate with any of them on purpose. She said after dinner if I'm as attractive as my picture she will stay the night of that was ok. But would like 400 and cover her taxi home in the morning. I said no problem.

[FastMdSter]

So after reading all about seeking on here. I had to give it a try for trip to Frankfurt this week.

I know a strange place, but I thought let me get the kinks worked out so I become more proficient.

Set up a profile, posted some hidden pics. And wrote 2 canned messages, 1 for Ex-US, and one for US.

Started making my favorite list last week, and started sending messages 4 days before my arrival on Tuesday this week.

Sent about 20-30 messages. Got 15 replies. Followed up with messages and they all wanted access to my pics.

Approved access to my pics. 2 didn't reply after that. 1 said she didn't believe my pics were real, looked way younger than my stated age of 48 and too attractive, LOL.

12 replied after pics and said they are interested in speaking more.

Sent them all my WhatsApp and switched conversations to WhatsApp. One said telegram. I deleted her.

Then then WhatsApp convos started. Was feeling really good. Was concentrating on the 4 hottest. Two 9. 5's, and two 8's.

Age range, 22, 23, 25, 33.

Set up meetings for lunch and dinner on Tuesday and Wednesday.

Tuesday 23 yr solid 8. Hit it off really well, but I was getting worried she was really thinking I would be more than a SD. Have been in that situation and didn't not end well. So after lunch, got her an Uber and sent her back. She was clearly disappointed. But has been texting me. She was a real German.

Tuesday 23 yr. Solid 9.5, she had initiated the arrangement topic. I did not initiate with any of them on purpose. She said after dinner if I'm as attractive as my picture she will stay the night of that was ok. But would like 400 and cover her taxi home in the morning. I said no problem.

But, then I started thinking how am I not going to go to an FKK. So I canceled last minute. She was cool and still texting.

Went to sharks. Report posted today in FKK thread. She was from some small town in France.

Wednesday 33 yr old. Solid 9. 5, probably 10. But this one caused me the most angst. Would not move to WhatsApp till today when she sent me her phone number at 7 am confirming our time.

We set for 2 pm and she then sent me text 2:20-2:30. I'm starting to think she will flake.

She pulled up to the JW Marriott and was stunning. Turned every head. But had a all business look. So angst again from me.

After 10 minutes the hair flips started, biting lip and blushing and body language completely opened up. Started telling me all kinds of personal things. She had said could only do 1 HR. I thought this was going to be a long courtship and told her I had a 8 pm dinner meeting and wanted to hit the gym and shower. So had concierge call her a Taxi.

As she gets in the Uber she asked again when I was leaving and I said 8 am.

20 minutes later she calls and said she coming back to finish what we started.

Full GFE, Bareback sex, leaves after 1.5 hrs. Called her another taxi and she was gone. She was from the Ukraine, been here 13 years. No other payment that 2 taxis.

Now I am running out of time. For my dinner meeting with the 25 year old. Solid 8. Her English is perfect. Went to school in Toronto. A lot of banter with her on texts.

Had 8 pm reservations at IWASE, best sushi in Germany. Real Deal. I get there at 8 pm. See missed 3 calls from her. I call her and she said can't get an UBer. JPmorgan marathon today in the rain fucked the traffic. She said she has been trying for 45 minutes.

I told her do what you need to do. I'm ordering and eating. They had Yamazaki so I was happy.

Calls me again and said ask them if they have parking. They said garage next door. She said she is driving to me.

Whatever. Don't believe her.

Halfway thru my sashimi course and excellent toro she calls and said come outside. Now I'm losing patience. I'm 48. Already blew one load.

I come outside and she is in a brand new Cayenne Turbo with Russian plates. Now I am worried.

She said I have to park the car because she will not maneuver it through the parking garage.

I get in and we park. I'm starting to think I have been set up. We go in she orders, we finish the bottle of Yamazaki and leave.

Now she says I have to drive her car back to her house? I'm stupid for pussy. I'm horny now with her big tits, red toes, so I do it like a dumbass. She lives in west end I think it's called near the city center. Pull up to her place, she opens gate and I park in the back and she said let's go drink in town. We find a bar, munchio? Or something. It's late now, I said let's get out of here. She said sure. She asked where, I told her I'm going to my hotel and she can join me. She played like she wasn't sure, we walked and talked right to the JW.

In the room, game over, just like I like, hardcore sex, bareback sex, bareback anal, choking whatever I wanted. Fucked her silly. She soaked my sheets. Thank you Yamazaki. She showered, then when I was showering she got dressed like a good girl.

Called her an Uber. She said let's do it again when I'm back. Total costs- Dinner and the drinks, plus 14 e Uber.

Now I see why you guys are so hot on seeking. I'm spoiled as fuck now.

Have a date set up with a 21 yr old in NJ who is texting me like crazy on Friday when I return.

Thanks to all of your tips.

FYI- I tried tinder also. Got a lot of matches, but I found it harder. So need to see how much effort I will put into tinder.

[AmericanPi]

That's good input. Thanks for taking the time.

I actually do well going up to girls in my city, even young ones, and chatting them. I think I assume SA will be different because I'm not playing the long game. If I don't get into bed, tonight, the date is a waste. I don't need female friends who love going out to eat. I've got plenty of those. So then I just think if I'm being honest, a 20 year old girl is going to want to bang a young guy, if all that's gong on is banging. We aren't talking about relationships here.

But I totally hear you. And I appreciate your point. And I will keep that in mind as I pursue these young mujeres.

If all this is true about yourself, you should be fine with 20-25 women. Many women in their twenties like mature men in their forties for many reasons. I don't think it's just about money, but also how a mature man carries himself and lays out the date. When I was in my forties, I even had young women comment about my decor. A young man might have a good job, but not know how to carry himself and have post-college tastes. I would also add that in my opinion a fortysomething male is still close to his peak appearance if he keeps himself in shape and hasn't lost too much hair.

That being said, I don't think walking into a bar and hitting on young women is going to go too well. There guard is up. They are likely with friends.

I found that I met them through business, the gym, the coffee shop, etc. Anywhere, I could have a one-on-one greet and flirt. That's my take. I live in a large city. My neighborhood has many young women so the chance to interact is a daily, regular thing.

When I was in my forties, I have had young women literally say "you're fun and we don't have to worry about where this goes".

[Gfefan]

Not sure if you all are experiencing this. SA prospects have been relatively slow to materialize for me. Between Dec and Feb, I had met with 10 and fucked 6. Two were repeat. We fucked around a lot.

I got back on SA couple weeks ago. Yet to have even one turn to meet and greet. Wondering if it is to do with things opening up.

I am in Europe.

[WyattEarp]

Maybe. But let me tell you my situation. I'm actually a fairly attractive guy and quite a good conversationalist. But my weakness is I like 20-25 year old women, and I'm mid 40's. I have to be honest with myself. No matter how good I am, they would rather be banging a 25 year old dude. So I can't just rely on my wit and looks to get a girl to elect to stay the night for free. If that's what I want I feel I need to make it clear that's the exchange I'm looking for. It works for me but it's unique to my situation.

If all this is true about yourself, you should be fine with 20-25 women. Many women in their twenties like mature men in their forties for many reasons. I don't think it's just about money, but also how a mature man carries himself and lays out the date. When I was in my forties, I even had young women comment about my decor. A young man might have a good job, but not know how to carry himself and have post-college tastes. I would also add that in my opinion a fortysomething male is still close to his peak appearance if he keeps himself in shape and hasn't lost too much hair.

That being said, I don't think walking into a bar and hitting on young women is going to go too well. There guard is up. They are likely with friends.

I found that I met them through business, the gym, the coffee shop, etc. Anywhere, I could have a one-on-one greet and flirt. That's my take. I live in a large city. My neighborhood has many young women so the chance to interact is a daily, regular thing.

When I was in my forties, I have had young women literally say "you're fun and we don't have to worry about where this goes".

[AmericanPi]

Yeah that's a lot to deal with.

I once talked to a SA chick in CDMX who said in our initial chat that due to a physical condition sex is not a possibility but she's a great companion and would like a SA relationship based on that. I was super nice about it. But I just wanted to say I don't think you understand how much you're fishing in a desert with that approach, on this website.

I am open to learning, god knows I have plenty of opportunities to practice.

As for her physical problems:

A) She explained an inoperable back issue. At least she was told to give her relief from back pain, surgery was risky.

She opted for pain killers, I didn't read the bottle and it was injected.

B) Loose abadnen skin and stretch marks indicating extreme weight loss.

She has no children, that leads to issue #3.

C) Eating disorder. As in she is concerned about how much she eats to the point of having a smallish meal once a day.

I know fasting as become more in vouge lately but I don't think that applies here.

The positives:

29, no children, never married, European decent, English speaker minimal errors writing or speaking.

I met her walking into the wrong hostel where she was working.

She instantly liked me and it was mutual.

[DJ FourMoney]

Curious: what kind of physical ailment?

Regarding language, it's really worth taking the time to learn Spanish. It's a Category 1 language, which is the easiest to learn. As someone who learned it, trust me it's not that hard once you get past the initial push.

I am open to learning, god knows I have plenty of opportunities to practice.

As for her physical problems:

A) She explained an inoperable back issue. At least she was told to give her relief from back pain, surgery was risky.

She opted for pain killers, I didn't read the bottle and it was injected.

B) Loose abadnen skin and stretch marks indicating extreme weight loss.

She has no children, that leads to issue #3.

C) Eating disorder. As in she is concerned about how much she eats to the point of having a smallish meal once a day.

I know fasting as become more in vouge lately but I don't think that applies here.

The positives:

29, no children, never married, European decent, English speaker minimal errors writing or speaking.

I met her walking into the wrong hostel where she was working.

She instantly liked me and it was mutual.

[Simplii]

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