Seeking Arrangements

[AsianPursuits]

Anyone have a similar experiences and suggestion for a fix?

A) clear your browser cache.

If pain persists.

B) clear your browser cookies.

[WyattEarp]

Yes, FWB as Gekko said. I was being a bit dramatic, that not only FWB phrase is banned but even the individual letters f, w, and be are banned. But you get my gist.

P.S. For some reason, this site changes my be to be. Also S to yes. Autospell correct? Not due to my phone.

Oh my bad. My eyes were locked in on F and b.

And for some reason, this site does have an awkward auto-editor. I think it will strangely auto-edit USA and other abbreviations.

[Pessimist]

I must be getting old because I have no idea what W is.

Yes, FWB as Gekko said. I was being a bit dramatic, that not only FWB phrase is banned but even the individual letters f, w, and be are banned. But you get my gist.

P.S. For some reason, this site changes my be to be. Also S to yes. Autospell correct? Not due to my phone.

[Ggekko2009]

I must be getting old because I have no idea what W is.

I think he meant to say, FWB, Friend with Benefits.

[WyattEarp]

This explains why SA is happily tolerating the umpteen number of obvious scammers posing as girls but shuts down a dude's account after he paid $240 for 3 months if he so much as mentioned the letters F, W, and be in the same sentence. Any whiff of paid sex might lead it to be shut down while the Feds will never shut it down even if it is crawling with a million scammers.

I must be getting old because I have no idea what W is.

[Globo]

Last night I was logged out of SA. I tried to log back in, enter my google authentication and a screen pops up for one second saying my location or device changed and to reverify. This only appears for a second and I was able to click on the confirm button twice but the browser refreshes to the login screen with a message to say I was logged out.

I have tried a few times but happens on mobile and different desktop browsers.

Anyone have a similar experiences and suggestion for a fix?

[Pessimist]

Thanks to you and Pessimist for this feedback. I was excited for a minute there, until I realized that they are probably operated by a bunch of amateurs. It does not have a few good features like the video verification and seems to have quite a list of SBs, but other than that, everything else is just meh.

Case in point:

- They only accept bitcoin to buy their credit. However there is no way to do so other than being told to contact their support team. Ok, how to contact their support team? That info is completely missing. If anyone wants to run any viable business, that is something they should pay attention to. I am surprised they are still kicking. Not even sure if they are on life-support..

That's because these sites are insanely profitable. Match group margins were nearly 30% and revenues stretching into 3+ billions and its margins would be much higher if it was not spending so much money on increasing its subscriber count. Seeking charges $90 a month while tinder charges less than 100 now for A year of Platinum. And unlike match which spends tons of money marketing on search engines and other places, seeking spends far far less. I would be shocked if seeking margins are Less than 50%. There are hardly any new features. Don't think they are paying a thousand developers to write code adding new features. It is a pure cash cow.

I am sure other sugar daddy sites have far fewer members but they probably have nice profitability as well. Costs are minimal once you get up to a certain scale.

So, they will keep going, make sure they are not shut down by authorities. This explains why SA is happily tolerating the umpteen number of obvious scammers posing as girls but shuts down a dude's account after he paid $240 for 3 months if he so much as mentioned the letters F, W, and be in the same sentence. Any whiff of paid sex might lead it to be shut down while the Feds will never shut it down even if it is crawling with a million scammers.

That is another peeve, that our government and law think scammers are an ok part of our society but a man paying for sex has to be silenced immediately.

[Ggekko2009]

It's more than just a waste of time and money. It's a scam. I have a close girl friend (not girlfriend) who is 24 and on the prowl for SDs. (We didn't work out) And what we found is that it's sending out her "interest" to various guys at random. Including me. Then the guy punches on her because she's interested (she's not!) and he pays $6. So every one of these "interested" girls is really just the system spamming you to get your $$ AVOID.

Thanks to you and Pessimist for this feedback. I was excited for a minute there, until I realized that they are probably operated by a bunch of amateurs. It does not have a few good features like the video verification and seems to have quite a list of SBs, but other than that, everything else is just meh.

Case in point:

- They only accept bitcoin to buy their credit. However there is no way to do so other than being told to contact their support team. Ok, how to contact their support team? That info is completely missing. If anyone wants to run any viable business, that is something they should pay attention to. I am surprised they are still kicking. Not even sure if they are on life-support.

- No SBs outside the US. WTF. I already dislike my experience trying to connect with all these SBs in the US. With no option to search for SBs outside the US, this service is definitely a no-no for me.

- Crap, they don't even have the option to delete my account. I am just going to remove as much information as possible and making it unsearchable in the meantime.

[NeilGeorge]

It's more than just a waste of time and money. It's a scam. I have a close girl friend (not girlfriend) who is 24 and on the prowl for SDs. (We didn't work out) And what we found is that it's sending out her "interest" to various guys at random. Including me. Then the guy punches on her because she's interested (she's not!) and he pays $6. So every one of these "interested" girls is really just the system spamming you to get your $$ AVOID.

I have stopped playing with SA now for 2 months and have been most happy. Only scammers, girls who want money before meeting, no shows, girls wanting to sell photos, onlyfan subscriptions, etc. Its worthless now.

[Steve 9696]

Has anyone ever used sugardaddy dot com? Is it a good alternative to SA? They seem to rely on credit system instead of a hefty monthly fee like SA.

Looks like the locations are limited to USA only. I cannot seem to search for any cities outside the US. I would like to hear from anyone who has used this platform on their experiences with it.

It's more than just a waste of time and money. It's a scam. I have a close girl friend (not girlfriend) who is 24 and on the prowl for SDs. (We didn't work out) And what we found is that it's sending out her "interest" to various guys at random. Including me. Then the guy punches on her because she's interested (she's not!) and he pays $6. So every one of these "interested" girls is really just the system spamming you to get your $$ AVOID.

[WyattEarp]

Sorry, missed your post.

I think NSA and discretion are ok, no? They don't connote sex in anyway. NSA simply is an equivalent of at will employment? That neither the dude nor the girl are exclusive to each other, nor obligated into any long term arrangement? Discretion is just wanting to keep it quiet, I. E. No movie dates, or at highly visible restaurants etc.

The thing is, the above are my interpretations of the law, but I am not a lawyer. And when it comes to SA, what is provable in a court of law is important but we don't want to even get to that level. So, I am with you that it is prudent to cut out any words and phrases that smack of paid sex.

I wasn't trying to make a point really. I just wanted your take and other's take on various Seeking descriptors. While NSA and Discretion don't connote sex, they do connote zero attachment in the relationship and something we have to keep secret respectively. If a girl was willing to provide transactional sex, that would be a good start. Some of the descriptors certainly seem to imply the opposite.

As I mentioned, some of the photo sets and the poses certainly seem provocative beyond a casual beach or boat shot.

Just curious to know if members here look for certain signals on a women's profile.

[AmericanPi]

On behalf of everyone on this totally anonymous forum where you're anonymous and everyone is and there's no need to be coy: when you say you overstepped and things went so crazy, what are we talking about here?

Had another meeting with my total unicorn of an utterly wild, crazy SB. We did some things and pushed some limits that left us feeling a little. Dazed and me very guilty.

It's hard not to overstep in the moment because she is so submissive and we've agreed in future to set limits with unclouded minds. She isn't upset we did what we did, she just doesn't feel she can cope with it emotionally regularly and I've felt like a total prick for pushing things that far. Still, she feels like what happened was a mutual thing. We egg each other on.

Very very fond of this girl. But we've both agreed we're bad for each other at this current moment in time. I've told her I'm leaving the UK (hopefully in the next few days) for a month or so.

If she's still around when I return (I've told her I seriously would like to hear she's found the dream sugar daddy she needs or preferably sorts her life out and gets out of this), I want try and meet her in a more sustainable way for both of us..

[Pessimist]

Has anyone ever used sugardaddy dot com? Is it a good alternative to SA? They seem to rely on credit system instead of a hefty monthly fee like SA.

Looks like the locations are limited to USA only. I cannot seem to search for any cities outside the US. I would like to hear from anyone who has used this platform on their experiences with it.

I have and sites that use such credit systems are not worth it. Steve tried recently and came to the same conclusion. You can give it a shot to scratch the itch but in the end, I'm afraid you will probably agree with that view. Your Bill's run up too much too quickly, the long and short of it.

[Ggekko2009]

Has anyone ever used sugardaddy dot com? Is it a good alternative to SA? They seem to rely on credit system instead of a hefty monthly fee like SA.

Looks like the locations are limited to USA only. I cannot seem to search for any cities outside the US. I would like to hear from anyone who has used this platform on their experiences with it.

[Elvis 2008]

Actually, a mid-40's guy dating a 23 year old is not unusual particularly in Latin America. At that age, I would routinely walk into a young Latin American club with friends and colleagues and meet English-speaking babes. I never felt out of place with a twentysomething at the club or elsewhere.

I agree Wyatt, but the girl I was referring to was in the USA. It was back a decade or so again when prices for SBs were still reasonable.