Seeking Arrangements

[DonCarlos1234]

I still do not think that guys really get what sugar babies are. They are an investment in a friendship, and you should care where the money you are giving her is going. That is the daddy part of the sugar daddy relationship, and I take it seriously.

Elvis. From an ISG point of view guys on ISG / SA / Seeking. Are probably NOT looking for platonic deals. If they are looking around S. America on SA. They know P4 P is very possible and can, might, should. (we hope) LOL end up with the whole package. Any "friends with benefits" statements will get you banned on Reddit. I would not last long there. Let's keep that a secret. I guess what I'm saying is very few guys in this subsection on ISG think like those in the USA do. We start out thinking about "friends with benefits" and test the relationship before flying her to the moon. then someone nice comes along.. we can't possibly meet in the USA sex prison. Well that's my current story, flight attendant, perfect English.. blonde, 35 years younger, sex is a natural phenomenon not some negotiating tactic. where do I sign?

[The Cane]

Well, here is my final report on my experiences using Seeking.com. As you will recall, I signed up for a three-month premium membership, which actually ended a few weeks ago. And to be perfectly honest, I couldn't wait! A big thumbs down to Seeking.com from me! And the reason? Well, at least in the United States, the site is just infested with fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers. It's just overwhelming and totally ruins the experience. It all started out incredibly well for me. Unbelievably well! I Met somebody who fit the bill with barebacking and cumming inside. The whole enchilada. But, it went way downhill from there. So many fake profiles and / or time wasters. The old adage that "if it looks too good to be true it probably is" most certainly applied. I mean, it was so bad that one time when I was looking at new member profiles, there were two profiles side-by-side with the exact same picture, but with different names and totally different geographical locations! Hahaha!

Summing it all up, I ended up meeting three girls over my three month "experiment". I could have met at least a couple of more for sure, but I backed out due to distance. They were both like an hour and a half away each, and I just decided it wasn't worth the drive. One of those I'm sure was a straight up prostitute. I asked her about anal, and she said she would try (that means "no" and was just a weak attempt to keep somebody on the hook). Of the three I did meet, one we decided right off the bat to keep it platonic. Another I could have fucked, but although she was cute in her own way, I simply was not "stirred' by her sexually. So, I just never followed up after a nice dinner out with her. And of course, the other was my "grand slam home run" who I wrote about in my very first report. But in the end, simply too much work for too little return. Seeking is out of the question for me going forward, along with the other two "S's". That would be stripclubs and swinging.

Through it all, most people were pretty civil online. Rarely did I run into anybody who was just plain rude. There are a couple I remember though. One was like, "You can't afford me". I responded, "I don't need to" and blocked her. Then one girl I initiated contact with said, "Hard no". How about you "hard gnaw" on these here nuts? LOLOLOL! Then there was one who I just couldn't resist taking a shot at. Going on about her "snarky" self in her profile. I wrote, "Yes, snarky and broke"! LOL! I will say that at least in the American scene, there is a lot of "golden pussy syndrome" you have to put up with too. Women over-valuing the worth of their pussies and expecting you to explain why you're worth their (broke) time. Fuck that! I just have no time for it. What successful monger does? I don't. Stopped putting up with "normal dating" bullshit a very long time ago! One chick told me she liked a "dirty old man" (American attitude). I replied that I like "nasty young women". So it's a match! No seriously, I'm glad I gave Seeking a go. I definitely experienced the highs and the lows of it. But when it's all said and done, it's not for me. It's just too hard to consistently find that which I seek on the site, and I would gather within the sugaring world in general. For this reason, I am out! Congrats to those of you who have found success and love it. From here on out, I'll stick to more classic-style mongering thank you!

[DramaFree11]

Returned from 10 weeks in Colombia. (a few weeks ago) had some travel business & photography planned. But the RAIN was so unpredictable, I switched to meeting (who knows how many) mostly Seeking and a a few other girls. LOL Before I left I booked a return for June 7. Summer in the SW USA can be unbearable. I will probably visit Colombia 2 times but only 2-3 weeks at a time the summer. I made a reservation for up in the mountains near Bogota with my favorite (new) SA girl. She doesn't even act like the rest. Punctual, Hot as F. Doesn't need much $. Maybe I could do an Elvis repeat and go exclusive. Yep. She will travel anywhere with me. Meet anywhere (well no papers yet) I could do worse but I don't think I can do much better. Yet I have all these numbers for girls I have not had time to meet. So sad..

Love your reports. If I was to go back to Colombia, I would be hanging out in Bogota, and the Mountains sound like a nice change from the Texas heat.

When I was in MDE it rained almost everyday for 1-3 hours in the afternoons, and it was Humid as Hell. I guess it was bad timing for me. The weather reminded me of Houston weather, without A. C.

[Elvis 2008]

Punctual, Hot as F. Doesn't need much $. Maybe I could do an Elvis repeat and go exclusive. Yep. She will travel anywhere with me. Meet anywhere (well no papers yet) I could do worse but I don't think I can do much better. Yet I have all these numbers for girls I have not had time to meet. So sad..

Don, of all the guys I have met from the site, I think you and Dramafree have the potential to do what I have done. I think part of the reason I have stayed in this world is that I do not want to obsess on her and be hurt if I lose her. I want to know that I could go back to my old life because it was not that bad, but part of me just cannot believe this is sustainable.

We have not had one fight. Usually the sexual desire dies down after three months. We have been out over a year and it has gotten better. I still have not looked at any woman anywhere and said "This girl is prettier than mine". She gives me mani / pedis, packs my suitcase, does my laundry, and when we were out, she carries everything and insists on it. She has crazy strength and stamina, and the only thing she asks for is more sex and more time with me. I think this is the only way I could be monogamous because anyone else would be a disappointment. I am so grateful for this, and I do not know if it can be achieved but I want everyone to have a relationship like I do. I really do. I just do not know if there are many more like her. It is fucking crazy.

You are going to have front your gal $400 or so in cash to fly her to Mexico City but you should do it when you can.

As for Cancun, there is a casa section and also the mileroticas site where you can get pussy at Mexican prices. Outside of that, the women on seeking and at the strip clubs want close to USA prices, $300 to $400 per hour but they are very hot. The SA / seeking women want USA rates as well, but they are stunning too.

But my take is that if you want a hot woman in Cancun at a reasonable price, you import them from Mexico City or Monterrey. Puerto Vallarta has a good scene at reasonable prices as does Acapulco and Mazatlan. Cabo like Cancun has inflated prices.

[Alex7J]

I love Cozumel, Cancun was a bit touristy 10 years ago. And I had GF.

So I was stuck in Cancun at the peak of Covid lockdown in 2020 April and May and the whole Hotel Zone was shut down with only 4-5 hotels open. I stayed in the hotel zone during April and then for May on the outskirts of cancun in another hotel on playa mujeres or something like that but I forgot the actual place.

With my work timings in night with the UAE and all day was free in Hotel which had offered me an interesting package all inclusive with 3 meals and alcohol for a crazy cheap price for 2 people.

I had not much knowledge of Spanish and SA was the only way to go as I had amazing experiences in Nicaragua, Honduras, Panama and Vnz on the website during January, February and March.

Took a car on rent from the hotel and it was a blast as city was shut down, zona hotelra is empty and isolated with police on both entry points and no one can go in beside the hotel residents and I used to bring food and drink packets for them and they knew me as a amigo. Beach was empty so used to invite SA girls by picking them up from the city to Zona Hotelra, they are happy with the day time outing and all inclusive lunch, swimming pool and free beach access with drinks. 2000 mxn was the usual allowance I gave to almost all the women quietly putting in her bag in the evening when had to drop her back to the city and many of them just stayed overnight on the next meeting as food and drinks were all free to them at the hotel.

Had some amazing women:

Doctor.

Nurse.

Barber.

Student.

Teacher.

Mother.

Bar Tender.

Sisters.

Then Colombian Women.

Venezuelan.

Argentinean.

From Playa Del Carmen.

From Tulum.

Ecuadorian.

Swedish.

Russian.

Ukrainian.

Waitress.

Hostess.

Submissive.

Threesome.

Public Sex.

Highway.

Car.

Just saw a video of Zona Hotelra a few days ago on YT and its crazy how its crowded these days and how it was then, when I was there. Looks unimaginable gosh it was beautiful.

May was even more crazier in other Hotel it was a time share hotel 1000 Rooms and only 7 Guests with 4 Rooms booked and mine was the 5th Room to be booked.

Imagine what all I did in that hotel.

Crazy it was and then June and July in CDMX was even more crazier.

Gosh I miss Mexico: wish I had the Magic Potion with me in Cancun, it would have been absolutely crazy.

Cheers.

Peace.

[DonCarlos1234]

Returned from 10 weeks in Colombia. (a few weeks ago) had some travel business & photography planned. But the RAIN was so unpredictable, I switched to meeting (who knows how many) mostly Seeking and a a few other girls. LOL Before I left I booked a return for June 7. Summer in the SW USA can be unbearable. I will probably visit Colombia 2 times but only 2-3 weeks at a time the summer. I made a reservation for up in the mountains near Bogota with my favorite (new) SA girl. She doesn't even act like the rest. Punctual, Hot as F. Doesn't need much $. Maybe I could do an Elvis repeat and go exclusive. Yep. She will travel anywhere with me. Meet anywhere (well no papers yet) I could do worse but I don't think I can do much better. Yet I have all these numbers for girls I have not had time to meet. So sad. .

[DonCarlos1234]

When I stayed there in 2020 it was 2000 mxn to 3000 mxn the most for an over nighter. The women are hot sex was good but nothing beats Cancun and the amazing pussy there.

Cheers,

Peace.

I love Cozumel, Cancun was a bit touristy 10 years ago. And I had GF.

[DramaFree11]

Yeah, I just got back. I have been traveling so much that I got up to Titanium level on Marriott. So I stayed at the Marriott Reforma. I like the Barcelo more and it is cheaper but the location of the Marriott Reforma is IMO as close to as good as it gets. If you are platinum or higher, you can go the club on the 16th floor: great views and free food, and it was good food, 16 hours per day.

So we get up on the top floor of the hotel and look down and it is just stunning: perfect temp, no smog. The Marriott beds are great. The TV has a HDMI hookup and I connected my laptop and we watched a bunch of Netflix and fucked like bunnies.

Thing about Mexico City is that it has so many good American chain restaurants in addition to Mexico's finest. So we go to California Pizza Kitchen and she had the Waldorf salad which I think is as good as it gets for a salad.

We were in Tulum a few months ago. I got a burger and it came with an order of sweet potato fries. My gal tried one and was hooked. I guess there are not many sweet potatoes in Colombia but man does she love anything sweet potato.

I know it sounds like hyperbole but the best super market I have ever been to in the world is City Market in Mexico City. I figured they would have some sweet potato dishes and they did. I just cannot even describe this market. It just blows away your senses. The very notion you should visit a city for a supermarket sounds stupid, but check it out first and then call me stupid.

I had a ham sandwich, one of the best I haver ever had, best chocolate mint ice cream. Maybe you know Mason Kaiser a desert place for coffee and sweets in the airport and around the city. My gal loves macaroons and usually loads up there, but they had macaroons at City Market. The first one we tried was purple or grape flavored. OMG. My gal is screaming with the first bite it was so good. She loaded up a huge bag of goodies for her trip back to Colombia..

Yes, M. City is amazing. I love how you can be at fancy restaurant, they hand out candles and the DJ will play a song. Everyone is the restaurant stops what they are doing and sings the song, just so much fun. I really miss it.

[Elvis 2008]

I love SA.

I am starting to really miss CDMX, I finally back 90% after my surgery and work is going well, even with bad economy, so I might be heading back to CDMX. I love MTY, but there is no comparison, CDMX is so much better then MTY.

Yeah, I just got back. I have been traveling so much that I got up to Titanium level on Marriott. So I stayed at the Marriott Reforma. I like the Barcelo more and it is cheaper but the location of the Marriott Reforma is IMO as close to as good as it gets. If you are platinum or higher, you can go the club on the 16th floor: great views and free food, and it was good food, 16 hours per day.

So we get up on the top floor of the hotel and look down and it is just stunning: perfect temp, no smog. The Marriott beds are great. The TV has a HDMI hookup and I connected my laptop and we watched a bunch of Netflix and fucked like bunnies.

Thing about Mexico City is that it has so many good American chain restaurants in addition to Mexico's finest. So we go to California Pizza Kitchen and she had the Waldorf salad which I think is as good as it gets for a salad.

We were in Tulum a few months ago. I got a burger and it came with an order of sweet potato fries. My gal tried one and was hooked. I guess there are not many sweet potatoes in Colombia but man does she love anything sweet potato.

I know it sounds like hyperbole but the best super market I have ever been to in the world is City Market in Mexico City. I figured they would have some sweet potato dishes and they did. I just cannot even describe this market. It just blows away your senses. The very notion you should visit a city for a supermarket sounds stupid, but check it out first and then call me stupid.

I had a ham sandwich, one of the best I haver ever had, best chocolate mint ice cream. Maybe you know Mason Kaiser a desert place for coffee and sweets in the airport and around the city. My gal loves macaroons and usually loads up there, but they had macaroons at City Market. The first one we tried was purple or grape flavored. OMG. My gal is screaming with the first bite it was so good. She loaded up a huge bag of goodies for her trip back to Colombia.

And finally we leave the hotel, there is this huge parade down Avenue Reforma. There are thousands of people marching, smiling, and a huge trailer with a band and group of singers rocking it out. I am actually starting to feel some tears. I do not want to leave. I have had a great place to stay, my gal, and this city which may be my most favorite in the world. As usual, my girl is crying. She told me the first time I left her she cried the whole next day. I am trying to see her every 2 weeks now. We were apart 3 weeks and she has constantly been telling me "no mas tres samanas."

The only reason I came to Mexico City at all was a layover, and the city just blew me away and I was there for a few short hours. I even remember stupidly calling a friend of mine asking if it was safe the first time I was there.

Every time I go now, I ask why the fuck is everyone in the USA not talking about this place? It is so amazing and so close. Even from a hobby POV, I think this city is the best value in North America.

If my gal did not have a daughter, I think we would get a place there and I would just come see her. She has friends there, one of whom is almost as pretty as she is.

For any guy looking to do a long term thing with a Latina SB, this is the fucking place: easy and frequent flights to the USA, usually no visa needed for her, and you get to be in a city with an energy level that can only be matched by NYC, London, and Paris at a third the price. Every time I go, I am blown away.

[DramaFree11]

Made the trip down in a rent car, not a good idea, but it worked. Luckily there there were no cops at the checkpoint, so no issues. I had 2 meetings lined up. First, girl is beautiful, but smokes too much weed and dresses horribly, so sad. Really nice, but no chemistry. I ended the session early.

The model is on. Mexican Lockdown, her parents are visiting. This is getting really old, but I love the time we have together. We will see. So, I had an 8:30 meeting lined up with a hot Venz. Doctor at S. Prime. She show up, very hot and beautifully dressed. Very smart and nice. We drink and eat a little, no more big meals for me if I going to have sex after dinner. The staff at the restaurant was in love with this girl, she kind of has big ass, but she is definitely hot.

We start making out at the restaurant, time to go. At this point I am drunk. We get home, she says she can not spend the night, but that changed. We had great sex throughout the night and in the morning. Great Night. I love SA.

I am starting to really miss CDMX, I finally back 90% after my surgery and work is going well, even with bad economy, so I might be heading back to CDMX. I love MTY, but there is no comparison, CDMX is so much better then MTY.

[AmericanPi]

Not sure what your $ situation is but I will say it's the kind of game that requires some discretionary income.

The membership alone is about 100/ month. Dates with the price of food and some action after should set you back 250-500, depending on how nice the meal and hot the chick. And if you like like doing this in other countries, well travel is pretty pricey too.

You'd not have as much fun low balling girls hoping to get lucky. It's much cheaper to just go the escort route if money is a big concern. This route is more for non-pro / semi-pro contact but you pay a premium for it. And it's not everyone's cup of tea. Some dudes like a girl to just be a pro and treat them.

Hey guys,

I've been curious about SB but I'm not really rich. But I've noticed some people having Price per meet as much as 1 HR with an escort.

Where can I find more information on this? I went thru this thread a bit but not sure how to even get started or even try. Please share your wisdom.

[AsianPursuits]

Where can I find more information on this? I went thru this thread a bit but not sure how to even get started or even try. Please share your wisdom.

Easy, start by making an account at seeking.com.

[J Janni]

Did you just happen to bring the restraints and gag with you?

She brought the rope, blindfold. The gag was improvised with her panties, after I'd stuffed them in her pussy.

If I was reading this stuff, I'd think I was making it up. Nothing was off of the table.

[Koryu]

Hey guys,

I've been curious about SB but I'm not really rich. But I've noticed some people having Price per meet as much as 1 HR with an escort.

Where can I find more information on this? I went thru this thread a bit but not sure how to even get started or even try. Please share your wisdom.

[GoingDumb]

Only 13 years.

I think it was just a perfect coming together of people. She's inexperienced with kink, as am I, but theoretically into it from porn. So much we tried was like, 'Hey, I watched some porn of this, seemed hot. Want to try it and see if we actually like it?

I'm pretty nonthreatening and made sure she felt respected and safe even when she was hogtied, gagged, blindfolded and being fisted.

That's the other thing. I am not or never going to be a proper sugardaddy. I am seeing her again next week, maybe again after that.

She's totally broke and will continue with Seeking. She's putting herself into a super, super vulnerable position. I worry about her in future.

Did you just happen to bring the restraints and gag with you?