Seeking Arrangements

[GoingDumb]

I met up with a girl yesterday for what I thought was a meet and greet but turned into more. After learning she was going out of town for the weekend I asked if she wanted to come back to my place and she agreed. PPM of 500 had already been agreed to on text but I had to get the money while she waited. Luckily there was an ATM where we met up LOL. This time was much better than my first time, she had a great body and I was much more attracted to her. Unfortunately little guy got spooked by the cover so sex didn't happen but I enjoyed fingering her a couple times. She was super tight and super wet, to the point where I asked her if it was ok since she was so tight. Had she been ok with bb I'm sure it wouldn't have been an issue but oh well. I thought I was ok with condoms after hobbying for a couple years and it not being an issue but maybe it's a difference between pros and regular girls. Funnily enough she asked if I had problems with condoms but of course I didn't want to tell her it'd been fine with escorts the last 2-3 years. I've also noticed the BJs from the 2 seeking girls don't do much for me but somehow the FKK girls last summer get it going when I'm shy. Curious if anyone else has noticed issues like this.

After this I see why you guys like seeking. I'd see this girl again if I were local but might be worth another visit. It was much better than the dark aamps I'm used to with women who are at least 10 years older with fake boobs. It was great feeling how wet she got and fingering her since I don't think I've ever done that with an escort. DFK was also much better obviously. I'm definitely motivated to keep trying on seeking and hopefully find something like this with a regular.

[Akibono]

My suggestiion is to not worry about it. When I lived in SF, I was very involved with an SB in another city. After we met, she deleted her profile on SA, but I was obsessed with making sure that she was not searching for other SDs. Eventually, I found her profile on another similar site. And then, I discovered that she had another profile on SA as well. It drove me crazy. But I eventually decided that it was better to not care if any of my SBs were seeking on the side. After all, I was seeking on the side too.

Unless you are paying enough to cover all her expenses, I expect them to see others on the side. It's about sex and not ego.

[Midwestern]

She had deleted her profile before the meet, so if she keeps it offline hopefully that means she's not searching another.

My suggestiion is to not worry about it. When I lived in SF, I was very involved with an SB in another city. After we met, she deleted her profile on SA, but I was obsessed with making sure that she was not searching for other SDs. Eventually, I found her profile on another similar site. And then, I discovered that she had another profile on SA as well. It drove me crazy. But I eventually decided that it was better to not care if any of my SBs were seeking on the side. After all, I was seeking on the side too.

[Elvis 2008]

She had deleted her profile before the meet, so if she keeps it offline hopefully that means she's not searching another.

It is, but I had one woman go right back on line with a new profile once and block me. I did not give a damn as I was seeing multiple women, and she was hardly a keeper. But if you want to know for sure if she is off, you create another profile, and you do not have to pay for it, and keep updates on the newbies in your area.

But with most women, when they said they were off line, they really were.

[AsianPursuits]

Give her an experience.

Thanks for the feedback gentlemen. I had progressed the arrangement and she has just left this morning a very happy girl. For a nice dinner and a few rounds of sex overnight and this morning she earned a week of her minimum salary job. It will be interesting to see if she's back next week.

She had deleted her profile before the meet, so if she keeps it offline hopefully that means she's not searching another.

[AsianPursuits]

St to a cash app, only to get ghosted in the end! A good business if this crook can get enough desperate cheap Charlies to bite that hook!

Sadly enough men will be falling for it. It is so obvious with the same pics being used. Even sadder is that seeking with all their righteousness doesn't stop it or block their pics or IPs.

[WyattEarp]

First things first. Anyone who says it doesn't matter has clearly never done it. It matters A LOT to the girls and honestly it improves the feel of BLS by about 2 X. Win win. But I thought it might help to share some about the mechanics and tips from the school of hard knocks (been doing about six months)

Do not skimp on razor and do not attempt with a mens double blade. Get a Venus five blade with the built in lube strips. Do not ignore this part. It is probably the single most important part.

Don't shave that small area between your balls and your leg. This is unnecessary to shave and causes problems with ball sticking to leg, jock itch development etc. Shaving the balls is sufficient for the benefit.

To do the actual shaving:

Get a slight chub on. You want to get the slack out of your sack. Particularly if you are old like me.

Apply cream with same hand as razor. Keep your left hand dry.

This is definitely a Report of Distinction. I might even go as far to say De-stink-tion.

[The Cane]

So, here's the latest Seeking scam I ran into. I'm texting with somebody on the site, and she says her rate is $125 per hour. There's the first huge red flag right there as that quote is well below market rate for my Tier 1 city (it's the "hook" in the scam). She goes on to say that she cannot entertain, but that she has a car and will go to see her clients anywhere in the metro area. No problem. Right? Until she says that she requires half of her fee up front! She says that's to protect her from loss. I laugh in her face and say no way no how am I doing that LOL! I remind her (as if she needed to be reminded) that the site is full of fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers and under no circumstances will I be sending any money for anything up front (gas, sitter, booking fees, etc.). She goes silent, and I block her. No interest on my part. Ever. So then guess what? I see the same photo popping up with the same name, but now supposedly based in different suburbs in the metro area or from nearby towns. Nope. Not touching that. This person is scamming and I know it! Get some sucker stupid enough to book for cheap and send half of the money up front to a cash app, only to get ghosted in the end! A good business if this crook can get enough desperate cheap Charlies to bite that hook!

[Wanaf]

Beyond being patient and slow, one advice I learnt is that don't mess with razor on the day or 2-3 days before you are planning to meet someone. Any sign of cut, redness can become a big no for some girls.

First things first. Anyone who says it doesn't matter has clearly never done it. It matters A LOT to the girls and honestly it improves the feel of BLS by about 2 X. Win win. But I thought it might help to share some about the mechanics and tips from the school of hard knocks (been doing about six months)

Do not skimp on razor and do not attempt with a mens double blade. Get a Venus five blade with the built in lube strips. Do not ignore this part. It is probably the single most important part.

Don't shave that small area between your balls and your leg. This is unnecessary to shave and causes problems with ball sticking to leg, jock itch development etc. Shaving the balls is sufficient for the benefit.

To do the actual shaving:

Get a slight chub on. You want to get the slack out of your sack. Particularly if you are old like me.

Apply cream with same hand as razor. Keep your left hand dry.

Use that dry left hand to pull your dick up and otherwise provide tension to the sack.

[Elvis 2008]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

AP,

IMO 80% of women in general and on seeking are batshit crazy, and my goal is to get rid of the crazy ones. It is hard to wean out a lot of the ones online especially the ones who may be substituting being nave for being a scam artist.

Get their number. Text them and then move to the time of a meet. Schedule coffee. It is cheap and fast. Within 5 minutes, I know whether or not I wanted to pursue the woman.

80% of women through greed, stupidity, or lack of motivation do not even get to the meet. And how many am I going to cut out because when I meet them I do not like them or because sexually they are going to underperform? A bunch more.

I do not care if you have not been on a meet before. If you say you are going to meet me, you do not get a pass if you say, "It was my first time, and I was scared. " If you want to put up with that shit, have at it, but I never did.

I know the women are young, but I never regretted upholding my standards, and I regretted relaxing them time and again.

If you say you are going to show up, show up. If I am paying you to perform, perform. I know some of these women are young and want to use excuses, but I am not holding them to any standard I do not have to meet myself.

[Ggekko2009]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

I actually got more than a few girls in the Bogota section who told me straight up that they have in fact never done this before, and therefore do not know how to approach this and how much to ask. They are in it hoping to get some financial assistance. They are regular girls who are mostly college students.

[TeFab456]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

Give her an experience.

[AsianPursuits]

In a chat with a SB this week, she made this comment:

I am not experienced, I don't know how to do this coz I'd never done this before. Am not a *****.

What observations do you guys make from that statement?

[Steve 9696]

First things first. Anyone who says it doesn't matter has clearly never done it. It matters A LOT to the girls and honestly it improves the feel of BLS by about 2 X. Win win. But I thought it might help to share some about the mechanics and tips from the school of hard knocks (been doing about six months)

Do not skimp on razor and do not attempt with a mens double blade. Get a Venus five blade with the built in lube strips. Do not ignore this part. It is probably the single most important part.

Don't shave that small area between your balls and your leg. This is unnecessary to shave and causes problems with ball sticking to leg, jock itch development etc. Shaving the balls is sufficient for the benefit.

To do the actual shaving:

Get a slight chub on. You want to get the slack out of your sack. Particularly if you are old like me.

Apply cream with same hand as razor. Keep your left hand dry.

Use that dry left hand to pull your dick up and otherwise provide tension to the sack.

Avoid nicking the seam up the middle.

Make sure to go under a ways. Because some girls will go there.

Now that you are squeaky clean I guarantee a good BLS experience especially NOT with pros. I've only ever had a pro refuse (and that was pre shave). Never had a Seeking girl refuse. And some BLS virgins are quite good and get into it.

Final tip. The way I typically initiate is during BJ. I gently slip it out of her mouth and pull it up against my tummy and say "can you do down here" indicating my balls area. And down they go!

Have fun!

[Gfefan]

So, recap. I had the best with Miss the in city 1. Miss K in city 2. Miss M in city 2. All these in a span of 4 days. Miss K is a model like figure.

Day 6 (last day of trip) I was supposed to meet Miss O traveling about 120 kms one way. Was a little edgy and canceled on her. Went out with the boys and spent the day at beach.

Glad I did that. Miss K knew I was leaving the next day. She texted me at around 8 pm and asked if we could meet AGAIN. I was like "yeah. Baby. Come to puppa".

I told her I had a great time with her, I would love to but it will be great if we could ditch the condom. She responded yes, we can. I have come to trust you. Game on.

She showed up at 10 PM. We had some drinks, casual chat, same balcony. Sea breeze. I like it when these babes initiate. She leaned over, gently kissed me and whispered "you know I haven't had a man in over a year and two days ago, you made it awesome. Now, you make me want more". I said "I am all yours. Do wahtever you want to".

She proceeds to kiss more, unbutton my shirt, lick my chest, bite me gently and proceeded down to give me a blowjob. Slow at first and then, wet and sloppy. At some point, I tell her "lets go inside". She shook her head and said, I want it right here. Proceeded to remove her panties, lift her skirt up and mounted me while I am sitting on the chair. No FIV, no DATY. She was already wet. She rides me like a wild horse rigut there in the balcony. We fucked there for maybe 10 minutes. I lifted her up, while still inside her (I am strong), pumped her standing for a few strokes. Then, carried her inside all the while inside her. Placed her ass in a table and fucked her while standing. This allowed for deeper penetration. Wow. I'm fucking a model on the table.

A few minutes later, we move to bed, completely undressed now. We fucked like wild dogs. At some point, I asked her where she wants my cum. Tummy or face. She goes, I want to taste it.

We flip, she cimbs on top. Few more strokes. She pulls off and proceeds to give me the same sloppy blowjob. I am building a crescendo. I warn her I'm about to cum. She kept going. No hands. Only tongue and lips. I shoot a load in her mouth. She takes it all and slowly let it flow back on my dick. She continued sucking me.

Then, she walked in the bathroom, brings a towel, wipes me clean and lies down on my chest. Wow!

We grab some more wine. Keep chatting. About 15 minutes later, I go clesn up, with lots of soap and rinse my dick.

Resdy for roubd 2. I come back out, she is sprawled on my bed. Those boobs, that model face, that flat tummy and toned legs. I tell her I like her fit body and toned legs. She gently spreads her legs and goes "you like my legs and I like you between my legs" and invites me.

Instant erection. I jump on her, kiss her, gently bite her neck and proceed down to her tummy (remember she doesn't want me to play with her nipples), and then DATY. She is still wet but I decide to do it anyway. Few minutes, she has a O.

I climb back up and slide my dick back inside again. Different positions, more intense fucking this round. She had come three or four times before I shoot my load on her tummy.

Amazing sex with a hot model.

I'm glad I did not go to see Miss O.

We are still in touch texting once a while. Will be back to City 2 in few months. I know where to go.