Seeking Arrangements

[Desin]

There's no sadder tragedy in life than a child growing without a father (or mother).

I asked my regular how would she feel about bareback sessions with applying condom in the end. Since she has said she has a coil for contraception, I would only take the risk of semen entering her on the second round. Assuming, that she hadn't removed the coil without telling me, or that it would have been a lie from the start. Luckily, she said no. By rational mind it's still a totally unnecessary risk, but once that enters one's mind (after telling about the coil), it's hard to get it out. At least without asking for the possibility.

[Wanaf]

You have got game.

So, last week I posted about my best SB (Miss D) and then, a super model SB (Miss K) after a little bit of coaxing. I met "the" on Saturday night / Sunday, K on Wednesday.

For Thursday, I had lined up Miss M. She is a 19 why. O, student living about 150 kms from where I was visiting. Initially, she wanted me to come to her but then, I have to drive 150 kms, find a hotel and I was a bit not sure if it was worth it. Convinced her to take a train / bus to me and that I will cover her costs. She agreed but part of me was thinking that she wouldn't show up.

Wed night, until about 130/2 AM, I'm fucking Miss K. Although with condom, it was still a good fuck given the lead up to it was exciting (see previous report). Thu AM, Miss M was supposed to reach me at 1030 AM but part of me was thinking she wouldn't. However, around 8 AM, I get a text that Miss M is already on the way. I freshen up, still a bit tired but go to pick her from nearest train station. A bit of confusion as Googlemaps took me to a different place but eventually, I find her. Patiently waiting for me at the platform. Poor thing.

First look. Super hot, tall chick with flowing hair (just the way I like it). Cherubic face (Wait. Do I really want to fuck her? She has her jacket on, fully covered. So, couldn't assess rest...

[Nounce]

... Was it a scam or was it real?....

I have seen two cases in the last few years. One is a working girl. The girl went back to her home town and only asked for US $ 350 / month for support. The kid's DNA matches the father's.

The second case is a regular girl but dated a married Korean man. She found out he was married after she was pregnant. She refused the man's money and went back to her home country to give birth. After birth, she contacted the father on Facebook to show him his kid but she refused the father's request to visit.

Both girls are in SEA.

There was actually another girl in Colombia did the same. She also refused the man's money. I know the girl but the information is second hand.

Since it was a regular girl, I would want to find out more if it were me and at least provide some support.

[AmericanPi]

Man. That's a scary story.

Not trying to judge at all. Just saying I would be living in fear of a phone call or knock on the door for a long time.

I actually use a burner phone and email account too. But then I always think, "could they get my contact info if she went to the hotel and asked who registered the room on April 21 in room 252?

Bottom line: bag it up. Always bag it up.

While I was traveling in Asia I met a regular girl via wechat. She was in town visiting her father whom had a new wife. Some family issues but she seemed genuine girl. We chatted via wechat then met for a drink one evening. Didn't get drunk but held her hand walking her safely back to her hotel, then room. I wasn't prepared as I thought it was just a friendly chat. So, no condoms, she revealed a super hot body and a certain eagerness. So a few rounds later I left at dawn. We chatted more but our schedules didn't align again. A month later I got her message about being pregnant. I chatted a little but had to cut the communication. I had a burner wechat which was her only connection to me. Was it a scam or was it real? I will never know. Some days I have distant thoughts to try track her down but I have chosen not to pursue her. I cannot see any good coming from it..

[Spidy]

... I once had this 9 model from Germany. She moved from 300 to 600 and then back to 500 in 24 hours of whatsapp chat. I point blank told her "listen, lets not waste each others time. If there are guys willing to pay you so much, I am happy for you. Leave me alone".

She said "Look at me. You think you will get a hot one like me? I said "what makes you think I am looking for hotness quotient? I am looking for attitude quotient. Hotness is bonus but you score zero on attitude. Goodbye". She was left stunned and speechless. I walked off. Period.

You had me LMAO, at "...attitude quotient...you score zero on attitude". I'll have to remember to use that one.

Yeah, a women's looks aren't even #2 on my list. Not looking to rehash the topic (as I'm sure it been discussed ad nauseam here), but for me it is as follows: 1. Attitude 2.Body 3. Looks/Face.

Europe. LOL. USA. No way. US is such a waste in this. ...

I've yet to play in this dating space and may never do so, especially in the states. However, it is good to see/read from posts like this one and other contributing BMs to this thread, that there are fertile grounds, outside the US, in this dating space, for finding "what you want", at your price point.

To all, the knowledgeable info and the odd chuckle, is much appreciated. Cheers!

[AsianPursuits]

My biggest fear is a text in a few months saying I'm pregnant and in my country you're in the hook for 18 years so if you ever pass thru this airport we'll be seeing each other. Said nicely of course. Ain't worth it. Bag it up.

While I was traveling in Asia I met a regular girl via wechat. She was in town visiting her father whom had a new wife. Some family issues but she seemed genuine girl. We chatted via wechat then met for a drink one evening. Didn't get drunk but held her hand walking her safely back to her hotel, then room. I wasn't prepared as I thought it was just a friendly chat. So, no condoms, she revealed a super hot body and a certain eagerness. So a few rounds later I left at dawn. We chatted more but our schedules didn't align again. A month later I got her message about being pregnant. I chatted a little but had to cut the communication. I had a burner wechat which was her only connection to me. Was it a scam or was it real? I will never know. Some days I have distant thoughts to try track her down but I have chosen not to pursue her. I cannot see any good coming from it.

Anyway, point of my story, if you will BB girls in developing countries decide how you will deal with this issue. If I am not using contraception I will not cum inside.

[AmericanPi]

Do you trade std tests first or anything? I've seen it discussed on the seeking forum on reddit but haven't seen any mention of it here. Does she agree to take the morning after pill the next day too? Between stds and fears she might entrapment me with a kid seems too risky.

Totally.

My biggest fear is a text in a few months saying I'm pregnant and in my country you're in the hook for 18 years so if you ever pass thru this airport we'll be seeing each other. Said nicely of course. Ain't worth it. Bag it up.

I actually flush condoms down the toilet every time to make sure the semen is totally gone from the scene.

I even sometimes say I've had a vasectomy to basically say don't even think about it.

[SamPeter71]

I just got this SA bug after my trips to Mexico (CDMX and GDL). I would plan my future trips to other countries. I wanted to know from the experts which cities has good number of young slim girls under 25 at decent price.

Any thoughts? List of cities and average prices / range etc.

Thanks in advance.

[SamPeter71]

My 1st trip to CDMX. I was there for a week. Signed up SA membership month before my trip. I really liked the SA girls. It is lot of work and many a times frustrating to deal with these girls.

On an average I met 2 girls a day. Some are outright pro. Most of them are semi pro.

I also met girls who didn't ask money and we spent good amount of time at nice restaurants but no sex too. Those are the ones very selective and / or looking for long term arrangements.

Girls who don't ask money upfront generally turned out to be better experience than the ones who ask money upfront. Also I paid more to the girls who didn't ask money upfront if their service is better or I liked them. If someone sets a $ upfront that is what they got.

Mostly GFE. Sex is just a small part of overall experience. I went out to walk, cafes, shopping etc with them.

It will be hard for me to go back to typical escorts or other transactional places like casas etc.

Language is a big barrier for me as I don't know Spanish. Now to make most out of this, I will learn Spanish.

Now SA is my new obsession.

[AsianPursuits]

so she was at least my age if not older. When the clothes came off I wasn't that attracted to her body which probably killed it..

You are still young and looking for attachment. A few more years in this game and you'll learn to get hard to fuck anything. Girls are all different, they all have something unique and one of the skills you will find is how to explore her and find what makes her excited.

As for the body, turn off the lights?

[GoingDumb]

I have come to fully understand what Steve says "spoiled" forever.

I have an upcoming trip to Germany. Usually, I enjoyed FKK scene. The idea of being with 20/30 naked women, with me occasionally flashing my tool through the bathrobe. It was weirdly funny.

This week, I am. Going to be at a place hardly 20 km from one of the best FKK's but here I am setting up my plan with Miss J.

The fact that I don't need to look for a condom when I am ready to slide it in, the fact that I don't need to watch clock, the fact that I can fuck her bare as many times I can. Has knocked FKK out of my thoughts.

Do you trade std tests first or anything? I've seen it discussed on the seeking forum on reddit but haven't seen any mention of it here. Does she agree to take the morning after pill the next day too? Between stds and fears she might entrapment me with a kid seems too risky.

[Gfefan]

I have come to fully understand what Steve says "spoiled" forever.

I have an upcoming trip to Germany. Usually, I enjoyed FKK scene. The idea of being with 20/30 naked women, with me occasionally flashing my tool through the bathrobe. It was weirdly funny.

This week, I am. Going to be at a place hardly 20 km from one of the best FKK's but here I am setting up my plan with Miss J.

The fact that I don't need to look for a condom when I am ready to slide it in, the fact that I don't need to watch clock, the fact that I can fuck her bare as many times I can. Has knocked FKK out of my thoughts.

[The Cane]

And I don't think that having a premium membership would make any difference. In fact, I think that would be a huge waste of money since I would still be dealing with the exact same fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers!

I meant to say that I don't think having a Diamond membership is worth it. I have a Premium membership, and now that I think about it, I'm not convinced that makes a difference either. I mean, at least for finding the best girls it doesn't. My Abby has just a basic membership. SA is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get!

[The Cane]

LOL. USA. No way. US is such a waste in this. And, the girls there tend to think so exorbitantly high of themselves. Steve and few other masters like you are able to play there but mere mortals like me don't stand a chance.

I'm hardly an SA master like Steve. Believe me. I've just been doing it for two months now remember? I've met three women in that time, and have started steady fucking one of them (turned down two others due to distance). Don't think that allows me to qualify as a "master". It's damn hard using the site in the USA. It's damn hard. One more month in my membership. And then I'm done! And I don't think that having a premium membership would make any difference. In fact, I think that would be a huge waste of money since I would still be dealing with the exact same fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers!

[The Cane]

Do any of you do the platonic first meet? This girl said she only does platonic first meets so we met last week first. I had 2 more meetings for drinks last week, both went fine but I'd only consider one of the girls. I'm meeting another girl who seems promising for lunch on Thursday but after my experience I'm not as eager to keep trying.

I do platonic meets and greets. They are extremely important to me, because I know that I'm extremely picky. I know what look that I like, and I'm the type where I can only be sure by seeing her "up close and personal". I've found that too often a girl just doesn't look like her pics in real life. It's like the young college grad who I mentioned in my last monthly report. I was sexually attracted to her based on her pics. But when we met in person, although I found her to be kind of "cute", there was no sexual "thrill" there for me. So, we enjoyed a nice dinner and time together at the restaurant, but after that I was done. So yes, I do platonic meets and greets, but I will only do that once per girl. And after that, we're either fucking or we aren't. And, other than for food and drink, absolutely do not pay for meets and greets! Any girl demands that, just kick her greedy, scamming ass to the curb and keep it moving! Also, before I do a meet and greet, I make it clear that it's no obligation on anybody's part to take it any further. That applies to me just as much as it does the girl.