Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

One banal question that has been giving me good results is. "What star sign are you?" I have no belief in the Stars as such but the girls always answer. That gives rise to lots of remarks and discussions about why my sign is good for her and she fills in the blanks.

Ooh. Ooh. This is really good. I can't tell you the percentage of girls in their early twenties who talk about that and believe in that. This seems like a fab conversation piece because you are catching their interest and expressing interest in something they have interest in. Plus most guys will never ask this so you stand out. This is a FAB tip. I'm going to use it right now!

[AmericanPi]

Thank you.

I'll report back on how this all worked out.

I'm targeting 8's. Like hot enough to bang, but not so hot they think they're doing me a favor.

I'm also weeding out any obvious troublemakers, like girls who lead with their gift wish list, or say upfront they're great conversationalists but aren't looking for intimacy.

$400 to $500 for a true 10 type. $150 to $200 for a 9 in Mexico City. With a 8 or below, you can do $150 or less, and most gals were happy with $100.

I met some nice women in Mexico City on seeking, but if you are looking to get laid, I found the escorts to be better looking, better in bed, and a better value on average than seeking women.

The top gals for sure were on seeking, but with the 10 types, you had to pay what is big money in Mexico to get them.

[AsianPursuits]

Strangely the question "what color are your eyes" which I sometimes ask when not clear gets a near 100% response rate!

One banal question that has been giving me good results is. "What star sign are you?" I have no belief in the Stars as such but the girls always answer. That gives rise to lots of remarks and discussions about why my sign is good for her and she fills in the blanks.

[The Cane]

A lot of these girls just want a man to treat them right for a night! They are so used to penniless losers fucking them for free!

This much is definitely true. I mean, if you treat a girl well (not like a tute) and can afford to pay for nice things, even if it's just a good dinner, plus you give these girls some dick on top of it all and they're happy. I got my baby something nice for Valentines Day, and she was so happy and appreciative!

[Elvis 2008]

This is great input, thank you!

And what a generous but not over the top amount for date 1 in Mex City if you know? Would 150 bucks be good? 200? 300?

$400 to $500 for a true 10 type. $150 to $200 for a 9 in Mexico City. With a 8 or below, you can do $150 or less, and most gals were happy with $100.

I met some nice women in Mexico City on seeking, but if you are looking to get laid, I found the escorts to be better looking, better in bed, and a better value on average than seeking women.

The top gals for sure were on seeking, but with the 10 types, you had to pay what is big money in Mexico to get them.

[AmericanPi]

This. Is. Gold.

Thank you once again!

So someone on here is a Mexico City expert. Can't recall who. Hopefully he will chime in. My experience is mostly US but I still think it mostly applies.

Your opener should be clear it is not canned. Like use her name or something in her profile as part of your opener. And ALWAYS end every chat with a question or she will not respond. Strangely the question "what color are your eyes" which I sometimes ask when not clear gets a near 100% response rate!

My opener might be "Wow. Bree you are amazing looking but I also like your profile. Love that you love dogs. Think we might vibe well. What's your fave beer or wine? Or maybe something stronger?" (May flavor by the vibe I get from the girl).

On discussing sex def don't ever discuss on SA and def be circumspect. After chatting some I take them to text or WhatsApp. At the appropriate time I might say "Hey seems like we rather like each other. I could see a date going like this: We have some amazing Italian and prob drink too much and laugh a ton. If we vibe like I think we will we'the take things private after dinner. On the off chance we don't vibe, we can part after dinner no harm no foul. That sound about right?

[Steve 9696]

So someone on here is a Mexico City expert. Can't recall who. Hopefully he will chime in. My experience is mostly US but I still think it mostly applies.

Your opener should be clear it is not canned. Like use her name or something in her profile as part of your opener. And ALWAYS end every chat with a question or she will not respond. Strangely the question "what color are your eyes" which I sometimes ask when not clear gets a near 100% response rate!

My opener might be "Wow. Bree you are amazing looking but I also like your profile. Love that you love dogs. Think we might vibe well. What's your fave — beer or wine? Or maybe something stronger?" (May flavor by the vibe I get from the girl).

On discussing sex def don't ever discuss on SA and def be circumspect. After chatting some I take them to text or WhatsApp. At the appropriate time I might say "Hey seems like we rather like each other. I could see a date going like this: We have some amazing Italian and prob drink too much and laugh a ton. If we vibe like I think we will we'the take things private after dinner. On the off chance we don't vibe, we can part after dinner no harm no foul. That sound about right?

More often than not if you are getting along they will answer yes and you are good. I never discuss overnight or bareback. Those things just happen. And on a high percentage if you are non objectionable and charming. A lot of these girls just want a man to treat them right for a night! They are so used to penniless losers fucking them for free!

Good luck!

[AmericanPi]

This is great input, thank you!

Can I ask a few more things.

Not to divulge your secret sauce but what kind of stuff should I have in my opener?

How direct do you have to be with expectations of sex? Like "I need to know if you're prepared to stay at my hotel. I'm not just looking to buy someone dinner?"

And what a generous but not over the top amount for date 1 in Mex City if you know? Would 150 bucks be good? 200? 300?

You def don't need a pic in your profile but be prepared to send one. Pretty much any girl you want to fuck on SA (non or semi pro) wants to know what you look like. But you don't have to broadcast it to the world. Just wait till she asks. I don't have a pic and have banged about 35 SA girlfriends over last two years, including a reg and a newbie just this week.

As far as ratios there is the way I usually play it and the way I sometimes do for a quickie.

First. I am picky about my type. So as I scroll a major city maybe 1 in 20 or less I will engage with. And I will send an opener. I've gotten pretty good at openers and I prob get about a 25-50% response rate. Most of those die quickly tho if a girl is not going to get on daily or every two days and engage in more than two words she's not going to work for me. Girls that engage in real-time conversation almost always being good.

Of the ones that respond to my open I'the guess about 1 in 10 makes it to a date. I am usually in a city for a few days and pick two girls to see and repeat with the best.

On occasion, I have spammed a lot of girls with "Going out to a nice dinner and drinks tonight. Join me?" And have been successful with that. Both were one night stands so far but both want to see me next time I'm in their town. So yeah that works too!

[AsianPursuits]

. At some point she says something that makes me respond "that would be great but I'm already taken". There is a bit of silence and she says "what do you mean your taken?" And I say "you know, married" not thinking a thing of it, and point out my wedding ring which has been in plain sight this whole evening.

In my mind I just assume that deep down the girl must know why guys are pay $xxx dollars to take them on a date.

[Steve 9696]

Can I ask, do you recommend that guys use photos on SA or can I catch enough game without making my face available?

Also, what's the ratio for you? How many reach outs do you think you need to make to land one solid date? Trying to figure out if I just spray and pray, or go selective?

You def don't need a pic in your profile but be prepared to send one. Pretty much any girl you want to fuck on SA (non or semi pro) wants to know what you look like. But you don't have to broadcast it to the world. Just wait till she asks. I don't have a pic and have banged about 35 SA girlfriends over last two years, including a reg and a newbie just this week.

As far as ratios there is the way I usually play it and the way I sometimes do for a quickie.

First. I am picky about my type. So as I scroll a major city maybe 1 in 20 or less I will engage with. And I will send an opener. I've gotten pretty good at openers and I prob get about a 25-50% response rate. Most of those die quickly tho — if a girl is not going to get on daily or every two days and engage in more than two words she's not going to work for me. Girls that engage in real-time conversation almost always being good.

Of the ones that respond to my open I'the guess about 1 in 10 makes it to a date. I am usually in a city for a few days and pick two girls to see and repeat with the best.

On occasion, I have spammed a lot of girls with "Going out to a nice dinner and drinks tonight. Join me?" And have been successful with that. Both were one night stands so far but both want to see me next time I'm in their town. So yeah that works too!

[The Cane]

Back in the room it was epic sex for a very long time. I was too liquored up to cum quickly so we sucked and fucked in every position possible. Gave her some nice DATY and fingering early on and she was a hot wet mess. Finished while making out in mish with full BBFSCIP. It was heavenly. Worth every penny of that birth control ask.

Pleasantly, and I don't get this enough from SA girls, she starts a nice wake-up BJ as the way to start the day. She wants the D bad though because she only BJs till I'm hard and mounts up Cowgirl within a minute. And man does she fuck the hell out of me. That aggressive Cowgirl where they lean over so the can really jam it in and out. She has two apparent medium Os as I just let her use me as her fuck toy.

And so ends my three day two girl bareback adventure and a study in contrasts between SA girls. Spent and satisfied.

On the birth control, so long as they do indeed use it LOL! My girl has her tubes tied so. And on being used like a sex toy, that's how my girl did me the other night from reverse cowgirl. She was picking those cheeks up and setting them down with a rough "whack, whack, whack, whack, whack"! I let her get all that dick she wanted until she had a "feminine nut", then I blew. Me and Steve. We be bareback fucking SA girls and shit. And so went another nice saga of the SA legend known as "Steve" hahahaha!

[The Cane]

Can I ask, do you recommend that guys use photos on SA or can I catch enough game without making my face available?

Also, what's the ratio for you? How many reach outs do you think you need to make to land one solid date? Trying to figure out if I just spray and pray, or go selective?

I have a pic that I keep private, and only show it to whoever I would like to versus everybody being able to see it.

[AmericanPi]

Can I ask, do you recommend that guys use photos on SA or can I catch enough game without making my face available?

Also, what's the ratio for you? How many reach outs do you think you need to make to land one solid date? Trying to figure out if I just spray and pray, or go selective?

[J Janni]

Let me put it differently.

You would struggle to get anyone for under 250,300 and upwards is the norm.

I don't doubt it. Have you seen the price of a pint in London?

Happily up North the girls are more my type and much more reasonable.

[DrainMaker]

Luckily I don't hang around London when I'm in the UK.

Besides which, 'decent' is a very subjective thing, which is why I refrain from all the talk of 6's and 7's and 9 and 10's that goes on here.

What I'm after from a seeking girl is not the glammed up Insta go style hottest girl in the nightclub, I want the pretty 18 year old supermarket checkout girl.

Let me put it differently.

You would struggle to get anyone for under 250,300 and upwards is the norm.