Seeking Arrangements

[DrainMaker]

I'm back in the UK in April. Unfortunately going to have to spend 18 days there before making my escape to the Phils or anywhere in South East Asia I can get to.

18 days. Conservatively, that's three girls I'm going to need to see to take the edge off.

So tempting to just pay the 100 for a seeking membership again and creampie some chavvy British teens.

Going rate for pro escorts is 100-150 per hour. Bad service, or not very hot girls.

Seeking girls are 150-200, plus 40-50 for a hotel. Multiple hours, no restrictions. Banged some British spinner teens last time, BBFSCIP.

Is it worth it for less than a month? Probably.

You would struggle to find any decent SA chicks for under 250 ppm in london.

[The Cane]

I could not find a phone number on their website.

When I was suspended, I received an email that had their telephone number in it. Unfortunately, I no longer have that email to be able to share the number with you. I understand the frustration. Went through it myself. In the end it was worth it. Me and my hot sugar baby had bareback sex again last Friday night. Ate out her asshole for the first time. Nutted inside her pussy. Try a Google search.

[J Janni]

I'm back in the UK in April. Unfortunately going to have to spend 18 days there before making my escape to the Phils or anywhere in South East Asia I can get to.

18 days. Conservatively, that's three girls I'm going to need to see to take the edge off.

So tempting to just pay the £100 for a seeking membership again and creampie some chavvy British teens.

Going rate for pro escorts is 100-150 per hour. Bad service, or not very hot girls.

Seeking girls are 150-200, plus 40-50 for a hotel. Multiple hours, no restrictions. Banged some British spinner teens last time, BBFSCIP.

Is it worth it for less than a month? Probably.

[AmericanPi]

Yes, I had the same thing happen. You need to call Customer Service and have them manually process the payment. Good luck getting anybody to answer the telephone!

I could not find a phone number on their website.

[AmericanPi]

So frustrating.

Created a SA account and tried to pay with prepaid Amex. Immediate account suspension. They said they don't take prepaid Amex and I could unfreeze it by submitting my ID. Uh. No.

Tried again with a prepaid Visa. Different account, different email. Immediate suspension.

Wtf! Anyone know what's going on here?

[PavanDude]

My SA account is getting suspended whenever I try to buy subscription. Anyone have the same issue.

Emailing Customer Service helped me resolve this. I was trying to buy a UK membership (I am in the UK now) using my Indian credit card that triggered the suspension.

[AsianPursuits]

Surprised to find this forum as I have been looking for other people's experiences on Seeking.com.

I have been a regular user of seeking on and off for the past three years. I always setup a new account, new payment and take a one month subscription. I know a month is enough for me in my local area.

In my area, Australia, conversation on the site has always had its fair share of PPM mentions, usually initiated by the girl. After about three weeks into my last subscription when I logged in I was promptly suspended due to discussing PPM. I thought it was unusual because even in the first week there would have been lots of PPM mentions. Anyway. I'll be back when I need to top up my prospect list.

The site is so addictive and consuming here. Within a day I was in bed with a legit former international beauty contestant.

Other exploits in this few weeks. Heaps of girls have had covid isolations which delayed a few meets. One girl I met it was her first day out of isolation. She just wanted to fucking anything, anybody and anywhere. That was a great experience.

Had one overnighter in a hotel. She had a couple of wines and was keen for anything. The condoms which she had requested stayed on the side table as she quickly declared she didn't like them anyway. Maybe the wine influenced that decision a little. Multiple pops over night and next morning. Paid her the agreed allowance and she left. She blocked me! OMG I felt used. I don't understand her generation (25 yo spinner). At least I always make some lame excuse and don't leave the girls hanging when I drop them.

Have another Asian mum whom catches up while the kids are at school.

Have another one of European descent, 28 yo single mum. Same deal, I need to be out before her son comes home from school.

I have found I need to be picky. I have wasted quite a lot of time on girls that are just never going to work out. I have learned to cull quickly. I need the girl to Host so I avoid the hotel fees and the restrictive check in / out timings. I also need girls that don't have a fulltime job. I know that rules out a lot of the talent but they are so hard to plan around. I also tried a few students at my local university but they invariably have share house and unable to host also.

In my profile description I chose not to put "Girl must host" as I think that would turn them off.

I'm enjoying reading of other people's experiences.

[SeekingHead]

SA is about relationships between older men and younger women. I have not been on Tinder, but I don't understand that to be the focus of Tinder at all. I'm sure it can and does happen, but if you want to maximize hooking up with much younger women, then I think sugar daddy sites would be the better way to go. If you can tolerate the knee-deep bullshit you have to wade through that is LOL! And, it definitely is expensive! I signed up for a three-month membership. At this point, I doubt that I will renew. I'm getting some numbers. Lots of numbers in fact. If I can build up a "practice" with a small stable of girls I'm fucking, that would be fine by me. No need to remain on SA.

I usually sign up for a month, get 4-6 girls to move to text then meet up with usually 2-4 of them for a lunch date. Out of those I will usually come to an arrangement with 75% of them usually $200 to $400 ppm. Currently I have 2 girls I meet up weekly with, one is a 23 year old spinner the other is a licensed CMT who does a 90 massage plus sex, which is $250 ppm. About every 3 months I will join up on SA & do tryouts to see if I want to replace the spinner with another one. The big benefits is all sex is bareback & no time watching, with the spinner it's basically a 3 hour date, she comes over for dinner, we have sex, smoke weed, goto the hot tub, come back in & have sex again.

[Oneminuteboy]

What happened to your relationship with her? Why and how did it end? Could be instructional for me.

Due to COVID we weren't able to meet up as frequent near the end. Both had situations where we were just about to meet and had to quarantine.
Had the last few times we met she didn't even want to be paid so the subject never arose. I helped pay for something which wasn't even half of the PPM we had agreed one time.

Then she had some family issue come up and didn't hear from her again.

It was a bit odd because before we were regularly chatting.

Steve summed it up in a great way.

Had another who I only met 2-3 times and could see she didn't like the lifestyle with the association of sex and money so "openly".

[WyattEarp]

There are a variety of innocuous ways it can end like she gets a better paying job or she realizes she is uncomfortable with this lifestyle (realizing it's sex for money or realizing that being out with an older man gets her the death stare both these have happened) but the single biggest thing I caution against is advancing money.

I of course know that paying ahead is a bad idea in P4 P but I am not talking about that here. What I am talking about is when you are fully engaged with a girl for a time you will grow to know her and like her deeply (despite her flaws) and yes, care about her. You will also grow closer to her personal life (if you don't specifically cordon this off). And as a result, when she gets in a money bind, you might advance her some funds. You are thinking "well we will meet up again and we'll even out". But this is not what happens. Instead it hurts the relationship. Not intentionally really but my experience is it's hard / impossible to get her out again if you advance her a PPM or two. It's not that she's a scammer. You know her better by that point I think they just need money and that feeling of "seeing you for free" when they could see someone else for money. Well it's no contest.

Anyhow it's happened a couple times. Usually can be healed with more money. LOL. But the idea of an advance against future dates def tends to kill things off. Least that is my experience.

I feel like I have complete access to the Tao of Steve. (That's not sarcasm. That's a compliment.).

[The Cane]

SA is more expensive than Tinder or Cupid. Is there any other difference between them? Is SA better in anything?

SA is about relationships between older men and younger women. I have not been on Tinder, but I don't understand that to be the focus of Tinder at all. I'm sure it can and does happen, but if you want to maximize hooking up with much younger women, then I think sugar daddy sites would be the better way to go. If you can tolerate the knee-deep bullshit you have to wade through that is LOL! And, it definitely is expensive! I signed up for a three-month membership. At this point, I doubt that I will renew. I'm getting some numbers. Lots of numbers in fact. If I can build up a "practice" with a small stable of girls I'm fucking, that would be fine by me. No need to remain on SA.

[The Cane]

Cane,

I get divorced and what I realize is that finding a hot woman without money is not hard. The hard part was actually getting them to realize I was not full of shit like everyone else. You would not believe how many women, even stunning ones, are dead ass broke. And that is the secret of SA. You meet women who can do amazing things in bed and outside and look amazing, but in the USA, they are all fuck ups. There will always be something you can not put your finger on but it is there: drugs, booze, inability to handle stress, cannot manage money ETC, but it will be there. The reason I went abroad was that I found the same women who looked great and were great in bed, but at least some were not screw ups. Someone finally asked me why I only went out with beautiful women. He had a point, but my response was simple, "Because I can. " So yeah, congrats on hooking up with one and getting her bare ETC but you can find another like her. I know you can. I just want to make sure you know that you can. One woman who was a stunner herself said, "Those witches are not going anywhere."

I get it. Totally! I'm old enough and dated long enough to know that broke, gorgeous girls are everywhere you look LOL! Also, I already know that the one that I'm with now is fucked up in some kind of way. Already drips and drabs have come out from her. Money management issues. Relationship issues. Depression over her circumstances. But, I don't care as I'm not interested in any kind of serious relationship with her. Never have been and never will be. And, she's not having my baby! So, that's that. And dude you don't have to tell me there's plenty of fish in the sea. I'm a monger remember? I just wish I'd had a man in my life when I was growing up who could really tell me what's what about dealing with women. Anyway, I'm working on setting up a meet and greet with another one this week. Younger, tighter, white, and blonde! Recent college grad. Yes Lord! My man Steve! LOLOLOL!

[The Cane]

My SA account is getting suspended whenever I try to buy subscription. Anyone have the same issue.

Yes, I had the same thing happen. You need to call Customer Service and have them manually process the payment. Good luck getting anybody to answer the telephone!

[Igor54]

My SA account is getting suspended whenever I try to buy subscription. Anyone have the same issue.

Where are you located? I am in Canada. I tried to create an account and it didn't work.

[XViking]

SA is more expensive than Tinder or Cupid. Is there any other difference between them? Is SA better in anything?