Seeking Arrangements

[XViking]

SA is more expensive than Tinder or Cupid. Is there any other difference between them? Is SA better in anything?

[Nounce]

...Anyhow it's happened a couple times. Usually can be healed with more money. LOL. But the idea of an advance against future dates def tends to kill things off. Least that is my experience.

If you have the budget, just give it without expecting anything in return. My buddy recently told me how much money he gave to a girl. I don't want to mention the number here because it would sound ridiculous. It worked out well for him. I know about it for more than a year because I said I would chip in to help too. At that time, my only advice to him was don't try to find the truth and don't expect any thing in return. The girl now is back to her own country. She and her family are set for the rest of her life because the money she has received. It's a long story so this is the short version.

The reason I did not stop him was because he saw me did something similar in a smaller scale and that's what he told me. LOL.

[Elvis 2008]

What happened to your relationship with her? Why and how did it end? Could be instructional for me.

Cane,

When I first started this, I was married. I had two women I would see once every 2 weeks. They were both gorgeous and given how enamored you are with your one, I would keep looking for a second one.

Early on, I thought it was amazing. Both women were stunning. Guys would whistle and stare at both of them. I was married, beaten down, and convinced that I could never have such women like that in my life when the truth is I could. I thought they were just interested in my money.

I get divorced and what I realize is that finding a hot woman without money is not hard. The hard part was actually getting them to realize I was not full of shit like everyone else. You would not believe how many women, even stunning ones, are dead ass broke.

I paid $400 a meet and saw the women every two weeks until I divorced. Then I was interested in others. I got more and got them for less. Eventually, I gave up on my two beauties.

I had a friend I saw in another state. Eventually, I would bring my women out to meet him. There was a married one and he said, "It is too bad she is married. She was the best one. " Later on, he told me that he thought one other girl might turn out okay but the rest were trash, and he was right. The one that "might be okay" was really the only one I missed a little. I did miss another girl I met a little, but I knew she was crazy.

And that is the secret of SA. You meet women who can do amazing things in bed and outside and look amazing, but in the USA, they are all fuck ups. There will always be something you can not put your finger on but it is there: drugs, booze, inability to handle stress, cannot manage money ETC, but it will be there. The only normal girl I had as a SB was not on SA and from another country where screwing for money was not the scarlet A it is in the USA.

If you are married, you will take your little sips of sex like a man wandering the desert finds an oasis. It will be enough. However, if you can see her a lot, eventually, you will want to try others. That amazing sex you just had will become routine. The women will typically give less and expect the same $$ or even more. They will have these money emergencies, and you help them out and a second later it is forgotten.

Right now, you remind me a little of the guy Jeff at the 9:49 mark in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_aUwbt5Pos.

The reason I went abroad was that I found the same women who looked great and were great in bed, but at least some were not screwups.

The first two or three SBs were with condoms. Then it was like I do not accept anything but going bare and I did not even have to say it, the women somehow knew they just had to go bare.

Someone finally asked me why I only went out with beautiful women. He had a point, but my response was simple, "Because I can. " So yeah, congrats on hooking up with one and getting her bare ETC but you can find another like her. I know you can. I just want to make sure you know that you can. One woman who was a stunner herself said, "Those witches are not going anywhere."

[The Cane]

But the single biggest thing I caution against is advancing money.

Already thought about this, and it's one thing that won't happen with me. I'm very, very firm about it. Been there and done that a long, long time ago with "regular" girlfriends who start feeling entitled. They "deserve" it they start telling themselves. Not going to happen. There will be no advances of funds. And if that causes things to end, then so be it. I'm a monger for crying out loud! Walking away from some pussy is damn easy for me. Because I know there's some new pussy to be had somewhere else. I said NSA (no strings attached). And I meant it too! And a deal's a deal. It's $250 per meet, about twice a month, and that's final! We're not rewriting the contract.

[Steve 9696]

What happened to your relationship with her? Why and how did it end? Could be instructional for me.

There are a variety of innocuous ways it can end like she gets a better paying job or she realizes she is uncomfortable with this lifestyle (realizing it's sex for money or realizing that being out with an older man gets her the death stare — both these have happened) but the single biggest thing I caution against is advancing money.

I of course know that paying ahead is a bad idea in P4 P but I am not talking about that here. What I am talking about is when you are fully engaged with a girl for a time you will grow to know her and like her deeply (despite her flaws) and yes, care about her. You will also grow closer to her personal life (if you don't specifically cordon this off). And as a result, when she gets in a money bind, you might advance her some funds. You are thinking "well we will meet up again and we'll even out". But this is not what happens. Instead it hurts the relationship. Not intentionally really but my experience is it's hard / impossible to get her out again if you advance her a PPM or two. It's not that she's a scammer. You know her better by that point — I think they just need money and that feeling of "seeing you for free" when they could see someone else for money. Well it's no contest.

Anyhow it's happened a couple times. Usually can be healed with more money. LOL. But the idea of an advance against future dates def tends to kill things off. Least that is my experience.

[Raj1587]

My SA account is getting suspended whenever I try to buy subscription. Anyone have the same issue.

[The Cane]

You do not want to seek the arrangement for little cane do you LOL! Bareback can be risky in the nation where they can track you down legally LOL! And laws and public sentiment in USA is harsh! Harsh, that is the word!

Again, her tubes are tied. I had a Canadian girlfriend like this a long time ago. I could comfortably sperm inside of her without the either of us ever having to worry about an unwanted pregnancy. I was also taking her in the ass. Raw "chili" dog LOLOLOL! Have not progressed to anal sex yet with my sugar baby. Don't know if we ever will. We'll see. But I'm definitely not interacting with her like one of my tutes. More like a girlfriend. You enjoy your girlfriend. But you use a tute.

[The Cane]

Nice, congrats. When you find one where it connects and the PPM / allowance is low it feels like winning the golden ticket.

I had one in the Netherlands for a few months. I still miss her till this day. She just loved sex and give me a BBBJ for 20-30 min straight.

What happened to your relationship with her? Why and how did it end? Could be instructional for me.

[Oneminuteboy]

Now girl number two? It was bingo! Late 20's, slim, pretty long blonde hair, big round blue eyes, an attractive face, fair white skin with just the right amount of pink in it that I love so, so much, luscious milk white titties, and a nice round butt. YAY-UH! We met for dinner, and the sexual attraction between us was instant and obvious. I mean, I was getting a boner under the table looking this girl and imagining myself inside of her! After dinner, there was hugging and kissing on the lips. You know you're up in there then! But, I chose not to push it and try to have sex with her that same night. No, we were both new at this, and I felt it was best for us to end it for the night on a great note and think about it, and pick it up again if we both felt it was right. We continued to communicate by text, and agreed to get together again in about a week. We agreed to go to an event together, after which time we would have lunch and come back to my place. To make a long story short, we ended up fucking BBFSCIP! That's right no condoms, and I "nutted" inside of her! It's what the both of us wanted from the very start (she admitted that she wanted to fuck me on the first date too). Oh my God Steve! My boy Steve! WTF?

Now don't worry. Before we went there (bareback sex), it was established that she has solid birth control. She can't get pregnant. And we're both clean. So going forward, we will continue to not use condoms, and The Cane will get to enjoy "multiple shots" inside of his new, attractive, blonde, trophy, sugar baby! Without having to worry about impregnating her! I'm sure you guys want to know what the terms of the "arrangement" are. We agreed to meet at least twice a month on a pay-per-meet basis of $250 per meet! For the tier 1 market that I live in, that's a steal! Most of the attractive white girls start out asking for between $500 and $1,000 per meet. With respect to Abby, I could not have asked for anything better. She's hot and has just the look that I like, the price is right, and I'm doing her bareback with no need to pull out. Nut inside! Oh my God! Going into this, I felt like I could have some success. But, I didn't expect so much so soon! I mean, I met Abby within the first couple of weeks on the site! Now, that said, at this point I'm still convinced that after three months on the site, that's going to be enough for me. You have to do way, way too much work wading through knee-deep bullshit to find an absolute diamond like Abby. But, I'm here to add to the others who have said that Seeking can work. You're damn skippy it can work! If you're willing to put in the work (it's a lot). Steve! Got damn! My man! Steve!

Over and out until my February report.

Nice, congrats. When you find one where it connects and the PPM / allowance is low it feels like winning the golden ticket.

I had one in the Netherlands for a few months. I still miss her till this day. She just loved sex and give me a BBBJ for 20-30 min straight.

[Mr Ho]

Her tubes are tied after having some kids.

You do not want to seek the arrangement for little cane do you LOL! Bareback can be risky in the nation where they can track you down legally LOL! And laws and public sentiment in USA is harsh! Harsh, that is the word!

[MiamiBoy1]

Hey guys, Could we all try to tag a city or country for more reference in our posts? Because Info from USA vs. S. America vs. Europe are much different. I know I sometimes don't. It does help.

So a recent date here in Medellin turns out to be a tourism student. Funny as hell with amazing nipples. We will continue to meet and she has friends. The best kind of introduction. I will post more with photos, was just killing time before a nap. LOL.

Let's catch up. Your inbox is full.

[DonCarlos1234]

Hey guys, Could we all try to tag a city or country for more reference in our posts? Because Info from USA vs. S. America vs. Europe are much different. I know I sometimes don't. It does help.

So a recent date here in Medellin turns out to be a tourism student. Funny as hell with amazing nipples. We will continue to meet and she has friends. The best kind of introduction. I will post more with photos, was just killing time before a nap. LOL.

[RonhinCruz]

I went to Ecuador in August mostly to go to the Galapagos but had a few stop over days in Guayaquil and then a surf trip planned to Montañita. After my success in Nicaragua I spun up SA in hopes of finding a girl to take out to Montañita with me. I had only a little time for meet and greets and would have to get lucky to find a girl that would say yes and then take the risk of traveling with them with limited experience.

My strategy in this situation was straight honesty in the profile and messaging girls about what I was looking for. Messaged every girl that at all appealed to me. I corresponded with about 12, got 4 to WhatsApp and met 2 in person.

One I took with me to Montañita the other ended up in my hotel room between other mongering activities. Now these two girls ended up being more GND types. They were maybe 6's. One was mid 20's working in a nonprofit and when we met in a park for coffee she was nervous because she didn't come all made up and with heels. She had an average face and a few extra pounds but still young and healthy. I like. Diversit in my women as long as they aren't gordita. She spoke english and we had a lovely chat. She agreed to come over to my place later as she had something she had to do like a normal person. She came over and though nervous we had some wine and started making out. The problem was I had a WG arriving in short order and as it got hot and heavy her inhibitions were down and she wanted me to fuck her. I made a call and told her "let's wait until next time" and shuttled her out the door.

Based in all our convo and chemistry she agreed to come with me to Montañita for 3 days. We took the bus together and I booked a nice cool surf hostel where we showed up as a couple. It turns out that this girl was highly sexual. If I even touched her she immediately wanted full sex. It was like having a sex vending machine. I would wake up, go surf come back kiss her on the cheek and she is pulling me into bed. I would brush but her in the apartment and we were then making out. She was shy. Even after we had sex for 2 days multiple times she still was shy about me seeing her naked. Turns out she was bisexual and had been with a girlfriend and just gotten out of a relationship. It really ended up like having a girl next door girlfriend for 3 days that was just really enjoying sex. We still stay in touch and she talks about the magical 3 days we spent together. Just a completely different experience and feeling than the WG sessions I also did. Personally I will trade off on the looks scale for this sort of genuine experi nice in a heartbeat.

Second girl was a younger college student. Also a 6 but young and inexperienced. Nervous. I'm took her to breakfast, met again for dinner when we went and made out in my apartment. Then when I came back to fly out we met again for dinner and she agreed to come up to the room. She had one other SA relationship with an older Ecuadorian guy that would just take her out to dinner and I think she had sex with him once. I would guess based on our interaction she had sex maybe with one or two other people, probably bad sex in high school. So everything we did was pretty new to her. I don't think anyone had really gone down on her before or if so not well. She was giving head and pushed her deeper until she gagged. That was new for her and she was trying to figure out if she liked it and was also worried about what I thought. So we did 3 rounds of this through out the evening with me just softly pushing her boundaries. A little finger in the ass. A little light slap on the ass. She loved it all. I stay in touch with her too and about every few weeks she sends me a video of her playing with her breasts or pussy unprompted.

These are the sort of different experiences I have managed to track down on SA. I think I have been lucky in terms of the efficiency with which I found these TBH. I don't mind meeting an connecting with these girls on a somewhat more real level even if things don't work out. A little sincerity seems to go a long way. I am in my mid forties, been married for 25 years, and am just a nice guy. They seem to respond to that. Neither of these girls asked for anything other than me paying for the trip, dinners etc. I think I may have given them some generous taxi money or something but honestly I remembered feeling that in both cases it would have felt awkward to them to "pay the". Neither saw themselves that way and seemed to be using SA more like a dating site.

So hope this is helpful.

[The Cane]

Cane, I have not used SA in the USA since like 2018, but the women I got were down with BBFS. Thing is that I chose to cum outside. Even with pulling out, there were 2 incidents. Neither girl was malicious. Both were cool but after that, I decided that I had to be in charge of the birth control and watch the girls literally swallow the plan be, watch the hormone be injected, or get a record of the implant.

So yeah BBFSCIP was too much of a risk for me, and I had incidents. Glad you found it, and it is hard to get a gal in the USA on SA, more than now than ever, but she is not the only fish in the sea. Just be careful. You do not want to go through what I did.

Her tubes are tied after having some kids.

[The Cane]

Since Op mentioned the US, call me a cynic, but I think American women, regardless of whichever race or ethnicity, are really not worth the trouble. Who is to say that the girl whom Op had BBFSCIP had no other motives. She might have believed that Op is rich from his SA profile. Maybe she wants to get impregnated and give birth. Now Op is on the hook for that child support in the US.

Playing the devil's advocate here. This may suddenly look very expensive.

You don't have to be an American woman to have ulterior motives. Indeed, I would say that the risks would be even higher dealing with a poor girl from a developing country with no hope. My sugar baby is middle class with a job looking for some adventure and a little extra help. There are a lot of girls on there just like that. They aren't looking to have any babies. Besides, most of them are actually intelligent and not stupid enough to believe every guy's claim about how much money he has. They don't take stuff like that at face value, and of course they shouldn't. I do know that my sugar baby was really horny. She hadn't had any dick in her for awhile and needed some. That definitely helped LOL!