Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

First let me preface this by saying that I've grown to appreciate fat girls a bit more in recent years. They are not my standard diet. But when forced to go that route I am always pleasantly surprised. They do tend to try harder and so I've found amazing DFK and BBBJ from all the fat girls I've had. This was no exception.

So my story starts with a mega fail. I'the found a definite hottie and we had good chat. There were a couple little like orange flags but I decided to proceed thinking — What's the worst that could happen? She could not show up. And indeed I received the elaborate last minute money scam, which I had not seen in several years.

We had planned the meetup and she had said she was coming from her moms. She had previously established that she's been sick for a while (orange flag). But I am literally at the restaurant when she texts that she needs money for her moms medicine and she can't leave until she takes it. Biatch! Fortunately I had kinda seen it coming and confirmed my favorite strip club in the US is about five minutes away so I just sighed a deep sigh and blocked her. I remain shocked that women will do something so shitty as to engage that deeply and then run the scam. I'm sure fools fall for it daily. This is the suckass part of Seeking.

So going to eat and head to the strip club when I think — hmmm. There was that heavy girl, Sky, who I back burnered. Super long shot but I text her "Hey you up for some last minute fun" and ten seconds later I get a "let's do it" message back.

Some texting back and forth and agreed price and an hour later we are at dinner. She's def a fat girl. No two ways about it. But she has a pretty face and is really pleasant company. So we bop to the hotel.

In room she is everything you want in a girl (other than her size). Great DFK. Sliding to her knees to submissively unbuckle and undress you. Soft wet BBBJ with doe eyes and slobbery BLS. Just top notch. Once she's blown me a good long time we move to Steve 2 where she continues to blow me as I finger her. She def enjoys this so much so that she has to pause sucking me from time to time as she has some waves of pleasure. We must do this for another 15-20 minutes. Heavenly.

Eventually it's time for some fucking and we do mish and the Steve. It's really quite good. For the finish I put her back on BJ and she does some amazing full service BJ — meaning an amazing integration of sloppy ball licking, shaft licking, and slow and sensual doe eyes shaft work. Really really good and she gets the goods.

Super nice girl and great in the bedroom. And so nice to score that last minute after the biatch scam.

Fatties are def not my first choice because I always seek (and often find!) the unicorn. But for DFK and BBBJ and no real chance of bait and switch they can be a solid choice. At least for me. Proven once again.

[GuiGui123]

Huh? Food and girls are similar? Aside from the odd Sinaloan, I doubt I could ever mistake a Mexican as a Russian. I've said a billion times that I have a slav fetish and I am fully aware of the fact the the best looking girls in Mexico are from Sinaloa but similar they are not. Aside from looks, most slavs are very hard nuts to crack whereas most Mexican girls take you as you are and are easier to talk to. And the food is night and day different (love both BTW). Unless you were talking about prices and I missed that but I doubt it. I haven't need to Moscow in more time than I care to admit but unless prices have come down a lot they've got to be an order of magnitude different.

He might be referring to the fact that Mexico City is flooded with Russian agencies. During my trip I tried a Russian escort and she was as pretty as the Russians I banged in Europe.

[FilthyBeaver]

Huh? Food and girls are similar? Aside from the odd Sinaloan, I doubt I could ever mistake a Mexican as a Russian. I've said a billion times that I have a slav fetish and I am fully aware of the fact the the best looking girls in Mexico are from Sinaloa but similar they are not. Aside from looks, most slavs are very hard nuts to crack whereas most Mexican girls take you as you are and are easier to talk to. And the food is night and day different (love both BTW). Unless you were talking about prices and I missed that but I doubt it. I haven't need to Moscow in more time than I care to admit but unless prices have come down a lot they've got to be an order of magnitude different.

I also just got back from CDMX, so much fun, great food and the women. Definitely not Moscow, which is my favorite, but pretty close. Way better weather, but the Night Life is no comparison to Russia, Food and girls are similar.

Be very cautious at the Restaurants and Bars it can get expensive quickly. Always check the prices and order, do not let the girls order, or you might be in for a Huge Bill.

[DramaFree11]

I have had amazing experiences on SA in Mexico, Peru, and Colombia but am now looking to expand in South America.

I like to session 1 or 2 times per day at my Airbnb for a week or so, so I got to keep it under $150 to curtail my addiction.

The girls I like are 18-23, no plastic, non pros, feminine, I don't care if they are dark or light, and they don't have to be models, I am cool with 7's and 8's LOL.

BA and SP seem too expensive for me, maybe the 2nd tier cities in either country or anyone ever been to Asuncion Paraguay look off the beaten path?

What new city should I try?

Good luck with that. I think the days of $150, are long gone. It can happen, but I'll take a lot of work and some luck. I do not think you'll be able to get anything High End at that price point but.

[LivingFossil]

I have had amazing experiences on SA in Mexico, Peru, and Colombia but am now looking to expand in South America.

I like to session 1 or 2 times per day at my Airbnb for a week or so, so I got to keep it under $150 to curtail my addiction.

The girls I like are 18-23, no plastic, non pros, feminine, I don't care if they are dark or light, and they don't have to be models, I am cool with 7's and 8's LOL.

BA and SP seem too expensive for me, maybe the 2nd tier cities in either country or anyone ever been to Asuncion Paraguay look off the beaten path?

What new city should I try?

[DramaFree11]

Yeah just came back from CDMX (see small report in my profile). I ended up finding an amazing civie there before I could really explore Seeking.

I will thinking about Madrid and Barcelona, Spain should have some real talent.

I also just got back from CDMX, so much fun, great food and the women. Definitely not Moscow, which is my favorite, but pretty close. Way better weather, but the Night Life is no comparison to Russia, Food and girls are similar.

Be very cautious at the Restaurants and Bars it can get expensive quickly. Always check the prices and order, do not let the girls order, or you might be in for a Huge Bill.

[AmericanPi]

What were the best cities for SA in your experience? So far London and Medellin treated me well, wondering if there are other cities you guys recommend.

Honestly I've seen that city size is the most important factor. The largest cities simply have the biggest pools plain and simple. So you'll always see London Madrid Cdmx Berlin LA NY Bogota etc show up when you ask. It's nothing more than the pools are so large. When you ge to cities in the hundreds of thousands there just isn't critical mass enough of this sort of thing.

[GuiGui123]

Madrid is amazing if you like Latinas. Pretty much every girl is worth chatting up. LOL. Also where I found my legit 10. Mexico City has a pile of hot girls as well. Not as inexpensive as you might think tho be.

Yeah just came back from CDMX (see small report in my profile). I ended up finding an amazing civie there before I could really explore Seeking.

I will thinking about Madrid and Barcelona, Spain should have some real talent.

[Steve 9696]

What were the best cities for SA in your experience? So far London and Medellin treated me well, wondering if there are other cities you guys recommend.

Madrid is amazing if you like Latinas. Pretty much every girl is worth chatting up. LOL. Also where I found my legit 10. Mexico City has a pile of hot girls as well. Not as inexpensive as you might think tho be.

[GuiGui123]

What were the best cities for SA in your experience? So far London and Medellin treated me well, wondering if there are other cities you guys recommend.

[Steve 9696]

It's not shyness.

That said I have found little correlation between this sort of text discourse and how a girl "performs" when she shows up.

I think most super hot seeking girls field so many inquiries that it's just fatiguing to give every guy the honor of more detailed responses. I'm sure most inquiries end up in cheapskates and girls think they wasted their time and don't want to do the first act performance until they know they're speaking to an actually well capitalized guy.

I try to get to the point I'm quoting an arrangement as soon as practical so it's clear I'm serious and need them at attention.

Yeah even tho I love long distance courting, this week I've been saying I'm going out later this week and do they want to come. And very quick and direct hits. I do think they tired of spending lots of time. So quick payback is attractive.

[AmericanPi]

Any thoughts, ideas on handling shy girls?

I am chatting one up, we moved to text. She stays about 150 kms away from me making it a little challenge to schedule. Pics are pretty (of course, in person might turn out to be a dud), seems like a decent girl. No chat about money yet. Neither have I spoken about sex. I know though that she has had one arrangement before with intimacy.

The challenge is her respones are usually one word / line. A bit difficult to keep the conversation going.

So, why am I investing time? Pics look solid 8. A previous experience of such one line responder turned out to be a cracker in bed once we met. Advantage there was she was hardly 25 kms away. We met within a week of moving to text. Here it has been 3 weeks of texting so far.

Note that she is not jumping on a call either.

It's not shyness.

That said I have found little correlation between this sort of text discourse and how a girl "performs" when she shows up.

I think most super hot seeking girls field so many inquiries that it's just fatiguing to give every guy the honor of more detailed responses. I'm sure most inquiries end up in cheapskates and girls think they wasted their time and don't want to do the first act performance until they know they're speaking to an actually well capitalized guy.

I try to get to the point I'm quoting an arrangement as soon as practical so it's clear I'm serious and need them at attention.

[Steve 9696]

Any thoughts, ideas on handling shy girls?

I am chatting one up, we moved to text. She stays about 150 kms away from me making it a little challenge to schedule. Pics are pretty (of course, in person might turn out to be a dud), seems like a decent girl. No chat about money yet. Neither have I spoken about sex. I know though that she has had one arrangement before with intimacy.

The challenge is her respones are usually one word / line. A bit difficult to keep the conversation going.

So, why am I investing time? Pics look solid 8. A previous experience of such one line responder turned out to be a cracker in bed once we met. Advantage there was she was hardly 25 kms away. We met within a week of moving to text. Here it has been 3 weeks of texting so far.

Note that she is not jumping on a call either.

Sounds like you have as much experience as anyone here, having bedded a one liner. I don't have time for them. I even say in my bio if you reply with one word reply's and don't engage in conversation then we aren't a match.

[Gfefan]

Any thoughts, ideas on handling shy girls?

I am chatting one up, we moved to text. She stays about 150 kms away from me making it a little challenge to schedule. Pics are pretty (of course, in person might turn out to be a dud), seems like a decent girl. No chat about money yet. Neither have I spoken about sex. I know though that she has had one arrangement before with intimacy.

The challenge is her respones are usually one word / line. A bit difficult to keep the conversation going.

So, why am I investing time? Pics look solid 8. A previous experience of such one line responder turned out to be a cracker in bed once we met. Advantage there was she was hardly 25 kms away. We met within a week of moving to text. Here it has been 3 weeks of texting so far.

Note that she is not jumping on a call either.

[FilthyBeaver]

If they catfish me I'm done. Believe it or not, it's only happened once. Every girl I've ever actually met was as good or better looking in person. I once had a girl setup for meet and greet at a local restaurant. Her pics were at least 5 years younger than her. I was really turned off. On top of that she asked to be compensated for our initial meeting to which I said no. I sat through dinner with her because I'm open to giving up a little standard on my looks if they have a brain or are interesting and she wasn't. Wasted evening, wasted dinner.

Along with the other thread I find most sites unreliable which is why I like to shop in person if looking for a pro. The only defense against older pics and filters is a video call or actual meeting and I'm not a fan of video calls. On seeking it just adds to the slog.

If they ask you for a number before meeting, lets say they ask you for 500 usd and you agree. But when you meet her, she doesn't look nearly as good as her pictures. Do you just call it off or do you tell her how it is and say she's only worth 300?

Yes, it sounds like you are much more price insensitive than I. If I had your money, I think I would just stay stateside and work seeking there.