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[Steve 9696]

Inflation affects everything including pussy. I remember grandma saying she could get a whole bag of candy for 3 cents. Every place I've ever mongered has gone downhill over the years. Thailand used to be a mecca for what I'm looking for (what Thai guys want, tiny spinners with white skin). They are a dying breed as are the venues they're found at. Gentrification has all but decimated the soapy scene in Bangkok where a girl far away from family could feel safe in the house and everything online is so photoshopped that the only thing you can believe is the price.

I've been doing seeking for about 4 years in a tier one coastal city so there's no shortage of hotties but I am seeing absurd profiles that say platonic and other nonsense of the like. I guess if you're 80 and can't get it up it may work for you but those girls ate just plain delusional.

I've stumbled upon the fact that Jakarta seems to be loaded with low priced hotties in clubs like Classic. Like Bangkok used to be. Very active thread here. I hope to sample soon and will report back to my Seeking buds. Let me know if anyone gets there first!

[AmericanPi]

lUnder 21 can't drink at the restaurant and yes they get carded so I wrote that off.

Had a date with an 18 year old a while back in the 909 (people in so-cal will know it). Interesting twist: I was surprised how much less expensive the bill was. Minor side benefit.

[FilthyBeaver]

Inflation affects everything including pussy. I remember grandma saying she could get a whole bag of candy for 3 cents. Every place I've ever mongered has gone downhill over the years. Thailand used to be a mecca for what I'm looking for (what Thai guys want, tiny spinners with white skin). They are a dying breed as are the venues they're found at. Gentrification has all but decimated the soapy scene in Bangkok where a girl far away from family could feel safe in the house and everything online is so photoshopped that the only thing you can believe is the price.

I've been doing seeking for about 4 years in a tier one coastal city so there's no shortage of hotties but I am seeing absurd profiles that say platonic and other nonsense of the like. I guess if you're 80 and can't get it up it may work for you but those girls ate just plain delusional.

I'm on a long trip in the Midwest (in a city like St. Louis, Denver, etc.). I decided to check out SA after many years of not being super active on it. Wow, the scene has changed a lot. Way, way fewer SBs, and way, way worse quality. There are more SBs in their 30's and 40's than in their 20's, and the fact that almost everyone lies about their age makes this even more astonishing. And the new wishlist thing is a turnoff.

About nine years ago, I was super active on SA, and in about a dozen USA cities, ranging from large cities like San Francisco, Seattle, etc. , to smaller cities like Portland, Providence, Rochester, etc. , and it was great.

So, has SA gone downhill in the USA, or does it just take more skill to navigate it?

[Steve 9696]

I'm on a long trip in the Midwest (in a city like St. Louis, Denver, etc.). I decided to check out SA after many years of not being super active on it. Wow, the scene has changed a lot. Way, way fewer SBs, and way, way worse quality. There are more SBs in their 30's and 40's than in their 20's, and the fact that almost everyone lies about their age makes this even more astonishing. And the new wishlist thing is a turnoff.

About nine years ago, I was super active on SA, and in about a dozen USA cities, ranging from large cities like San Francisco, Seattle, etc. , to smaller cities like Portland, Providence, Rochester, etc. , and it was great.

So, has SA gone downhill in the USA, or does it just take more skill to navigate it?

Nice to see quite a few threads rolling in here and welcome back MW. Midwestern is the OG Seeking dude and originator of this forum. I remember when it was pretty much just MW and me talking into the void a few years back. LOL.

Yes MW Seeking in the states really bites compared to rest of world. But it's the only game in town. You will really have to be on constantly and weed and feed like crazy. Unfortunately prices suck too. Even after and exhausting and exhaustive search If you pull a quality girl for 500 you are shooting par for the course. 400 is a tough sell and below that is likely not happening. If you aren't here long I suggest the Steve spam. "Going out to a nice dinner and drinks tonight. Join me?" This has worked several times with great results actually a few times in the Midwest!

In going bareback I've prob done it more than is wise but I always pull out. At my age my shot is about 1/2 inch LOL but I pull out anyhow except with girls I know well and trust are on BC. I have gone raw twice with pros which I don't recommend but I'm both cases when I was hard to finish they mounted up raw. Actually I've had that happen four times, but only two were pros. I do get tested from time to time. There is very little I can catch that isn't curable these days. But obv each has our own tolerance.

On age I think I am the oldest here, more than a decade older than most of you, but pass for much younger. I date exclusively 21-25 and it's no problem at all. My mistress I met when she was 23 and she turns 26 soon. I actually enjoy her world that is so different from mine. Of course she's unique and will even introduce me to her friends as her boyfriend. LOL. But def 21-25. Under 21 can't drink at the restaurant and yes they get carded so I wrote that off. And over 25 I had a bad series of fails where I couldn't close the sex deal night 1 with that age group. So I swore off over 25. I did make an exception one time and get got back to the room and she wouldn't let me past second base. WTF? So it's 21-25 for me. And if she is 23 with a nose ring we are def going to be a thing!

Heading on an epic trip soon and I prefer the club scene when traveling internationally. So I won't be needing Seeking much tho I do have two hotties lined up in an area that doesn't have a good club scene. I'll keep you posted!

[Midwestern]

I'm on a long trip in the Midwest (in a city like St. Louis, Denver, etc.). I decided to check out SA after many years of not being super active on it. Wow, the scene has changed a lot. Way, way fewer SBs, and way, way worse quality. There are more SBs in their 30's and 40's than in their 20's, and the fact that almost everyone lies about their age makes this even more astonishing. And the new wishlist thing is a turnoff.

About nine years ago, I was super active on SA, and in about a dozen USA cities, ranging from large cities like San Francisco, Seattle, etc. , to smaller cities like Portland, Providence, Rochester, etc. , and it was great.

So, has SA gone downhill in the USA, or does it just take more skill to navigate it?

[FilthyBeaver]

In the interest of full disclosure one did contact me and tell me she tested positive for one of the lesser stds (that can be abated by pill or shot). I tested negative but lesson learned. She told me she had an iud but that assumes I believed her. Bottom line is I was stupid on multiple fronts. Full stop.

I am less worried about pregnancy. But the cleanness.

I have a few variables I look for but nothing is fool proof. General hygiene, likelihood of she sleeping around random (which is high for a seeking girl anyway), if she asks for condom (I see that as a good sign), her test reports (hoping she doesn't fake it).

Even after these, if she is not on BC of any form, I don't dip bare. Even if she is on BC, I pull out and spray on tummy, ass, face. Wherever she wants it.

My CIP is reserved for my top 3 only. And I have known them for 3 years now.

I don't have ED without (in fact, cialis did not give me any marked difference. Rather killed my orgasm) but with condom I hardly want 2nd round. Without, I usually take her for 3 or 4 rounds in a single night. And, they love it. I love it. Strangely with meds, I don't feel like doing the 2nd.

[FilthyBeaver]

I like the build up / date so I want to be able to have a drink with them and I take them to places guys their own age couldn't dream of. I stop the search at 33 but only ever saw one that was 32. She was so bat shit crazy it never went anywhere. My sweet spot seems to be 23-27 but my current is on the high range of that and I've no plans to replace her. She still does it for me.

Curious how you all decide your age targets relative to your own age.

I am 46. I go for 18-23. Almost never older.

Rationale: little in common but the age at which I can go that young is limited. It's possible to bang a 18 year old when you're 60 but it's harder. I figure I'll age up as I age up and enjoy this now. Plus I say I'm 39 and I doubt 18-23 year olds know what a 39 year old really looks like relative to 46 and I'm not bad looking.

What about y'all's?

[Gfefan]

I am 41. My sweet spot is 24 to 32. They usually have a relatively good head on shoulder and are less distracted on phone. A bit more realistic in life with shit thrown their way.

I have had 2 18's. Body was great but sex was blah. One 23, on-going. She is matured for her age (likely moving to CIP next week).

I have had one 38 in the US. Great sex. Including one in the car as we couldn't keep us off each other. Supposed to be just a meet and greet. We hit it off so well that it was like college days. No PPM. We met three times and then fizzled off.

Curious how you all decide your age targets relative to your own age.

I am 46. I go for 18-23. Almost never older.

Rationale: little in common but the age at which I can go that young is limited. It's possible to bang a 18 year old when you're 60 but it's harder. I figure I'll age up as I age up and enjoy this now. Plus I say I'm 39 and I doubt 18-23 year olds know what a 39 year old really looks like relative to 46 and I'm not bad looking.

What about y'all's?

[Gfefan]

I am less worried about pregnancy. But the cleanness.

I have a few variables I look for but nothing is fool proof. General hygiene, likelihood of she sleeping around random (which is high for a seeking girl anyway), if she asks for condom (I see that as a good sign), her test reports (hoping she doesn't fake it).

Even after these, if she is not on BC of any form, I don't dip bare. Even if she is on BC, I pull out and spray on tummy, ass, face. Wherever she wants it.

My CIP is reserved for my top 3 only. And I have known them for 3 years now.

I don't have ED without (in fact, cialis did not give me any marked difference. Rather killed my orgasm) but with condom I hardly want 2nd round. Without, I usually take her for 3 or 4 rounds in a single night. And, they love it. I love it. Strangely with meds, I don't feel like doing the 2nd.

Little head thinking for the big head. I've not had issues with condoms my entire life but as I'm aging I get ED problems every once in a while that pills don't fix. In my experience, if they really like you they'll go bare especially if it's not working with condom first. I have never asked for bareback up front. And FYI I get tested every time I do it and have thus far avoided anything negative.

I'm a prime target for an 18 year child support meal ticket so I'd like to think I'm extra careful but I can be as dumb as anyone else when my brain isn't in charge.

[DramaFree11]

Curious how you all decide your age targets relative to your own age.

I am 46. I go for 18-23. Almost never older.

Rationale: little in common but the age at which I can go that young is limited. It's possible to bang a 18 year old when you're 60 but it's harder. I figure I'll age up as I age up and enjoy this now. Plus I say I'm 39 and I doubt 18-23 year olds know what a 39 year old really looks like relative to 46 and I'm not bad looking.

What about y'all's?

Ages does not matter to me. I look at there picture first and then go from there. Then it involves personality, honesty, obviously looks, likes to have fun and then are they a freak in bed. They get bonus points if they are on-time or least make the effort to be on-time. I kicked a girl to curb today for being very late. I am banging about 8-11 girls regularly in MTY and CDMX, there age range is from 19-30. (life is good), I have nothing against the older girls, but there is not that many older girls available on SA in Mexico.

[BaltiX]

Has anyone here ever used SA in Milan, Italy? I'm just curious.

[AmericanPi]

Curious how you all decide your age targets relative to your own age.

I am 46. I go for 18-23. Almost never older.

Rationale: little in common but the age at which I can go that young is limited. It's possible to bang a 18 year old when you're 60 but it's harder. I figure I'll age up as I age up and enjoy this now. Plus I say I'm 39 and I doubt 18-23 year olds know what a 39 year old really looks like relative to 46 and I'm not bad looking.

What about y'all's?

[FilthyBeaver]

Little head thinking for the big head. I've not had issues with condoms my entire life but as I'm aging I get ED problems every once in a while that pills don't fix. In my experience, if they really like you they'll go bare especially if it's not working with condom first. I have never asked for bareback up front. And FYI I get tested every time I do it and have thus far avoided anything negative.

I'm a prime target for an 18 year child support meal ticket so I'd like to think I'm extra careful but I can be as dumb as anyone else when my brain isn't in charge.

Brilliant report. Thanks.

One qq. How do you assess if a girl is worthy of no condom? Teat reports or any other factors you consider? I had a girl with clean report but still I went with condom; she was french, no english and I spoke no french.

Later felt I could have. The condom experience wasnt great.

[LshRoomer]

Maybe you want to try to reprise my Athens adventure? Have you ever flown a girl in before? I flew Dayana (who I met on Seeking and we had one date) from Madrid. Was pretty epic. Of course she's a dime piece so totally worth it but I would think you have some hot girls you could fly in? And I highly recommend Paleo Suites. It's an amazing property wit luxe rooms and very well located.

That speaks volumes that you flew in a hottie instead of recruiting locally. I'm very unimpressed so far and now I am entertaining the idea of bringing in some previous talent I still keep in contact with from Prague or Madrid.

Good looking out Steve9696.

I'll keep the updates coming. We'll see how things work out.

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[FilthyBeaver]

Weight, 49 kg or less. Height, 180 cm or less, age, 28 or less.

Too easy to lie about 50 kg, I'm shorter than 180 but my sb at home is 180 so I know it's possible for me, everybody over 30 is 29 on dating sites.

Without photos, how did you decide on who to contact? (and thanks for the report!