Seeking Arrangements

[Cons68]

They are good Catholic girls, you insensitive clod 🤣129315;129315;129315;.

Jokes aside, yes, it is a more conservative country.

Why do you think so many of them don't want to show their pictures? Is this more taboo in Poland than the surrounding countries?

[FilthyBeaver]

Don't want friends, classmates, boyfriends, husbands, family, etc seeing them there. I'll also add profile text was often lacking or nonexistent. I basically filtered by height and weight to keep my workload down.

Why do you think so many of them don't want to show their pictures? Is this more taboo in Poland than the surrounding countries?

[VanessasClient]

Why do you think so many of them don't want to show their pictures? Is this more taboo in Poland than the surrounding countries?

Posted here by request. If it belongs somewhere else tell me and I'll repost.

So based on info gleaned from this site I signed up for an account on goldbikiniclub.com prior to a trip to Poland a full two months before my scheduled trip (thank you to whomever). This was the account just above basic (I think it's silver) Here are some observations:

1) Two months is way too early, nobody takes you seriously.

2) I left my location as my home city and got no action whatsoever. Improved slightly when I moved location to Poland. *.

3) The entire first month was basically a waste of time and money*.

4) Very and I mean VERY rarely do girls post pics and I suspect those that do are catfishing.

5) No one replied to winks and none accepted friend requests that would allow you to view each other's private pics. Even though they'd talk for days on whatsapp or telegram. *.

6) Language wasn't much of an issue, the ones who told me they don't speak english were more than happy to converse through a translator if they liked me. I didn't, however, end up seeing anybody that didn't speak very good to perfect english.

7) All of the non-pros asked me to propose a price. I look at this one of two ways. A) negotiation 101 dictates that the first person who throws out a number looses. B) they are legitimately interested and don't want to scare me away with a number that might insult me. I wrote of my texting with girls a few posts back. I'm not arrogant enough to say it's all be but it's a big part of it.

Second month got a lot more interesting. Bought the next up account (gold) and started getting action almost daily BUT I had to initiate 90% of the time (the 10% were basically pros or civies who've convinced themselves they're not pros). It sucks because you are literally shooting in the dark. The girls don't post pics and profile text is minimal to say the least. I'd say I form lettered at least 120 profiles. I can't believe it but I found myself having to clarify if we were talking zloty or USD. Some numbers were astronomical and made absolutely no sense while others were so low I couldn't believe it. I'm not looking for pros but it's inevitable you'll run across them on sites like this. One told me she wanted 2000. I thought she meant zloty, she meant euro lmfao. I gave her a resounding no and the number immediately dropped to 1500. For the record I wouldn't have banged her for 500 but I will conceed she was very attractive. All this BS is my definition of a slog and even more work than seeking which I consider borderline unacceptable. *.

I ended up with primaries in three cities, backups in each, and in one city a backup for the backup. My goal was to make a loop of southern Poland and meet girls for lunch at some convenient stopping point then see what happens. I try not to be a douche and waste other people's time and overbook myself but I could definitely have lined up more if I were willing to blow a bunch of girls off.

Started out bad. Planned to meet girl 1 in a college town and she flaked so turns out I only met two and didn't make my loop. Girl 2 was a verified master's student who ended up being the craziest women I'd ever slept with. "Choke me, slap me, hit me, call me dirty names, stick it in my ass". Never seen anything like it from a tiny spinner of a girl (or any girl for that matter). I'm not into any of that shit but the fact that I was living it borderline scared the shit out of me. Still have teeth marks on my nipples and claw marks on my chest.

Said bye to girl 2 the next am after driving her home to meet girl 3 about 3 hrs away but she was visiting family a few hrs away still and couldn't come back early to meet so I spent a couple nights there with no action and decided I needed girl 2 again just to see if it was a dream (it wasn't). Apologized profusely to girl 3 and promised I'd be back, we had great texting chemistry and I'm she we would have had a great time. Girl 2 gets even crazier, no condom, wants it in the rear with no lube. I mean I can't make this shit up because I'm not this crazy.

Left girl 2 at home again to meet girl 4. Girl 4 was much more "normal" took a little disarming and wining and dining but she ended up staying with me for 3 nights. In the day we'd pick a direction and go on a road trip at night we'd eat an incredible dinner then back to the room.

So, goldbikiniclub.com can deliver but expect more work than seeking but for me, the payoff in slav girls is well worth the time. I even have a couple in my back pocket for next time. One tried to get me to ditch girl 4 for a night so see her. But 4 literally came from out of town and I wasn't about to kick her to the curb.

Happy hunting, there's plenty of game out there you just need to go get it.

[AmericanPi]

Happy hunting, there's plenty of game out there you just need to go get it.

This was a report of distinction. Well done. Thanks for writing it.

Interestingly, I almost had a trip to Poland a few months ago. It turned entirely on whether I felt I could line up game. Because if I go to Europe and eat solo and rub it out it's a waste of time and money. I signed up for gold bikini but it just didn't seem like it was going anywhere. Like I wasn't getting much traction. Still seems like a lot of work from your report, but maybe it's worth it next time.

[FilthyBeaver]

Ignore it and contact her. If you hit it off say something like "Do you mind if we do ppm until we get comfortable with each other?" I've been seeing my sb for 7 months and we're still on ppm. The important thing is that she knows your reliable. She won't care about an allowance after that.

How do you all react when you see a Seeking profile and the woman has "NO PPM! As the only thing in the title line?

[FilthyBeaver]

Posted here by request. If it belongs somewhere else tell me and I'll repost.

So based on info gleaned from this site I signed up for an account on goldbikiniclub.com prior to a trip to Poland a full two months before my scheduled trip (thank you to whomever). This was the account just above basic (I think it's silver) Here are some observations:

1) Two months is way too early, nobody takes you seriously.

2) I left my location as my home city and got no action whatsoever. Improved slightly when I moved location to Poland. *.

3) The entire first month was basically a waste of time and money*.

4) Very and I mean VERY rarely do girls post pics and I suspect those that do are catfishing.

5) No one replied to winks and none accepted friend requests that would allow you to view each other's private pics. Even though they'd talk for days on whatsapp or telegram. *.

6) Language wasn't much of an issue, the ones who told me they don't speak english were more than happy to converse through a translator if they liked me. I didn't, however, end up seeing anybody that didn't speak very good to perfect english.

7) All of the non-pros asked me to propose a price. I look at this one of two ways. A) negotiation 101 dictates that the first person who throws out a number looses. B) they are legitimately interested and don't want to scare me away with a number that might insult me. I wrote of my texting with girls a few posts back. I'm not arrogant enough to say it's all be but it's a big part of it.

Second month got a lot more interesting. Bought the next up account (gold) and started getting action almost daily BUT I had to initiate 90% of the time (the 10% were basically pros or civies who've convinced themselves they're not pros). It sucks because you are literally shooting in the dark. The girls don't post pics and profile text is minimal to say the least. I'd say I form lettered at least 120 profiles. I can't believe it but I found myself having to clarify if we were talking zloty or USD. Some numbers were astronomical and made absolutely no sense while others were so low I couldn't believe it. I'm not looking for pros but it's inevitable you'll run across them on sites like this. One told me she wanted 2000. I thought she meant zloty, she meant euro lmfao. I gave her a resounding no and the number immediately dropped to 1500. For the record I wouldn't have banged her for 500 but I will conceed she was very attractive. All this BS is my definition of a slog and even more work than seeking which I consider borderline unacceptable. *.

I ended up with primaries in three cities, backups in each, and in one city a backup for the backup. My goal was to make a loop of southern Poland and meet girls for lunch at some convenient stopping point then see what happens. I try not to be a douche and waste other people's time and overbook myself but I could definitely have lined up more if I were willing to blow a bunch of girls off.

Started out bad. Planned to meet girl 1 in a college town and she flaked so turns out I only met two and didn't make my loop. Girl 2 was a verified master's student who ended up being the craziest women I'd ever slept with. "Choke me, slap me, hit me, call me dirty names, stick it in my ass". Never seen anything like it from a tiny spinner of a girl (or any girl for that matter). I'm not into any of that shit but the fact that I was living it borderline scared the shit out of me. Still have teeth marks on my nipples and claw marks on my chest.

Said bye to girl 2 the next am after driving her home to meet girl 3 about 3 hrs away but she was visiting family a few hrs away still and couldn't come back early to meet so I spent a couple nights there with no action and decided I needed girl 2 again just to see if it was a dream (it wasn't). Apologized profusely to girl 3 and promised I'd be back, we had great texting chemistry and I'm she we would have had a great time. Girl 2 gets even crazier, no condom, wants it in the rear with no lube. I mean I can't make this shit up because I'm not this crazy.

Left girl 2 at home again to meet girl 4. Girl 4 was much more "normal" took a little disarming and wining and dining but she ended up staying with me for 3 nights. In the day we'd pick a direction and go on a road trip at night we'd eat an incredible dinner then back to the room.

So, goldbikiniclub.com can deliver but expect more work than seeking but for me, the payoff in slav girls is well worth the time. I even have a couple in my back pocket for next time. One tried to get me to ditch girl 4 for a night so see her. But 4 literally came from out of town and I wasn't about to kick her to the curb.

Happy hunting, there's plenty of game out there you just need to go get it.

[VanessasClient]

How do you all react when you see a Seeking profile and the woman has "NO PPM! As the only thing in the title line?

[Cons68]

"The only time you do not LIE is when you have my dick in your mouth. ".

Shit.

At some point I told a Brazilian girlfriend (engineer, INSEAD MBA, consultant at MBB) "The only time you do not like is when you have my dick in your mouth. " She just looked sheepishly at me and said "Yes, that is true" and then we started fucking, she begging me to fuck her ass with no lube.

That sounds like "fun" but is batshit crazy. Not good, not healthy.

Still I may fly to Germany next month to fuck her after she had a baby with a German doctor. What cam I say.

And yes, stubborn. While working in Madrid for BCG she crashed, she phoned me to acknowledge that everything I had told her 10 years ago was truthful and accurate and she should have listened to me.

Took her more than 10 years to como to her senses, and taking a bad beating.

[Cons68]

It is all about what the comes from. Ok I am getting confused now.

Wow! Nice! Where is she from?

[Cons68]

At some point I told a Brazilian girlfriend (engineer, INSEAD MBA, consultant at MBB) "The only time you do not like is when you have my dick in your mouth. " She just looked sheepishly at me and said "Yes, that is true" and then we started fucking, she begging me to fuck her ass with no lube.

That sounds like "fun" but is batshit crazy. Not good, not healthy.

Still I may fly to Germany next month to fuck her after she had a baby with a German doctor. What cam I say.

And yes, stubborn. While working in Madrid for BCG she crashed, she phoned me to acknowledge that everything I had told her 10 years ago was truthful and accurate and she should have listened to me.

Took her more than 10 years to como to her senses, and taking a bad beating.

I had sex with more Brazilians, than any other nationality. My findings are that most of them having great difficulty being truthful. They also tend to be high minded, incredibly stubborn, and sometimes unrealistic. But then again, many women are that way, not just Brazilians. But definitely the untruthful thing with Brazilians. A recent survey indicated they cheat more than any other South American country.

[Cons68]

Yes, typical Brazilian.

This reminded me of two things. First, this Brasilera I had known for a long time meets me for a date after we haven't seen each other for a while and her phone background is her kissing a guy (most likely her boyfriend). I did a decent job compartmentalizing so the sex was still ok, but kinda odd. Brasileras are unique indeed.

[Cons68]

Once you move into relationship land Brazilians are tricky for foreigners.

Hookers / poor girls do not realise that the guy living the life while on holidays in Brazil, still has to work for 11 months of the year, these girls are simply dumb.

Middle class girls / professional girls, when moving to a western country can get annoyed with a few things. First, no maid. These girls always had a maid, that is cheap in Brazil, expensive in WE / USA, we have replaced labor with capital (dishwasher, washing machine.) but they crave the status signaled by owning slaves, I mean maids.

Weather, first winter they love it, the snow, so romantic. Second winter they get annoyed with the fucking weather. I have seen this a few times.

No matter what crap TV feeds you, cross cultural relationships are hard. Brazilian men know how to handle Brazilian women, they were typically raised by one, for starters.

I am willing to die in this hill!

This made me laugh Maybe I've had my appetizer then and should move on?

Can you tell me what you mean in more detail? Like you think Brazilians are bad at serious relationships (this came up in a past conversation with a Swede who lived in Brazil for a few years)?

[Simplii]

I saw the attached picture on Seeking! That looks like cum on her face! I bet her inbox is overflowing with messages LMFAO!

Wow! Nice! Where is she from?

[The Cane]

I saw the attached picture on Seeking! That looks like cum on her face! I bet her inbox is overflowing with messages LMFAO!

[TedFerguson]

I want to thank everyone for their advice. Whatever decision is made, it should be based in reality and you've reinforced the decision awhile back that PPM is the only option with her.

I have a saying I was reminding a friend of today. "Don't fuck with the fantasy. " What we do here on Seeking is primarily fantasy. Because real girlfriends and wives suck. We don't want that! We want fake girlfriends who give us all the good and none of the bad. As you get to know a girl u want to help her. You ask her what's up. You counsel her. And you fuck the fantasy! Don't fuck with the fantasy!

Second Brasileiras. We all love them for their open devil may care attitude. So they make great fake girlfriends. But unless you are super polyamorous with no jealous bones in your body they tend to make shitty monogamous girlfriends. They just aren't monogamous by nature. And neither am I. So I totally respect it. Just don't have any illusions.

Actually two Brasileiras I fuckrd got engaged a month or two later! Wtf? Yep. And of course the famous Thifany being one. When I found she was engaged I wished her luck in her life. She said "Why should anything change? He knows what I do from time to time. As does he. And he likes men also. " Hahaha Brasileiras are unique. Never think otherwise.

This reminded me of two things. First, this Brasilera I had known for a long time meets me for a date after we haven't seen each other for a while and her phone background is her kissing a guy (most likely her boyfriend). I did a decent job compartmentalizing so the sex was still ok, but kinda odd. Brasileras are unique indeed.

The second thing, a Colombian baby I kept in touch with likes to tell me that dishonesty is an integral part of sugar relationships. That jives with Steve's perspective that it's a fantasy. To me, it's not a fantasy though. I buy into the idea of helping them, and being a positive influence in their lives. I actually appreciate being involved in "their problems" provided the girl is a moral human being who makes effort to solve them and just needs a bit of help. I had a Colombian SB who really used the money to rent her own apartment, closer to her school, furnish it, and live a better life. She always made herself available to talk whenever. So I don't think it's always a fantasy.

Those are my two weaknesses, hot, young girls and when they have problems I can help with. I actually get a hard-on when she asks me for help with something. Maybe that's the problem, expecting that the ones who are problematic will learn and improve over time.