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08-06-21 13:49 #2020
Posts: 2733Hmmm Seems Excessive
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
I will admit I don't love it if I see a girl I am pretty regular with still on the prowl. And I surely don't want to hear about it. But these girls got to pay the rent and I'm not really their boyfriend. Anyhow I guess my philosophy is live and let live on this one.
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08-06-21 11:45 #2019
Posts: 241Europe update
I signed up on SA a few months ago but there were many who were obviously escorts. While I chatted up a few good ones, due to personal circumstances (plus annoyed by the escorts), I went off of it. I'm back on now. Chatted with over 40 profiles and weeded down to 4 leads. (10% hit rate; will be weeded down further).
Of the 4 leads worth pursuing, one is a 34 year old Pics looks like a 8; Single mom but just looking for some fun. Another is a 33 year old She was apparently in a serious relationship but broke up about a year ago. She just wants to have a 'man' occasionally. She has even shared her personal name, work place, phone number with me. Meeting her for a first M&G next weekend. Looking forward to it (but a bit wary that this one is coming off of a relationship. Let's see how it goes). Both these don't seem to be expecting anything in return other than taking them out for dinners / weekend getaways but will know more when I do M&G.
On the other end of spectrum, there are a couple of 20/22 y. o claiming to be students. Of course, I will screen them and test if they are really students but they keep directing to conversations around "gifts", "pamper me", "take care of me, I will take care of you" kind of things. Seems to be a significant difference in approach between the two demography.
I'm gradually getting back into the scene and I'm going to try both ends of the spectrum. Will circle back with detailed reports when things happen. I'm taking things slow and easy.
All said and done. I owe it to this forum and guidance from y'll veterans. Your tips / suggestions are much appreciated. Happy to contribute back to the forum.
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08-06-21 11:34 #2018
Posts: 241Notes
I keep a scratch card kind of thing on a mongering email (which I access only through incognito windows which are password protected.
Every time I get a phone number or telegram or kik ID from the girl, I update the scratch card.
Originally Posted by BrizLad [View Original Post]
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08-06-21 05:42 #2017
Posts: 1202Many SBs stay active
Originally Posted by BrizLad [View Original Post]
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08-06-21 05:36 #2016
Posts: 1202Rich girls on SA
There are plenty of rich girls on SA in the United States. By "plenty" I only mean maybe around 5% of them are pretty rich, but that is sitll a high fraction in my opinion. Whenever I looked at around one or two hundred profiles in one sitting, I would always come across at least a dozen rich gals. If you increase the age range to include 30's, 40's, and even 50's, there are even more rich girls, like maybe 15% of them.
Some of these rich gals are undergrads who come from wealthy families, but they just like having rich 40 year old SDs that will buy them LV purses and and clothes.
Some of these rich women make decent money in good jobs. I met an investment banker, a lawyer, a PE investor, a resaturant owner, etc. , on SA. Why were they on SA? Most of them liked the rich lifestyle and wanted a NSA relationships with someone that could partake in that lifestyle. I met one gal who was an exec at a firm. She had a big house, drove a fancy car, etc. I asked her why she was on SA, and she said she just wanted to date a rich and successful person, like herself.
Some of these rich gals are a little older, and so they already have the finer things in life, like a nice house, but they just like to fuck. I guess they could use Tinder or something else, and maybe they do, but some of them are also on SA to screen for successful men.
Are these rich gals good at being SBs? I found out that they cannot be generalized. Many of them did not care about the money, and most never asked me for any cash. That was the good part. However, here are some real lines that I got from some of them, "Let's get a suite at the Omni this weekend and do a staycation. " "LE'ts spend the weekend in Napa Valley. " "Let's try to get a dinner reservation at XXX (where XXX would be the hottest restaurant in town and a sure $1,000 dinner bill that included a bottle or two of wine and a tip). " They are used to this lifestyle, many could afford it themselves, but were just looking for a guy that could do it too. But some of them never asked for this stuff and never asked for cash or cared too much about the cash. So, it really varied.
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08-05-21 20:01 #2015
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by Mongerer88 [View Original Post]
I can believe that there is an occasional one you meet here or there, but "all the time".
One possible answer to your question: regardless of what we think on ISG, most of this US society looks down on prostitution. If a woman making $100 grand was founding to be hooking for money, she probably would be ostracized by her pals and peers and probably lose her job, in which case she would have lost $100 K job for an extra $10 K side gig.
Particularly so because jobs that pay $100 K tend to be white collar jobs requiring some education or degree (I am not talking about strippers making $100 K here), and this fear of ostracism is much higher in the educated, professional class, and so is the risk of job loss for that category.
This country has all sorts of protection from getting fired on the basis of race, religion, dadada, but not working as prostitutes or escorts.
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08-05-21 12:15 #2014
Posts: 2982Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
I was intrigued by TJBrazil's skepticism about there being USA Nurse's and engineers on the SA site. If a young lady earns $100,000 a year, and also likes sex, why in the world would she not be interested in earning an additional $10,000 of cash income and gifts a year doing something that is not all that time consuming? It happens all of the time. Some of those potential ladies escort, but that requires a lot more effort, upfront cost, and chance of obvious discovery than SA. It is a dream come true for them. They are going on a date. I also did not understand TJBrazil's belief that the gift section of SA somehow substituted for a "date fee", or that it was there to provide additional legal protection. It is designed as an additional gift. It is not illegal in the USA To purchase the time and companionship of an escort, and it is certainly not illegal to pay someone to go on a date. Direct cash for sex is illegal, and soliciting sex for cash is illegal (which is the basis for almost all USA Prostitution arrests, since directly proving that sex occurs is very difficult).
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08-05-21 12:14 #2013
Posts: 314Do you keep notes?
On and off seeking for the past two years. I'm wondering if you guys keep notes outside of the site and conversations?
I've found that:
If the girl deletes her profile then I cannot access the conversations.
If the girl I'm dating block my profile so I can't see her online, the direct URL still usually works.
Girls will sometime move there profile out of my city so they don't appear in searches and online statuses while allowing them to keep searching and conversing.
I have a password protected Word doc that keeps a list of their username, first name, profile URL, phone #, whatsapp etc. Pertinent notes.
One expectation I have with the girl that I ask them is that they will need to delete their profile when we start an arrangement. The stimulating ego trip of seeking is hard for girls to break when they think the next message will be from THE maserati driving sugar daddy of the seeking adverts.
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08-05-21 12:02 #2012
Posts: 1202Yes that is an ideal arrangement
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
BTW, I raw dogged her in the ass today. Is that dangerous disease-wise?
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08-05-21 11:56 #2011
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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08-05-21 11:50 #2010
Posts: 1202Maybe we have to feel superior to the girl to enjoy fucking them
Originally Posted by Pessimist [View Original Post]
So for me, maybe I need the gal to worship me for me to get turned on.
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08-05-21 03:18 #2009
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Only once it failed spectacularly. I had a girl who came to my hotel past 11 PM, took a cab to come to my room, we sat around chatting for half hour, had a quick drink in my room, got on my bed and making out, heavy kissing and petting, I had her tits out and she says "you know we are not having sex right". I am like "why the fuck are you here then and why are your tits in my mouth" - she was "but you never specified sex". I got frustrated, told her to leave because I wanted to sleep, and she was expecting the full amount; I gave her a $100 and said that's it. She was upset and let in a huff, and I slept with blue balls. IIRC that was in Atlanta or somewhere in the south and may be 3 or 4 years ago. She was pretty hot however.
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08-04-21 21:17 #2008
Posts: 2041Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Of course, you will have girls who later think they are at your place to literally relax. Haha. That's where your "nanpa" skills come into play. Haha, it's Steve who has the last laugh. I instinctively knew about nanpa, but I didn't know specifically of the nanpa dance. In retrospect, when I hooked up with a reluctant girl I was using nanpa. When I had a girl at my place late at night and nothing happened, I was failing to use the nanpa techniques.
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08-04-21 20:52 #2007
Posts: 1163Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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08-04-21 20:13 #2006
Posts: 2733Favorite Closer Line?
So after you have had a nice meal and some drinks and the chemistry is there, what's your favorite way to suggest you go fuck? Without saying "let's go fuck". My tried and true had been to look her in the eyes and say "You want to get out of here?" Thought that was pretty much code for let's go fuck.
Then I had the date with Sue, the 22 year old who was totally shocked we went to a hotel room (but I got a BJ if you recall). I later asked her about this and she said "you want to get out of here" is like go to another bar or something. She'the say "you want to link up?" But when I read on the internet this is pretty much not code. It's like saying you want to fuck?
I don't think I am "cool" enough to use "want to link up" and will stick with old faithful but it got me curious because there def is a generation gap here. I find they also put their smiley text backward too! Like this (: Damn kids!
What's your "want to fuck" line at the bar or dinner table?