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07-31-21 01:42 #1972
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by LoisSanborn [View Original Post]
I am just giving out advice now and not playing the game. I found the woman of my dreams.
I read google has banned the Seeking app I read from the play store. I cannot say I am surprised. It is the sex prison after all. But I always used the desktop version.
What is important is not so much how long that the woman has been on the site as much as she has been on other dates. Most of the women I met my first time there in 2019 were on their first date. Since I have been and had success and others followed, then the site got more popular and the johns and working girls invaded. So if they have been on the site a while, ask them how many dates they have been on.
So yeah, talk all you want. I get it. You are excited. Just do not be surprised when you get there and the women you have been super excited to meet flake out on you.
My first trip there I fell in lust with the pic of a woman in Barranquilla. So I fly out to see her and she knows I am there to see her and she flakes on me. I had a back up girl, a Morena that agreed to meet me that night, and she blew me away. She was one of the top three or five fucks I had in Colombia.
The next morning, about an hour before I left, the woman I was in lust with shows up. She is as stunning as I thought but everything was covered, but she was stuck up and a completely forgettable fuck. She asked for a crazy amount to fly to Bogota and meet me and I passed. I had Santa Fe bitches I paid $10 to who were better in bed than she was.
Point is you never know what is going to happen. I have had so many hotties that flaked and had so many women who I thought were not that great who looked awesome in person and fucked the shit out of me without asking for a dime. Just go with the flow. Enjoy your talks but do not build up expectations with any one girl.
I will say that once you actually meet a girl and are seen to be real, rescheduling is not an issue at least it was not for me. So if you have a great session, maybe go a second time with that one versus trying to score with new strange.
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07-31-21 01:25 #1971
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by MikeCct [View Original Post]
$75 or 300,000 k is like a weeks' work in Colombia.
I had a chocolate bunny in Santa Fe who I would pay 100 k COP or $30 or so for an hour, and she was better looking, more toned, and a better fuck and masseuse that most anyone I met from seeking. She was GFE with me, and I liked her, but she was not really GF or wife material.
I went on seeking to find wife material even if you do not want to get married if you know what I mean. Any woman asking for 600 k up front is done with me. There are too many other options to fuck around with that.
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07-31-21 00:42 #1970
Posts: 20Thanks for the tips, Elvis and Steve. Elvis, I'm assuming you're using the desktop site? As I'm using the android app and don't see anything. I have noticed that it seems like I'm not seeing everything available whenever I browse the women. Also, how "fresh" would you say is still good? I'm not getting to Colombia until October (yes, I know I'm starting my search way too early, but it's my first time to Colombia and on sugaring sites and I'm like a dog with a new bone. I can't help myself.) But I'm looking at girls who've joined around January. May this year. Are you guys typically catching girls that are only a month or two in? Do you guys have a typical "best by" date, or do you meet up with them first and play it by ear to discern their intentions?
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07-30-21 22:55 #1969
Posts: 2732Conquest and Non Monogamy
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
And yes I absolutely share your predilection for new girls regardless of how awesome the current one is. Take Mika. Nothing but awesome all around. But I still want to find my next "slightly better" girl. In no small part because I am used to her and comfortable and that's awesome but it also makes me want something new.
And conquest is another part. I think that's why some of us prefer seeking to pure hookers. There is something in the dating and seduction process that is inately appealing. And in the past few years I've had a handful or girls balk at the room. I've turned that into one fuck that night, one BJ that ended up as best friends, and one BJ that led to a full on longer term SB after date 1. Somehow knowing these girls were not down to fuck but I got past that resistance and in their pants (or mine) is just somehow exhilarating. That challenge only comes up once per girl.
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07-30-21 22:14 #1968
Posts: 1163It depends
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
I find a lot of time the gal feels she does not have to show appreciation or expect you to accommodate her with the passage of time. Sometimes familiarity is a plus since the gal becomes less inhibited. For example, I had an LT gal do a strip tease. Half way through I took the dominant role and stripped her naked and fondled her body like a police officer. Witty banter ensured while I pretended to be a cop and made her submit to my desires. Having control or the lack thereof can be a real turn on. The uncertainty and anticipation can be a game changer. You can also play games. Drinking games and truth or dare is always fun with the right girl. For your insatiable girl, I would start and stop the action at my whim. Have her get you hard, but you determine the fucking. If she is horny, you will be surprised at how far you can press her buttons. Threaten no more sex unless she blows you a certain way or have her describe her fantasy. Sometime filming can be a game changer even if you delete the scene after the act. The limit is creativity.
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07-30-21 17:12 #1967
Posts: 122Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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07-30-21 15:16 #1966
Posts: 1202I do not think I can do long term arrangements anymore
There used to be a time when I could fuck the same hot girl almost every day for a year. Now, I lose interest after about one month.
About you bros? Can you do long term arrangements?
I am currently in an arrangement with a girl with great tits and she seems to genuinely like me. She never wants to stop fucking when we fuck. But after two months of her, I have already starting looking elsewhere and fucking other girls, even girls that are not as hot.
Is there something wrong with me? Am I just spoiled? Is active mongering with WGs making me jaded and bored easily?
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07-30-21 15:02 #1965
Posts: 2041Originally Posted by LshRoomer [View Original Post]
This is not specifically SA advice, but Scottsdale and the area around it have a solid nightlife scene. Girls seem to be competing with more mature women for action. The mature women are up for anything and the young girls know they can't be coy.
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07-30-21 04:36 #1964
Posts: 13Seeking in Colombia prices
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
Thanks!
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07-29-21 21:12 #1963
Posts: 164Madrid and Beyond
I'm already pulling fish out of the water in Madrid in prep for next week's travel. Seems good so far. Thanks for the advice.
I'm prepping for another trip coming in the next few months and it looks like Phoenix may be my destination.
2 questions for the guys that have been to Phoenix:
Do I need a car? (simple stuff, getting to restaurants, bars, shopping, etc).
Is Seeking worth it (cost? I remember reading a thread that about 200-300 is the expected) in Phoenix (I have choices and don't necessary have to go to Phoenix)?
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07-29-21 19:30 #1962
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by LoisSanborn [View Original Post]
I found my GF on seeking in Bogota. She had been out with no one but me and has not asked me for a dime, and I had four others like her. Chance your searching technique and you will have better luck.
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07-29-21 17:38 #1961
Posts: 576No Google for you
Google's sweeping changes Android / Play Store to stomp out sugar dating apps.
Used SA for 3 months, didn't download app, many reviews says app was glitchy and on good day it was no different than browsing on an actual browser.
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07-29-21 05:31 #1960
Posts: 1163SA impressions
I'm back at the SA scene after staying away due to covid risks. My impression is that the quality is definitely down from 15 months ago. A lot more dregs and potential scams. Still, things are looking a bit better these few days since it appears that since school is about to start, the students are in need of money. That is always a motivating factor. Got a few prospects and one high potential. She's been in an arrangement before. So, she knows the drill. The price is a bit high, but it's manageable. I'm not going to quibble too much because I find you generally get what you pay for. If you underprice, a girl will be looking for a better daddy and will be less responsive. Always give them something to lose, but don't give too much. Looking for a M & G is the next week.
It is interesting how I would divide the classes: 1) hookers in need to money; 2) people testing the waters and will probably flake; 3) people who are pissed by the fake daddies; 4) people who think there are fools who will shower them with money for nothing; 5) girls thinking it is a high end dating site; and 6) realistic girls who are looking for the right relationship. Hard weeding out the good from the bad. Thanks to all for sharing. It has certainly cut my learning curve. It is pretty clear you have to take some risks and throw out some goodies without reciprocity. But this is not a sure thing and as I said before, you have to have enough resources to play the game.
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07-27-21 22:49 #1959
Posts: 255Bumped into this old thread on Reddit. Has probably been shared before. Some interesting info on pricing about 4 years ago.
hxxps://xxx.reddit.xxx/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/76stil/allowance_master_thread/ (replace xxx)
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07-27-21 16:49 #1958
Posts: 2732Prob Just a Reject. But.
Originally Posted by LoisSanborn [View Original Post]
Here's what I do — bring the photo up on the computer and take a pic of it. That guarantees it's going to be super hard to match up even with the best algorithms out there.
P.S. Unless you are in Colombia where seeking is straight up P4 P it's best to never talk about sex with a girl. Keep it vague like room time, private time, intimate time. I usually use the phrase "take things private if there's chemistry" personally.