Seeking Arrangements

[Midwestern]

Last year, I got tired of one of my GF / SB. However, I never broke up with her. She would text me sometimes, and I would just say that I was busy.

Last month, while I was in a bit of a dry spell, she texted me out of the blue, and so we met up and had great sex. Since it had been a few months since the last time that I saw her, it felt like I was having sex with a new person, LOL.

So, why bother breaking up with anyone? Just do not see them when you do not feel like it, and if she ever finds out that you have other GFs and SBs, or if she gets tired of being ignored, then let her break up with you! Problem solved.

My philosophy is, never take an easy lay for granted, even if you get bored of it. Come to think of it, I probably have over a dozen GFs and SBs that I never broke up with. Many of these gals will still have sex with me, even if a year has lapsed since the last time I saw them. But if I broke up with them, then it may have been an ugly breakup and just as important I would also be eliminating an easy lay forever.

She lives in the same city. That is an ouch feeling. To tell you the truth, I haven't paid her much. May be about 300 US in the 2 years. She was a bank customer service staff in Western Ukraine. She arrived in my country working for a social media marketing company doing corporate sales. And I met her and told her the deal. As she was desperate to get back into banking. She tried getting a bank job for more tnN 6 months and I got her a job at a leading bank in 1 week since meeting her. She was willing to do anything to pay me back. So it was always considered a free one for me. When ever I need to offload I just give her a buzz and she would come over and service me. Now I am bored of how easy I can do her that I want to move one. We men like to hunt. We don't like food served on a plate. We get bored often. She is off to Kiev to do a bit of work on her butt, lip and cheek. So I have time ow to switch off from her. That is the plan.



G.

[Akibono]

She lives in the same city. That is an ouch feeling. To tell you the truth, I haven't paid her much. May be about 300 US in the 2 years. She was a bank customer service staff in Western Ukraine. She arrived in my country working for a social media marketing company doing corporate sales. And I met her and told her the deal. As she was desperate to get back into banking. She tried getting a bank job for more tnN 6 months and I got her a job at a leading bank in 1 week since meeting her. She was willing to do anything to pay me back. So it was always considered a free one for me. When ever I need to offload I just give her a buzz and she would come over and service me. Now I am bored of how easy I can do her that I want to move one. We men like to hunt. We don't like food served on a plate. We get bored often. She is off to Kiev to do a bit of work on her butt, lip and cheek. So I have time ow to switch off from her. That is the plan.

Well you ask about my age. I am 46. I wouldn't consider my self a hunk, but I treat them very well. I rarely pay them an allowance. I usually help them into them by getting them work. Or helping them with studies so they can get a proper job.

Example the fitness instructor. I paid for her course on nutrition and physical fitness. She got a huge pay hike and is now a sr. At the gym. The lawyer. I got her an intern job and one of my clients place. She will do anything for me. Especially during covid its so hard to get work.

Lying is so easy if you don't have a conscience. Just tell her your job forced you to move. That works unless your paths tend to cross.

[Gunners1]

She lives in the same city. That is an ouch feeling. To tell you the truth, I haven't paid her much. May be about 300 US in the 2 years. She was a bank customer service staff in Western Ukraine. She arrived in my country working for a social media marketing company doing corporate sales. And I met her and told her the deal. As she was desperate to get back into banking. She tried getting a bank job for more tnN 6 months and I got her a job at a leading bank in 1 week since meeting her. She was willing to do anything to pay me back. So it was always considered a free one for me. When ever I need to offload I just give her a buzz and she would come over and service me. Now I am bored of how easy I can do her that I want to move one. We men like to hunt. We don't like food served on a plate. We get bored often. She is off to Kiev to do a bit of work on her butt, lip and cheek. So I have time ow to switch off from her. That is the plan.

Well you ask about my age. I am 46. I wouldn't consider my self a hunk, but I treat them very well. I rarely pay them an allowance. I usually help them into them by getting them work. Or helping them with studies so they can get a proper job.

Example the fitness instructor. I paid for her course on nutrition and physical fitness. She got a huge pay hike and is now a sr. At the gym. The lawyer. I got her an intern job and one of my clients place. She will do anything for me. Especially during covid its so hard to get work.

That is my modus operandi.

It works.

G.

After two years, breaking up with her will be like breaking up with a GF, which can often be ugly, as you probably already know. Does she live in the same city as you? If not, then just start slowly ignoring her. If she lives in the same city as you, well, then I have nothing. You could tell her you have a new GF and so you can't see her anymore because you're not a cheater. This has worked best for me, but only with mistresses, SBs, and WGs.

But kudos to you on your stable! Can I ask your age? I am currently pursuing two gals that are both 21, and I'm getting nowhere with them. I'm mid 50's.

[Midwestern]

After two years, breaking up with her will be like breaking up with a GF, which can often be ugly, as you probably already know. Does she live in the same city as you? If not, then just start slowly ignoring her. If she lives in the same city as you, well, then I have nothing. You could tell her you have a new GF and so you can't see her anymore because you're not a cheater. This has worked best for me, but only with mistresses, SBs, and WGs.

But kudos to you on your stable! Can I ask your age? I am currently pursuing two gals that are both 21, and I'm getting nowhere with them. I'm mid 50's.

Hello.

Need a bit of help guys.

I have been lucky to have hooked up with a Ukrainian SB for almost 2 years. I helped her get a proper job and now she is stable. Though she never really asked my any financial help once she got a job, she feels obliged she needs to help me and every opportunity. I now have a stable of 4 SB. One is a hot 22 yeard old Colombian laywer (fresh grad) , a Spanish teacher 24 y, a 23 y old pinay fitness and zumba trainer, and finally a 24 y old hair stylist.

Now I want to kick the Ukrainian to touch as I feel no chemistry with her and she has also aged considerably.

I tried a few times to tell her I am too tired to meet etc. But she doesn't seem to get it. How do I end it with her. So I can focus more on the next generation of SB.

Thanks in advance.

Kind regards.

G.

[Gunners1]

Hello.

Need a bit of help guys.

I have been lucky to have hooked up with a Ukrainian SB for almost 2 years. I helped her get a proper job and now she is stable. Though she never really asked my any financial help once she got a job, she feels obliged she needs to help me and every opportunity. I now have a stable of 4 SB. One is a hot 22 yeard old Colombian laywer (fresh grad) , a Spanish teacher 24 y, a 23 y old pinay fitness and zumba trainer, and finally a 24 y old hair stylist.

Now I want to kick the Ukrainian to touch as I feel no chemistry with her and she has also aged considerably.

I tried a few times to tell her I am too tired to meet etc. But she doesn't seem to get it. How do I end it with her. So I can focus more on the next generation of SB.

Thanks in advance.

Kind regards.

G.

[Nounce]

As soon as we commit to each other, which may be soon, I will be deleting many of my contacts.

Don't do that Sell it with your phone for more. LOL.

[Elvis 2008]

I was also interested in whether anyone has experience with using dual sim card phones (eSIM, etc.) on the newer phones.

I tried it with two phones: Asus Zenfone, and it was a pain in the ass. Then I had a Huawei where it worked better but I did not have a slot for microSD.

All in all, you are better off using two phones. When I do video calls with my chicas, I have my primary phone and then a cheap Motorola G8 which has a great speaker. I use that to do translating. I think that phone cost me like $125. The Motorola has a google fi sim card in it, and google fi lets you have like an infinite amount of countries where you can use their plan like 200+. They only charge for what you use and the base is like $20 per month. You can buy a google fi SIM card at Best Buy or online.

Mexico is free of charge with T-mobile and that is what is in my other phone. I have a Google Pixel 4 A. Every chick wants an iphone but they quickly get that the Pixel shoots photos as good or better than most iphones and then they are asking to use my phone or asking me to take photos. My 4 A has 128 GB of memory and is a steal at $349.

When I go to Colombia, I pay for the international travel pack ahead of time. I think it is $30 for 10 days and $50 for 30 days. I have not used up that bandwidth with all my trips there. It is probably cheaper to get a SIM locally and activate it, but it also is a pain in the ass too. I have not done esims but I think the Pixel can do it.

I am not married and do not care as much about hiding, but as I am serious with the woman of my dreams now, I will block my other girls from texting me when I am with her. As soon as we commit to each other, which may be soon, I will be deleting many of my contacts.

I think I may be tearing up a little at the sight of my burning my virtual black book. LOL.

[WyattEarp]

This however makes it difficult to replace them with someone "better" who may arrive later in the game...............

..........So the good and bad of starting very early is that provides great girlfriendy interactions on an ongoing basis but at the same time makes it harder to choose and harder to pop girls off the stack. First world problems!

Seems like the same problem in a Brazilian boate except the boate (club) experience is condensed in time. You have a vibe going with the girl you are sitting with and having a conversation. A girl more your type (and hotter) walks by and smiles. You kind of have to make a snap judgement and convince yourself that the girl you are currently with will be a great experience.

And there's always next time. And always another girl!

[WyattEarp]

I also read it might be a possibility to just buy a second Sim card for your phone.

I was also interested in whether anyone has experience with using dual sim card phones (eSIM, etc.) on the newer phones.

[Nounce]

Very interesting. I was looking up this morning prepaid phones to keep a burner. Any prefs you have to quickly and cheaply have a phone on hand?

I also read it might be a possibility to just buy a second Sim card for your phone.

I would just get a cheap phone from Amazon. The sim card is only for creating account. You don't need it once the account is created, and it does not even have to be on the same phone.

[Nounce]

Thanks, Nounce. Is this the only reason for a burner?

That is basically it, and maybe to keep the girls' pictures. I think for married man, it is probably a good idea too.

I can make it work without burner, but it is tedious to switch between contact accounts.

[SfoCowboy]

Having a second phone as a burner phone has its advantages -.

You can switch off whenever you want.

You can keep it in DND or silent mode.

You can download true caller with a different name and use it regularly.

You will always know who is calling or messaging you. Work or sugar baby.

Of course the cons are always there and it's up-to ones comfort.

Cheers!

This may be a stupid question, but what are the main reasons for using a burner phone? To avoid the police and getting busted? Or, to hide your identity from the gals? Or, something else?

I only have one phone. In the states, I use the Hushed app, which gives me an unregistered telephone number. In China, I use a "second" WeChat account, which is affiliated with an old unregistered telephone number. I use these apps exclusively to communicate with SBs, WGs, MP gals, agencies, and pimps.

As I mentioned earlier, I realize that apps can "talk" to each other, and so that would be one reason to use a burner phone, but are there other major reasons? To me, just having a second phone is already suspicious. I would have no good explanation for it. Thanks!

[Steve 9696]

So putting the final details together for an upcoming trip and reflecting on the timing of the search and also the stark contrast in how some girls are really good at this versus the others.

Someone has suggested that starting your search 1-2 weeks ahead is about right. I can agree with that. But I can never abide by it — when I'm bored in the evening l, what do I do but search for girls at my upcoming visit city. Whether that is six weeks out or more. I started prob 6 weeks out this time and that is not optimal but at 4 weeks out I snagged two keepers. One of them flaked eventually and was replaced. And now in the last couple weeks I have the problem of over abundance.

What I mean by that is that the girlfriendy part of this is super important to me. And some girls are really good at it. And some just horrible. I am amazed at the girls that just give one word answers and don't converse. These girls get kicked straight to the curb no matter what they look like. And others are REALLY good at the girlfriend game — once engaged they check on me daily, how's my day, did I do anything fun, looking forward to seeing me. It's really great when it's ON.

This however makes it difficult to replace them with someone "better" who may arrive later in the game. Ultimately I've settled the first night on V who is top girlfriend material even though she is a shade off my type. But I had a 20 year old Brasileira come swooping in and replace R for night two. I felt bad kicking R to the curb after she’d been so nice. But had to do it. Just told her that work intervened and maybe next time. She was great about it (notice I didn't say my trip was cancelled because I want to leave the door open if someone flakes).

And now yet another cute Latina hottie has come in the scene. She was super quite to get down to $$ and pretty reasonable. She's not going to replace V or A that I am very invested in but a nice wildcard to have.

So the good and bad of starting very early is that provides great girlfriendy interactions on an ongoing basis but at the same time makes it harder to choose and harder to pop girls off the stack. First world problems!

[Midwestern]

Very interesting. I was looking up this morning prepaid phones to keep a burner. Any prefs you have to quickly and cheaply have a phone on hand?

I also read it might be a possibility to just buy a second Sim card for your phone.

In many countries, you have to register SIM cards with your ID. I personally wouldn't engage in this hobby with a registered phone number. This is why I use Hushed which gives me a number without having to register it and why I use a WeChat that uses an old unregistered number. Of course, I realize this is not bullet proof. I'm pretty sure that Big Brother knows what I'm up too.

[Midwestern]

Burner phone allows you to put your address book in a sandbox so to speak. You only have mongering contacts on this phone and you allow whatsapp to access it. You can disallow whatsapp to access your contact. The result is your chat sessions will be identified by phone numbers only, not names.

I think there are two things discussed here. One is to allow adding contact automatically, the other is to allow contacts access. I think the critical time is during install, one must read every question carefully before proceeding to not allow adding contact automatically.

Thanks, Nounce. Is this the only reason for a burner?