Seeking Arrangements

[AmericanPi]

That will be already too late. One needs to not allow it in the first place. The problem now is all you get are phone numbers in the chat. One needs a burner phone to solve the issue.

Very interesting. I was looking up this morning prepaid phones to keep a burner. Any prefs you have to quickly and cheaply have a phone on hand?

I also read it might be a possibility to just buy a second Sim card for your phone.

[Midwestern]

I saw in a gossip column that Matthew Perry got exposed by a nineteen year old publicity seeker model type. It looks as if it is not on android so I can't try it for myself.

From what I understand, you have to be a big somebody to get on it. They only accept 8% of people trying to register. Plus, I do not think it is anonymous.

[Big Boss Man]

I saw in a gossip column that Matthew Perry got exposed by a nineteen year old publicity seeker model type. It looks as if it is not on android so I can't try it for myself.

[Nounce]

This may be a stupid question, but what are the main reasons for using a burner phone?

Burner phone allows you to put your address book in a sandbox so to speak. You only have mongering contacts on this phone and you allow whatsapp to access it. You can disallow whatsapp to access your contact. The result is your chat sessions will be identified by phone numbers only, not names.

I think there are two things discussed here. One is to allow adding contact automatically, the other is to allow contacts access. I think the critical time is during install, one must read every question carefully before proceeding to not allow adding contact automatically.

I have multiple phones with me when I travel. It is more for backup purpose than anything else. I only carry the one I need and the one that I can lose going out. All my phones have US numbers so it does not makes much difference for a few hours.

[Midwestern]

This may be a stupid question, but what are the main reasons for using a burner phone? To avoid the police and getting busted? Or, to hide your identity from the gals? Or, something else?

I only have one phone. In the states, I use the Hushed app, which gives me an unregistered telephone number. In China, I use a "second" WeChat account, which is affiliated with an old unregistered telephone number. I use these apps exclusively to communicate with SBs, WGs, MP gals, agencies, and pimps.

As I mentioned earlier, I realize that apps can "talk" to each other, and so that would be one reason to use a burner phone, but are there other major reasons? To me, just having a second phone is already suspicious. I would have no good explanation for it. Thanks!

[Nounce]

Just googled and found out its easy to stop this on WhatsApp. Just go into settings and stop contact sync on WhatsApp and it won't look for contacts and import them anymore.

That will be already too late. One needs to not allow it in the first place. The problem now is all you get are phone numbers in the chat. One needs a burner phone to solve the issue.

[SfoCowboy]

I use WhatsApp and telegram. I have a different sim and handset for the burner number. Never had to worry about other things.

Thanks for the reply. Can I ask, though, what app do you use? I have WhatsApp but if a girl wants to communicate on WhatsApp it's not like I can uninstall, re-install with a new burner number, and do that over and over. Do you just communicate in the burner app text messaging feature? What do you do for video call then?

[AmericanPi]

That's scary AF. That you could have an alternate temporary identity and it could be so easily pierced.

Just googled and found out its easy to stop this on WhatsApp. Just go into settings and stop contact sync on WhatsApp and it won't look for contacts and import them anymore.

For a while, using the Hushed app on my cell phone was working out well, but then I later downloaded another messenger app, I think it was WhatsApp, and suddenly I got these messages saying that my contact Susie, Wendy, Claire, etc. (names of SBs) are using WhatsApp. They got a similar message, saying "your contact Midwestern joined WhatsApp. " Eventually, several of my SBs found out my real name this way, and a few also found my LinkedIn page.

I have said this before, if an SB of average smarts wants to find out your true identity, then she can figure it out. Either you will mess up, or she will figure it out, or something else will give you away. One gal, after our brief meet and greet, where I used a fake name, found my LinkedIn page later that same night. I later asked her how she did it, and she said, "I am not dumb. It is easy to find people's real identities. ".

On a lot of hotels, your name appears on the TV screen!

But I too hunted down true identities of SBs, and I was able to find it every single time.

What's the moral of this story? Try your best to hide your identity, but be prepared if it is found out. And, do not lie. I lied to my SBs, and that came back to haunt me. So, for example, if you are married, then just admit it to the SBs.

[DramaFree11]

I have no pics and have never had a problem. My profile explains that I am an exec and need to be very discreet and happy to provide by text. So if a girl asks I just reiterate I can text it and give my number. If she doesn't want to go offline then next. And of course I have a burner phone as any good girl-enthusiast should.

P.S. Midwestern is right worst identity give away ever is the TV screen in your hotel room. I've never had a problem but very hard to avoid that (and I've several times left a girl sleeping in my room or left before she did not saying that's a good idea!

Great advice, this will prevent major issues down the road.

[Steve 9696]

I use the Hushed app to call and text SA gals. I do not post my pics on the SA site. If a girl insists on seeing my face, I propose a quick meet and greet, and I let them pick the place, like a coffee shop within walking distance of their home, so it's easy for them. If they insist on a pic or they do not want to do a quick and easy meet and greet, then just move on to the next gal.

I have no pics and have never had a problem. My profile explains that I am an exec and need to be very discreet and happy to provide by text. So if a girl asks I just reiterate I can text it and give my number. If she doesn't want to go offline then next. And of course I have a burner phone as any good girl-enthusiast should.

P.S. Midwestern is right — worst identity give away ever is the TV screen in your hotel room. I've never had a problem but very hard to avoid that (and I've several times left a girl sleeping in my room or left before she did — not saying that's a good idea!

[DramaFree11]

For a while, using the Hushed app on my cell phone was working out well, but then I later downloaded another messenger app, I think it was WhatsApp, and suddenly I got these messages saying that my contact Susie, Wendy, Claire, etc. (names of SBs) are using WhatsApp. They got a similar message, saying "your contact Midwestern joined WhatsApp. " Eventually, several of my SBs found out my real name this way, and a few also found my LinkedIn page.

I have said this before, if an SB of average smarts wants to find out your true identity, then she can figure it out. Either you will mess up, or she will figure it out, or something else will give you away. One gal, after our brief meet and greet, where I used a fake name, found my LinkedIn page later that same night. I later asked her how she did it, and she said, "I am not dumb. It is easy to find people's real identities. ".

On a lot of hotels, your name appears on the TV screen!

But I too hunted down true identities of SBs, and I was able to find it every single time.

What's the moral of this story? Try your best to hide your identity, but be prepared if it is found out. And, do not lie. I lied to my SBs, and that came back to haunt me. So, for example, if you are married, then just admit it to the SBs.

Usually, I agree with all your posts. I think on SA you should try and be as honest as possible, to prevent issues down the line. Most of the girls will research your identity regardless, so you will also miss out on a lot of girls. I am not married, so that is not an issue for me. You are totally correct, they can find out your identity very easily.

[Midwestern]

For a while, using the Hushed app on my cell phone was working out well, but then I later downloaded another messenger app, I think it was WhatsApp, and suddenly I got these messages saying that my contact Susie, Wendy, Claire, etc. (names of SBs) are using WhatsApp. They got a similar message, saying "your contact Midwestern joined WhatsApp. " Eventually, several of my SBs found out my real name this way, and a few also found my LinkedIn page.

I have said this before, if an SB of average smarts wants to find out your true identity, then she can figure it out. Either you will mess up, or she will figure it out, or something else will give you away. One gal, after our brief meet and greet, where I used a fake name, found my LinkedIn page later that same night. I later asked her how she did it, and she said, "I am not dumb. It is easy to find people's real identities. ".

On a lot of hotels, your name appears on the TV screen!

But I too hunted down true identities of SBs, and I was able to find it every single time.

What's the moral of this story? Try your best to hide your identity, but be prepared if it is found out. And, do not lie. I lied to my SBs, and that came back to haunt me. So, for example, if you are married, then just admit it to the SBs.

I use the Hushed app to call and text SA gals. I do not post my pics on the SA site. If a girl insists on seeing my face, I propose a quick meet and greet, and I let them pick the place, like a coffee shop within walking distance of their home, so it's easy for them. If they insist on a pic or they do not want to do a quick and easy meet and greet, then just move on to the next gal.

[Midwestern]

Have a question that might seem kind of weird.

I signing up for my SA premium account. Is there a way to do this where I don't need to use my real phone number? Because I definitely want to verify the girls via video chat before I meet, but I don't want them having my real number. I considered using a burner number but then I don't want to turn off my WhatsApp and have it linked to a separate burner number just for SA. How you all doing this?

Also, you guys show your pics on the site or no? Problem not to?

I use the Hushed app to call and text SA gals. I do not post my pics on the SA site. If a girl insists on seeing my face, I propose a quick meet and greet, and I let them pick the place, like a coffee shop within walking distance of their home, so it's easy for them. If they insist on a pic or they do not want to do a quick and easy meet and greet, then just move on to the next gal.

[AmericanPi]

Thanks for the reply. Can I ask, though, what app do you use? I have WhatsApp but if a girl wants to communicate on WhatsApp it's not like I can uninstall, re-install with a new burner number, and do that over and over. Do you just communicate in the burner app text messaging feature? What do you do for video call then?

I maintain a separate burner phone. Just switch it on when I want to communicate. You need not post your real pics. You can hide the face.

[SfoCowboy]

I maintain a separate burner phone. Just switch it on when I want to communicate. You need not post your real pics. You can hide the face.

Have a question that might seem kind of weird.

I signing up for my SA premium account. Is there a way to do this where I don't need to use my real phone number? Because I definitely want to verify the girls via video chat before I meet, but I don't want them having my real number. I considered using a burner number but then I don't want to turn off my WhatsApp and have it linked to a separate burner number just for SA. How you all doing this?

Also, you guys show your pics on the site or no? Problem not to?