Seeking Arrangements

[AmericanPi]

I hear you. Makes sense.

The buffet is a good analogy. Thinking of it, there are only two SBs. The german and the Spain ones with whom I enjoy multiple fucks.

Rest are all - "ok, when are you leaving?. I came and I am done" kind of feeling.

OMG the "when are you leaving" vibe? LOL.

I usually insist girls stay the night because I like morning sex. Frankly I gift generously and it makes me feel I'm getting my money's worth. But after that morning bang ends, I start throwing "it's time for you to go" vibes. And it's always awkward. Super short responses because I'm not trying to start new conversations. No discussions of breakfast or coffee. Just "wow it's already 8 am. Geez I slept in. I have such a big day and I'm already behind. " And then I anxiously watch them get dressed and stuff. Sometimes they want to take a shower (which I suspect is because hotel showers are much nicer than their showers at home) and I'm thinking "great she's going to be here another 20 minutes and I just want to checkout and go to Starbucks. "

It's a sad reality that once I've dumped my bag, and there isn't another session on the docket, I just want to get on with my day.

[Gfefan]

If you are on the mobile app, you have to scroll down and click "apply filters".

Other than that, I can't think of any.

Anyone know why when I try to search for gals in CDMX or Rio it just keep giving me results in Las Vegas Nevada? Anyone else encountering this problem? And how do you fix it?

[Gfefan]

I hear you. Makes sense.

The buffet is a good analogy. Thinking of it, there are only two SBs. The german and the Spain ones with whom I enjoy multiple fucks.

Rest are all - "ok, when are you leaving?. I came and I am done" kind of feeling.

I'm letting this one go. Honestly it was just too much. At some point I wasn't even enjoying it. I was just trying to stay hard to keep up with her. We went at it 4 times that night, only 2 of which I enjoyed, the first and last because I was aroused for both. The middle ones were her just doing all she could to keep going. Blowing me, hand job, moaning near me. And the minute my dick shows signs of life she was mounting me and trying to keep it going. I appreciate some guys have a sex drive that would be compatible with this. But I just don't see how. I mean after she came, right away there was zero enjoying the moment. 3 seconds later she was telling me to keep going.

It was like eating at a buffet where you can't leave till you finish 4 plates. It's no longer enjoyable at some point. You're thinking I'm done and ready to go home.

[AmericanPi]

My german SB is exactly this.

A bit shy and borderline boring is what I thought until I had her in the shower.

Yes, I casually walked in when she was freshening up, I undressed and stepped in to the shower with her. I still remember her facial expression. Mouth open, kinda making sense out of me undressing (shower had a glass panel). I walked in, got wet, stood behind her, held her breasts, which were nice and firm with pink nipples, ran my hands down her waist and fingers between her legs. She started moaning, I was super erect rubbing against her wet ass. Water flowing between us.

I bent her over and entered her from behind without even asking. What followed was epic sex in shower with me finishing on her ass.

She jumps out, puts towel on me, wipes urgently and went "let's go to the bedroom".

Since then no looking back. When we meet. We fuck at least 4 times in a night. Then, 2 or 3 times next AM.

Such a sweet sex kitten. Keep her. Don't let her go.

I'm letting this one go. Honestly it was just too much. At some point I wasn't even enjoying it. I was just trying to stay hard to keep up with her. We went at it 4 times that night, only 2 of which I enjoyed, the first and last because I was aroused for both. The middle ones were her just doing all she could to keep going. Blowing me, hand job, moaning near me. And the minute my dick shows signs of life she was mounting me and trying to keep it going. I appreciate some guys have a sex drive that would be compatible with this. But I just don't see how. I mean after she came, right away there was zero enjoying the moment. 3 seconds later she was telling me to keep going.

It was like eating at a buffet where you can't leave till you finish 4 plates. It's no longer enjoyable at some point. You're thinking I'm done and ready to go home.

[Zizou23]

Anyone know why when I try to search for gals in CDMX or Rio it just keep giving me results in Las Vegas Nevada? Anyone else encountering this problem? And how do you fix it?

[Gfefan]

My german SB is exactly this.

A bit shy and borderline boring is what I thought until I had her in the shower.

Yes, I casually walked in when she was freshening up, I undressed and stepped in to the shower with her. I still remember her facial expression. Mouth open, kinda making sense out of me undressing (shower had a glass panel). I walked in, got wet, stood behind her, held her breasts, which were nice and firm with pink nipples, ran my hands down her waist and fingers between her legs. She started moaning, I was super erect rubbing against her wet ass. Water flowing between us.

I bent her over and entered her from behind without even asking. What followed was epic sex in shower with me finishing on her ass.

She jumps out, puts towel on me, wipes urgently and went "let's go to the bedroom".

Since then no looking back. When we meet. We fuck at least 4 times in a night. Then, 2 or 3 times next AM.

Such a sweet sex kitten. Keep her. Don't let her go.

Well yesterday was an interesting experience. In Mexico.

My type is true amateur. The student, the retail employee, the one who just needs a few extra bucks.

Met a 23 year old from the site. Graduate student in biology. This looks good.

Met in person. Not as cute as her pictures. But had a very normal girl quality to her. Like if you saw her on the street you wouldn't stare, but you wouldn't look away either.

Very timid at dinner. Hard to keep conversation going. Saw her yawn once and thought this is not going so well. Still, asked if she was coming back and she said yes.

This is where it got interesting at last. As soon as we got in the apartment she was a freak. Sloppy kissing, super wet, moaning all over.

When we started having sex she told me to spank her. Then harder. Each time she yelled out and said more.

After the first time of sex she said "I want more. " Multiple times that night, middle of the night, all it took was our legs brushing up against each other or something and she was grinding on me to go again.

I could not keep up. It was just so much.

Will I repeat? Probably not. Sometimes more of a good thing is just too much. This was too much.

[DramaFree11]

Well yesterday was an interesting experience. In Mexico.

My type is true amateur. The student, the retail employee, the one who just needs a few extra bucks.

Met a 23 year old from the site. Graduate student in biology. This looks good.

Met in person. Not as cute as her pictures. But had a very normal girl quality to her. Like if you saw her on the street you wouldn't stare, but you wouldn't look away either.

Very timid at dinner. Hard to keep conversation going. Saw her yawn once and thought this is not going so well. Still, asked if she was coming back and she said yes.

This is where it got interesting at last. As soon as we got in the apartment she was a freak. Sloppy kissing, super wet, moaning all over.

When we started having sex she told me to spank her. Then harder. Each time she yelled out and said more.

I am back in CDMX for 48 hours. I just got done with an amazing session. One or 2 more dates, this evening, but the traffic is killing me.

You have to love the Latinas they live sex!

[The Cane]

Well yesterday was an interesting experience. In Mexico.

My type is true amateur. The student, the retail employee, the one who just needs a few extra bucks.

Met a 23 year old from the site. Graduate student in biology. This looks good.

Met in person. Not as cute as her pictures. But had a very normal girl quality to her. Like if you saw her on the street you wouldn't stare, but you wouldn't look away either.

Very timid at dinner. Hard to keep conversation going. Saw her yawn once and thought this is not going so well. Still, asked if she was coming back and she said yes.

This is where it got interesting at last. As soon as we got in the apartment she was a freak. Sloppy kissing, super wet, moaning all over.

When we started having sex she told me to spank her. Then harder. Each time she yelled out and said more.

After the first time of sex she said "I want more. " Multiple times that night, middle of the night, all it took was our legs brushing up against each other or something and she was grinding on me to go again..

You complain when you don't get it. And then you complain when you get it too! LOL! Never satisfied! Either it's too much rain, or it isn't raining enough. My God!

[AmericanPi]

Well yesterday was an interesting experience. In Mexico.

My type is true amateur. The student, the retail employee, the one who just needs a few extra bucks.

Met a 23 year old from the site. Graduate student in biology. This looks good.

Met in person. Not as cute as her pictures. But had a very normal girl quality to her. Like if you saw her on the street you wouldn't stare, but you wouldn't look away either.

Very timid at dinner. Hard to keep conversation going. Saw her yawn once and thought this is not going so well. Still, asked if she was coming back and she said yes.

This is where it got interesting at last. As soon as we got in the apartment she was a freak. Sloppy kissing, super wet, moaning all over.

When we started having sex she told me to spank her. Then harder. Each time she yelled out and said more.

After the first time of sex she said "I want more. " Multiple times that night, middle of the night, all it took was our legs brushing up against each other or something and she was grinding on me to go again.

I could not keep up. It was just so much.

Will I repeat? Probably not. Sometimes more of a good thing is just too much. This was too much.

[Steve 9696]

Trying out SA at my local city in North America and it's a lot of work.

Getting overpriced amateur escorts.

Reading through the thread seems like seeking is best in the Latin American countries.

Yeah it's been documented here exhaustively that it takes a bunch of work. And can vary depending on your city. And of course USA is most expensive pussy on the planet thanks to our Puritanical laws and culture of sex shaming. But what specifically are you seeing? No one at the 400-500 price point? Because they def exist tho a lot of work. What are you seeing?

[Nachoy]

Trying out SA at my local city in North America and it's a lot of work.

Getting overpriced amateur escorts.

Reading through the thread seems like seeking is best in the Latin American countries.

[DramaFree11]

I cannot believe I am going to defend American women but about 90% of women have kids when they are 40. Many are swimming in student loan debt being fed the nonsense about the value of a college education even a nonSTEM one.

There was a video of a hottie on Twitter that was being shown of a woman who had a job and was spending 12 hours a day between work and commuting griping that she had time for nothing else, and she was one that actually had a job. Most reactions to her complaining was "Get over it" but mine was "Remember how oppressed you women claim to be in the 50's being house wives? Doesn't that sound good now?" Studies on happiness show women were happier than they are now. It is not just the colleges that have lied to women but those feminist virtues of having your own career do not sound all that great when you actually are stuck having to do the work.

If you are a woman making an average salary and have children, you are literally going to be saving nothing and probably going into more debt, and you better pray you do not have a special needs child with something like ADHD or autism.

Unless they are in school or delusional, most women do not have the luxury of taking into account looks. If you want to be a stay at home mother, your husband better be making $200 k and that is less than 1% of all men 30 years of age. It goes up to 5% when you move up to age 45 so tall, dark, and handsome is not a luxury most women can afford.

When I was a kid, an 18 year old could get a job at the local factory and pay for his own house. His wife could stay at home. He could afford a new car every year and have steaks on the weekend. Those days are long gone.

This new dynamic plays right into the hands of us sugar daddies. What else are you going to do if you are a woman looking to make a few grand a month? This is why sugaring exploded particularly after the 2009 Great Recession.

I asked one of my SB if she was ashamed of having a sugar daddy. She told me she was not ashamed. In fact, she said most of her friends were envious she had a sugar daddy and they did not.

But I get where you are coming from and thinking about what is "just women". There seems to be no spotlight being shined on the troubles the average American woman is having.

One reason I so preferred the Mexican and Colombian women in comparison to the American ones was the lack of desperation for money. There was always talk of money before sex with American women but not always with the Latinas. The Latin women almost always seems to have massive family support and American women at best would have their mothers helping them out. For all the talk about how great the USA is, I sure do not see it when it comes to happiness.

Young American women, even the hot ones, IMO really are living lives of quiet desperation.

I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I thought more Mexican worked, but too my amazement many will do anything not to work. Including joining SA, among many other things and many of those activities do not involve sex. They all tell me how stressed out they are, but when I compare their lives to American Chicks, in many ways they have it way better. Now they do not have all the material things that Americans have, but many take several vacation a year and live a decent life, with far less stress.

American women have it very tough now, a lot of this is from the feminist movement and trying to have everything equal. Now they have it and they are having to work their ass off, plus raise a family. So I also feel bad from them now, but this does not excuse their crazy ass behavior and unrealistic expectations.

I do not claim to say what girls have it better.

[Elvis 2008]

Because the only other possible excuse a woman could come up with for wanting to know about a man's money, is because she doesn't want men leaching off of her. If you are a gainfully employed woman or a woman who has sufficient assets to support your lifestyle without a man, there's not any other reason in the entire world why you would be concerned about how much money a guy has. Otherwise, they wouldn't be paying attention to beautiful muscular stud muffins who are penniless. The truth is their egos are just too bloated to acknowledge they are prostitutes hiding in disguise If we went back to the 18th century where women were not allowed to vote, and had very limited opportunities to work, I might not be making this argument. Barring that, I'm inclined to believe most women in the US are prostitutes, it's just that some are more selective than others, and less open about their sexuality. So in this instance, thumbs up to the conventional sex workers.

I cannot believe I am going to defend American women but about 90% of women have kids when they are 40. Many are swimming in student loan debt being fed the nonsense about the value of a college education even a nonSTEM one.

There was a video of a hottie on Twitter that was being shown of a woman who had a job and was spending 12 hours a day between work and commuting griping that she had time for nothing else, and she was one that actually had a job. Most reactions to her complaining was "Get over it" but mine was "Remember how oppressed you women claim to be in the 50's being house wives? Doesn't that sound good now?" Studies on happiness show women were happier than they are now. It is not just the colleges that have lied to women but those feminist virtues of having your own career do not sound all that great when you actually are stuck having to do the work.

If you are a woman making an average salary and have children, you are literally going to be saving nothing and probably going into more debt, and you better pray you do not have a special needs child with something like ADHD or autism.

Because the only women who pick up their dates without taking money into account are doing so based solely on the guys demeanor and or being tall, dark and handsome. Those aren't prostitutes, those are just women.

Unless they are in school or delusional, most women do not have the luxury of taking into account looks. If you want to be a stay at home mother, your husband better be making $200 k and that is less than 1% of all men 30 years of age. It goes up to 5% when you move up to age 45 so tall, dark, and handsome is not a luxury most women can afford.

When I was a kid, an 18 year old could get a job at the local factory and pay for his own house. His wife could stay at home. He could afford a new car every year and have steaks on the weekend. Those days are long gone.

This new dynamic plays right into the hands of us sugar daddies. What else are you going to do if you are a woman looking to make a few grand a month? This is why sugaring exploded particularly after the 2009 Great Recession.

I asked one of my SB if she was ashamed of having a sugar daddy. She told me she was not ashamed. In fact, she said most of her friends were envious she had a sugar daddy and they did not.

But I get where you are coming from and thinking about what is "just women". There seems to be no spotlight being shined on the troubles the average American woman is having.

One reason I so preferred the Mexican and Colombian women in comparison to the American ones was the lack of desperation for money. There was always talk of money before sex with American women but not always with the Latinas. The Latin women almost always seems to have massive family support and American women at best would have their mothers helping them out. For all the talk about how great the USA is, I sure do not see it when it comes to happiness.

Young American women, even the hot ones, IMO really are living lives of quiet desperation.

[VulcanSx]

Long time reader. Used seeking in 10+ countries. My type is model material Caucasian women.

Currently with a 10/10 in Serbia for 350 euro per meet (think Margot Robbie with bigger boobs) she mentioned some guys pay her 1000+ per day for travel.

Other cities that I've had success:

Warsaw.

Bucharest.

Moscow.

Riga.

Vienna.

Pondering where to lounge long term, would prefer some place warm all year.

[Gfefan]

Same here. Paranoid initially but grew over it.

One public pic that shows my back / silhouette. Can't say it's me.

Private pic shows face and body. This is also the same pic if someone image searched will be found on a public community page.

If caught, my reasoning. Someone picked my pic from that site.

If SB does the same. She will know my real name, what I do etc. Either no SB has done it so far or they are smart to not tell me they know who I am.

For me, the benefit of denial far outweighs the cost of SB knowing who I am.

I mitigate by not sharing my private pic with all girls I chat with.

I also date SBs outside my race. Perhaps, not always 8/9 but never my own race. It's boring.

I was paranoid originally but two things happened.

1) I've considered plausible deniability. Excuse that someone is boosting my pic from somewhere. I put one public pic wearing sunglasses and everything else remains private.

2) the scientist in me did some experimenting and I definitely got more responses to my approaches than by not by making one or more pics public.

I am not an Adonis by any stretch of the imagination but someone needs to "go first" and it's a disarming tool. Women aren't as hung up on looks as we are, I think that's a cold hard fact. Knowing I'm not a fat slob, have two heads, or are 100 yrs old is really all they're looking for. I regularly "date" outside of my race, in fact I only date outside my race, and I'm not being humble when I say I'm dating up. I only see 8/9-10's.

What I'd do is do what makes you comfortable at first. If you don't like the results, show a pic and see what happens.