Seeking Arrangements

[Cuba Tourist]

Is there a way to manipulate a photo so it still looks more or less like you but not exactly so if a friend sees it, there is plausible deniability?

[Butch145]

I put a pic with a hat and dark glasses so that way its hard to ID me and its close up. That way no one really can tell who it is. Never asked a question and works everytime.

[Bdb013]

I don't have photos. It has not been an issue for me but I don't know if it will be better with photos. I do send photo via chat apps early on in the chat apps.

I only have private photos, never post a public photo.

[Bdb013]

I have been planning an upcoming trip to Puebla Mexico for next week. I have used SA exclusively. I have contacts for myself and 2 other buddies that we will never be able to see all of them. Each one is lovely, between the ages of 19 and 26. All will do anything we want at our hotel. I have singles set up and a couple of 3 sums set up.

I use SA here at home and abroad. Its a little expensive and requires a little work but the results are amazing.

[NapataJohn]

I tell them I will do Meet and Greet in daylight as Starbucks and if she likes me we proceed else I pay her Uber and drinks and bid Bye to her. Not sending any pics at all, either by chat or phone. About 3 out of 10 girls say they have to have a pic to meet me and I go on to the next girl.

[Steve 9696]

For those who have been successful and happy with SA, do you put your real photo on your profile? How do you guard against people who know you seeing you?

Same as Nounce. No photo and never a problem. I mention in my profile that I will send by text or email. Seriously only ever had one or two girls out of thousands mention it. Guess it's pretty common w daddies.

P.S. Tip. If you do send a photo and are paranoid make sure it can't be reverse searched. One way to do this is take a pic of your photo on the computer screen. The pixels will be all different.

[Nounce]

For those who have been successful and happy with SA, do you put your real photo on your profile? How do you guard against people who know you seeing you?

I don't have photos. It has not been an issue for me but I don't know if it will be better with photos. I do send photo via chat apps early on in the chat apps.

[AmericanPi]

For those who have been successful and happy with SA, do you put your real photo on your profile? How do you guard against people who know you seeing you?

[NeilGeorge]

Hun and Love. I've noticed a few girls I am in contact with calling me hun or hunny or love. In the past I've associated those terms with hookers. Just based on prior experience. And maybe it doesn't even matter. But what's your experience there. Are these code words for I am a pro? Or am I reading too much into it.

Usually the waitresses at the BBQ places call me Sweetheart, Hun or Love because they are trying to get more tip money out of me. I tell them, in the South we call strangers "Sir or Madam. " Sometimes I ask them if they know my name, if they are calling me their "Hun. " They usually say they call everyone that name.

[CarloRogue]

Mongers,

I have never used SA but would like to give it a chance, however I see a problem. I do not want to put my real name into this site to get premium and they only take CC it seems. Any suggestions?

AshleyMadison and other sites have been hacked and your information can be leaked. Yea I am the nervous type. Thanks.

One Vanilla pre-paid VISA debit card (non-reloadable). Whatever address you use on the payment form, remember and reuse it for whenever you renew.

[LivingFossil]

Mongers,

I have never used SA but would like to give it a chance, however I see a problem. I do not want to put my real name into this site to get premium and they only take CC it seems. Any suggestions?

AshleyMadison and other sites have been hacked and your information can be leaked. Yea I am the nervous type. Thanks.

[AddisDude]

Seeking Arrangements advertising is false. Seeking Arrangements claim a ratio of 5 to 1 in favor of sugar daddies. A female college of mine researched this and found that in fact men's profiles on Seeking Arrangements actually outnumbered women by about 1.5 to 2.5 times depending on which country she looked at. These businesses work by advertising a few success stories while the majority of people who join waste their time and money.

They are running a scam.

[Elvis 2008]

Elvis I hope your trip goes well.

Thanks, brother. If it works out, I will have to do it one more time.

[Steve 9696]

Lots of good observations in the last few threads, which I'll confirm from my experience. Of course, stereotypes are only held by bigots, monsters, and misanthropes in general, blah blah blah. But patterns exist nonetheless.

"Luv", "Hon": it's been observed many times that these terms are not typically used by your girl next door on the first message with a stranger.

Regular and / or advanced payments: yep, just don't do it, unless you like being taken for granted.

Bartenders: they're fun, they're social, everybody loves them, their cell phone is blowing up all day / all night. It's hard for them to keep up with all the attention, so don't take it personally when they don't get back to you right away. Or ever again.

Now of course, YMMV. But it probably won't.

MMIV — My Mileage is Varying!

We are chatting nightly and she is plenty fiirty and open. She is clearly a bar tender at where she says she is because she knows things about that you wouldn't normally know. She's not a catfish for sure. Really open with dropping a current no makeup selfie if it's relevant to the chat. And fuck she looks great even no makeup.

She seems a bit too good to be true so keeping eyes and options open. But so far just a bundle of fun (very quick witted) and very optimistic. I've found some real gems so hoping she is one.

[DramaFree11]

Steve,

That breaks my heart. You have to come meet me and Dramafree in Monterrey and I will introduce you to women who will blow your socks off for 20% of that amount. I have two very nice women I can hand off to you, and Steve, they are beautiful and they are not your typical American screwups. Monterrey is an hour and a half flight from Dallas or Houston, so I think you can hit it in almost four hours from anywhere in the USA.

I have guys I am going to meet going to Colombia in a few weeks and others wanting to go to Brazil in the summer. I hope you consider saving up and going with us.

I have a trip planned with Flo and Nancy for four days, and it is going to cost a little above that $700 to $1000 mark, and it is with two women for four days. $1000 for a meet? Fuck that place, dude.

Yep, it would be a great time, Steve. MTY is so much fun and there are some extremely hot girls there. I am banging way better girls then I was meeting in Kiev and Colombia, not even close, but I am close to MTY and I am focusing all my resources there. The plan and the hard work is definitely working.

Elvis I hope your trip goes well.