Seeking Arrangements

[Midwestern]

I thought I was a pro at this but the latest girl I am pursuing has me puzzled. I am having a helluva time finding someone to my liking in a rather small US city. Found a girl who is very pretty (body don't know) like model level face. I don't think a pro would work this city. And in fact P411 offers only three pros and all are past their prime. So unlikely a pro by that measure.

But we went straight to text at her request. And she has a business WhatsApp. Said she is looking for long term fun with intimacy. And it's rare for a girl to make a first mention of sex like that. (But equally rare for a pro to mention long term. Her bio is very chaste like she is looking for a long term boyfriend) She's quite short in her responses also. But she sent another pic which looks legit.

I guess I can go for a meetup and see, but any other advice from others on figuring out if she is real or something is up?

Here are three possibilities:

(1) She is super desperate for money, and given that you guys are in a small city with limited opportunities, she grabs any opportunity that presents itself.

(2) IF she was willing to meet right away, without even vetting you that much, then it's a trap of some kind, such as LE or her friends will beat you up and rob you.

(3) This is just her MO.

I might guess it's (1), but be safe in case it's (2).

[LshRoomer]

Looking at it again it was only about 150 favorites in the first 2 days but now its over 250. And no I don't contact them unless they are HOT and live relatively close. Got a lunch date set up for Wed with a cute 23 year old. I guess it doesn't hurt to be handsome even if you are old.

When I'm on SA, I receive the crazy out of country favs, and the response favorites. The only favorites that I pay attention to is if the girl has viewed my profile, is in my country (I change my country to the place I'm going. It's helps with not getting branded as a tourist) or is favoriting me after I viewed hers and favorited her. I've found that usually when she replies with a favorite, she actually has read my profile. I say very specific things in my profile concerning expectations, etc. The girls that view and favorite me tend to already be self-vetted and at that point, it's just moving over to whatsapp and continue on if she's not weird.

Frequency. It's interesting to hear that some of you guys are on for months at a time. I have never used it like that. Whenever I travel (about 2 times a quarter pre-covid) I just grab a 30 day membership about 2 weeks before I land, get a few local girls (I'm 90% in europe) and then end the membership (within the 30 days) until I need it again, usually a few months later. For me, it's strictly based on need. I disable my account when I'm not traveling, and renew about 3-4 times a year. I made the mistake of talking to new girls after my travel was over because my membership was still active. We would chat, like each other, move over to whatsapp, then I seem like a time wasting asshole because I'm not going to be back in her country for another 6 -8 weeks. LOL. I had to learn the hard way to avoid the temptation of chatting when you can't physically meet. All that being said, I would probably change my tune if I used SA locally, as I would constantly be dipping my foot in the pool.

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[Steve 9696]

I thought I was a pro at this but the latest girl I am pursuing has me puzzled. I am having a helluva time finding someone to my liking in a rather small US city. Found a girl who is very pretty (body don't know) like model level face. I don't think a pro would work this city. And in fact P411 offers only three pros and all are past their prime. So unlikely a pro by that measure.

But we went straight to text at her request. And she has a business WhatsApp. Said she is looking for long term fun with intimacy. And it's rare for a girl to make a first mention of sex like that. (But equally rare for a pro to mention long term. Her bio is very chaste like she is looking for a long term boyfriend) She's quite short in her responses also. But she sent another pic which looks legit.

I guess I can go for a meetup and see, but any other advice from others on figuring out if she is real or something is up?

[AmorPorFavor]

Looking at it again it was only about 150 favorites in the first 2 days but now its over 250. And no I don't contact them unless they are HOT and live relatively close. Got a lunch date set up for Wed with a cute 23 year old. I guess it doesn't hurt to be handsome even if you are old.

[Midwestern]

Perhaps I inadvertently clicked on something in my profile settings that is preventing girls from favoriting me.

Wow, 200 favorites in 2 days.

From what I recall, when you go to the SA website, you will see featured profiles. Who gets featured changes up. Sometimes, premium members are featured. Sometimes nearby members are featured. Sometimes *new* members are featured. Etc. Perhaps when this guy joined for the first time, his profile got featured, and then many SBs just favorited him. It looks like almost everyone is playing the numbers game now.

But as it has been said already, I don't pay any attention to whether or not I get favorited. I did think it meant something at one point, but when I contacted them, it was just a waste of time. Ironically, if I were to get favorited now, I would use it as a signal to simply avoid those gals.

[AmorPorFavor]

Personally I rarely engage with someone that favorites me. These are obviously pros at work. And why bother with someone out of the country? All they can offer is photos for cash. Blech! I just ignore all the Russians Veni and Filipinas who favorite me everyday.

Most definitely. I am not contacting them. I have my search zone set at 10 miles. I just find some of their pages entertaining. Had one Brazilian who lives locally that I messaged ask for my phone number. After a couple of small talk texts she lays it all out. Says she lost a SD 2 months ago and wants $800 ppm "sex only with protection" and a $3,000 month allowance. She's hot and all but just a 9/10. I didn't reply and I'm not going to. Not looking for a pro, just a semi-pro.

[Pessimist]

OK boys I got the new exclusive email, the unlimited Hushed app (only $5/ month for in the US) and a 3 month membership to SA. Been on for 2 days now. I threw out about 20 messages and got 2 replies so far. One I think was a scammer just after my phone number. The other one texted me a pick and she didn't look nearly as good as her one pic on SA so she's out. I've been favorited by like 200 girls from all over the world. I'm getting my $2 day worth just from checking out all these crazy bitches. Don't worry I won't be sending any money out electronically. I got enough headaches with that from my chicas in Cuba and Columbia. I'm wondering if I should send a message or just ask for their private pics first? Thanks for all the helpful tips.

I rarely get favorited, if ever. And hardly any girl ever favorited me before I did to her. I wonder what it is that you do differently than I do. You say you are on SA for just a couple of days and have been favorited by 200 girls! That is amazing to me, because I have been on it for 4+ years and have had several dozens of real arrangements that included sex, and yet the total number of girls that favorited me in 4 years+ might not exceed 200.

Perhaps I inadvertently clicked on something in my profile settings that is preventing girls from favoriting me. A few weeks ago, when there was a discussion about whether girls who favorite you are automatically scammers, I was dismissive of that view point. But now I realize after reading your post that it can be a real problem if you receive so many favorite tags from so many girls. I just did not experience it and hence I did not imagine it could be a problem.

Wow, 200 favorites in 2 days. I wonder how it looks from a girl's pov. If she is reasonably attractive, she must be receiving 200 favorite tags in 2 hours, based on what you said. No wonder some of them take so much time to get back to you.

[Steve 9696]

OK boys I got the new exclusive email, the unlimited Hushed app (only $5/ month for in the US) and a 3 month membership to SA. Been on for 2 days now. I threw out about 20 messages and got 2 replies so far. One I think was a scammer just after my phone number. The other one texted me a pick and she didn't look nearly as good as her one pic on SA so she's out. I've been favorited by like 200 girls from all over the world. I'm getting my $2 day worth just from checking out all these crazy bitches. Don't worry I won't be sending any money out electronically. I got enough headaches with that from my chicas in Cuba and Columbia. I'm wondering if I should send a message or just ask for their private pics first? Thanks for all the helpful tips.

Personally I rarely engage with someone that favorites me. These are obviously pros at work. And why bother with someone out of the country? All they can offer is photos for cash. Blech! I just ignore all the Russians Veni and Filipinas who favorite me everyday.

[Steve 9696]

I use Whatsapp for Business. This allows me to have my normal life Whatsapp on my phone plus WA for Business with my burner number.

Aha. That explains why some girls whatsapp says "business acct" which I always found confusing. I am going to guess the more pro girls do this double phone thing. I am going to check and see if I see a correlation.

[PilotPaul]

What's the best burner app for fake#, with texting, and video calling?

The one I'm using doesn't support video calling, which has caused some issues.

I use Whatsapp for Business. This allows me to have my normal life Whatsapp on my phone plus WA for Business with my burner number.

[AmorPorFavor]

OK boys I got the new exclusive email, the unlimited Hushed app (only $5/ month for in the US) and a 3 month membership to SA. Been on for 2 days now. I threw out about 20 messages and got 2 replies so far. One I think was a scammer just after my phone number. The other one texted me a pick and she didn't look nearly as good as her one pic on SA so she's out. I've been favorited by like 200 girls from all over the world. I'm getting my $2 day worth just from checking out all these crazy bitches. Don't worry I won't be sending any money out electronically. I got enough headaches with that from my chicas in Cuba and Columbia. I'm wondering if I should send a message or just ask for their private pics first? Thanks for all the helpful tips.

[Intl Playboy]

What's the best burner app for fake#, with texting, and video calling?

The one I'm using doesn't support video calling, which has caused some issues.

[Midwestern]

What is the benefit of having an ongoing subscription to SA?

My purpose on SA is usually for a specific event or travel requirement. For me, I find that when I start a new subscription most of the talent will become obvious within a week or at most two weeks. Those leads give me enough to work through for the next few months. My last subscription I gifted the remaining subscription login to another ISG member. The SBs that meet my qualifications will stay engaged with me for a year or so.

Each time I have a requirement I start a new profile.

I'm willing to learn the benefits of having a longer profile and subscription.

PP.

When I was active on SA, I had an ongoing subscription because I was using it to find local action. I was on it continuously for about 20 months. Most of my SB relationships didn't last for very long, so I had to maintain an ongoing subscription to make sure that I always had a decent size stable. I usually liked having about 3 active relationships at time, while also trying to maintain a deep bench.

[PilotPaul]

Typically I went to these other sites when there was a hiatus on SA renewal. Normally, I renew as soon as my subscription expires but occasionally I have waited for a week or two, and a few times waited even a month. It was during such times I tried out the other sites.

What is the benefit of having an ongoing subscription to SA?

My purpose on SA is usually for a specific event or travel requirement. For me, I find that when I start a new subscription most of the talent will become obvious within a week or at most two weeks. Those leads give me enough to work through for the next few months. My last subscription I gifted the remaining subscription login to another ISG member. The SBs that meet my qualifications will stay engaged with me for a year or so.

Each time I have a requirement I start a new profile.

I'm willing to learn the benefits of having a longer profile and subscription.

PP.

[Pessimist]

Mongers,

I know this thread is based on Seeking, but are there any other SB sites out there that you guys have had success with?

I've seen Seeking is usually at the top, but I'm curious if there are other sites out there that one should consider.

I tried Secret Benefits and Sugardadymeet. Stayed for short periods and drifted away. I went back to secretbenefits a couple of times but never stayed for too long. I like the monthly pricing of SA and unlimited messaging. I also think SA has the largest selection of girls, at least in my area and it is known to be the site w / most subscribers globally. I found majority of girls on the other sites were ones I had seen on SA.

Typically I went to these other sites when there was a hiatus on SA renewal. Normally, I renew as soon as my subscription expires but occasionally I have waited for a week or two, and a few times waited even a month. It was during such times I tried out the other sites.

Try Tinder as well. I had some success on the site, some semi professionals.