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03-16-24 17:20 #5582
Posts: 2777Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
MTY is all about the long game and multiple trips, but it is just not that great anymore, hot new girls are hard to come by now. As Elvis said there is a lot of big local money in MTY now. Also, many girls parents are super strict and controlling, so many can only meet during the days and early evening, sounds crazy, but many families in MTY are old school Catholics. Both cities are very safe for foreigners.
There are some super hot girls in San Pedro, but many of those girls are not available to foreigners, for a variety of reasons. Also, lodging is up 40-60 percent now, so if you are careful in CDMX and do not blow a bunch or money at the restaurant / bars CDMX is cheaper. CDMX has so many opportunities for hot chicks, plus the city is great for walking, and food is way better in CDMX.
For me long term stick with CDMX, for a short trip go to Tijuana. Tijuana is so much for a weekend, they also have great food.
If you have a lot of free time, I think Cancun might be great for SA, as long as your apartment that allows visitors. There are a lot of Mexican girls that travel to Cancun with just a few bucks, so they have to make money some how.
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03-16-24 17:07 #5581
Posts: 6400Incorrect
Originally Posted by NoBuglyFitches [View Original Post]
Now, even if a guy can go on date after date after date and manage to not spend any cash whatsoever (very unlikely), he still spent money (inextricably bound to time) on things like paying for the transportation to get to those dates (gas, Uber, subway, etc.). Plus on other things too. Maybe he bought a new shirt or some good smelling cologne. Whatever it was. On the transportation tip let's say he finds a way to walk to every single date and still spends no cash (again unlikely) and repeatedly walks away with a boner but no pussy. That would be all that time spent (add it up) with no payoff in the form of either some valuable goods in exchange (a pretty girl's puss and ass) or some cash earned (money). It's easy to see how going on continual dates that end like that yields realized losses (not to mention opportunity cost losses) in the form of a huge waste of time and money (each being "married" to the other with no possibility of divorce). Rather than do that, I'd rather ante up for panty down! LMAO LOLOLOL! Besides, I'm an impatient man. When I want something, I want it now! No time for wading around in knee-deep bullshit!
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03-16-24 16:38 #5580
Posts: 567Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
For example Cdmx has so much to offer. Shopping in Polanco, great restaurants everywhere, amazing bars, so many museums. You could spend a lot of time doing great tourist stuff.
Is Monterrey a good city to visit if you wanted to do more than bang girls?
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03-16-24 14:45 #5579
Posts: 59Originally Posted by Kazeu [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Kazeu [View Original Post]
Implying that 99% of men pay for sex (and hence 99% of women get paid for sex) would be at odds with how most people see it outside p4 p world.
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03-16-24 14:15 #5578
Posts: 504Maybe there are some people who do not pay, the 1 percent of men who get all the female attention on the dating apps. Kudos to you if you are one of them. But for the majority of men. They pay in some form. Some say that the freebies are in fact the most expensive girls. Rather than something transactional where everything is agreed on, sex for money. You end up spending many many hours on dates, and hundreds if not thousands of dollars on dates and gifts just for a chance at sex.
Yes, I agree with you that if you want a relationship that may lead to marriage, family kids, paying for sex is not the way to do it. But very few people here on this board want that or rather they don't have that in mind when coming to this board. They just want sex.
Originally Posted by NoBuglyFitches [View Original Post]
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03-16-24 14:01 #5577
Posts: 318Ok I get it
But I doubt this thread has many people expecting on getting it for free. The SB / SD dynamic involves a much older guy giving something tangible to a much younger woman. Sure there are girls with daddy issues and outliers any time your talking about any subject but they are not "normal".
I think the OP was talking about how to pick up non-pros without using seeking, not necessarily getting it for free. IMO you'd have to be mad to walk into a bar and start chatting up a girl 20-30 yrs younger than you with the intention of eventually having sex without knowing she's at least open to the idea. In which case you're out your precious time, probably a drink, and some food. Trivial expenses for sure but not free.
Originally Posted by NoBuglyFitches [View Original Post]
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03-16-24 13:42 #5576
Posts: 59Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
The OP was asking about picking up regular girls, implying that no money payment would be involved. I shared my limited experience on how that worked. I believe it's the way to go if you are looking for a real relationship possibly leading to a family. It's also the way to go if you love the pickup "game. " If you simply like sex, this is not worth it.
Perhaps some guys never had the experience of a horny girl they've never met grabbing them out of the party just to fuck or hooking up from Tinder, so they go around believing that "everybody pays. ".
Many people do not pay for sex. Casual hookups and "vanilla" relationships do not involve money. Guys do get laid off of looks / attractiveness, big dicks, and charisma / game -- this is personal experience not denial.
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03-16-24 13:41 #5575
Posts: 318Does that actually work?
I've never been to Barnes and Noble, met someone I wanted to fuck (let alone her wanting to fuck me), dropped everything and went to my place, her place or a hotel, done the deed and said goodbye with no strings attached. Money is coming out of my pocket somewhere between a and be even if it's a mocha from Starbucks.
I'm with DF on this one. But I'm not with him on the "some luck" comment it takes a lot of fuckin luck. The chances of a really desirable girl (in my eyes) replying, let alone meeting me without expecting some amount of compensation because "her time is valuable," which always makes me lmfao.
Originally Posted by NoBuglyFitches [View Original Post]
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03-16-24 03:25 #5574
Posts: 2777Originally Posted by NoBuglyFitches [View Original Post]
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03-16-24 02:35 #5573
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
But Monterrey is way more modern with younger people, and it is surrounded by green mountains which allows for some great hikes. So there is a natural beauty that KC does not have. It also does not have the cold KC does but it can easily get into the 30's in the winter and 100's in the summer.
CDMX has a better climate but unlike CDMX, you do not have to deal with the pollution and altitude issues. I have a helluva time sleeping in CDMX because of the altitude. From a monger POV, Monterrey has a much bigger strip club, casa, and escort agency scene than CDMX does.
I don't know why it is not being more reported but companies are moving away from China as an industrial base and moving it to the Southern USA and Northern Mexico in droves. This is such a huge ordeal that the only city I can compare Monterrey growth wise to is Austin, and that has caused rents to swell. When I looked at apartment prices three years ago, an apartment in Monterrey was double the price of similar ones in CDMX.
The Cancun region is like Mexico's Orlando. That is where you can spend a month and not do all the touristy things. The women in that area are at USA prices and given how many women from CDMX and Monterrey are willing to go, I think it is best to import them there. The big news there is Tulum has opened its own airport and there is now a train connecting all of the Yucutan peninsula.
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03-16-24 02:05 #5572
Posts: 59Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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03-16-24 01:57 #5571
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
If I am paying a woman, and guys who think they are getting it for free do not get this, that is an insult to the woman. I am telling the woman that I am ONLY interested in them for sex and fun. You can debate the amount but I am telling them I am not interested in them. I am paying them for sex, decent companionship, and to leave right? The reason I am with women is that they make me feel good, and if I feel like you are only going to do that with a leash of money attached to you, it means I do not trust you.
Rarely, I met a woman where I felt comfortable not paying them. IOW, I think you can make me feel good without a money leash attached. I am actually giving a woman a chance to earn my monogamy. Are you going to keep putting out? Are you going to burden me with all your problems of you, your friends, and family? Are you going to be depressed all the time or be upbeat when we are together? Are you going to be perpetually offended? What I am saying when I am here is I am willing to explore a relationship with you but not commit to just you.
The one thing I think that needs to be absolutely clear to women is that they have to EARN a guy's monogamy. Just because she fucked me does not mean I am just with her. Women expect this to be like a default position when they know it goes against man's very nature. IMO giving a woman your monogamy is the most precious gift you can give a woman. And you are giving that away just for bareback sex? While she is on seeking looking for other men? Why? This is where you have painted yourself in the corner. You want bareback sex but really are with a woman you do not want to be monogamous with. You need to wrap it up or accept the risks of going bare and continue to look for other women. That is what you really want.
As far as a "regular woman" goes, there were 10,000+ women within 5 miles of my house that were on seeking, so I don't buy that seeking women are all hookers. I have heard too many "regular women" talk openly about having a SD.
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03-15-24 23:29 #5570
Posts: 567Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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03-15-24 19:29 #5569
Posts: 318That entire story made no sense to me
Not that I don't believe you but ask yourself; why would someone I've ever met ask me to take them shopping the first time we meet? The answer is because she thinks she can get more from you than if she just gave you a price. She's betting on the fact that when she bats her eyes and flips her hair you won't say no to some overpriced crap so what should have been a $500 arrangement (or whatever the price is) would turn into a $2-3 k price is right episode.
The fact that she tried to guilt you into think you insulted her because you didn't trust her tells you everything you need to know about her. Move on and be glad you got the experience.
Originally Posted by BallsDeep1980 [View Original Post]
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03-15-24 18:56 #5568
Posts: 2672Drama Free is the Man
Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]