Seeking Arrangements

[GoingDumb]

I went out with a girl last weekend for the first time. Things went well, ended up at my place but didn't have sex because she was waiting for a hsv 2 lab result and wanted to be safe. She didn't go into details and I was glad she told me. We got along well so I saw her again this weekend. I didn't want to bring up the lab over text but when it came up we were already making out. She hadn't gotten the result yet but felt better and left it up to me. I may have made a big mistake and went for it using a rubber. Sex was great, she stayed over but my issue is I made plans with a different girl this week who I've seen before. Should I be safe and cancel? Or meet her for dinner and let her know I want to wait a little?

[Gfefan]

Super helpful. Thanks.

Tall, fit Caucasian is my "go-to". I am over 6 ft myself.

BBFS, CIP. Are bonus. Pin put on Berlin.

So I hope this helps some of you guys.

On my way back to NYC now.

Had 3 full days and nights in Berlin.

Met and slept with 4. All were great company, uninhibited sex (BBFS, CIM, cip etc).

Age range 25-33.

Looks 8-9.

English spoken.

Intelligent, funny, presentable, and genuine.

My location: Ritz Carlton center of Berlin.

I had double the number lined up to meet in case of flakes etc. 3 out of the 4 made reservations at great places, none of them were crazy expensive all cheaper than NYC / Paris or major cities.

All of them paid for the Ubers / taxis etc as we moved to bars after lunch / dinner etc.

No donation was negotiated or requested. I slipped 300 euro in the last woman's purse before I left in the morning, as we ended up going back to her apartment vs my hotel as it was closer to final bar of the evening. She probably hasn't seen noticed it yet.

Common theme from all of them as I mentioned before, dating pool is terrible. Dates with the men who live in Germany are not the best, cheap, expect the woman to pay for half etc.

It seems common good manners and old school gentleman etiquette go a long way here. So if your game is on and you're a match for their style it's an incredible option.

Also, all 4 went pse bbbjs, deep ball sucking, deep throat, choking and rimming which I was shocked about with no request by me. They also commented about having shaved balls which they loved.

None were on BC, and were more than willing to take ndp.

One thing to note, I like tall, fit / thin Caucasian women, I don't mind tattoos, as I have some, but not interested in women who have tatted necks / faces / chests etc.

I'm only 5'10" and all of them were between 5'7"- 5'9" and taller than me in heels. I always tell them to show up in heels. In my profile I state if you cant walk in heels or use chopsticks correctly don't respond, LOL.

Hope this helps some of your planning.

[FastMdSter]

So I hope this helps some of you guys.

On my way back to NYC now.

Had 3 full days and nights in Berlin.

Met and slept with 4. All were great company, uninhibited sex (BBFS, CIM, cip etc).

Age range 25-33.

Looks 8-9.

English spoken.

Intelligent, funny, presentable, and genuine.

My location: Ritz Carlton center of Berlin.

I had double the number lined up to meet in case of flakes etc. 3 out of the 4 made reservations at great places, none of them were crazy expensive all cheaper than NYC / Paris or major cities.

All of them paid for the Ubers / taxis etc as we moved to bars after lunch / dinner etc.

No donation was negotiated or requested. I slipped 300 euro in the last woman's purse before I left in the morning, as we ended up going back to her apartment vs my hotel as it was closer to final bar of the evening. She probably hasn't seen noticed it yet.

Common theme from all of them as I mentioned before, dating pool is terrible. Dates with the men who live in Germany are not the best, cheap, expect the woman to pay for half etc.

It seems common good manners and old school gentleman etiquette go a long way here. So if your game is on and you're a match for their style it's an incredible option.

Also, all 4 went pse bbbjs, deep ball sucking, deep throat, choking and rimming which I was shocked about with no request by me. They also commented about having shaved balls which they loved.

None were on BC, and were more than willing to take ndp.

One thing to note, I like tall, fit / thin Caucasian women, I don't mind tattoos, as I have some, but not interested in women who have tatted necks / faces / chests etc.

I'm only 5'10" and all of them were between 5'7"- 5'9" and taller than me in heels. I always tell them to show up in heels. In my profile I state if you can’t walk in heels or use chopsticks correctly don't respond, LOL.

Hope this helps some of your planning.

[FastMdSter]

Just checked SA. Berlin optics seem to be good.

Thanks for bringing it up. Somehow Berlin never popped up for me as a choice. Been confined to NRW within Germany given FKK serve as backups there. Or I went to Spain.

Will add Berlin to wishlist.

BTW, what filters do you use for search criteria?

I basically use the same search criteria for all my hunts on SA and sort from there.

18-33 because they all tend to subtract at least 2 years from their actual age.

All the slim body types.

Pictures.

I leave ethnicities open because most pick mixed anyway.

Photos of course.

FYI, any of them who say Latina / columbia / Brazil are mostly pros from my chats that I had so crossed off list first.

If you want to just empty your nuts Frankfurt is great because of the Fkks but SA is good there also.

Berlin is pretty easy and cheap (or free, but of course the dinners and drinks).

Canada has always been my fish in the barrel but this is so easy here.

Women are better looking though in Montreal / Vancouver imo.

[Gfefan]

Just checked SA. Berlin optics seem to be good.

Thanks for bringing it up. Somehow Berlin never popped up for me as a choice. Been confined to NRW within Germany given FKK serve as backups there. Or I went to Spain.

Will add Berlin to wishlist.

BTW, what filters do you use for search criteria?

For those of you that find yourself in Europe a lot like myself Berlin is very active and turning out to be incredible.

I have more than I can handle. Just had the second woman of the night.

It seems they are all saying the same things, dating pool is atrocious here for them.

Age range 23-35. Started the process 3.

Days ago due to busy schedule. Arrived this morning. Staying downtown at the ritz Carlton easy to navigate.

The two I met were career woman. First was a marketing director for a major pharma company 30 yo solid 8. 5/9, incredibly intelligent and charming and great in bed. No donation. Meeting her again Thursday and she put the restaurant reservation on her credit card and she will be out 180 euro if I don't show up. Which I found amazing she would do that.

Second was a PR director for a well know fashion company. Was originally supposed to meet her this Friday, but she kept texting during my dinner. When I finished with the first one around 10:00 pm l told her let's meet for a drink. She showed up to the hotel bar 20 mins late. We hit it off immediately. She asked to kiss me at the bar. I knew she was finished at that point. Did the deed every way I wanted and her sucking whatever cum I.

Had left after shooting her full of it.

Both BBFS. The European girls for me never even mention condoms.

She's still in the bed now, LOL.

I was worried because the pro seen here is really a disaster now and it used to be great.

Have more lined up tll I leave Saturday. Sunday is.

My bday, maybe I stay LOL.

If you find yourself in Berlin, definitely try SA.

[FastMdSter]

For those of you that find yourself in Europe a lot like myself Berlin is very active and turning out to be incredible.

I have more than I can handle. Just had the second woman of the night.

It seems they are all saying the same things, dating pool is atrocious here for them.

Age range 23-35. Started the process 3.

Days ago due to busy schedule. Arrived this morning. Staying downtown at the ritz Carlton easy to navigate.

The two I met were career woman. First was a marketing director for a major pharma company 30 yo solid 8. 5/9, incredibly intelligent and charming and great in bed. No donation. Meeting her again Thursday and she put the restaurant reservation on her credit card and she will be out 180 euro if I don't show up. Which I found amazing she would do that.

Second was a PR director for a well know fashion company. Was originally supposed to meet her this Friday, but she kept texting during my dinner. When I finished with the first one around 10:00 pm l told her let's meet for a drink. She showed up to the hotel bar 20 mins late. We hit it off immediately. She asked to kiss me at the bar. I knew she was finished at that point. Did the deed every way I wanted and her sucking whatever cum I.

Had left after shooting her full of it.

Both BBFS. The European girls for me never even mention condoms.

She's still in the bed now, LOL.

I was worried because the pro seen here is really a disaster now and it used to be great.

Have more lined up tll I leave Saturday. Sunday is.

My bday, maybe I stay LOL.

If you find yourself in Berlin, definitely try SA.

[AluHut]

Any suggestions for clubs in frankfurt?

Me and my girl would like to explore / expand our sexual boundaries.

Thanks.

Club Freud, Die Oase in Rodermark (not to be confused with FKK Oase). Grande Opera in Offenbach, but make sure to check their event schedule, not all events they have are swinger events. Also, register on JoyClub and check what events are where on a specific date.

[Steve 9696]

A great thing about SA is there can be more than sex. Like you can develop something pretty real even if u both know it's NSA. Like with Sarah my UK girl. Sex is solid now but not top ten. But damn I like this girl. She's smart and fun and loves to dance. I am totally looking forward to seeing her and spending time with her. That's the magic of SA you can def get a GF feeling (real affection not just GFE sex)and with a handful of girls all at once! Amazing!

P.S. IUD for Shayla is a no go. She does the Depo to suppress her period m, not for BC per se. And I can sympathize. She has like minimum 5 day periods and they are just awful with cramps and pain etc. Nobody wants a quarter of their life to totally suck. So I def get it. Unfortunately.

[Sloninger]

I've been always wondering, don't they smell their own odor? I have encountered fishy odor multiple times, and can't recall a girl racing to the shower to freshen up. They act like nothing happened, like there is no odor at all. Or playing dumb hoping I wouldn't notice?

Exactly!! How do these girls not do a smell check?

[GoingDumb]

Interesting post. I've only ever done BB once with a Seeking girl bc I'm a bit paranoid about STIs etc. Being honest, how many girls from Seeking have you done BB with and did you ever catch anything? I really love the BB experience bc cumming with a condom is becoming increasingly difficult, and I'd never do BB with an escort (not that they offer) but with the normal Seeking girls it's really tempting.

I've only done it once as well. A few other girls offered to let me go bb but I didn't trust them (met right away, other questionable factors) so I just wrapped it.

I had a new experience recently. Girl I saw stopped before clothes came off and said she might have gen herpes and was getting tested again. Said she was seeing a few other guys from sa but I didn't ask too many details. Ended up making out for awhile but nothing else. We didn't discuss ppm but ended up giving her about half of usual when I dropped her off. We had good chemistry but I feel like that should be a deal breaker right?

[DramaFree11]

I've been always wondering, don't they smell their own odor? I have encountered fishy odor multiple times, and can't recall a girl racing to the shower to freshen up. They act like nothing happened, like there is no odor at all. Or playing dumb hoping I wouldn't notice?

I also wonder same thing. They have to smell the odor.

[MiamiBoy1]

Met a sexy 23 year old Costa Rican on SA in Miami. In town on vacation. Great attitude great GFE but when I went to do the deed, she had a seriously unpleasant odor and and I noped out.

I have encountered this a handful of times in my mongering career and noting shuts me down faster.

I've been always wondering, don't they smell their own odor? I have encountered fishy odor multiple times, and can't recall a girl racing to the shower to freshen up. They act like nothing happened, like there is no odor at all. Or playing dumb hoping I wouldn't notice?

[Gfefan]

Thanks for the efforts, AmericanPi. Really appreciate it.

I should have been clearer. Any clubs. Swinger or other sexclubs. No FKK.

FKK. Been there by myself. I don't want to offend her right away by going to a Bordell although I want to do it in future.

I used to live in NRW region. So, very familiar with FKKs. In fact my "go-to" before I got hooked on SA by seniors here.

Let me make this straightforward for you. This could be a very long post but it's not necessary. You'll end up at the same destination.

Go to an FKK. Basically a sex club. You pay something like 60 or 70 to get in. There are maybe 100 girls walking around nude or semi nude at the best ones. You pay something like 75 to get with them. Food and non-alcoholic drinks are included in your entry price. As is a robe and slippers.

The two best ones are about 30 minutes outside of Frankfurt. One north of Frankfurt, and one south of Frankfurt. They are both excellent. You can debate them, but it's like a Coke and Pepsi. Oase and Sharks. Take your pick. Or just flip a coin.

One caveat: nothing will be like your first time. Take it all in. After that, it's still good, but nothing is like your first time.

[Sloninger]

Met a sexy 23 year old Costa Rican on SA in Miami. In town on vacation. Great attitude great GFE but when I went to do the deed, she had a seriously unpleasant odor and and I noped out.

I have encountered this a handful of times in my mongering career and noting shuts me down faster.

[Foolish]

Just a word of warning to all that Depoprovera - a good GF and wants to do her part but it feel's COMPLETELY different when I know it's one sided. It def could kill our relationship eventually as it's gotten rocky and this is def a contributing factor.

What about switching up to copper IUD or something similar (oops saw GFE talking about it below after posting)?