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10-05-23 06:01 #5079
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
But OTOH, I am saying try not to offer any money up front. To me, when the woman sees you without a price, it signifies she is interested in you and a long term relationship and is willing to give you a free sample to draw you in. Once a woman draws me in and I care about her, then I am going to want to financially take care of her. I also feel like I am helping and giving to someone who appreciates me versus some hooker who could care less about me and vice versa. And because I am giving money to someone I care about and feel good doing so, those women inevitably get more out of me than the cold hearted snake with a price.
One of the reasons I had sugar babies is that for some reason so many women think after three or so months that they do not have to put out. I saw this again and again so I kept sugar babies and if there was no sex, there was no $. It was not just no sex, but it was do I really want to be with someone if I have to ask for or demand sex from them? I thought and still think if a woman does not make having sex with her man a priority, then he is not a priority to her.
So the goal IMO is that she gives you sex because she cares about you, and you give her $ because you care about her.
One of the men's rights guys, Rich Cooper, researched the subject and said that desire from women in a marriage goes down much more quickly than with men. Once I heard that, I was like, "Fine, fuck it, I will just have sugar babies" and then I found a woman who likes sex as much if not more than I do. Life is so weird that way.
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10-05-23 02:29 #5078
Posts: 2709She's Existing SB
Originally Posted by JonnySutton [View Original Post]
Whereas I won't fly a girl I don't know I am pretty ballsy about flying girls I have only known a few hours. It backfired once but has generally been great. Here's what I recall. First number is how many HOURs we had known each other before I flew her someplace. These all were amazing.
Thifany 5 - Brazil to London (crazy!
Alexa 7 - La Vegas to Miami.
Mika 6- Philly to Dallas.
Sarah 32 - London to Mallorca.
Dayana 3 - Madrid to Athens.
I feel like once you vibe you vibe. So far so good, save one fail in 2019.
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10-05-23 02:05 #5077
Posts: 12Seniors need guidance
Since free members are only allowed 10 messages is it worth the time to message non premium members as they might not be able to reply to you. What is the best way rj go about this?
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10-04-23 19:41 #5076
Posts: 590Originally Posted by JonnySutton [View Original Post]
This idea that city girls are just innocent college students who need a helping hand is nonsense. Those are out there. I've met a few. But I'm also really good conversationalist. Interviewing is an important part of my job. I'm telling you from experience, by the time a girl gets to the point that she's accepting money for sex, it's far from the first risky. Thing she's done. If you want to have an internal chuckle, ask the girls politely how much experience they have on the site and marvel at how many of them will tell you you are the first or second one, or that apart from a long-term relationship that ended, you are the first. At this point I just ask because I want to confirm I will be lied to.
And it's fine. I lie too. To mask myself. Its all a fiction.
Anyways, you're playing with fire. Some diseases are forever. And they're out there in big numbers. And for obvious reasons, the proportion is much higher amongst this population. If they're bare backing with you, have a little bit of humility, and realize that you are not the first one to ask or receive. And if the kind of people who ask for that are by definition, engaging in risky behavior, and are more likely to have forever gifts to give.
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10-04-23 12:49 #5075
Posts: 24Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-04-23 12:45 #5074
Posts: 24Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]
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10-04-23 12:37 #5073
Posts: 24Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-03-23 23:07 #5072
Posts: 6420Attitude
Originally Posted by VoodooJones [View Original Post]
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10-03-23 04:20 #5071
Posts: 347Craziness of it all
As I've said before, I never agree to pay for a first meeting. I've also found that most of the girls who ask for such a thing don't last long. They either delete their profiles altogether or go inactive. The thought of paying a girl for her time is laughable, my time is far more valuable than hers and she has way more to lose than I do (a regular reliable SD). Frankly if they don't know that or can't figure it out, they are going to be way to dull to have anything other than a sexual relationship with and I want a little more than that. I'm not remotely misogynistic though this post may have come across that way.
The other type that amuses me is they ask "what are you offering?" Within the first few messages. I'm not offering shit until I know I stand to be in a room with you for more than 10 min. These are prostitutes that have convinced themselves they're not prostitutes. BTW I have no issue with them, used them plenty of times but that's not why I pay almost 300/ mo to meet these girls. My best relationships have all been ones where money was discussed after we decided we didn't weird each other out (in person).
Originally Posted by VoodooJones [View Original Post]
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10-02-23 18:34 #5070
Posts: 241Sweet
Sweet.
Yeah, most of them say "yes" when there is a chemistry going on and positioned appropriately. Saves money for us, gives experience to them, and a great company for each other both in and outside bedroom. Win-win all around.
(some of them will otherwise never get to see the places I took them to. Meaning not fancy places but out of beaten path places such as a hiking place in Switzerland.).
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-02-23 17:03 #5069
Posts: 107This one woman from Bogota mentioned in her profile that she doesn't go on dates for free. I assumed this was just her being coy meaning she doesn't have sex for free, but nope, when I messaged her, it was clear she wanted me to pay just to see her without any talk of going back to my apartment. I left her last message on unread. If she was being this ridiculous before we even met, I already knew it would be a bad experience where she's asking for an excessive amount. Besides, she doesn't speak English and my Spanish is lacking, so what the fuck would be the point? I have no problem conversing through translation apps, but I'm not paying for conversation.
Today as I was unsharing my private photos with the women I didn't go through with, I noticed she deleted that part from her profile. Guess she couldn't find an easy mark to pay for her the privilege of her shitty company.
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10-02-23 04:10 #5068
Posts: 696Been there, done that
I traveled to Budapest and Prague in 2019. Yes, I did bang one chick in Budapest during my stay there as I was there for an international conference. Her allowance was 200 Euro for a 4/5 hour meet. She was around 35. I liked her pic and started chatting with her around 2 weeks before my arrival. It was a very nice experience with her and we were in touch before she got married and shifted to another European country. I also met a chick in Starbucks over a coffee date early morning before she went for college. She was a student from Georgia doing masters in Budapest University. Slim, trim, beautiful and good knowledge of English but couldn't get her laid as our schedules didn't align.
The SA scene is very much active and vibrant in Budapest. I had plans to go again before this pandemic screwed all plans.
Regards.
Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
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09-30-23 18:28 #5067
Posts: 2709Timely Discussion
Originally Posted by FilthyBeaver [View Original Post]
I know she adores me so I took a page out of GFEfans (and Elvis) playbook and went for the no pay play. I told her tickets are expensive so I couldn't give you allowance and she said no problem. She's fine just being my GF. Sweet. I will prob give her 100-200/ day to cover food and transport since I'm going to be busy. But super nice to know she will see me for free. BB no less.
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09-30-23 05:48 #5066
Posts: 347No poke
Yes, expensive US coastal city. She didn't need a visa but the second part of your question is easy. They cut a lot of slack to Schengen countries, especially a rich one like Germany. She can tell them she's coming to see her boyfriend that she met in FRA.
I think you're being paranoid, if they are from a developed / wealthy country with a high standard of living they won't have problems. If you educate yourself on the laws which are all on the dhs website they even tell you want strategies will work within the confines of existing law. E. g. Did you know that if you don't want to wait for a fiance to bring a girl here she can come in as a tourist (with some hopes to jump through. You go to the courthouse, get married and immediately change her status from tourist to permanent resident and it is 100% legal. If you just want to bang a hot 20 yr old with no assets or job and in a less developed country you'll have problems but insurmountable.
Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]
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09-30-23 05:38 #5065
Posts: 347Yes
But I'll also add then when we were together it was always fireworks, beautiful girl, never ran out if stuff to talk about (both of us) and we'd blab for hours. I ended up chasing her away and I was overcome with emotion and heartbroken for several months. Cost me a very expensive car, almost my life, and a bottle of Glenfidich Gran Cru. Not the proudest moment in my like but it was as real as it gets with someone and I was devastated. I'm still punishing myself for loosing her. And she's the only reason I keep returning to the site but it's futile she was one of a kind for me.
Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]