Seeking Arrangements

[Voodoo Jones]

Today's my last day in Bogota. I hooked up with 2 new women from Seeking this week (in addition to my regular one I met last year). The sex is better compared to the average escort, but when you do find an escort who gives great service and makes you want to repeat the next day, it makes you wonder if it's still work the effort and additional expense to keep searching for new Seeking women to add to the roster.

I'll be in Cartagena this week with my Bogota regular and will probably try to meet at least a new one when she leaves midway through my stay.

I also have 2. 5 regulars in Medellin I will see after that, though I'm not too sure about the. 5 one because she doesn't stay as long as my main 2. I might try to replace her with one or two new ones from Seeking, but I just started on that search today.

What I like about my 1 regular in Bogota and 2 regulars in Medellin is that we can chill for most of the day or I could go on trips with them without the primary focus being sex (though of course we do have sex). The familiarity is great, but sometimes you just want to have a quick session with someone new in between like an escort. The contrast between the two keeps things interesting during trips. Having too many Seeking women doesn't seem like a great return on money especially because you're not going to click with all of them on the same level as the ones you want to keep.

[Gfefan]

In the US, add things like.

- Oh, I need to find a sitter for my grandparents / kids during the time I am woth you. Mind sending $xx?

- Constant reminder that phone dies frequently (aka get me an iPhone).

- I wish I had airpods. I could talk to you while at work / school.

Normally, I treat girls with respect. And that is when magic happens.

But, I must admit I am at my rude best in the US. I figured I got nothing to lose with these platinum pussies. So, once I reaponded "you will get airpods in your ears when you take my dick in your pussy. If you have one, that is".

I felt bad after but hell. These "women" have got on my nerves.

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

[The Cane]

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

I got hit with a variant of your no. 3. It wasn't that they had ran out of gas, but wanted to stop at the gas station along the way to get some. I just laughed it off and said "nice try", then enjoyed my dinner. Then a fourth scam is getting hit up for babysitter money at the last minute. Guys, never go for these bullshit scams. Because if you do, you'll never see the scammer, nor your money ever again.

[Voodoo Jones]

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

One of them tried to pull that on me the other day. First said she needed me to send money for the taxi. I told her I would send an Uber. She says no because she had a bad experience with that in the past with other men. OK, I'll pay for the taxi in cash upon arrival. Again that was a problem. I told her I don't have any Colombian cash applications to send money. She has PayPal, but I had already scheduled someone else and told her I couldn't meet.

She immediately replies asking if I could send her some money upfront because she hasn't been eating well and needs to pay her rent. I told her because our PayPal accounts are in different countries, it would take at least a week and up to a month to clear, so it would be faster to meet and pay her in cash. She says something like "that's ok because they will give me time if I show them the money pending in her account". I didn't reply and deleted her contact.

[Steve 9696]

Bad move, never pay unless there is intimacy.

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

[DramaFree11]

I only did a paid MG once. I normally do dinner plus after. Did it because girl wanted to meet to make sure comfortable before a real date. She was super smoking hot so I acquiesced. Offered 100 dollars. Figured I'the start strong to close the deal.

Within a few minutes I could tell she just showed up to clock that Benjamin and leave. It was obvious. I still paid because it was the agreement but I knew I'the been had within a few minutes. It was in the air.

Bad move, never pay unless there is intimacy.

[AmericanPi]

Yeah def recommend not doing the coffee date even unpaid. I did it once successfully but prob five fails and swore off it. And never ever ever a platonic dinner date. Dinner date with wine and take it to the room. Only sure fire method.

I only did a paid MG once. I normally do dinner plus after. Did it because girl wanted to meet to make sure comfortable before a real date. She was super smoking hot so I acquiesced. Offered 100 dollars. Figured I'the start strong to close the deal.

Within a few minutes I could tell she just showed up to clock that Benjamin and leave. It was obvious. I still paid because it was the agreement but I knew I'the been had within a few minutes. It was in the air.

[DramaFree11]

Yeah def recommend not doing the coffee date even unpaid. I did it once successfully but prob five fails and swore off it. And never ever ever a platonic dinner date. Dinner date with wine and take it to the room. Only sure fire method.

Yep, in America Lunch dates are a huge waste of time. I do however do many lunch dates in Mexico. They know the deal and are ready for some afternoon delight.

[Steve 9696]

There is is a lot high paying US guys here, for them that probably would be a steal. But I live here more than 5 years, and know the local market. She's not paying any taxes on that (unlike pros) so that's ridiculous rate for a dinner date without sex. It smelled from the start. Claim of genuine connection, but zero effort to maintain communication, and few other reddish flags. The worst part was this stupid attempt to pressure me by comparing to other men. WTF, who does she thinks she deals with, her 25 year old BF back in Poland?

Yeah def recommend not doing the coffee date even unpaid. I did it once successfully but prob five fails and swore off it. And never ever ever a platonic dinner date. Dinner date with wine and take it to the room. Only sure fire method.

[Steve 9696]

Sarah is a whip smart pocket rocket half African and half Italian. We'the clicked at our first dinner a year ago and spent the weekend together in London spooning in my tiny twin bed. She's an amazing girl to hang with but the sex was a bit hit or Miss, given her extraordinarily tiny pussy and my girth. And her BJ was a bit meh but I really like this girl.

After spending several days together in the Mediterranean I saw her again in London one night and she was kinda lazy and wanted to watch Netflix and order in. Boo. So I ghosted her.

Gen Z are so sensitive with texting. After me not responding to two texts she deletes her acct and all my contact info! Fast forward to July and I get a CashApp for 1£ saying she misses me. Awwwwww. Clever girl. So after spending a few bucks in CashApp conversation LOL we reconnect. I decide to go full on honesty with her and tell her why I ghosted her. Good move because we reconnected this week in person and it was great.

First day was sightseeing and what fun with a girl in her local city. Lovely dinner. Lovely sex (she missed me alot!) and of course she's staying the next couple days. A couple highlights. First is that I gave her a bit of BJ coaching how to do harmonica. She may have seemed mildly offended but then took to it like a duck to water, blowing me forever and saying "god I love sucking your dick". Luv that. Def recommend doing a bit of BJ coaching. Wish I'the done it earlier. Don't be shy these girls aren't pros. I remember I did it with Alex back in 2019 and she gives a mind blowing BJ now.

Second highlight had nothing to do with sex! We went dancing at a gay club in London called Heaven. If you are a serious homophobe you might want to open your mind a little bit. I opened mine back with Thifany in the club in 2018 and twice went to gay clubs w my girl in tow since. It's an amazing free vibing party and it's completely harmless. Way more fun than the straight clubs. No one's going to try to fuck you in the ass. It's just a lot of people having fun. The one we went to is called Heaven and it was off the hook on a Monday! High recommend. We danced for 4. 5 hours straight I shit you not. I remember with Thifany that we ate like pigs but danced like idiots and I lost four pounds. Would not be surprised if the Steve Dance Diet worked its magic again!

Anyhow morale if the story: don't be afraid to:

Reconnect with your girl.

Coach on BJ.

Push outside your comfort zone.

Big payoffs all around. Have fun fellas!

[AluHut]

I'm glad you didn't pay her ass shit. If she's attractive enough, then there's no telling how much money she's taken from men while looking for a "connection" (and eating and drinking for free on their dime), when in fact, she had no intention of fucking ever. You tell her, "Well, I'm not other men. I'm my own man". For the short period of time I was on Seeking, I made it clear that I would not pay out a "gift" or "allowance" over a get-to-know meeting. Not under any circumstances. And if the girl wasn't down with that because that's what's other men did, or for whatever reason, then she could go find another sucker (I mean man) then!

There is is a lot high paying US guys here, for them that probably would be a steal. But I live here more than 5 years, and know the local market. She's not paying any taxes on that (unlike pros) so that's ridiculous rate for a dinner date without sex. It smelled from the start. Claim of genuine connection, but zero effort to maintain communication, and few other reddish flags. The worst part was this stupid attempt to pressure me by comparing to other men. WTF, who does she thinks she deals with, her 25 year old BF back in Poland?

[AmericanPi]

I did some research, gave it a second thought and decided to pass, it's just not worth it. I would rather do Buenos Aires, at least the girls there do respond on Seeking. And even message me first, which is a good indicator.

Hard American currency is so strong there right now. I bet you are going to be shooting fish in a barrel.

[MiamiBoy1]

I had the same thought a few days ago. But I looked at the state department website. It's one of only a handful of countries, the US has issued a level 4 warning for. It's in bad company. Some of the other countries are like Sudan, Somalia, Iran, North Korea, etc. I immediately noped that.

I did some research, gave it a second thought and decided to pass, it's just not worth it. I would rather do Buenos Aires, at least the girls there do respond on Seeking. And even message me first, which is a good indicator.

[AmericanPi]

Has anybody been there and used Seeking? How is the dating scene?

I know it may be more dangerous than Colombia, and harder to get to, but I would like to give it a try someday, it is definitely off the beaten path and is not full of gringos. Venezuelan girls are good looking too.

I had the same thought a few days ago. But I looked at the state department website. It's one of only a handful of countries, the US has issued a level 4 warning for. It's in bad company. Some of the other countries are like Sudan, Somalia, Iran, North Korea, etc. I immediately noped that.

[The Cane]

Ok, so nothing else was coming up so I decided to have a dinner with that girl that was "no sex on a first date, I need connection, etc". We agreed on time and place and then she said she expected a gift. I asked what kind of gift and she said "400 in an envelope". I told her straight away I won't do that upfront, and definitely not if there is no intimacy. Her reply was predictable and pathetic "other men do that, so I guess we don't match". End of story.

I'm glad you didn't pay her ass shit. If she's attractive enough, then there's no telling how much money she's taken from men while looking for a "connection" (and eating and drinking for free on their dime), when in fact, she had no intention of fucking ever. You tell her, "Well, I'm not other men. I'm my own man". For the short period of time I was on Seeking, I made it clear that I would not pay out a "gift" or "allowance" over a get-to-know meeting. Not under any circumstances. And if the girl wasn't down with that because that's what's other men did, or for whatever reason, then she could go find another sucker (I mean man) then!