Seeking Arrangements

[Sloninger]

I have had this happen twice and while I feel very happy for both of them and happy it wasn't me that did it, there is a small part that feels a little sense of loss they are no longer available for my pleasure. But I move on to the next ones and get over it quick.

Hell no, not me. But the one and only girl I had a smashing success with on SA before I quit it after only three months of using the site. You guys may recall that back in early 2022, I met this white, blue-eyed, blonde hottie on SA, and we started bareback fucking straight away (with internal cum shots) for about 6 months. Well then she moved too far away for it all to continue, but we remained friendly and stayed in touch for at least another 6 months or so. Then all of a sudden crickets from her. I knew that she still had an ad on SA, but had of course changed her location. And then finally her SA ad disappeared too, which led me to believe that she had probably met somebody. I eventually tried to contact her by text, but no response. That didn't necessarily mean anything to me because she was prone to losing her phone, and my number along with it. I decided to let it go, and figured well if she wants to contact me some day, then she will. So scroll forward to today and I'm looking around online, and wouldn't you know it but FaceBook recommends her to me as a friend! And on her page she has a picture of her at a wedding ceremony! Now, she's some kind of hot, so I'm not surprised that somebody would see fit to wife her up. If she's happy then good for her. But not me man. Her life is fucked! I did some additional searching around and found that she had some legal troubles that she conveniently never told me about, like drugs and intoxication and disorderly contact. I did what I had to do. Nut up inside that pretty "Barbie" and let somebody else marry her. That's the monger way! Like I said, good for the both of them if they're happy. I was while it lasted LOL!

[DramaFree11]

Hell no, not me. But the one and only girl I had a smashing success with on SA before I quit it after only three months of using the site. You guys may recall that back in early 2022, I met this white, blue-eyed, blonde hottie on SA, and we started bareback fucking straight away (with internal cum shots) for about 6 months. Well then she moved too far away for it all to continue, but we remained friendly and stayed in touch for at least another 6 months or so. Then all of a sudden crickets from her. I knew that she still had an ad on SA, but had of course changed her location. And then finally her SA ad disappeared too, which led me to believe that she had probably met somebody. I eventually tried to contact her by text, but no response. That didn't necessarily mean anything to me because she was prone to losing her phone, and my number along with it. I decided to let it go, and figured well if she wants to contact me some day, then she will. So scroll forward to today and I'm looking around online, and wouldn't you know it but FaceBook recommends her to me as a friend! And on her page she has a picture of her at a wedding ceremony! Now, she's some kind of hot, so I'm not surprised that somebody would see fit to wife her up. If she's happy then good for her. But not me man. Her life is fucked! I did some additional searching around and found that she had some legal troubles that she conveniently never told me about, like drugs and intoxication and disorderly contact. I did what I had to do. Nut up inside that pretty "Barbie" and let somebody else marry her. That's the monger way! Like I said, good for the both of them if they're happy. I was while it lasted LOL!

Yep, this a familiar story. I do not deal with too much substance abuse in Mexico, but I got back on SA in Texas, about 6 months ago, unfortunately this is the norm. I met this super hot chick, but she was mess. She told me she had quit drugs, but that was not the case.

Very sad what is happening to girls in the states.

[The Cane]

Her life is fucked! I did some additional searching around and found that she had some legal troubles that she conveniently never told me about, like drugs and intoxication and disorderly contact.

Meant to say disorderly "conduct". And by the way, her new husband was in the picture. Looked to be an early to mid-30's white guy (she's late 20's). I could have had her hand in holy wedded matrimony, but you guys know me. Not going there. And she knew there was no way it was going there. I think that's why she up and split after 6 months. She knew I would never commit to anything long-term, and she obviously needed somebody to do that, even if just for financial reasons. She asked me at one point if all of her problems (the ones I knew about anyway) were a turnoff. Hey, I'm just not the marrying type and never have been (and especially not to somebody who would drag me into all of her personal financial and emotional shit). Nope! No siree Bob! No, I'm the "mongering type" LOL!

[The Cane]

Hell no, not me. But the one and only girl I had a smashing success with on SA before I quit it after only three months of using the site. You guys may recall that back in early 2022, I met this white, blue-eyed, blonde hottie on SA, and we started bareback fucking straight away (with internal cum shots) for about 6 months. Well then she moved too far away for it all to continue, but we remained friendly and stayed in touch for at least another 6 months or so. Then all of a sudden crickets from her. I knew that she still had an ad on SA, but had of course changed her location. And then finally her SA ad disappeared too, which led me to believe that she had probably met somebody. I eventually tried to contact her by text, but no response. That didn't necessarily mean anything to me because she was prone to losing her phone, and my number along with it. I decided to let it go, and figured well if she wants to contact me some day, then she will. So scroll forward to today and I'm looking around online, and wouldn't you know it but FaceBook recommends her to me as a friend! And on her page she has a picture of her at a wedding ceremony! Now, she's some kind of hot, so I'm not surprised that somebody would see fit to wife her up. If she's happy then good for her. But not me man. Her life is fucked! I did some additional searching around and found that she had some legal troubles that she conveniently never told me about, like drugs and intoxication and disorderly contact. I did what I had to do. Nut up inside that pretty "Barbie" and let somebody else marry her. That's the monger way! Like I said, good for the both of them if they're happy. I was while it lasted LOL!

[MiamiBoy1]

Back in the day was two years ago, and I was quoted $250, $300, $800, and even $2000 a month from women, and I did not partake with any of these women because of their rates. In fact, more often that not when I was in Colombia, I did not mention price. We have had this talk before MB and I told you not to mention money when meeting women, and you tried it, and it worked.

Unlike in the USA, I found you did not have to lead with money. What I said was between $70 and $140 satisfied the women and if I was willing to repeat, I could have had seeking women night and day. I averaged 3 dates a day in Medellin and 2 in Bogota. When there were no shows or I was just horny and wanted strange, I ventured out into the hooker world, and I have said this before, the sex I had in the hooker world in Colombia on average was better than I had in the seeking world. I just repeated with the better seeking women.

If a seeking woman wanted $200, and I could have better sex with an escort for half that or a good Santa Fe chick for 10% that, why would I pay that price? Escorts and SWs have prices. Seeking women are supposed to get gifts not set rates.

There was a black girl from Cali in Santa Fe who had the nicest body of any woman I have ever been with in Colombia, and she gave a great massage. First time I saw her, I paid $12. Next time I saw her, I said I wanted an hour with no interruptions and paid her the whopping sum of $25. You make these comments about diseased women in SF and centro in Medellin, and I get where you are coming from but I have seen women from Santa Fe who turn heads and are very into health.

I think the guys who pay the $200+ dollars are deluding themselves into thinking these women are not escorts when they are. If they set a price, they are escorts. Maybe guys think they are low volume and safer because they are on seeking, but I would not take that as gospel.

I kept my seeking diamonds to myself, but I posted and commented on the ones I did not want to repeat with, and a lot of guys saw these women and banged them too, so aren't these women really escorts?

So yeah, maybe some of the Colombian women on seeking are asking for a lot, but I would not pay it. If 8+ escorts are going for $200 an hour, then I would have considered paying $200, but I see no reason for anyone to do that when they are charging $100 an hour. The best sex I have ever had with women from seeking are those where price was never mentioned and inevitably, the women who asked for the least but gave the most in bed got the most out of me.

You made the point you get better service from a seeking woman at $200 than you do from other women. I guarantee you that if I sought out ten escorts in Santa Fe for that same $200, I would find one and probably more than one that gave better service than that $200 an hour seeking woman.

I'm not disagreeing with your approach about not mentioning money. And this approach maybe worked well some time ago or still works in smaller cities or places with little competition. But SA in Medellin, and Bogota to some extent, nowadays is saturated with escorts who would roll out the price before you open your mouth. And as soon as a girl does that, I lose interest, be it a 100 USD or 300 USD, doesn't matter. Finding a hot woman who would not discuss price at all is like finding a unicorn. And look, its not like I'm completely against discussing rates, but I prefer to do it later into the conversation, and also, I don't want to get quoted ("800 k por 3 horas, amor" LOL) and have time constraints, I use Steve's approach, tell them how I see our date going and what my offer is. Unfortunately, it has become much harder to use this approach in Colombia, this is why I've been itching to try other places, like SP or BA. Even CDMX might be a better option.

I'm wondering how your approach/strategy would look like right now, if you didn't have a gf. Specifically in Colombia. What worked for you 2-3 years ago might not work today, the time has changed.

[MiamiBoy1]

There aren't uniform prices across major cities in Europe. Nor are there uniform prices across major cities in the United States. But, somehow, prices are uniform across all of the major cities and currencies in Latin America?

Look, you have paid what you've paid, and as I said before, you're free to pay whatever you would like to pay on Seeking. I don't control anyone's pocketbook. But I am in numerous Medellin groups where we share information on different strategies and platforms to find talent. Multiple have boots on the ground across Colombia (Medellin, Cali, Bogota) paying around 300,000-600,00 COP ($75-$150) for anywhere from multiple hours to TLN with all of the bells and whistles on Seeking specifically, with photo and video proof. Outside of Seeking, naturally paying less. I am not speculating or guessing on any of this.

Have I also seen people paying 1,200,000 COP ($300) for a cita? Certainly. But that is still not the norm.

You did not state "the facts" about the entire market on Seeking in Latin America, you stated what you personally paid and then extrapolated that to the entire market. I am also stating what other people are paying in the Seeking market in Colombia currently. Not a year ago, not 6 months ago. Now. Today.

$200+ USD for 2-3 hours on Seeking in major cities in Latin America is not the norm.

As I said before, the reader can draw their own conclusions. That's the whole point of the forum.

If you read my initial response to Elvis again, you will see that I categorized talent and specified the rates for each category. 7-7. 5/10 can be had for 100-125 USD. While you are applying your rates across all of the categories. If someone wants the cream of the crop, he has to pay up. Good luck scoring a 9 for a hundred bucks. Cute girl next door type. Sure.

[John S123]

I responded to Elvis simply because the rates he posted is what he used to pay back in the day. He has a girlfriend now, and has been in the relationship for quite some time, so he is not up to date when it comes to current rates. I don't know what you consider to be the norm or the standard. I stated the facts, because I just got back from Colombia and had been using Seeking while I was there. The rates change over time, and what used to be the norm or the standard some time ago, is no longer the norm. Like it or not, 200+ USD is what good looking girls want these days, and not for an overnight date, but for 2-3 hours max. Any major city in Latin or South America (CDMX, SP, Rio, Bogota, Buenos Aires, etc) got the same rates if you are looking for quality. Medellin is no exception. Heck, you won't even find that many 8's on Seeking in medellin because most of them are off market, traveling, etc.

There aren't uniform prices across major cities in Europe. Nor are there uniform prices across major cities in the United States. But, somehow, prices are uniform across all of the major cities and currencies in Latin America?

Look, you have paid what you've paid, and as I said before, you're free to pay whatever you would like to pay on Seeking. I don't control anyone's pocketbook. But I am in numerous Medellin groups where we share information on different strategies and platforms to find talent. Multiple have boots on the ground across Colombia (Medellin, Cali, Bogota) paying around 300,000-600,00 COP ($75-$150) for anywhere from multiple hours to TLN with all of the bells and whistles on Seeking specifically, with photo and video proof. Outside of Seeking, naturally paying less. I am not speculating or guessing on any of this.

Have I also seen people paying 1,200,000 COP ($300) for a cita? Certainly. But that is still not the norm.

You did not state "the facts" about the entire market on Seeking in Latin America, you stated what you personally paid and then extrapolated that to the entire market. I am also stating what other people are paying in the Seeking market in Colombia currently. Not a year ago, not 6 months ago. Now. Today.

$200+ USD for 2-3 hours on Seeking in major cities in Latin America is not the norm.

As I said before, the reader can draw their own conclusions. That's the whole point of the forum.

[Elvis 2008]

I responded to Elvis simply because the rates he posted is what he used to pay back in the day.

Back in the day was two years ago, and I was quoted $250, $300, $800, and even $2000 a month from women, and I did not partake with any of these women because of their rates. In fact, more often that not when I was in Colombia, I did not mention price. We have had this talk before MB and I told you not to mention money when meeting women, and you tried it, and it worked.

Unlike in the USA, I found you did not have to lead with money. What I said was between $70 and $140 satisfied the women and if I was willing to repeat, I could have had seeking women night and day. I averaged 3 dates a day in Medellin and 2 in Bogota. When there were no shows or I was just horny and wanted strange, I ventured out into the hooker world, and I have said this before, the sex I had in the hooker world in Colombia on average was better than I had in the seeking world. I just repeated with the better seeking women.

If a seeking woman wanted $200, and I could have better sex with an escort for half that or a good Santa Fe chick for 10% that, why would I pay that price? Escorts and SWs have prices. Seeking women are supposed to get gifts not set rates.

There was a black girl from Cali in Santa Fe who had the nicest body of any woman I have ever been with in Colombia, and she gave a great massage. First time I saw her, I paid $12. Next time I saw her, I said I wanted an hour with no interruptions and paid her the whopping sum of $25. You make these comments about diseased women in SF and centro in Medellin, and I get where you are coming from but I have seen women from Santa Fe who turn heads and are very into health.

I think the guys who pay the $200+ dollars are deluding themselves into thinking these women are not escorts when they are. If they set a price, they are escorts. Maybe guys think they are low volume and safer because they are on seeking, but I would not take that as gospel.

I kept my seeking diamonds to myself, but I posted and commented on the ones I did not want to repeat with, and a lot of guys saw these women and banged them too, so aren't these women really escorts?

So yeah, maybe some of the Colombian women on seeking are asking for a lot, but I would not pay it. If 8+ escorts are going for $200 an hour, then I would have considered paying $200, but I see no reason for anyone to do that when they are charging $100 an hour. The best sex I have ever had with women from seeking are those where price was never mentioned and inevitably, the women who asked for the least but gave the most in bed got the most out of me.

You made the point you get better service from a seeking woman at $200 than you do from other women. I guarantee you that if I sought out ten escorts in Santa Fe for that same $200, I would find one and probably more than one that gave better service than that $200 an hour seeking woman.

[Intelligencium]

Nothing to worry. Try meeting at a social setting. Always - before sex.

Helps weed out crazies, druggies, and cons. LE on SA. Highly unlikely.

Be prepared for underage idiots, though. In the US, parents of underage can press charges even later on. I posted about this in the past.

Bottomline. US is shitty. But I will not worry about LE on SA. Do take common sense precautions though. Like Steve said always pay after and pay discrete (money not paid hand to hand also allows for a non-transactional illusion).

Thanks all for the tips and reassurances. The meet went fine. I did not get a chance to meet her before the sex. I have only half a day free once a week and I can't waste it on meet and greets. I also cannot be seen in public. But I got good (normal person) vibes chatting with her. And she turned out to be normal. She had experience before, so I appreciated that she wasn't too nosy, was discrete and wasn't clingy.

500 PPM, but she was pretty vanilla compared to Europe. We had sex twice in 2 hours including chit-chat. I am not sure if I will repeat if I can find someone hotter. But if not, will try to talk her down to 400. Fingers crossed.

[MiamiBoy1]

If your argument is that prices have increased over the past, say, year, I have no objection to that. If your argument is that there exist women in Colombia on Seeking who are quoting $200 USD or $300 USD on the platform, I also have no objection. I have, in fact, been quoted $300 USD before by a woman who said she doesn't like cheap guys (BLOCKED). There are certainly some foreigners paying that as well. However, that is by no means the norm. And I will simply dismiss the strawman of Centro hoes as I have legitimately never been there aside from the obligatory sight seeing at the Museo de Antioquia. I don't spend time in that trashcan.

I'm also going to address the fact that you initially responded to the individual who posted prior to you with no photos, no rates, and no negotiations with Seeking girls. If you want to do this, you go first with your the photos and chat logs, but I'm not adhering to a standard that you don't even attempt to abide by, my friend. I also doubt you want to burn any relationships you have with these women by posting their photos on a publicly accessible website unless they are actively advertising as prostitutes. I'm not stupid.

If you won't do that, then we have no reason to continue going back and forth on this topic. Your claim is that the majority or all of the 8+'s on Seeking across all locations in Colombia are asking for 200 USD ( 800,000 COP) to 300 USD (1,200,000 COP) or more. My claim is that while some are certainly quoting these numbers, this is not at all the norm or standard, and the original posters report of paying 70 USD ( 275,000 COP) - 140 USD ( 550,000 COP) is attainable. The reader can draw their own conclusions.

I responded to Elvis simply because the rates he posted is what he used to pay back in the day. He has a girlfriend now, and has been in the relationship for quite some time, so he is not up to date when it comes to current rates. I don't know what you consider to be the norm or the standard. I stated the facts, because I just got back from Colombia and had been using Seeking while I was there. The rates change over time, and what used to be the norm or the standard some time ago, is no longer the norm. Like it or not, 200+ USD is what good looking girls want these days, and not for an overnight date, but for 2-3 hours max. Any major city in Latin or South America (CDMX, SP, Rio, Bogota, Buenos Aires, etc) got the same rates if you are looking for quality. Medellin is no exception. Heck, you won't even find that many 8's on Seeking in medellin because most of them are off market, traveling, etc.

[BlueMoon22]

Your bigger threat by far is a crazy girl who steals from you. Extorts you. Cons you. Pay more attention to that.

These were my major concerns after meeting red flag girl. I'm still amazed she gave me my money back after she backed out. I was an idiot for going to see her (to be fair the red flags weren't waving like crazy until I was half way there) but she was so fucking hot I wanted to see her. That whole thing still blows my mind.

The main thing is just try and talk a decent amount before you meet and you can gauge the craziness.

[John S123]

Yes, I was talking about Colombia. BTW, do you realize you are in the Seeking Arrangement thread where SA girls and rates are discussed? Not El Centro SW or casa hoes. Seeking caters to foreigners, not locals, and yes, foreigners pay those rates. If they didn't, we wouldn't get quoted the rates I posted. Also, this is not my first rodeo, I spend months in Colombia every year, 4+ months in 2023 alone and just got back to States last week. If you disagree with the rates I posted, feel free to post the rates you got quoted or negotiated with Seeking girls, and also, post their profile pics, so that we all know what you are talking about. If you manage to score Seeking stunners for $50-100 or whatever you pay, and can prove this, and if you can do this consistently, I will take my hat off. But until then, your response to my post is not constructive. Am I happy with those rates? Sure I'm not, and I have to pass on some girls, but not only because of the rates they quote, but because I get hoe vibes more often than not, screaming that my experience will be lame. And I don't want to pay top dollar for a quickie with a pro.

If your argument is that prices have increased over the past, say, year, I have no objection to that. If your argument is that there exist women in Colombia on Seeking who are quoting $200 USD or $300 USD on the platform, I also have no objection. I have, in fact, been quoted $300 USD before by a woman who said she doesn't like cheap guys (BLOCKED). There are certainly some foreigners paying that as well. However, that is by no means the norm. And I will simply dismiss the strawman of Centro hoes as I have legitimately never been there aside from the obligatory sight seeing at the Museo de Antioquia. I don't spend time in that trashcan.

I'm also going to address the fact that you initially responded to the individual who posted prior to you with no photos, no rates, and no negotiations with Seeking girls. If you want to do this, you go first with your the photos and chat logs, but I'm not adhering to a standard that you don't even attempt to abide by, my friend. I also doubt you want to burn any relationships you have with these women by posting their photos on a publicly accessible website unless they are actively advertising as prostitutes. I'm not stupid.

If you won't do that, then we have no reason to continue going back and forth on this topic. Your claim is that the majority or all of the 8+'s on Seeking across all locations in Colombia are asking for 200 USD ( 800,000 COP) to 300 USD (1,200,000 COP) or more. My claim is that while some are certainly quoting these numbers, this is not at all the norm or standard, and the original posters report of paying 70 USD ( 275,000 COP) - 140 USD ( 550,000 COP) is attainable. The reader can draw their own conclusions.

[John S123]

Yes, I was talking about Colombia. BTW, do you realize you are in the Seeking Arrangement thread where SA girls and rates are discussed? Not El Centro SW or casa hoes. Seeking caters to foreigners, not locals, and yes, foreigners pay those rates. If they didn't, we wouldn't get quoted the rates I posted. Also, this is not my first rodeo, I spend months in Colombia every year, 4+ months in 2023 alone and just got back to States last week. If you disagree with the rates I posted, feel free to post the rates you got quoted or negotiated with Seeking girls, and also, post their profile pics, so that we all know what you are talking about. If you manage to score Seeking stunners for $50-100 or whatever you pay, and can prove this, and if you can do this consistently, I will take my hat off. But until then, your response to my post is not constructive. Am I happy with those rates? Sure I'm not, and I have to pass on some girls, but not only because of the rates they quote, but because I get hoe vibes more often than not, screaming that my experience will be lame. And I don't want to pay top dollar for a quickie with a pro.

If your argument is that prices have increased over the past, say, year, I have no objection to that. If your argument is that there exist women in Colombia on Seeking who are quoting $200 USD or $300 USD on the platform, I also have no objection. I have, in fact, been quoted $300 USD before by a woman who said she doesn't like cheap guys (BLOCKED). There are certainly some foreigners paying that as well. However, that is by no means the norm. And I will simply dismiss the strawman of Centro hoes as I have legitimately never been there aside from the obligatory sight seeing at the Museo de Antioquia. I don't spend time in that trashcan.

I'm also going to address the fact that you initially responded to the individual who posted prior to you with no photos, no rates, and no negotiations with Seeking girls. If you want to do this, you go first with your the photos and chat logs, but I'm not adhering to a standard that you don't even attempt to abide by, my friend. I also doubt you want to burn any relationships you have with these women by posting their photos on a publicly accessible website unless they are actively advertising as prostitutes. I'm not stupid.

If you won't do that, then we have no reason to continue going back and forth on this topic. Your claim is that the majority or all of the 8+'s on Seeking across all locations in Colombia are asking for 200 USD (800,000 COP) to 300 USD (1,200,000 COP) or more. My claim is that while some are certainly quoting these numbers, this is not at all the norm or standard, and the original posters report of paying 70 USD (275,000 COP) - 140 USD (550,000 COP) is attainable. The reader can draw their own conclusions.

[Gfefan]

Nothing to worry. Try meeting at a social setting. Always - before sex.

Helps weed out crazies, druggies, and cons. LE on SA. Highly unlikely.

Be prepared for underage idiots, though. In the US, parents of underage can press charges even later on. I posted about this in the past.

Bottomline. US is shitty. But I will not worry about LE on SA. Do take common sense precautions though. Like Steve said always pay after and pay discrete (money not paid hand to hand also allows for a non-transactional illusion).

Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.

[MiamiBoy1]

I'm sorry MiamiBoy1, but are you talking about Colombia? Because, if so, your prices are completely off. I have spent around 4 months in Medellin this year and usually max out the 6 month tourist visa annually. The majority of people who are participating in the P4P market in Colombia are Colombians. No one is paying a months pay to fuck some strange, and that goes for Medellin, Bogota, Cali, or anywhere else in Colombia. Women are, however, getting quite good at fleecing foreigners who think in dollars and go to La Isla and throw 1's like a bunch of idiots thinking it's an American strip club.

But your insinuation that the previous poster's pricing ranges are no longer valid is asinine. You're welcome to pay whatever the hell you want, but posting that these prices are in any way normal in Colombia is not helpful for anyone who is looking to visit Colombia. Unless you're pulling a psyop and trying to get less people to visit Colombia for box.

Yes, I was talking about Colombia. BTW, do you realize you are in the Seeking Arrangement thread where SA girls and rates are discussed? Not El Centro SW or casa hoes. Seeking caters to foreigners, not locals, and yes, foreigners pay those rates. If they didn't, we wouldn't get quoted the rates I posted. Also, this is not my first rodeo, I spend months in Colombia every year, 4+ months in 2023 alone and just got back to States last week. If you disagree with the rates I posted, feel free to post the rates you got quoted or negotiated with Seeking girls, and also, post their profile pics, so that we all know what you are talking about. If you manage to score Seeking stunners for $50-100 or whatever you pay, and can prove this, and if you can do this consistently, I will take my hat off. But until then, your response to my post is not constructive. Am I happy with those rates? Sure I'm not, and I have to pass on some girls, but not only because of the rates they quote, but because I get hoe vibes more often than not, screaming that my experience will be lame. And I don't want to pay top dollar for a quickie with a pro.