Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.

I've done Seeking in US with over 40 girls. If you have been chatting and setting up the date LE has no time for such bullshit. And it needs to be quid pro quo "money for sex" which SA never is. I really never discuss it in person which is safest. But if you do then don't ever get as explicit as money for sex. And in the room you will not pay her till after. LE is not going to have sex with you. So no money exchanged till 100% not LE. I usually put it in an unmarked envelope under the ice bucket or phone and put it in her bag later after sex.

Short story. Don't worry.

[Intelligencium]

I am prone to worry too. And overprepare. But you have literally nothing to worry about.

Consider how preposterous it would be for LE. To not fish where the fish are in massage parlors, on HX, on bedpage, but to literally jump thru the hoops of setting dates with a guy on seeking to trap him.

Your bigger threat by far is a crazy girl who steals from you. Extorts you. Cons you. Pay more attention to that.

Thanks! Extortion is one worry I have too. But I'm hiding my real identity well (I think). My wallet is hidden in the room, I'll make sure she leaves before I go to my car etc. Fingers crossed.

[AmericanPi]

Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.

I am prone to worry too. And overprepare. But you have literally nothing to worry about.

Consider how preposterous it would be for LE. To not fish where the fish are in massage parlors, on HX, on bedpage, but to literally jump thru the hoops of setting dates with a guy on seeking to trap him.

Your bigger threat by far is a crazy girl who steals from you. Extorts you. Cons you. Pay more attention to that.

[John S123]

The rates you paid in the past are no longer valid. $100-$125 can get you a 7-7. 5. But stunners 8+ are asking 200 USD. Top shelf girls want $250-$300+. Most importantly, 90% stick to asking rates and won't budge. I think CDMX makes more sense right now, because it is closer to the US, the food is better, and the rates have become more or less the same, so going to Colombia doesn't really make you save.

I'm sorry MiamiBoy1, but are you talking about Colombia? Because, if so, your prices are completely off. I have spent around 4 months in Medellin this year and usually max out the 6 month tourist visa annually. The majority of people who are participating in the P4P market in Colombia are Colombians. No one is paying a months pay to fuck some strange, and that goes for Medellin, Bogota, Cali, or anywhere else in Colombia. Women are, however, getting quite good at fleecing foreigners who think in dollars and go to La Isla and throw 1's like a bunch of idiots thinking it's an American strip club.

But your insinuation that the previous poster's pricing ranges are no longer valid is asinine. You're welcome to pay whatever the hell you want, but posting that these prices are in any way normal in Colombia is not helpful for anyone who is looking to visit Colombia. Unless you're pulling a psyop and trying to get less people to visit Colombia for box.

[Intelligencium]

Hi folks,

I am meeting a SB tomorrow through seeking. We discussed money over whatsapp (with my fake name and a virtual number) and she also talked about what she does (no anal, yes condom etc). Given that paying for sex is illegal in US, do you take any precautions? I guess there is a 0. 001% chance that she will bring along LE. Or a 0. 01% chance that she blackmails later on.

In Spain I wasn't worried since sex for money is legal there.

[BlueMoon22]

Argentinian women are considered to be the most liberal and beautiful in South America? Can anybody who has had and SD / SB relationship shed some light on how it compares to CDMX and Medellin scene? Asking because general impression is that Argentinian women are haughtier than their South American sisters.

I was planning a trip to BA and with what I was finding was they were all wanting fairly steep allowances for a country that is in such bad shape economically.

[Gfefan]

Figured it's a Google voice number. LOL. Called from a random different number.

No answer. Perhaps, she changed her number. Perhaps, she let her subscription expire. Whatever.

Will stay silent for a while. Give another try. If nothing works, screw it. Plenty of fish in European waters.

Maybe something's going on in her personal life? Either something bad or something good like finding a BF. I would stay mum for a while or check to see if you can help in any way.

[FilthyBeaver]

There are definitely fewer profiles in high col countries. Admittedly I only use seeking so maybe there's a similar nut to crack in each country but I haven't had much luck finding them. In places where pfp is legal it's just too convenient and dare I say cheap to find it. Genuine GFE from a bonified uni girl will always be the holy grail for me and I sweat that has more to do with luck than anything else, seeking is the best place to score that IMO.

This is going to come out awful, but I'm still going to say it.

This is why I don't do seeking in high COL countries like the Nordics, Germany, Austria, Belgium, etc.

The social safety net is too good. Not that there aren't girls who need the money. But not enough.

London is an exception because it's such a magnet for people of all stripes and it doesn't have the same social dynamics.

But I don't see the point of seeking where there isn't a true density of girls who really want to be on the other side of the equation. Not that there are none. I'm just talking about quantity and density.

[AluHut]

It's all about their motivation and a small amount of chemistry. I met a girl and we had an amazing connection at dinner. Ended up being tye most I've ever paid and wouldn't do it again but I had a great time. She was supporting herself with no help from her parents (so she said). She needed the money and wasn't repulsed by me. Winners all around.

I'm not sure what you were trying to say. Chemistry is important, for me as well. But it's not something you can easily understand from a couple of photos. My point was that the girls don't really know what they are doing, or even what do they want. And to be fully honest - I willing to make an extra effort for someone with potential to be exceptional, but those two were more or less usual young bimbos.

[AmericanPi]

My first experience with SA in Frankfurt was funny and sad at the same time. One girl was nice, we quickly moved to tg, where she asked more of my photos. And then she blocked me both on on SA and tg. Another one literally said "I don't sleep with a man on a first date". WTF, are you sure this isn't just a more expensive Tinder?

This is going to come out awful, but I'm still going to say it.

This is why I don't do seeking in high COL countries like the Nordics, Germany, Austria, Belgium, etc.

The social safety net is too good. Not that there aren't girls who need the money. But not enough.

London is an exception because it's such a magnet for people of all stripes and it doesn't have the same social dynamics.

But I don't see the point of seeking where there isn't a true density of girls who really want to be on the other side of the equation. Not that there are none. I'm just talking about quantity and density.

[FilthyBeaver]

It's all about their motivation and a small amount of chemistry. I met a girl and we had an amazing connection at dinner. Ended up being tye most I've ever paid and wouldn't do it again but I had a great time. She was supporting herself with no help from her parents (so she said). She needed the money and wasn't repulsed by me. Winners all around.

My first experience with SA in Frankfurt was funny and sad at the same time. One girl was nice, we quickly moved to tg, where she asked more of my photos. And then she blocked me both on on SA and tg. Another one literally said "I don't sleep with a man on a first date". WTF, are you sure this isn't just a more expensive Tinder?

[AluHut]

My first experience with SA in Frankfurt was funny and sad at the same time. One girl was nice, we quickly moved to tg, where she asked more of my photos. And then she blocked me both on on SA and tg. Another one literally said "I don't sleep with a man on a first date". WTF, are you sure this isn't just a more expensive Tinder?

[Foolish]

Argentinian women are considered to be the most liberal and beautiful in South America? Can anybody who has had and SD / SB relationship shed some light on how it compares to CDMX and Medellin scene? Asking because general impression is that Argentinian women are haughtier than their South American sisters.

Ted's 2 month experience (he has SBs in MDE and Sao Paulo) http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2767316.

My read from his experience: get a hotel, have low expectations and have backups of backups haha.

[MiamiBoy1]

Argentina may be the best place currently, the currency is in the literal shitter. The unofficial exchange rate is 2 x what the official rate is, & the recently the government cut the value of the Peso by 13% to really no effect. The government needs to cut the rate by 100% to get in line with the unofficial blue dollar rate.

Yeah, but girls charge you dollars, not pesos. $200-$300 is the going rate according to other posters. If you can shell out 300 usd, you can actually go any place south of USA.

[KilledSoul]

Argentina may be the best place currently, the currency is in the literal shitter. The unofficial exchange rate is 2 x what the official rate is, & the recently the government cut the value of the Peso by 13% to really no effect. The government needs to cut the rate by 100% to get in line with the unofficial blue dollar rate.

Argentinian women are considered to be the most liberal and beautiful in South America? Can anybody who has had and SD / SB relationship shed some light on how it compares to CDMX and Medellin scene? Asking because general impression is that Argentinian women are haughtier than their South American sisters.