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04-02-24 03:33 #5641
Posts: 340I'm fundamentally opposed to lying
To each his own and I'm not saying one way is better than another but if anybody ever wants to know what I'm thinking, they're going to get an honest, mostly unfiltered (with a little tact), answer.
I am not, will not, ever be in the market for a wife. I made that mistake once, was the exact same person I am today when we got married 20 yrs ago and at some point that was no longer good enough. Nevermind the trophy house, cars, number of zeros in the accounts and magazine worthy vacations.
I won't tell a woman who is looking for a husband that I am looking for a wife. There's absolutely nothing wrong with anything you wrote, it's just not something I would do. With that said, I am convinced that the cast majority of non-pros and even semi pros would delete their accounts tomorrow if one were to convince them they intend to go further than the bedroom. It's human nature. Who wouldn't want to walk away from a shit job with a shit boss and shit wages and would enable them to stop hustling and being hustled by some random prick a few times a month?
Don't get me wrong, I like seeking for what it is and what I've been able to pull. But it is a slog by any definition, especially in the US for both sides. I've never been dishonest as far as what I wanted, in fact I cut it off with someone who talked about marriage because I didn't want to hurt her.
So is the general consensus to play along with the goal in mind? Not judging just curious.
FYI what drew me ro seeking years ago was the fact that I was reading a news article that talked about it. I was so dumbfounded by the fact people were doing this I signed up just to have platonic meetings so I could hear their stories and experiences. It wasn't until the 3rd or 4th girl I realized that the whole sugar thing might actually work for me. After the ex moved out my life changed forever and can't ever see being married again. It makes no financial or emotional sense at my age.
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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04-01-24 18:55 #5640
Posts: 728Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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04-01-24 18:25 #5639
Posts: 2705Just straight up
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
Yep totally get you are looking for regular. I'm not in xxxx and can't be that guy. But I am coming to xxxx later this week and would love to entertain you in the meantime. Allowance of course.
I travel a lot for work and have def flown girls I super vibe with to be with me so that's def in the cards. But requires a special vibe beyond the usual obviously.
So if you are interested in an amazing time while you find your local man I may be just the thing. Whatcha drinking? Espresso martini?
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For those newer at this, In the Seeking game dept notice it ends in a question. Always end with a question.
And she came back right away interested in exploring same. I also think most girls on SA are comfortable with some amount of polyamory. My profile clearly says Im gonna fly in and well have an awesome time. And any girl with the slightest spark will realize ima gonna fly somewhere else and fuck someone else. But it doesnt seem to cause them pause at all.
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04-01-24 16:31 #5638
Posts: 3223Originally Posted by FilthyBeaver [View Original Post]
I was looking for long term on seeking not the hooker types so I actually liked it when women put that down.
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04-01-24 15:45 #5637
Posts: 3223Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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04-01-24 04:02 #5636
Posts: 2929Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
There was a girl who likes me. She used her friend to probe me with questions like she does not want Brazilian man, she wants a boyfriend who is a foreigner, do you know anyone? I was the only foreigner so who could that be? After I left, she sent me a message saying she missed me so much and other stuff. I thought she did not know I left, so I asked her if she knew I left. She said she did. I think she was waiting for me to make a move but I did not. She expressed her feeling for me until she found out it was too late. I would not make a move anyway because we have many common friends and I don't want to be tight down.
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04-01-24 01:54 #5635
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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04-01-24 01:12 #5634
Posts: 728Blocking on WhatsApp
This shit has happened a few times in a row recently. You message a girl on SA, she replies, you exchange a few words, then move the conversation to WhatsApp. You chit chat a little bit more on WA, everything moves smoothly, looks like she is interested in meeting in person. Then, a day or two later, all of a sudden you realize she blocked you for no apparent reason. The profile pic is no longer visible, and your messages can't be delivered (1 check mark). WTF? No date and the time is wasted. Anybody had the same issue recently?
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03-31-24 23:40 #5633
Posts: 3223Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
He was questioning if he was the problem and went to Russia, and he was just destroying it out there and really got the importance of playing in target rich environments. When he came back to the USA, there was not the desperation he felt before, and he told the women flat out if they were not as good as he had in Russia.
My brother had this friend who was really into the Game as well. The book is okay, but it is like the Ayn Rand books where they have spawned this set of weirdos devoted to it. When I was married, I just cared about getting strange. I was having a great time with seeking fucking my brains out while they were obsessed with this dumb game shit. The amount of time and money they wasted on trying not to pay for it was staggering. The friend was a guy like a Mr. E type more interested in getting a great deal than getting laid.
Maybe I am a little sensitive to it because I heard this bullshit for years. My seeking women did not count. They were sluts. The friend wound up with a stripper and then after that an unattractive woman whose gift to the world was name dropping. My brother ended up with a woman who was a lot like my ex-wife, attractive and accomplished on the surface but bat shit crazy underneath. He was telling me his woman would never go on seeking and neither would my ex-wife but that does not mean they were quality companions. These types routinely put their men down in public, engaged in emasculating behavior, were physically violent, and would call the police when there was an argument. And while maybe at first these type of women like you for you, when it comes to divorce court, they are ALL about the money.
You tell people this and they are like oh it did not work out for you. The guys blink away the 50% divorce rate and a huge percent of the other guys are miserable. They do not get my ex was a smart professional with natural DD breasts and a 24 inch waist, and my brother's gal has this sky high IQ and is a triathlete. The chances of guys doing better than these two are really slim.
I watch the dating shows and with the women, I constantly hear you deserve better. There is no limit to what the women think they are owed, and I think that is the issue. All the women think they have to do is show up.
For me, I realized a good sex life was critical to my life and I noticed the only couples who were really happy were the ones still banging each other. Those guys did not cheat because they really had something to lose. There is all this other bullshit but if a couple is not actively having a great time in the bedroom, I know it is not going to work out.
Far from being illegitimate, I think in some ways it is better to have a seeking woman because a seeking women knows if they do not put out, the sugar relationship is done. It is like a training area in how to please a man.
It is not that hard to find quality women to fuck but a quality companion is something else. So yeah, you use everything you have at your disposal to get one because it is really tough. I think it is disgusting how other men will try to tell you the woman you have is a hooker is or out for money or some other way it does not count and their woman, even if she is inferior to yours, is legit. What guys here need to get is what those jealous assholes say does not matter. A woman will reflect how she feels. If she really cares about you or if she is all about the money her behavior will reflect that.
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03-31-24 19:30 #5632
Posts: 2705Marriage Minded
Originally Posted by FilthyBeaver [View Original Post]
Monogamous and Brasileira don't go in the same sentence. Brasileiras esp the pretty ones are going to have multiple lovers. Two girls I "dated" got engaged a month or two after we fucked. So that should tell you something.
I'the go at it honestly. And say "I know you are looking for long term and I respect that. But in the meantime I think we might have a lot of fun. " Something like that. I've def had some convos this way.
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03-31-24 12:53 #5631
Posts: 340What to do about marriage minded profiles
I've seen quite a few in Sao Paolo that say they are either marriage minded or even go so far as to say if you're not looking for a monogamous marriage then don't bother contacting them.
I'm old enough to know that anything can happen but I've got to be really skeptical of someone overtly requesting this on a sugaring site. So what do you guys do? Some of their pics show that they are really desirable and I'm inclined to throw a bunch of money and time their way just to get them in the sack bit I can't help but think it may be futile. Thoughts? Experiences?
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03-30-24 19:15 #5630
Posts: 2794Elvis, I read your recent post on Bogota. I never understand why the guys that like the street girls get, so upset about SA. I do not remember any of us not telling guys not to hook up with street girls, unless they provoke us or make fun us. Honestly, I think it is the opposite we say you should you all the resources. (On-line, Escorts, Dating Apps, Day Game, Friends, hell whatever works use it).
Honestly, I think it is the opposite we suggested guys to hand out cards, and meet girls on the street. I also, talked about how my Italian Friends in Ukraine and Russia were all about the day game. They would spend hours trying to meet girls on the street, at restaurants and gyms. It was amazing to watch, and many had success, but in the end most ended up paying one way or another.
I do not care how much someone pays or how they get girls. As long as they give decent information, I would l will never say a word. Now, there are guys in Colombia and Ukraine that blatantly lie. Both places you can get hurt if you make a bad decision.
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03-29-24 16:29 #5629
Posts: 589Originally Posted by VulcanSx [View Original Post]
But I also know my wife is an intellectual equal. I might not find her super attractive but we have long engaging conversations and she is well read and highly educated.
I am just barely mature enough to know that is hard to replace. It makes her a high value woman.
I ama also just immature enough to always need young fresh women in bed with me. The kind I stare at at the mall and then want to peel the clothes off of. And do through seeking.
And so here I am in the cycle. Just like that.
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03-29-24 15:17 #5628
Posts: 51Originally Posted by BallsDeep1980 [View Original Post]
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03-27-24 23:12 #5627
Posts: 2Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]