Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

So I had a great sex date earlier this week with a regular in a city I visit. Was going to fuck her three nights but she bagged on the second two. I tried some last minute bombs into Seeking girls but no bites. So I started reading my book for entertainment. And I came across this story which was literally the best sex I've ever had and it proves that even the wildest things are possible. Like in of all places. Cincinnati Ohio! And zero Seeking lead up with chat etc — super last minute. Absolute non pro first timers. And it was an amazing duo and duos can sometimes be a bust. But this was amazing since they were lesbian lovers but just want dick from time to time. So it was against all odds and the finest two hours of sex ever and I learned so much! Here's how it went down.

OK I am definitely on a black girls run. Confirmed tonight with a last minute duo score. Of course I was just with Kayla in Florida, but have traveled to Cincinnati. I had researched it before and had some prospects but honestly I was fucked out. Just couldn't muster the energy.

Till night three. LOL. There was a work event and after a couple glasses of wine, I start thinking "why not" and start texting girls randomly from my playlist or brand new prospects from SA. Very aggressive opener — like "I'm going out tonight to a nice dinner and drinks. Want to join me?" I had used this approach in London with some success and generally recommend it.

A few nibbles but really no bites and I am now back in my hotel room half heartedly sending out inquiries, when I get a response from two black girls. "Sure. $500 for us both". They aren't quite my type but marginally cute and I haven't had a duo in a while so I say let's do it. I'm a little wary of course because you rarely get that direct a come on. But I go with the flow — carefully.

Originally, I suggest we meet at a bar, but they remind me they are both only twenty and underage for drinking. LOL. So better to come to the room. Of course my scam radar is on high. Because they are driving 30 miles to see me and coming straight to the room. Not exactly standard offering. We are texting and they say they are on their way. I am certain I am going to get the "oh we are out of gas can you send money" text and resigned to jacking off. But the text never comes and sure enough they show up! WTF?

Amara is a rail thin tall dark black girl and Kayara is a thick light black girl. Couldn't be two more different looking black females. Turns out they are girlfriends and have been dating nine months. This ends up being very important to the vibe and what all we do. Amara is clearly the alpha and Kayara enjoys being a sub.

We chat amiably over some wine and I learn lots of interesting things. They are both freshman in college (skipped a year after HS) so there's that fantasy to check off. They tell me about their relationship. And I also learn that they have tried Seeking twice and were stood up both times! One time they drove two hours and were stood up! Poor things — all they want is a daddy to fuck! So I am their first SD and boy do we make it memorable.

You can tell they are both a little nervous but the wine is helping Amara. Kayara doesn't drink and def seems a bit more shy. We actually have a really good conversation— what are they studying and why, what do I do for work etc. Eventually I excuse myself to go pee and say for them to get more comfortable if they like. They are both just in sweats because this was a last minute deal and they just came on. But in a way it's great because I'm going to be fucking two freshman coeds you might see on the the quad! LOL.

On returning, Amara is under the covers but sweatshirt still on and Kayara is slowly undressing. When Kayara is down to her bra (nice big the Cups) I come over and embrace her and go for the kiss. At first I get a cheek, then two small pecks on the lips. Hmm, this seems like a bad sign but I just go with the flow. Glad I did!

I say "it's really cute that you are both so new to this" and they say why do I say that. And I say just by the way you kissed, I could tell you are really nervous. So Amara, the skinny one — and I mean she must be 5-10 and weigh 80 pounds — really amazing in an odd way — she gestures for me to come to the bed where she rears up and plants a deep and passionate French kiss on me — like this is how it's done baby. I find that even though she is in her sweatshirt she is naked down below. I squeeze that amazing tight ass with both hands and start to grow hard.

Pretty soon I am naked standing at the side of the bed, Kayara has finished undressing revealing a thick but attractive bod and Amara pulls her sweatshirt off over her head. Kayara starts blowing me while I make out with Amara but soon they are both blowing the fuck out of me and I remember why I like duos!

The double BJ is absolutely epic. They seem to be totally in sync. Two mouths on shaft side to side. Kayara on shaft, Amara on balls. Amara on upper shaft, Kayara on lower. After a while I stop paying attention to what's what. There is so much sloppy shit going on down there that it's mind blowing and I can't keep track of all the sensations.

A couple of times I get the urge to fuck, but then think bloody hell why would I stop this? They must blow me easily for 20 minutes before I decide I've got to fuck one or the other. First up is Kayara in doggie style where she can eat Amaras pussy. Of course girls are pros at eating pussy, so she is driving Amara absolutely bat shit crazy as I fuck her from behind. She has a nice thick butt to grab on to and as she gets more and more lost in it (she likes fucking) she's whispering "fuck me daddy. Yes, like that. Harder. " LOL.

After an eternity of this (I had jacked off earlier that day thinking it was going to be a celibate night) I decide to try out Amara and I swap them up. No need to change condoms because they are lovers! Amara is still on her back so Kayara moves up to sit on her face and I plunge into mish with Amara. She's very tight as you might expect given her body type. Some light bites and kisses on Kayara's back since it's right where my face lands. And some great mish pounding of Amara.

I eventually decide I want to cum, hoping to even do a round 2 but that's never guaranteed. So I lose the condom and lie on my back and they go to work. It's spectacular again and a lot of it but not quite cumming. So I move to standing again where they are on the edge of bed and I get a great visual. After quite a bit more I start to cum in Kayaras mouth (she is better on shaft) and she pulls me out of our her mouth. So I start to shoot on Amaras shoulder as she is on ball work. Good girl she is, Amara doesn't want to waste good cum, so she gets me back in her mouth for a few pumps of finish CIM. Damn. Like that girl's swagger!

They start working me and kissing me for round two instantly but I say I need to rest a bit. So we cuddle, but after a minute, Amara starts to finger Kayaras pussy and they are off to the races for the best girl on girl I've ever witnessed. I learned a lot!

Amara is using her two middle fingers inside Kayara and fucking her aggressively and hard while slathering her clit with her tongue. Kayara is off in space somewhere and squealing and moaning. Then Amara switches to fingers side to side on clit. Her hand is moving so fast it's a blur -- I mean literally a blur. And Kayara is going nuts. She has a clenching O but Amara is merciless and drives her for another O right after and then another.

I join the fun as we are just using Kayara like a fuck toy and she is sooooo down with that. So Amara starts finger fucking her again and I simultaneously do the furious clit side to side rubbing so she is getting doubled up. And fuck she goes thru two or three more Os. She's convulsing and shaking and eventually swats both our hands away (literally). It's like she's had electroshock and is just totally wiped out.

I only let her rest a minute or so and bring Kayara to the edge of the bed for mish with me standing. So now Kayara can do Amara for a while when Amara sits on her face. She's a lot more gentle but Amara seems to like it and has some face scrunching Os. The fucking of Kayara goes on a long time- and I love that position. Even though I think Kayara is all fucked out, not so. Her legs are straight up in the air as I fuck her deep and she has a couple Os one right after the other. Her right leg goes stiff and vibrates like a motherfucker and then subsides and then about 10 strokes later she's hit by another wave and the leg goes batshit crazy again. Can't fake that shit!

At some point I get the desire to finger fuck Amara the way she did Kayara. So while Kayara is curled up in a fetal ball resting, LOL, I start making out with Amara and finger fucking her with my middle and ring finger as I learned from her. I am going in and out aggressively but she hand signals to do the same; but not in and out — but instead, aggressive gspot tapping. This is prob what she was doing inside of K — finger fucking and gspot tapping both look similar from outside. So I am tapping her gspot like a madman and she has some crashing Os.

I've had pussys clamp down on me before but hers it like a full pushout. It feels like her pelvic floor is coming down and absolutely drives my fingers out. Then it relaxes and back in I go. And tap tap tap and boom another wave. Normally I would stop but I learned from watching them, that a girl can have a connected string of Os. So I go again and give her a couple more where she totally clamps down and pushes me out with her pussy. It's really something. Wow.

Ok time to fuck Amara again so I fuck her in doggie and she eats Kayaras pussy some more. Eventually we all kinda tire and they slide under the covers and create a little space between them for me. I squeeze in and we doze and snuggle for a while, a girl's head on each shoulder. King of the world.

They are lightly playing with me by hand under the covers and I say I think I have one more shot in me if they are game. So we pull back the covers and down they go. A true labor of love -- they must be at it another ten minutes or more and it is truly great. I think I might have to go to a hand finish but when Kayara is on shaft and Amara on balls. OMG. It's soooo good. Eventually I shoot a load — again Kayara backing off but Amara quickly slurps up the goods! What a team.

So then we just doze and cuddle but eventually they have to go. Amara has class at 10:30 AM but Kayara has a 7:00 AM class. College girls! Def one of my best pure sex experiences ever. Never been with two girls so passionately into each other but still with the right focus on me. It was a two hour blur of nonstop fucking and sucking and fingering. Five stars!

[AluHut]

I just legitimately do not understand it. Like why someone would get it. I get the Upsell and always think who is the guy who's like yeah I drop 3 x for the same thing?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Am_Rich

[FilthyBeaver]

Not knocking anyone but my thought is they know I'm serious and not one of the billion scammers on the site. I've said it before, a fast food worker can afford "premium" (at least in my coastal city). But not everyone can shell out close to $300 a mo. I can't say for certain that it works but I am very happy with what I've been able to pull when I'm up for wasting the time on the site. I don't maintain an account, when I find someone I like, I delete and start over when it ends so I probably pay about the same a year as someone who pays for premium monthly. I'm noticing the quality is really down right now which I was not expecting now that unis are back in session. I don't see many co-eds at all. Very disappointing.

I just legitimately do not understand it. Like why someone would get it. I get the Upsell and always think who is the guy who's like yeah I drop 3 x for the same thing?

[Intelligencium]

Thanks for the tip. At that time I knew she was looking for money, so I didn't try to negotiate anything. But now she says that she is off SA, but will still meet me if I ever visit Europe (she said she will be happy to fly wherever I am in Europe), so there's definitely a possibility of no payment now.

The first time I went to Latin America was Argentina. I picked up a girl at a club / brothel called Madaho's and this woman didn't do the petty five minute massage an American hooker would but she rubbed my back non-stop for an hour and a half. I got her number but did not call her. I saw someone else the next night who was not nearly as good. When I went back to Madaho's for a third night, she was there and I brought her back to my place again and it was not as passionate. She was pissed I did not call her and knew I had seen someone else. What I learned is once a girl likes you, she will continue to fuck you for nothing, but I wanted to continue to pay because I thought because I was married, I could only have P4 P relationship. I was not emotionally ready myself for anything but that. I wish I would have been.

When you got a girl like Lisa in tears and fucking you like she did, it means she really likes you. With my current woman, it was her tears that told me that she was in love with me. When you are a single mom, it is really tough. Before me, my gal spent every day on her daughter, working out, and at her job, and that was it. She did not have time for anything else. When I came along, she got back to having a life again, and it was not just the sex and fun. There was the adult companionship and having someone to hold at night.

With all this feminist dogma, and my mother grew up at the beginning of the movement, I was shocked to hear my own mother say, "It is great for a woman to have a man to care for. " That was something that was said in the 1950's, but you better not say it today. No, all that is said is what you can do for a woman, but women, even if they do not admit it now, really do like having a man to care for.

I can usually tell if a woman is a mother or not just by how they touch me. The single mom has a much more nurturing loving touch, and it seems like once that nurturing channel is open, it applies not just to children but their man as well.

My point is you didn't have to pay Lisa if you did not want to. For me, payment was to define it being a P4 P relationship that harkens back to that Charlie Sheen line that I am not paying them for sex but paying them to leave. If you want a relationship with this woman where you pay for dinner, travel ETC but not hard cash, it is / was there.

With my current gal, I met her off SA and left money in her purse the first time we met, and a guy on here ragged on me for giving her anything without asking, and he was right to rag on me. So the next time we met, I gave her no money and she still was willing to hang with me. That is why I so often tell guys on here to just try not mentioning money when meeting a SA woman. I was surprised how many women, granted not American women, were willing to meet without an upfront price.

[AmericanPi]

There is no reason to update your subscription, just a way for SA to suck more money out of you.

I just legitimately do not understand it. Like why someone would get it. I get the Upsell and always think who is the guy who's like yeah I drop 3 x for the same thing?

[Jdweeb]

Anyone with recent experience using SA in BC, Canada. Is it worth the cost?

[DramaFree11]

I am not considering upgrading. I'm honestly just curious. What's the point of the diamond subscription? It seems like very little benefit other than you get to signal you spent more on your subscription than the next guy. It seems like more a signal of stupidity than anything else. Am I missing the point?

There is no reason to update your subscription, just a way for SA to suck more money out of you.

[Elvis 2008]

Day 11, I have my flight to Amsterdam in the late afternoon so Lisa and I decide to meet at noon. She has been prodding me to try a local dish since the first time we met, but I didn't get time to try it yet and I was leaving today. So she surprises me and brings it for me. We sit in my hotel room, while I eat and we talk. After I am done eating, I ask if she wants to go out and she prefers to stay in the room. So we talk a bit more, I brush my teeth and then she proposes we shower together. My hotel bathroom has a nice mirror against the bathtub and while showering together, we admire the scene. Fuck, it feels like we are almost a couple with the way we are doing things at this point. After shower, we fuck. This time I tell her I want to go two times. So after the first time, she helps get my dick hard with her hands and mouth and then we go again. I don't come easily, but after I do, we are shit tired.

I give her 400 this time, and before leaving she tells me she will miss me a lot while tearing up a bit. Once she leaves, I pack up and leave for Amsterdam where already have plans to meet someone. More about that in the upcoming post. I also know that I will miss Spain a lot and it's going to be top of my list next time I get to travel alone again to Europe!

The first time I went to Latin America was Argentina. I picked up a girl at a club / brothel called Madaho's and this woman didn't do the petty five minute massage an American hooker would but she rubbed my back non-stop for an hour and a half. I got her number but did not call her. I saw someone else the next night who was not nearly as good. When I went back to Madaho's for a third night, she was there and I brought her back to my place again and it was not as passionate. She was pissed I did not call her and knew I had seen someone else. What I learned is once a girl likes you, she will continue to fuck you for nothing, but I wanted to continue to pay because I thought because I was married, I could only have P4 P relationship. I was not emotionally ready myself for anything but that. I wish I would have been.

When you got a girl like Lisa in tears and fucking you like she did, it means she really likes you. With my current woman, it was her tears that told me that she was in love with me. When you are a single mom, it is really tough. Before me, my gal spent every day on her daughter, working out, and at her job, and that was it. She did not have time for anything else. When I came along, she got back to having a life again, and it was not just the sex and fun. There was the adult companionship and having someone to hold at night.

With all this feminist dogma, and my mother grew up at the beginning of the movement, I was shocked to hear my own mother say, "It is great for a woman to have a man to care for. " That was something that was said in the 1950's, but you better not say it today. No, all that is said is what you can do for a woman, but women, even if they do not admit it now, really do like having a man to care for.

I can usually tell if a woman is a mother or not just by how they touch me. The single mom has a much more nurturing loving touch, and it seems like once that nurturing channel is open, it applies not just to children but their man as well.

My point is you didn't have to pay Lisa if you did not want to. For me, payment was to define it being a P4 P relationship that harkens back to that Charlie Sheen line that I am not paying them for sex but paying them to leave. If you want a relationship with this woman where you pay for dinner, travel ETC but not hard cash, it is / was there.

With my current gal, I met her off SA and left money in her purse the first time we met, and a guy on here ragged on me for giving her anything without asking, and he was right to rag on me. So the next time we met, I gave her no money and she still was willing to hang with me. That is why I so often tell guys on here to just try not mentioning money when meeting a SA woman. I was surprised how many women, granted not American women, were willing to meet without an upfront price.

[AmericanPi]

I am not considering upgrading. I'm honestly just curious. What's the point of the diamond subscription? It seems like very little benefit other than you get to signal you spent more on your subscription than the next guy. It seems like more a signal of stupidity than anything else. Am I missing the point?

[Intelligencium]

I think I need to give that ex-pat who owned a restaurant in Brazil a name so let's call him Stan, and Stan said relationships move 8 X faster in Brazil than in the USA. That is the rule of Stan. LOL.

So yeah, Naz thinks that she is your GF, and she probably thought so a few hours after meeting you.
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You are right. LOL. I was texting and catching up with Naz yesterday and reminiscing about our time together. She is already calling me her ex and says that we were in a 5 day relationship (I thought it was only 3, but she's probably right since she counted off the days of the week).

So, again, you are spot on. The rule of Stan stands.

[Intelligencium]

This is Part 6 of my Dating Tour Series.

This is Part 7 of my "Dating Tour" Series.

Part 1 (Overview): http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2842652.

Part 2 (Prep): http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2844638.

Part 3 (Madrid) http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2844961.

Part 4 (Barcelona. Naz and the threesome): http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...41#post2845741.

Part 5 (Barcelona. Worst day of the tour): http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...41#post2845741.

Part 6 (Barcelona. Continued): http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...81#post2848081.

Day 7 in Barcelona

When I initially arrived in Barcelona, I wasn't sure how long I'll stay and had booked a hotel for only 2 nights. 7 days later, I am still here, now in my 3rd hotel. After yesterday night's awesome and quite interesting threesome, I felt like I am back in the game. I had one girl ready to meet tonight, with a few backups. With nothing interesting to do for the afternoon, I decided to set up a meet with one of the backups, Sophia, for lunch and fun.

Sophia is a 27 year old free-spirited hippie woman who has been courting me for a couple of months (by sending random photos or videos). She is attractive, but not really my type. I had been worried about drugs and diseases due to her hippie vibes, but decided to take a chance. Anyways, she comes to my hotel, we meet outside and go to eat at one of those lively open squares in the Gothic Quarter, where I find out that she is from Argentina (also that "Paella" In Argentinian Spanish is pronounced as "Paesha", TIL). She is chatty, but cute and has some really yummy lips that I wouldn't mind kissing and sucking. She asks if she can smoke and I say I don't mind. Apparently, she is one of those who rolls her own cigarette. Hippie indeed. Other than a few quirks, she looks and feels normal.

After lunch, we walk around the neighborhood and decide to go into the erotic museum on La Rambla. The museum has all sorts of suggestive pictures, movies and a lot of gadgets. Sophia knows a lot more than me about the various sex machines, and even finds one there that's similar to the one she has at her place. To be honest, this all didn't arouse me (or her), but it made the subject easy to talk about. After the museum, we go to my hotel's rooftop bar and have a few drinks, and chat about our sex lives.

Finally in the room, she offers to give me a massage first. I strip down and lay on my stomach, while she strips down and starts giving me a nice slow body rub. After a few minutes of this, I turn around and she kisses me from head to toe and then comes back to kiss me on my lips. The kiss turns quite passionate. I am enjoying it, but now regret letting her smoke before as there is a lingering cigarette smell. I try to ignore it and enjoy the moment. After a few minutes of passionate kissing during which we are exploring each others bodies, she decides to stroke my dick with her hands and then slides down and starts sucking it. She has a nice technique, I especially liked that she licks (and not just sucks) and uses her tongue a lot. I am sure I won't come with a BJ, so I put on a condom and she rides me in cowgirl. Her boobs are natural and bouncy and make for a nice scene. She gets tired after a while (I think), so she lies down next to me, and we go missionary while kissing passionately again. I am annoyed by the cigarette smell, but I compartmentalize my annoyance and shut it out and try to enjoy the moment. A while later, I take her to the edge of the bed and pound her with my feet on the ground. This works and I finally come.

After a while, she starts dressing, I realize and say that we never discussed allowance. She sheepishly says that yes we never talked about it, but she has done 300-400 before. I know I am never going to repeat her, so I offer 250, which she quickly agrees to. Clearly I could have gone lower, but she did spend 4+ hours with me, I didn't get bored the whole afternoon and the sex WAS good (apart from the cigarette smell). So I consider this a good deal overall for both sides.

At night, I have plans to meet with another girl called Lisa. She is 29 and has a nice body, but I wasn't sure about her face from her pics on SA. We meet at 9 pm outside my hotel and decide to walk to a high-end cocktail bar. In person she is prettier than her pics. Overall a 8/10. On the way, I learn that she is Catalan and a Barcelona local. We pass by a Cathedral that looked beautiful at night and she clicks some pictures of me standing in front of it. At the bar I ask the bartender for some custom cocktails made (off the menu) and she is surprised that something like that is even possible. Talking to her, I learn that she is a single mom, her husband died in a car crash when he was drunk, and so she avoids getting too drunk. Later we go downstairs to a club where there's a live music performance. She is enthralled by it. We leave once live music is over to get back to my hotel. Overall, I enjoyed spending time with her. Her face lights up when she sees something she loves (like the Cathedral at night, the fancy cocktails, the live performance etc) or learns something new (like about my culture) and it makes her personality very endearing. There's a little language barrier as her English is not as good, but I already know that I will repeat with her if the sex is any good.

I don't remember much about the sex that night, except that we kissed a lot and we mostly did missionary (I remember her fuck face). In general, I am into girl friend experience. With Lisa, there was unbridled passionate kissing, touching, teasing, looking deep into each other's eyes during missionary and overall we felt very comfortable with each other.

After sex, I put 350 in her purse (our agreed upon rate) and she hangs around a bit as if she wants to stay, but tells me that she needs to go as she has to drive and wants to be with her kid. So we kiss goodbye.

As I try to fall asleep, I realize that I have fucked 4 women in the last 24 hours: Patricia and Dana in the threesome last night, Sophia and Lisa today. Another first for me in my lifetime! Thank you SA and thank you guys in the ISG forum!

Day 8 in Barcelona

Got up late the next day, and decided to visit that Cathedral that I saw at night with Lisa in the afternoon. I seem to have something in me for larger than life buildings, because I loved spending time inside this Cathedral too (even though I am neither Christian, religious or spiritual). Funnily while I am inside, Lisa texts me asking me to send her the pic she took of me yesterday (in front of this Cathedral). Apparently, she wants it to have a memory of me. I tell her that she doesn't need to, since we can meet again tonight if she is interested. She says yes.

At night, we go to the same cocktail bar, try a few new drinks. There was no live music this time, but we spent the time talking about life. Apparently, she has a modeling career on the side and she shows me pictures from it. Her day job is in marketing.

Walking back to the hotel, she says if I want a massage. I say yes, but we start kissing as soon as we enter the room. There was this passion where we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. We make out, her body against the wall, my hands undressing her and then caressing her breasts and ass while she undresses me. After a few minutes of making out naked, we move to the bed. She puts on some light music and we fuck. It's a nice slow, romantic sex with her (like yesterday) and I love it. Again, I don't remember the details, but I remember that after the sex, while lying down on the bed, she is looking at me with that longing look, like she is falling for me. With any other woman, I may have started to get worried, but with her I am not since she has a kid and has been very clear about what SA means to her (a way for her to make extra money on the side). I know that even if she falls for me, it won't result in anything dangerous or crazy.

Day 9 in Barcelona

There were two youngish girls that I had been texting, so today I want to meet at least one of them. With the underage scare on my psyche forever (see "Part 5 - worst day of the tour") I now have a rule of checking their ID in person if they look too young. Maybe that ask is scaring them away. So I also let them know that they are free to hide their real name as long as their face and birthdate is visible. Both of them are busy at night, but one of them (Nat) is open to meeting in the afternoon. We meet outside my new hotel. Nat is just like her pictures. Petite, quite young and beautiful. She claimed to be 22 on SA, but I think she is younger. We go to a breakfast+drinks place, and she eats, but doesn't drink. Turns out that she just had Invisalign installed on her teeth. I get annoyed since this is something she should have told me, but I am a bit smitten by her beauty so I let it go. Nat is Ukrainian, is trying to become an actress, is estranged from her family and works part time in an erotic massage place. (One thing I have learned is that each one of them has an interesting life story).

Once we are back in the hotel room, she asks if she can massage me. I say yes, and strip naked and lay down on my stomach on the bed. She uses her erotic massage techniques to do a soft gentle massage on my body, while slowly arousing me. She did this thing where her hands gently brush off my balls or my shaft even when I am laying on my stomach. I dunno how she did it, but it was quite a sensual experience. After I turn around, she works on my dick with her hands and then puts on a condom to ride it like a cowgirl. Her pussy is quite tight and it almost feels like my dick can feel every single little movement she makes. After a while, she comes down on her back while I try to insert my dick to go missionary. It? S quite a tight fit and she says put it slowly please while I insert it. During missionary, I try to kiss her, but she doesn? T open her mouth, and then I remembered her invisalign. After a bit of missionary, I move to my favorite position (edge of the bed) and finish off there. Total damage: 400, which felt right although I wish we had kissed more. After she dresses, I remember I never asked her for her ID. LOL. I finally do, and she doesn't hide her name either. Turns out her real name is different than her stage name. Who knew. LOL. Looks like the girls also use fake names.

In the evening I text Patricia to get Dana's number (from Part 6's threesome). I remember how the sex with her was quite different, quite rough and I wanted to try that again. Patricia happily shares, and then I text Dana to see if she is interested to meet. She is leaving town the next day and is available. I ask her if she will kiss this time. She says that she is happy to kiss, but does tongue only with people she has been with for a while. At this point, I know I have other options, so I pass. I take it easy for the night, go to the Irish pub again and enjoy the night in solitude.

Day 10 and 11 in Barcelona

In a few days I have my flight back to the US from Amsterdam. I am loving here in Barcelona, but I have never been to Amsterdam and it feels odd not to spend a few days in Amsterdam when I need to fly out from there anyways. So I take it chill for the next 2 days and decide to stick with the known quantity: Lisa.

Day 10 night we meet again and go to the same bar. Have some nice conversation again and walk back to the hotel. This is the 2nd 5 star hotel I have met her in and she is in awe with the hotels, the rooms, the bathrooms and overall feel of the place. Anyways, back in the room, she wants to massage me (what's with the girls and massage? I agree. She gives a slow, okay massage, and then we fuck. This time she did try cowgirl, but we end up finishing in missionary with me staring at her face and she with her eyes closed and her mouth open in her fuck face.

Then, we lay on the bed for a long time. When I look at her, she is looking at me with tears in her eyes. I don't say anything, just kiss and hug her. After a while we get up, get dressed and she goes. This time I gave her all the money in my wallet (about 390) and she texts me later letting me know that I gave her extra. I tell her that it's for her kid and that we should try to meet again tomorrow as it's my last day in Barcelona.

Day 11, I have my flight to Amsterdam in the late afternoon so Lisa and I decide to meet at noon. She has been prodding me to try a local dish since the first time we met, but I didn't get time to try it yet and I was leaving today. So she surprises me and brings it for me. We sit in my hotel room, while I eat and we talk. After I am done eating, I ask if she wants to go out and she prefers to stay in the room. So we talk a bit more, I brush my teeth and then she proposes we shower together. My hotel bathroom has a nice mirror against the bathtub and while showering together, we admire the scene. Fuck, it feels like we are almost a couple with the way we are doing things at this point. After shower, we fuck. This time I tell her I want to go two times. So after the first time, she helps get my dick hard with her hands and mouth and then we go again. I don't come easily, but after I do, we are shit tired.

I give her 400 this time, and before leaving she tells me she will miss me a lot while tearing up a bit. Once she leaves, I pack up and leave for Amsterdam where already have plans to meet someone. More about that in the upcoming post. I also know that I will miss Spain a lot and it's going to be top of my list next time I get to travel alone again to Europe!

[DramaFree11]

What really matters is the response and conversion rates. In some cities you can find 5 k-10 k profiles, which seems like a lot, but what % are doable? And what % will actually respond to your message and provide WhatsApp number? And obviously, the conversion rate, or the number of girls scored, is even lower. What I have noticed is that my response rate is way down from what it was a few years ago. And honestly, I can't think of a possible solution to this issue. There is a lot of competition out there, hot girls are getting tons of messages every day, no wonder my messages are getting lost in the pile. I just renewed my membership a couple of days ago, messaged all the girls that I wanted to message (maybe around 20 or so), 2 days later only 2 replies (1 of which quoted me crazy number). This shit makes me think about quitting, because the app has turned into a tinder, where the quality is trash, plus plenty of scam, thieves, etc. BTW, I only message girls that are online or have been active recently, to increase my odds. But most of my messages either go unread, or read but not replied to. I guess they want to see some crazy amount of $ in my opening message that would spark their interest.

Sorry, I am killing it in both MTY and CDMX. I got back on SA in the states 6 months ago, with decent results, but decided to focus on work and meeting girls in Mxico.

I love the SA, yes it can get expensive and takes some work, but it pays off.

[MiamiBoy1]

Not getting many responses on sa and when I have they've flaked or ghosted meet ups. I'm wondering if I should start saying I'm visiting for a few days and see if I get better results since I've had better luck traveling.

I'm also wondering if anyone else has noticed a sweet spot for sa with the number of profiles. In the two cities I've had success in there are about 3-4 k sa profiles that match my search (age and height). But where I'm based there's over 10 k. Unlike some others I didn't have any luck in London where there was also over 10 k profiles. It would make sense to me that there are more guys in those areas too so girls are shopping for the best offers.

What really matters is the response and conversion rates. In some cities you can find 5 k-10 k profiles, which seems like a lot, but what % are doable? And what % will actually respond to your message and provide WhatsApp number? And obviously, the conversion rate, or the number of girls scored, is even lower. What I have noticed is that my response rate is way down from what it was a few years ago. And honestly, I can't think of a possible solution to this issue. There is a lot of competition out there, hot girls are getting tons of messages every day, no wonder my messages are getting lost in the pile. I just renewed my membership a couple of days ago, messaged all the girls that I wanted to message (maybe around 20 or so), 2 days later only 2 replies (1 of which quoted me crazy number). This shit makes me think about quitting, because the app has turned into a tinder, where the quality is trash, plus plenty of scam, thieves, etc. BTW, I only message girls that are online or have been active recently, to increase my odds. But most of my messages either go unread, or read but not replied to. I guess they want to see some crazy amount of $ in my opening message that would spark their interest.

[Midwestern]

Eventually, I may grow to give $ before deed. Like my best SB ever in Spain. Last month, she got into some trouble on her bills. I sent her money for the whole bill even from the US. She is the one who refuses to take money from me. Those kind of girls, Ingo to help. But, they got to earn my trust first.

The less demanding and cajoling for money they are, the more generous I am to them. For the ones that are always asking for more, in the long run, I guess this strategy works out for them, but it won't work on me.

[Midwestern]

What age do most of you search for or seek? Early 20's seem to flake more to me. Late 20's early 30's seem the sweet spot for me.

I had some success with early 20's, but it was very rare. And they do flake a lot. Plus, when I did meet the early 20's gals, we had nothing to talk about because we had nothing in common. And so, if I want a pro and just want to do the deed with a hot chick, then younger is better. But if I want an arrangement with a pretend GF, then late 20's and 30's works for me, as we will have more to talk about when we are not doing the deed. I currently have two arrangments. One is 26 and the other is mid 40's. The lucky thing about the mid 40's gal is that she hit menopause this year. And so I have been able to BB CIP with her.