Seeking Arrangements

[FilthyBeaver]

Met one very expensive girl in Frankfurt. Awesome company, good sex but the most I've ever paid and probably wouldn't do it again. In fact wouldn't because I had the chance. Aside from that very little action and lots of time wasters. That said, I'm not Caucasian, not unattractive but probably not what most girls are thinking about when they sign up. Plus I'm not local. Discussion has been had before but I think most girls want something more long term than a guy on a short business trip unless they're really desperate for money or are attracted to you.

Met a girl in Nuremberg from Spain who just wanted to bang and leave, thank you very much.

Met a girl in Munich for dinner but nothing else but still chat occasionally so who knows later definitely doable.

Probably chatted up 6 others that all ended up being time wasters.

I've searched the thread, but couldn't find enough meaningful details about how is SA in Germany? I've signed up without subscription just to check profiles. A lot of plastic trash, but also quite a lot adult, educated and stylish woman. On one hand I would love to meet with them, on another they might be way too expensive for me. Very interested to hear some recent experience in Germany, espeiclaly outside of Berlin.

[GoingDumb]

I don't recall your exact situation, but if you have anything to lose relationship wise, it's risky. Yes, it's comfortable and everything is at your finger tips. But if you're in the states (even without relationship luggage), if / when it goes sideways, I can't imagine a worse situation than agents / officers / goons / etc showing up at your door with claims of xyz / bad stuff with your girl. Or casing / robbing / trashing your place.

Sounds pessimistic, but you could have 99 great experiences and 1 that ruins your homebase. Or you have really good security at your condo (pseudo-sarcasm). Or you rent and can move ha.

F.

P.S. I have had some experience with the negative side of dealing with some women and sketchy people / situations. So not exactly imaginary haha.

Nothing to lose relationship wise but valid points. Have had a negative experience at a hotel where I paid and the girl took off but obviously at home it'd be even worse. I was excited not to have to find a hotel but better safe than sorry.

[MiamiBoy1]

What do you suggest for Brazil?

I've heard MeuPatrocinio is basically Brazilian Seeking with plenty of girls (they claim to have 5. 6 million registered sugar babies). But I have not had a chance to use it yet, maybe other posters who actually have tried it, would chime in.

[Gfefan]

Germany is good depending on the city. While it is not like Madrid, I have found some keepers in Germany. The kind that refuses to take money but treats me like BF. There has also been some transactional high quotes in Frankfurt so, I did not go. So, bottom line. Wide spectrum but good collection.

I've searched the thread, but couldn't find enough meaningful details about how is SA in Germany? I've signed up without subscription just to check profiles. A lot of plastic trash, but also quite a lot adult, educated and stylish woman. On one hand I would love to meet with them, on another they might be way too expensive for me. Very interested to hear some recent experience in Germany, espeiclaly outside of Berlin.

[Gfefan]

The one who has been there with you earlier and been kind enough to offer a threesome experience gets preference unless she explicitly states she wants to be a sub.

Brazilians are generally great at sex and chemistry. My favorite from BCN was brazilian too. We discussed threesome and she told me "I will NOT share you with anyone. You want more sex? I'd love to fuck you 24 hours" and we dropped the idea.

So, Naz has been really nice to you.

Threesomes are tough sometimes to get but my rule was treat women the same if you meet them at the same time. If your woman initiates the threesome, then you both follow your woman's lead in this case that would be Naz. Laura is the sub and Naz is dominant so whatever Naz wants, she gets. You showed too much interest in Laura.

One of the issues when you see escorts so much or have your ego beaten down by your wife (in my case ex-wife), you actually get it into your head, that women could ONLY like you for money. With my gal, it took me like four months to understand that she really liked me and a bunch of shit tests to prove it.

I think I need to give that ex-pat who owned a restaurant in Brazil a name so let's call him Stan, and Stan said relationships move 8 X faster in Brazil than in the USA. That is the rule of Stan. LOL.

So yeah, Naz thinks that she is your GF, and she probably thought so a few hours after meeting you. So in this case, unless she is a psycho, buy her something nice, apologize, say that you had the time of your life with her and that you really like her. After a while with her and making her feel special and secure, that is when you suggest another threesome where you promise to respect her lead and put her #1.

You will have a much better time sexually with her than without her, and the trips I had with two and three woman in Cancun were among the most fun times I had in my life. What you do with that after your trip is up to you, but she does really like you like a GF would.

[Foolish]

Have you guys brought girls back to your house when you're at home? Or do you prefer hotels for anonymity?

I don't recall your exact situation, but if you have anything to lose relationship wise, it's risky. Yes, it's comfortable and everything is at your finger tips. But if you're in the states (even without relationship luggage), if / when it goes sideways, I can't imagine a worse situation than agents / officers / goons / etc showing up at your door with claims of xyz / bad stuff with your girl. Or casing / robbing / trashing your place.

Sounds pessimistic, but you could have 99 great experiences and 1 that ruins your homebase. Or you have really good security at your condo (pseudo-sarcasm). Or you rent and can move ha.

F.

P.S. I have had some experience with the negative side of dealing with some women and sketchy people / situations. So not exactly imaginary haha.

[AmericanPi]

Have you guys brought girls back to your house when you're at home? Or do you prefer hotels for anonymity?

You obviously have not had the delight of meeting a crazy ***** on SA yet.

Have it happen once and you'the never ask this question.

You can't tell they're crazy from their profile. But man when crazy shows up.

I would only do that if I knew the girl.

[AluHut]

I've searched the thread, but couldn't find enough meaningful details about how is SA in Germany? I've signed up without subscription just to check profiles. A lot of plastic trash, but also quite a lot adult, educated and stylish woman. On one hand I would love to meet with them, on another they might be way too expensive for me. Very interested to hear some recent experience in Germany, especially outside of Berlin.

[FilthyBeaver]

Unless I'm traveling we always go to my place. I'm divorced and not sneaking around. I have had a couple girls offer to host at their place but that's well into the mutual trust period and not the first handful of dates.

Have you guys brought girls back to your house when you're at home? Or do you prefer hotels for anonymity?

[Intelligencium]

You guys don't realize that it's not that a particular city or country sucks in terms of the talent. It's just SA is not popular or well known in some places. Take Rio or SP, for example. Both cities have plenty of hot girls, but SA sucks there. MED or BOG have 10 x more pickings on SA. You need to find another way, or another application, to find girls. Any capital city in Eastern Europe has plenty of talent!

What do you suggest for Brazil?

[Mono Sin Luz]

Have you guys brought girls back to your house when you're at home? Or do you prefer hotels for anonymity?

I have done both. It depends on the mood, the girl and convenience.

[Projektzer]

Russians and Ukrainians have no idea what SA is. Tinder has always been very popular there. I'm not sure if Tinder still works in Russia because of the sanctions, but I think everybody use VPN these days that allows them to use Instagram, FB and all other apps. In the USA, I barely have any matches, while in Russia I could barely handle the amount of matches I had. My inbox was exploding. My buddies also had success with Tinder there. Most of the girls are non-pros and semi-pros. Pros are not common due to privacy issues, they usually advertise on escort websites where faces are blurred. Damn, I miss Russia. Attached is one of my Tinder dates, college girl, 19 yo. I think she was about 150 usd overnight (100 USD with current exchange rate).

Did you record? Was this before the war? I wanted to dip into the 18 scene but now I'm scared to go LOL.

[GoingDumb]

Have you guys brought girls back to your house when you're at home? Or do you prefer hotels for anonymity?

[FilthyBeaver]

I've had quite a bit of success in Kyiv with SA. Met a gorgeous Dr and couldn't believe it. Didn't ask for and wouldn't accept anything when I asked her. I asked what the hell she's doing on the sight and she told me she meets more interesting people there than any other site. I agree wholeheartedly. Even back home the girls I've met from SA are extremely independent, out of the box thinkers, that just know how to get shit done and will do whatever they need to to do it.

I've had zero luck with tinder at home like not a single message on two separate accounts (at different times). You've just inspired me to try in in Eastern Europe. God I love me some Slav girls.

Russians and Ukrainians have no idea what SA is. Tinder has always been very popular there. I'm not sure if Tinder still works in Russia because of the sanctions, but I think everybody use VPN these days that allows them to use Instagram, FB and all other apps. In the USA, I barely have any matches, while in Russia I could barely handle the amount of matches I had. My inbox was exploding. My buddies also had success with Tinder there. Most of the girls are non-pros and semi-pros. Pros are not common due to privacy issues, they usually advertise on escort websites where faces are blurred. Damn, I miss Russia. Attached is one of my Tinder dates, college girl, 19 yo. I think she was about 150 usd overnight (100 USD with current exchange rate).

[Elvis 2008]

Well, apparently that was a stupid thing to say. All hell breaks loose at this point. Naz say, ?its over?. I walk upto her, and say? What? She says? I think we are done?. I am confused, and thinking that Naz thinks Laura wants to go. So I say, ?No, lets do more?. Then I start to see some anger in her eyes. She (Naz) starts dressing up and says I am leaving. I now understand the seriousness of the situation (looks like I messed up somewhere along the way). I ask her not to leave, lets talk, but she is determined. I finally convince her not to leave completely, she says she will wait in the hotel lobby if I want to talk. And she leaves. At this point, I am alone with a hot naked 20 year old who looks like she is still ready to fuck me (she hasn? T move from her bed yet). I have to make a split second decision. If I ignore Naz and take a few minutes to fuck Laura once more, Naz will likely get madder aaannddddd I don't know what will happen.

Threesomes are tough sometimes to get but my rule was treat women the same if you meet them at the same time. If your woman initiates the threesome, then you both follow your woman's lead in this case that would be Naz. Laura is the sub and Naz is dominant so whatever Naz wants, she gets. You showed too much interest in Laura.

One of the issues when you see escorts so much or have your ego beaten down by your wife (in my case ex-wife), you actually get it into your head, that women could ONLY like you for money. With my gal, it took me like four months to understand that she really liked me and a bunch of shit tests to prove it.

I think I need to give that ex-pat who owned a restaurant in Brazil a name so let's call him Stan, and Stan said relationships move 8 X faster in Brazil than in the USA. That is the rule of Stan. LOL.

So yeah, Naz thinks that she is your GF, and she probably thought so a few hours after meeting you. So in this case, unless she is a psycho, buy her something nice, apologize, say that you had the time of your life with her and that you really like her. After a while with her and making her feel special and secure, that is when you suggest another threesome where you promise to respect her lead and put her #1.

You will have a much better time sexually with her than without her, and the trips I had with two and three woman in Cancun were among the most fun times I had in my life. What you do with that after your trip is up to you, but she does really like you like a GF would.